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This memorial website was created in the memory of our sister, Anne Cahill, 61, born on February 2, 1952 and passed away on July 20, 2013. We will remember her forever. Please share an "Annie" story we would all love to read them. Plus Anne would have liked it too.

February 2, 2015
February 2, 2015
I would be among a bunch of friends calling you on your birthday so instead I will sing an out of tune Happy Birthday to you now. I am so very glad you were born because you gave so much to the world but I miss you so much. I know you are wearing a shamrock covered party hat in heaven and surrounded by your mama, daddy, Harvey, Alan, Bob,Freckles, all your bunnies and all the wonderful friends that passed before you. Love you forever, Marlene and Bob
February 2, 2015
February 2, 2015
Happy B-day Anne. sure miss you. See you when I get to heaven. love you
August 27, 2014
August 27, 2014
so many viewers of sweet Anne's pagem Anne would have kicked my butt if she saw that I called her sweet...ha ha Anne, honestly you are kind, wonderful and a loyal friend even now (today over 500+ viewers). Please add a note. I know it is hard but it helps all of us that are grieving about losing this eccentric, honest and fantastic friend/sister. You know you love her so tell her! One or two sentences won't hurt you. Do it please. Anne will be so pleased... And if you think for a moment that Anne's spirit and soul doesn't visit us; well you are wrong. Anne would never leave us completely. She visits me all the time. I had to ask her to stop smoking when she came by and I am sure she thought that was funny and she laughs that sort of a cute cackle. She got me good there.If you don't feel her soul around you; it is because you have part of her inside you already. We will never completely lose Anne Cahill. She entered so many lives and made a huge impression...So...please write something! She would be so pleased and so will all the many many people who love her. Don't worry about
being judged. Anne never judged people...she gossiped about us but she never judged. She said, "It is what it is" and that meant for her (so strong, so brave) and for you too! Show your love and stop being a namsy pamsy baby! Hopefully, I will open this page up soon and see some more love from you. You know who you are. Do it! thanks guys. As Anne would say, "I 'm out of dodge, for now".
July 21, 2014
July 21, 2014
Anne, one year ago yesterday you left us & moved on to heaven. I miss you very much and regret that while I had the chance; I passed up many times in the last few years to stay more in touch. I think about calling you all the time. Too late, Marlene. I am angry at myself for being petty about some things and once again you have taught me a powerful lesson. Talk it out and move on. Life is too short. I am trying harder to keep in touch with those I care about more often now especially since I am the one who is sick. I envied your positive attitude...no, I was jealous of it. I just couldn't and still can't deal with my illness issues like you did. Sure, you broke down but you really lived your life with such a wonderful happiness and kindness while I get withdrawn & cranky. I love you and miss you and I know many many other people do as well but are uncomfortable to write here. That is fine. Do what I do. Talk to her now. I truly believe that we communicate even now. She had "special abilities" and I think they have crossed over. Anyway, I did what you asked me to do with the small part of ashes I had of you. I felt your presence the entire time. I hope that it made you happy. Love you sister/friend. Until we meet again. Marlene
July 21, 2014
July 21, 2014
miss you sister, i still catch myself thinking about calling you, then have to stop myself. see you when we're together again in heaven. love you
April 24, 2014
April 24, 2014
Dear Anne, You know how much I love you my sister/friend! We have been friends for 46 years and the memories go through high school, after that, my first marriage, your marriage to Bob Olson (say hello to him for me), your true love after Bob passed on...Alan. You said he was your soul mate so it was so lovely that he came back into your life and now you have him with you forever. (and Bob!) So many loved ones of yours passed before you and I imagine the huge welcoming party when you arrived. I know you were delighted to see your mama again and meet your daddy for the first time really (you were just a baby when he passed on) I am very sure that your soul is surrounded with all those loved ones that you had to say goodbye to when they passed.That is one thing you had in big giant portions...love! I talk to you now everyday and I feel your presence around me and you have directed me in paths I may have missed so I thank you for that. You were a giver as a dear friend and a generous giver in Heaven as well. You show you are around me so often and I am very sure that you are watching and caring for your dear sisters, Candy and Cheryl and Berina. You had a huge personality. You were silly, funny, eccentric, loving, generous,intelligent, opinionated, and loved a good hearty laugh..I could go on and on. If someone met you just once; they would never forget you because you always left your positiveness with everyone you spoke to. We used to have our little fights but always knowing that it would be mended before we moved on...I was angry at first when your body gave up and God decided he needed you with Him. At first, I cried and kept yelling at you. Why, Anne? You survived so many things in your life here on earth and had so much pain and suffering. I thought you would stay with us longer here (selfishly to those who loved you) that Jesus would not take you yet. Then, finally a peace came over me and you began to inspire and "visit" me from Heaven and I understood that you had fought so hard to get through your hard ships and terrible pain that God knew you had done your job on earth long enough. It was time for you to escape that pain and become the angel you always were. You know how much I loved you and still do. You will live on in many many people lives and we talked about this before that you would visit all of those on earth that loved you and continue to spread hope, love and kindness. It won't be that long that I will meet up with you again. Give my mom a huge kiss for me. She passed a long time ago as your mama did but my mom has helped me partially heal now that you aren't here to talk to on earth anymore. Please keep showing up.You will always know my love and you still give me Hope. May Heaven be everything you hoped for and I am sure you are playing with Freckles even now as I write this. This is not a goodbye. It is till we meet again when I join you in Our Lord's arms. I am positive you will be part of my welcoming committee hopefully as lovely as the wonderful love and joy that your loved ones greeted you with. Love you always, please keep showing up to all of us that need you...Candy, Cheryl, Debbie, Sammye, all the old gang and all those people I don't know but you made a beautiful imprint of love, hope and faith in their hears as well. You are the wind beneath my wings. Oh and one last thing. Your sisters were kind enough to send me some of your ashes so I promise I will take them to the redwoods as soon as we can head up that way! Again, All my love, Marlene...I miss you with all my heart.
February 2, 2014
February 2, 2014
Happy B-day sister. super bowl is on your birthday this year. that would have made you very happy. a great b-day present. miss you and love you
August 13, 2013
August 13, 2013
No matter what she was going through or how she felt, Anne celebrated her life. It didn't matter if it was Valentine's Day or Labor Day - she would wear headbands with little hearts sticking up on springs, she gave out beaded necklaces for Mardi Gras, wore red, white & blue for Independence Day, etc. She is missed.
August 6, 2013
August 6, 2013
Ann was one of the most courageous people I have known--truly a remarkable human being. Though I hadn't seen her in years, she was always in my thoughts and prayers. It is a miracle that she lived as long as she did. I am indeed grateful that I could call Ann a friend. She taught me a lot.
July 29, 2013
July 29, 2013
you will be missed by me and chewy so much, im down here crying in rejoice that your in heaven and not sufferring any more i love and miss u very much hope to join you in heaven when my day arrives, love jeremy and chewy

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February 2, 2015
February 2, 2015
I would be among a bunch of friends calling you on your birthday so instead I will sing an out of tune Happy Birthday to you now. I am so very glad you were born because you gave so much to the world but I miss you so much. I know you are wearing a shamrock covered party hat in heaven and surrounded by your mama, daddy, Harvey, Alan, Bob,Freckles, all your bunnies and all the wonderful friends that passed before you. Love you forever, Marlene and Bob
February 2, 2015
February 2, 2015
Happy B-day Anne. sure miss you. See you when I get to heaven. love you
August 27, 2014
August 27, 2014
so many viewers of sweet Anne's pagem Anne would have kicked my butt if she saw that I called her sweet...ha ha Anne, honestly you are kind, wonderful and a loyal friend even now (today over 500+ viewers). Please add a note. I know it is hard but it helps all of us that are grieving about losing this eccentric, honest and fantastic friend/sister. You know you love her so tell her! One or two sentences won't hurt you. Do it please. Anne will be so pleased... And if you think for a moment that Anne's spirit and soul doesn't visit us; well you are wrong. Anne would never leave us completely. She visits me all the time. I had to ask her to stop smoking when she came by and I am sure she thought that was funny and she laughs that sort of a cute cackle. She got me good there.If you don't feel her soul around you; it is because you have part of her inside you already. We will never completely lose Anne Cahill. She entered so many lives and made a huge impression...So...please write something! She would be so pleased and so will all the many many people who love her. Don't worry about
being judged. Anne never judged people...she gossiped about us but she never judged. She said, "It is what it is" and that meant for her (so strong, so brave) and for you too! Show your love and stop being a namsy pamsy baby! Hopefully, I will open this page up soon and see some more love from you. You know who you are. Do it! thanks guys. As Anne would say, "I 'm out of dodge, for now".
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August 15, 2013

Dearest Anne,

What to say about 40 years of being BFF's.  We met in Cultural Geography class at Cal State Northridge when you struck up a conversation with me to avoid the guy behind you who was bugging you. So many adventures and memories since then.  First there were all the "disco days" where you had to help me sneak into the bars since I was underage at the time (such a bad influence!!!).  Our amazing road trip through AZ, NM, TX and OK around 1978.  Going through your kidney's finally failing and the transplant in 1980, but thankfully you were well enough to be at my wedding to Andy in 1981. Lots of visits to Newport Beach with your family.  And then you were with Bob and there was lots of camping, fishing and the houseboat on Lake Mead.  Of course I was at your wedding in Las Vegas, bittersweet as it was. Times of talking about the latest developments on All My Children.  Bringing in sushi to your apartment in North Hollywood and talking until 2 in the morning.  Our girlfriend trip to Long Beach on the Queen Mary was a real treat. Of course we can't forget all of my family gatherings you attended over the years and got in touch with your Jewish side and learned so many Yiddish expressions and to eat chopped liver, gefilte fish, matzo brei, etc. 

It always amazed me what a great friend you were when I had problems that never compared to what you went through on a daily basis -- always there to listen with an open heart and give wonderful advice.  It also amazed me how you would always go out of your way for others, including animals (such as baby squirrels) always above and beyond whatever your needs and capabilities were.

I loved all your wonderful expressions like "no shit Sherlock", "time to book out of Dodge" and everything was about "going on an adventure".  You were an amazing Aunt to Alana and she will miss you so much, but you have helped give her the foundation she needed to become the young woman she is today. She listened to you about many things that she didn't want to hear from her parents and I'm so glad she made the effort to see you in Palm Springs last year when she was there for her friend's bachelorette party.

You survived so much pain, but never doubted that God had a plan for you and whatever was happening was just as it was supposed to be.  I don't know that I could ever be as strong, but I take your lessons with me. I hope you have "all the answers" now.  At least now the pain is over and you can rest, though there is a terrible hole in my heart that can never be fixed.

I love you and miss you,
Berina

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