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February 7, 2014

AGAHOZO-SHALOM 

DRYING THE TEARS OF TEENS ORPHANED BY THE 1994 GENOCIDE IN RWANDA AND ITS AFTERMATH AND BUILDING THE FUTURE OF A COUNTRY 

We have a village in which teachers have been taught how to teach the kids to think for themselves.  …They will understand how important it is to take care of their community and that life isn’t just about survival.

 “If you see far, you will go far”.   These are the first words a visitor sees when entering the Agahozo-Shalom Youth Village in Rwanda–words that are particularly meaningful for the 500 orphan residents of the Village – all teenagers aged 15-20 who were orphaned or otherwise traumatized by the Rwandan genocide of 1994 and its aftermath. 
The Village 

 The 144 acre Village sits high on a hill in the eastern province of Kigali and one can indeed see miles into the distance to the lush vistas beyond. 

The site selection was not serendipitous.  Rather, it was intended by Founder, Anne Heyman, to impart the essential philosophy and message to all who enter:  This is a place where life can begin again, a place of learning, family, and renewal, a place where the possibilities are as expansive as the horizon.  Hence, the name, which could not be more fitting:  Agahozo is a Kinyarwanda word for ‘place where tears are dried’, and Shalom, is the Hebrew word for “peace”, or as Heyman says, “a place to dry one’s tears and live in peace”.

THE BEGINNING

South African native, Anne Heyman, is a former New York District Attorney, now living in Manhattan with her husband, Seth Merrin, and their three children.  Her deep sense of social justice is manifest in her long time support of Jewish and other causes, both personally and through the Heyman-Merrin Family Foundation, which she directs.    Merrin is Founder and CEO of the international brokerage firm, Liquidnet.

For the last six years, Heyman has focused like a laser on building and fundraising for Agahozo-Shalom.   Her passion is palpable as she talks about the project.

It began with an initiative called Moral Voices, which the Heyman-Merrin Family Foundation sponsors with the Tufts University Hillel and the University of Pennsylvania Hillel.   Each year, Moral Voices selects a different social justice topic on which a year-long program, including a lecture series, is based.  In 2005, at Tufts University, the subject was the 1994 genocide in Rwanda (memorialized in the film, Hotel Rwanda)  in which 800,000 people were brutally murdered in a the period of 100 days. 

“THE BIGGEST PROBLEM IN RWANDA TODAY…IS THE ORPHANS”

At the pre-lecture dinner, Heyman asked the speaker, “What is the biggest problem facing Rwanda today?”   He replied, ‘It’s the orphans.  There are 1.2  million orphans in Rwanda, and because there is no systemic way to absorb them, there is no future for the country.’ 

The mental light bulb flashed: Heyman immediately thought of the youth villages in Israel, built in kibbutz like settings for the influx of orphans into the country after the Holocaust. These Youth Villages resolved the orphan problem in Israel; the children were taught to farm, were educated, and were given a home, and were integrated into Israeli society. 

“Why not build a Youth Village “, Heyman thought, “similar to the successful Israeli model, to house these orphaned children, now well into their teens.  Such a village would give them a place a place to feel safe, to become educated, to develop life skills, to become productive citizens.  In addition, it would build capacity and revitalize Rwanda with an inflow of native citizens who would be willing and able to contribute as productive members of society. “ 

 “THIS WAS SOMETHING I JUST COULDN’T LET GO”

As Heyman says, this was a simple idea that was a lot more complicated in reality.  In fact, when she first broached the idea, it was met with a thunderous indifference.  But, she says, “the idea kept nagging at me…I just couldn’t let it go”.
 
THE LIQUIDNET FAMILY HIGH SCHOOL

Confident that she was on to something, Heyman swung into action, taking the role of Executive Producer and Director of the venture, even as she faced mega-challenges:  First, she had never done anything like this, on this scale before.  Moreover, she didn’t know anyone in Rwanda, nor did she have any idea whether the Israeli concept could be translated successfully into the Rwandan culture.    

Many an activist would have been discouraged by the odds.  But fueled by her compassion for the orphans though her natural connection to the Holocaust of WWII, and by the knowledge that she could make a real difference in their lives, Heyman called on her contacts and gathered support.    

Her energy and excitement were like a force of nature.  The pieces began to fall into place.

First, she arranged to meet with Dr. Chiam Peri, Founder and then Director of the Yemin Orde Youth Village.   Today, Yemin Orde is a renowned institute that provides intensive educational intervention for Israel’s immigrant populations as well as for at risk youths. 

Peri embraced her vision, shared his model, and recommended Ethiopian-Israeli volunteers – former orphans and graduates of Yemin Orde, now successfully integrated into Israeli society as productive citizens.  She made multiple trips to Rwanda, asking everyone she knew for introductions to Ministers, NGOs and others who would become the essential team members who would “Rwanda-ize” the concept – advisors on education, health, and on the psychological welfare of the orphans.  

She found the site that would become the Village and the brilliant Rwandan architect who would build it.  She flew back to Israel and Yemin Orde with the Rwandan who would eventually become the Executive Director of Agahozo-Shalom. 

The project picked up momentum.  Back home, the American Jewish Joint Distribution Committee (JDC), one of the oldest and most venerable Jewish humanitarian organizations, became a crucial partner, providing initial office space, key advising and the not-for-profit umbrella.  With the JDC on board, Heyman and her husband reached out to friends and to the business community and raised $12 million in seed money.    There was no stopping them now. 

AGAHOZO-SHALOM HOUSES 500 ORPHANED TEENS WHO ARE TAUGHT HOW TO BE SUCCESSFUL

Today, Agahozo-Shalom has taken on a life of its own, and is home to 500 orphaned Rwandan teens, who are finding a new world they had given up long ago.  They are recommended by the mayors in each of the 30 districts in Rwanda, who are asked to identify  ten orphans whom they consider to be the most vulnerable – children who are from abusive homes, who are without any adult supervision or resources, or who are suffering from some other type of trauma. 

The Village operates very much like an Israeli kibbutz and the impact is nothing short of miraculous!. There is a self sustaining farm which provides fruit, vegetables, eggs, peanuts and beans for all the residents, as well as income and a learning opportunity  in methodology and management for the students.   Each group in the village (separated by gender) lives together as a family, headed by a Rwandan “Mom”.  

There is a school, with all the latest technology for learning.  The students are given a formal, if not a rigorous academic education, with required courses in science, math, computers, Economics, English, and Kinyarwandan.  There are enrichment programs in music, the arts, and any type of sports activity you can think of.  There are counselors and clinics to provide medical and psychological care, and help with life skills.   There is a church, in which all religions are practiced freely.  “The only rule they must follow, says Heyman, is that they cannot proselytize – they cannot attempt to convert anyone.”

At the community Center

There is also a requirement, deeply integrated into the program, that each child volunteer in some way, to give back to the outside world.  Says Heyman, “a key tenant of the organization is the Jewish value of Tikkun Olam.”   Tikun Olam is the Jewish mandate to give back, and is associated with social action and the pursuit of justice.  In Hebrew, Tikkun Olam means literally, to “repair the world”.

She continues, “All the teachers must go through an intensive training period in which they are taught the importance of Tikkun Olam, and how to infuse the concept into the learning experience.”   

Over the four year period the students learn to take this requirement very seriously and to incorporate it into their lives. The goal is to produce self sufficient, productive and even entrepreneurial citizens, with a clear sense of who they are, and how they can make a positive contribution to Rwandan society and culture.

A SYSTEMATIC SOLUTION TO THE “ORPHAN PROBLEM”

“The important thing that people need to know about Agahozo-Shalom, says Heyman, is that there is a solution to the orphan problem.   The problems of Africa require systemic change.  You have to introduce new ideas, you have to present alternative ways to view the world, and that is not an easy or a short process. 

“People often question the amount of money it costs to build (and maintain) this village.  We have a village that will be there 60 years from now.   We have a village in which teachers have been taught how to teach the kids to think for themselves.  We will be graduating kids who are entrepreneurial in thinking and ability.  They will understand how important it is to take care of their community and that life isn’t just about survival.  This is a long and expensive process.  We are looking at the systemic solution.”
 

HOW TO GET INVOLVED

“There are so many ways to get involved,” says Heyman.  “We need worldwide support in order to offer the quality of education and the residential living experience that is now in place.  We’re always looking for people who want to volunteer, help us raise money, to fundraise, to enlarge our community of donors.

“In addition, we have service learning programs for college students – we organize trips for college students and other groups who want to learn more about Agahozo-Shalom.  There is a long-term volunteer program as well.

Be sure to check the website for opportunities and ideas on how to engage with us.

CONTACT:

EMAIL: 
info@asyv.org

PHONE: 
212-863-1412

FAX: 
212-863-1502

MAILING:
The Agahozo-Shalom Youth Village, 1375 Broadway
17th Fl
New York, NY 10018




Eugene Kalisa Shema, Kigali-Rwanda 

Ann as an Activist, a Philanthropist

February 7, 2014


It was while at home with the kids that Anne began her next career as an activist, a philanthropist, and a light unto nations. As with everything Anne did, she did it with incredible passion and involved her entire family. Anne became involved in Dorot, a Manhattan based organization that mobilizes thousands of volunteers to provide food, service, and companionship to the elderly. In a short time, Anne joined the board and became its chairman. Anne also worked with Rabbi Jeff Summit at Tufts University Hillel to create an ongoing lecture series called "Moral Voices" that invites college youth to get involved and take action against social injustices and moral causes around the world. The program has since been expanded to other campuses.

Anne's connection to Rwanda - The Agahozo-Shalom Youth village.

It was during the first year of the program in 2005 where the featured speaker was a famous genocide survivor. During this event Anne began to understand the severity of the orphan problem created by the Rwandan genocide in 1994 and was inspired to take action. Anne connected the challenge to the similar one Israel faced following the second World War.
After the Holocaust, Israel created youth villages that housed, fed, clothed, and educated orphans in order to recreate a family environment of love and safety to help heal. Anne's vision was to adopt the "youth village" model and bring it to Rwanda. Not knowing anyone in Rwanda or anything about the country in no way deterred Anne. What she didn't know she learned, whom she had to know, she met. And what resulted would change the world.

Anne raised millions of dollars and recruited an international team from Rwanda, Israel and the United States which included a partnership with Chaim Peri and Yemin Orde, a youth village near Haifa, to make her vision a reality. In August 2007, Anne broke ground for The Agahozo-Shalom Youth Village and in 2008, the village officially opened its doors to its first class of 125 students. Named by Anne's daughter Jenna, "Agahozo" is the Kinyarwanda word meaning "a place where tears are dried" and Shalom is the Hebrew word for peace.

Students of the village are provided with new family structures, complete with resident "House Mothers, Brothers and Sisters." They are also given a world class education and are introduced to extracurricular activities including art, music, and sports. As part of their education, Anne made sure each child was taught the value of "Tikun Olam" the obligation every person has to try and repair the world and students find ways to contribute to the greater community on a weekly basis. Among the students, Anne was affectionately known as "mom" or "grandmother."

Anne believed in transformation, and often reminded the students that "if you see far, you will go far." Each student knew that the future of Rwanda was on their shoulders, that they were being trained to be the country's future leaders, its greatest hope and each student rose to the challenge. By the time the first class graduated in 2013, the village was home to 500 students. Anne's efforts have been recognized globally.

Career and family

February 7, 2014


Anne began her career shortly after as a corporate lawyer at Kronish Lieb Weiner and Hellman. Two years later she became an Assistant District Attorney in Manhattan, prosecuting white-collar crime. Seth and Anne married on August 17, 1986. They had three beautiful children - Jason Liav, Jenna Chen and Jonathan Gavriel.

After Jonathan was born in 1994, Anne left her job as a lawyer to devote her time to her family. As a full time mother, Anne exposed her kids to every museum, concert and activity throughout New York City where they lived. The family also traveled the world in the summer where Anne would create activity books for the kids describing the history of the location with fun facts contained in coloring pages, word scrambles and crossword puzzles.

Anne and Seth's connection to Israel remained strong and they raised their children with Hebrew as their first language, requiring Anne's parents to take Hebrew lessons so that they could communicate with their grandchildren. 

Eugene Kalisa Shema, Kigali-Rwanda. 

Early life and education

February 7, 2014



Born in South Africa to Sydney and Hermia Heyman, Anne Heyman was the second of four children and raised in Capetown. A born Zionist, athlete and go-getter from an early age, Anne was involved in the Jewish Zionist Youth Movement Habonim and just about every sport offered at her school.

One day she picked up a table tennis paddle to learn to play and the next year she became the champion. This was an early indication of the extraordinary woman she would become. Her family moved to America when she was 15 and she immediately became active in Young Judaea. Through it, she participated in a year-long trip to Israel after High School.

During the second week of the program, she met Seth Merrin, the man who would become her husband. Following the year in Israel, Anne returned to the United States where she attended and graduated from the University of Pennsylvania in 1982. After another year in Israel, Anne returned to the US to attend George Washington Law School where she became editor of the Law Review. In 1984 she transferred to Columbia Law School and graduated in 1985. 

Anne Heyman passed away

February 7, 2014

 

Anne Heyman, a pioneering Jewish philanthropist who founded a youth village for victims of the Rwanda genocide, has died on 31 January 2014 in a Florida horse-riding accident. She was 52.

Heyman died after falling from a horse at the Palm Beach International Equestrian Center in the town of Wellington Friday morning. She was taken to a local hospital and pronounced dead at 1:30 p.m., said Eric Davis, a spokesman for the Palm Beach County Sheriff’s Office.

A native of South Africa, Anne Heyman graduated from the University of Pennsylvania in 1982 and from the George Washington School of Law in 1986.  After two years in private practice Anne went to work for the Manhattan District Attorney’s Office, where she worked until the advent of her third child.

Since leaving the District Attorney’s office Anne has been actively engaged in philanthropic work both in and outside of the United States.  Her role as former President of the Board of Directors of Dorot reflects her ongoing commitment to the many needs of the homebound and homeless elderly.   Her dedication  to and work with the Abraham Joshua Heschel School in New York, Young Judaea, Tufts University Hillel and the Jewish Community Centers of America show how important Jewish youth and continuity are to her and her family’s foundation, of which she is the Director.    Ms. Heyman was active in the battle to raise awareness and to stop the genocide in Darfur, to programs in Israel, the Former Soviet Union, Uganda and most recently Rwanda, where she has spear-headed the creation of a Youth Village based on an Israeli model,  Anne’s commitment to improving the lives of others is unwavering.