I'm thinking of you, particularly today, on your birthday. So often I want to share memories or present day nonsense with you, knowing we'd be belly laughing before long. You can continue to be proud of your handsome Lex. He has all of the values you'd delight in--and thank goodness, he's a democrat!! Happy Birthday, precious friend! Love and miss you.
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Leave a tributeI'm thinking of you, particularly today, on your birthday. So often I want to share memories or present day nonsense with you, knowing we'd be belly laughing before long. You can continue to be proud of your handsome Lex. He has all of the values you'd delight in--and thank goodness, he's a democrat!! Happy Birthday, precious friend! Love and miss you.
I think of you often especially on Holidays. I hope you are doing great. I know your parents guard and bless you from another place. I have such fond memories of mom
Hugs,
Ivette Esserman
Christine’s mom
I don't think a day goes by when I don't think of "Peeper". She was such a light in my life - so fun, generous and of course brilliant. My memories of fill me with joy...as I hope yours do. Love and hugs, always...Peeper
I feel at a loss for words to adequately express how much I treasured your mother's friendship. I shall miss her incredible light, her amazing infectious laugh, and the depth of her appreciation of all of life. She and I were dear friends at University of Michigan in the clinical psychology program. No matter how much work we had, your mom always made time for fun. In the middle of studying for finals, she instigated a quick run to the specialty cooking store in town that had a flash sale on cappuccino machines we'd all been eyeing.We did all the rest of our studying over delicious cups of foamy coffee! I love your Mom's incredible spirit! She was a true lover of life. And you, her beloved son, were at the top of the heap of all Anne so dearly loved.
Love,
Meg
Your Mom and I spent every holiday together, causing trouble (the great pretzel sit-in of the early 1960s), reading Walter Farley (why I always want to call you Alec for the protagonist since Anne was going to name you after him), late nights planning and telling secrets under blankets, and sharing a love of all creatures great and small.
Best wishes for a wonderful life.
"Nonsense" Connie Kendall Varnhagen
I may be the only who can say I remember your Mom from the day
she was born when her proud father Bud called to tell the
Rochester relatives the happy news about Anne Heyliger's birth
and then I remember meeting my Baby Cousin 6 months later.
After that we shared so many times. Anne was a beautiful, smart
woman who loved Hawai'i, England, reading, Downton Abbey - the
list could go on and on- but most importantly she loved you so
very much. She will definitely be missed by so many people.
Love,
Cousin Kathy
beautiful and smart-all those traits have been passed to you!
Enjoy life's journey knowing your great parents are watching their beloved son make his own way. I know you'll be great-you had amazing teachers! I wish you the best of everything
We went to Camp Zoe in the Ozarks and could usually be found during "free time" sitting by the lake telling each other "funny stories" we would make up as we went. Her laugh always brightened my day, whether face to face or during one of our marathon telephone talks, and our storytelling no doubt had a part in encouraging me to pursue more serious writing later on. It has been many years since I last saw your mom, but she holds a special place in my heart.
I just want to let you know that your family is in my thoughts and prayers. I know your mom was so proud of you. May you always be surrounded by good friends who will carry on her legacy of laughter and love.
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I'm thinking of you, particularly today, on your birthday. So often I want to share memories or present day nonsense with you, knowing we'd be belly laughing before long. You can continue to be proud of your handsome Lex. He has all of the values you'd delight in--and thank goodness, he's a democrat!! Happy Birthday, precious friend! Love and miss you.
I think of you often especially on Holidays. I hope you are doing great. I know your parents guard and bless you from another place. I have such fond memories of mom
Hugs,
Ivette Esserman
Christine’s mom
Some content from her last letter to me
I corresponded my entire adult life with Anne, who was a passionate writer. In July, in her last letter to me, she laid out some thoughts for the next class reunion at Pomona College, a place she loved dearly, where she will be remembered:
Interview Questions: Our Class Reunion!!!
Who, what, when, why, dreams past, vision of your future.
Where are those dreams today?
Apply above to husband/kids if you like.
How do you work in time for you?
What is your way to reflect & catch up to yourself?
Something that still makes you chuckle and laugh out loud from home life?
From work life?
From School?
Most flattering happy color for you, to cheer you up and keep you on track when falling off track?
Wisdom - resolution to pass on to kids?
Joy is_______________?
Melt-in-your-mouth restaurant treat?
Home cooked_____________?
If I were the Queen, how would I change my relationship to the people?
If I were the President?
If I were a sports star?
Am crying while I miss her letters!
James Budenholzer, Pomona Class of 1975