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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Ann Ewen 76 years old , born on July 14, 1943 and passed away on November 29, 2019. We will remember her forever.

Ann will be lovingly be remembered by her children, Deborah Jaques, Christine McNamara, and Kathleen Lane (husband: John Lane); six grandchildren: Peter, Courtney, Matthew, Kaitlyn, John Jr, and Christopher; her sister Dorothy Cashman; her brother James; and friend Michael.  Ann was predeceased by her parents, Ann and James. She will be laid to rest at Ocean Memorial Park. 

At the height of World War II, Ann Ewen was born in Glasgow, Scotland in 1943 to James, Petty Officer in Royal Navy, and Ann (née Barrett). She was baptized August 1943 at Oatlands St. Bernards Parish Church. During the war, Scotland would suffer air raids and bombings, leaving towns of Scotland, such as Glasgow, a wasteland of crowded tenements with no industry. It was this condition, the Ewens sought a better life outside United Kingdom. Moving from Scotland to Australia and back to Scotland, the Ewens journeyed to America through Canada to begin a new life in 1955. 

It was in America that Ann and her sister, Dorothy, began a new life with their parents. Moving south from Canada, they would settle in Brooklyn, NY with thousands of other immigrants looking for a new and better life. It was in Bay Ridge, Brooklyn that Ann and her family made home. In November 1962, Ann married Charles McNamara and had three children: Deborah, Christine, and Kathleen.

Ann began another phase in her life, moving to Staten Island, NY in 1970. In 1979, Ann started her 27-year career with Port Authority Bridges and Tunnels as a toll collector.  Over the years, she worked tirelessly as a union representative; protecting employees’ rights and benefits. It was during a union meeting on Friday, February 26, 1993 at World Trade Center North, that Ann would suffer minor injuries from a truck bomb detonated by terrorists. She retired in 2004. June 2000, Ann became a United States Naturalized citizen. 

Ann enjoyed her retirement shopping, spending lunches with her daughters, and going out with her grandchildren, Kaitlyn, Jake, and Christopher. 

Ann will be missed, she made her children and grandchildren her priority, and losing her will leave a hole in our hearts. 


November 29, 2023
November 29, 2023
You are still missed every single day! Love you ❤️
November 29, 2023
November 29, 2023
It is a beautiful sunny day today but bitter cold. The kind of day where you would prefer to stay indoors rather than go out in the freezing temperatures. You are missed today as much as the first day your soul left your body. We are all struggling with our own trials of life, but we will get through them and come out stronger on the other side. You were our rock, unbeknownst to me, at least. I am reminded daily of what a strong and loving woman you were who happened to be Mom. Love always XO❤️XO
July 14, 2023
July 14, 2023
Missing you on your birthday. A sister road trip in your memory, visiting your sister. Love you always.
July 14, 2023
July 14, 2023
Well another year gone by without you. This one was hard not only you are gone but Dick joined you and my heart is broken. I can hear you saying “get over it” we are good move on until we meet again. Your beautiful girls are coming to see me we have all kept in touch. Love your girls and I’ll always be there for them. ❤️ love u and miss u. Happy Birthday Sis! Sending hugs.
November 29, 2022
November 29, 2022
You are still missed sis. The years are just flying by. It doesn’t seem like three years have passed since you took that trip with the angels. Now Dick has joined you. Take care of my sweet love ❤️ you are both in my heart forever. Love you!
November 29, 2022
November 29, 2022
Three years of missing you. Some days are easy knowing you are back home where we are all supposed to be, other days I can't even catch my breath because of the hole that was left in my heart when you left this Earth. Things are good, your girls are good and we watch out for each other as you know. We all miss you so much. ❤
November 28, 2022
November 28, 2022
I miss you more than I can say. I think you would like how close the sisters have become. Of course they don’t know how to tell me “just get over it” like you did! I love you mom
July 14, 2022
July 14, 2022
Happy Birthday Sis! Could use your wisdom right about now. Wish you were here. ❤️
July 14, 2022
July 14, 2022
Happy Heavenly Birthday! Three years seems like such a long time when you are missed. Still missing you and love you as much now as always 
July 14, 2021
July 14, 2021
Another Birthday you are celebrating in Heaven. You are missed everyday and my heart aches when I think that I should give you a call just to say ," I love you!" Then the harsh reality hits that I can't call you anymore, but I am sure you can hear the whispers of my heart saying I love you!
❤❤❤
July 14, 2021
July 14, 2021
Happy Birthday sis you are missed everyday...love you to the moon and back..❤
July 14, 2021
July 14, 2021
It’s not the same without you. I miss the daily phone calls. I miss you being here. I miss you. Love you
November 29, 2020
November 29, 2020
One year has passed since your beautiful soul left your body. One year since you left your family behind with a heartache never experienced. One year for healing that happens and then, for a moment, the bandaid is ripped off and the wound is raw again and the healing starts again. One year of missing you daily, your laugh, your smile, your goodness. Earth was not good enough for you and now you soar with the angels. I miss you all the time some days more than others. You are loved always!!
November 20, 2020
November 20, 2020
I miss you sis..❤⚘ yesterday, today and tomorrow..❤
August 26, 2020
August 26, 2020
I'm sorry for those in your life who could not, refuse to, and did not respect your wishes after you passed.
July 14, 2020
July 14, 2020
Happy Birthday Mommy, you are missed everyday. We celebrated your birthday with the three of us hanging out. You were there with subtle signs when we visited you, butterflies, dragon flies, cardinals, blue skies and a gentle breeze. It was the perfect day, except you were missing. Love you always and always and always.
❤❤❤
July 14, 2020
July 14, 2020
Happy Birthday Sis! Miss you, wish I could have made that birthday call this morning. Time seems to slip by quickly but you will always be in my thoughts. Listening to the radio and Rod Stewart came on singing Maggie May reminded me of you. I know he was one of your favorites. Your three beautiful daughters miss you. They are strong young ladies. You did a wonderful job raising them. Jim and I will always be here for them if they need anything. ❤❤ loving you forever...see you again my sweet sister..
July 7, 2020
July 7, 2020
And at the end of your journey you were surrounded with love. The strength we showed was borrowed from you. You never wanted anything from us, you only wanted everything for us. For us to be happy, for us to be loved, for us to be taken care of, always for us.
I love you
I miss you
July 5, 2020
July 5, 2020
In the depths of depression and addiction I tried to push you away. Not wanting you to see me at my worst. The thing is, you only saw my best. When I didn’t have the strength, you gave me yours. When I didn’t want to take another step, you took my hand and walked with me. Talked about silly things so I didn’t think about the next step and the step after that.
See? That wasn’t so hard. No, no it wasn’t hard because you were there with me. Thank you
I love you
July 4, 2020
July 4, 2020
Mom I miss you so much. I pick up the phone to call you then realize you’re not there. You spent your life taking care of those you loved. You gave us all your strength and love. Everything life threw at you, you stayed strong. Till the end you worried about us.
Holding your hand all night long so you could sleep. You telling me to come into your bed, sleep next to you.
A strong and independent woman, that’s who you are.
I love you
July 3, 2020
July 3, 2020
It is so weird visiting you. I expect signs that you are around like cardinals and butterflies and I get a quiet peacefulness where my mind can wander. You'll be happy to know, the strength we once got from you, we get from the combination of the three daughters you spent your life taking care of. We all love you and miss you everyday, some more than others. Love and kisses always
July 2, 2020
July 2, 2020
When I come to the end of my journey
And I travel my last weary mile
Just forget if you can, that I ever frowned
And remember only the smile

Forget unkind words I have spoken
Remember some good I have done
Forget that I ever had heartache
And remember I've had loads of fun

Forget that I've stumbled and blundered
And sometimes fell by the way
Remember I have fought some hard battles
And won, ere the close of the day

Then forget to grieve for my going
I would not have you sad for a day
But in summer just gather some flowers
And remember the place where I lay

And come in the shade of evening
When the sun paints the sky in the west
Stand for a few moments beside me
And remember only my best

by Mosiah Lyman Hancock
July 2, 2020
July 2, 2020
Days go by and things still are not "regular." There are factors (or people) who keep peace for coming into our lives again and I only hope they see in themselves their unbearable wrongness. Debbie, Christine, and I are closer than ever, which is what you wanted more than anything. So rest easy now, no more pain. Love you.
July 1, 2020
July 1, 2020
Dear Mommy,
It has been 7 months and 2 days since you left us. The smiles are returning but all too often my heart aches for you. The world has become crazy and I think your front row seat in Heaven is preferable to your chair in front of the tv. I thank you for being the best Mom in the world, you did so much for us and in the end you made sure we were taken care of. I am sorry in the end we couldn't do more for you to ease your pain. Rest easy Mommy and we will make you the proudest Mom in Heaven. Until we see each other again... I will always love you.
Love,
Your Favorite Daughter,
Debbie
July 1, 2020
July 1, 2020
Mom, I love and miss you so much. You will always be a whisper in my ear, guiding me the right way.
December 3, 2019
December 3, 2019
You will be missed. My sister my friend I will always love you. See you with the Angels. ♥️ In my heart forever

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November 29, 2023
November 29, 2023
You are still missed every single day! Love you ❤️
November 29, 2023
November 29, 2023
It is a beautiful sunny day today but bitter cold. The kind of day where you would prefer to stay indoors rather than go out in the freezing temperatures. You are missed today as much as the first day your soul left your body. We are all struggling with our own trials of life, but we will get through them and come out stronger on the other side. You were our rock, unbeknownst to me, at least. I am reminded daily of what a strong and loving woman you were who happened to be Mom. Love always XO❤️XO
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Smoking Cessation

December 3, 2019
Mom tried and tried to give up smoking for many years. Hypnosis, group help, chewing gum, whatever the craze was, mom seemed to try but to no avail for many years. During one stint at giving up smoking, she was rather ornery, and we avoided her. When we came home later and found her "calmed down" a wee bit, we soon discovered why. Our year-old souvenir, a single cigarette and match enclosed in a glass tube, which stated: "EMERGENCY break glass" was missing. Well, mom broke the glass and smoked that year old cigarette, which wasn't even her brand. 

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