Happy 40th birthday my bby boy NONI it is so hard to do without you every year that passes I think that it will get easier but unfortunately that's not the case. We miss u sooo much, I long to hear ur voice calling me Ma, & ur beautiful smile most of all. Just to think that u could be working side by side with ur son (Damien) makes me sad that will never happen. Dance n rejoice with da Angels up in Heaven. GONE BUT NEVER FORGOTTEN

Today marks 12 yrs since you've been gone, ( Arnold Noni Gaytan 9-24-82  4-27-10 ) my heart still & will always ache as if it just   
happened. So much has changed/happened since you left us, you have 4 grandkids & Darien is a great Mom, Destiny n Damien have graduated they are all grown up,+ I know you would b so proud of them. We miss and Love you more than you can imagine. Gone but not Forgotten Always in our Hearts. I will see you on the other side my Bby Boy

HAPPY BIRTHDAY MY BBY BOY, HOPE UR DANCING N CELEBRATING WITH THE ANGELS U WILL FOREVER BE LOVED N MISSED. ♥️

Today marks 11 yrs since you've been gone, (Arnold Noni Gaytan, 9-24-82  4-27-10) my heart still aches as if it jst happened. So much has changed/happened since you left us, ur kids r so grown up n not to mention ur grand babies, I see a Lil of u in all them. I know u would be such a great gramps. We miss and Love you more than you can imagine. Gone but not Forgotten Always in our Hearts. I will see you on the other side

So here we r 10 yrs later my bby boy (ARNOLD NONI GAYTAN) since you've been gone although to me it feels like it just happened. Our world changed in an instant not realizing how hard it was gna be not a moment goes by that I don't think of u ur beautiful smile and how u always called me Ma, I wish I could hear ur voice one more time. I know you would be so proud of ur Kids n most of all ur grandbabies. You will 4ever remain in our thoughts n in our Hearts. Till we meet again . I Love You

Happy 37th birthday my bby boy NONI this is so hard to do without you every year that passes I think that it will get easier but unfortunately that's not the case. We miss u sooo much , I long to hear ur voice calling me Ma , & ur beautiful smile most of all. Sing , dance n rejoice with da Angels up in Heaven. GONE BUT NEVER FORGOTTEN

IT will always b da hardest n saddest day of my life to have to come to da cemetery to visit much less to wish YOU A HAPPY 9TH ANGELVERSARY. NOT A SECOND,MINUTE, HOUR OR DAY GOES BY THAT I DNT MISS OR THINK OF U. I LOVE U N HOPE TO JOIN U SOMEDAY SOON.. ALWAYS UR MA

WISHING MY BBY BOY A HAPPY HEAVENLY BIRTHDAY !
ARNOLD " NONI " GAYTAN
9-24-82 4-27-10
NOT A DAY, MIN OR SEC GOES BY THAT I DNT THINK OF U, I WILL NVR FORGET U NOR STOP LOVING YOU ... REJOICE & CELEBRATE
WITH THE ANGELS UP IN HEAVEN..... MAA LOVES

You are so very much missed. I wish you could have met all the new additions to our family they would have loved you so much. All these holidays are just not the same without you. I love you so much baby brother and I miss you with all my heart. So much has happened since your passing and I just can't help but wonder if they would have turned out differently if you were here. One day we will be reunited again till then please watch over us baby brother we need all the help we can get. I love you.

SO ONCE AGAIN I WILL FEELTHE HEARTACHE, EXCRUCIATING PAIN N SORROW THAT COMES WITH HAVING TO RE-LIVE UR 7TH ANGELVERSARY. THERE R NO WORDS , THOUGHTS OR ACTS THAT CAN DEFINE/EXPLAIN WHAT N HOW I FEEL, KNOWING THAT I WILL NEVER EVER SEE U OR SPEND TIME WITH U AGAIN. THE DAY U PASSED AWAY , CHANGED MY LIFE IN THE WORST WAY, I KNOW THAT EVERYONE THINKS N SAYS WHY I HAVEN'T OR CAN'T I MOVE ON BUT UNTIL THEY WALK IN MY SHOES THEY CANT EVEN BEGIN TO UNDERSTAND THE EMPTINESS I FEEL EVERY SINGLE DAY N HAVE TO PRETEND THAT ALL IS WELL. I PRAY EACH N EVERY DAY THAT BJ THE PERSON THAT WAS RESPONSIBLE FOR UR DEATH WOULD APOLOGIZE , AKNOWLEDGE THE FACT THAT U R GONE N MAYBE FEEL OR SHOW SOME REMORSE.. FOR NOW I WILL CONTINUE TO PRAY FOR HIM IN HOPES THAT BEFORE I DIE HE WILL HAVE THE COURAGE TO CALL ME N OR TALK TO ME TELL ME WHAT U DID OR SAID BEFORE U PASSED AWAY.. I GUESS ITS JST TO MUCH TO ASK FROM HIM RT NOW.. I AM HONESTLY AT LOSS FOR WORDS ALL I CAN SAY IS THAT I LOVE N MISS U WITH ALL MY HEART.. I WILL SEE U IN THE OTHER SIDE AT HEAVENS GATE... YOUR MA !

Once again we will gather to celebrate n reminisce on your 6th angelversary Arnold " Noni " Gaytan 9-24-82.  4-27-10. The years have gone by but my pain is just as excruciating as if you just passed. I will never stop loving or missing you. Things are not the same people change and move on, while I'm still in the same place waitng for the moment when we meet again.. Gone but never ever forgotten.

ONCE AGAIN UR BIRTHDAY IS HERE N I AM STRESSING OUT CAUSE THE MEMORIES R COMING IN LEFT N RIGHT & IT MAKES ME WANT TO SEE U,HEAR U AND GIVE U A GREAT BIG HUG.. I NVR IN MY WILDEST DREAMS DID I IMAGINE TO BE IN THIS DARK LONELY PLACE, U HAD SO MUCH TO LIVE FOR. ALL I KNOW IS THAT I MISS YOU MORE THEN WORDS CAN SAY N MY PAIN IS JST AS EXCRUCIATING AS IT EVR WAS, REGARDLESS I MUST EXCEPT N KEEP GOING WITHOUT YOU TILL WE MEET AGAIN.. MAY YOU HAVE A BIG CELEBRATION UP IN HEAVAN WITH ALL THE ANGELS ! GONE BUT YOU WILL NVR BE FORGOTTEN N YOU WILL ALWAYS B LOVED.....  <3

Noni you were an awesome little boy growing up..you were so little when i met you..you lived with us n grew to be like my little brother because you were my brothers best friend...you and David were crazy but unseperable little teenagers...so close you all were in an ugly accident together n survived it together...we were going crazy when we heard of youlls accident...you came home with us n my brother had to stay for a long while....this memory brings tears to my eyes because it feels like just yesterday...youll never left each others sight...many would say you all even looked alike..your mom loves david dearly for the fact that she knows how close you all were..even after growing n becomug fathers you all tried to still communicate....he we are years later we lose you in a horrific accident ;(( all our lives changed..noone ever thought we would burying auch a wonderful person...
Well your a grandpa n boy do we wish ud be here To meet the little guy..he looks alot like you...
Well we love you non..!! May you rip always

ONCE AGAIN I COME HERE TO WISH MY BBY BOY ARNOLD " NONI " GAYTAN A HAPPY 5th ANGELVERSARY, WITH TEARS IN MY EYES AND EXCRUTIATING PAIN, I STILL CAN'T BELIEVE THAT YOU R GONE , I WISH THAT I COULD JUST CLOSE MY EYES N POOF YOU WERE HERE BUT, I KNOW IT'S JUST NOT EVER GNA HAPPEN.. SO MUCH HAS HAPPENED AND CHANGED SINCE YOU LEFT US SOME GOOD N BAD AS WELL , ALTHOUGH THE BEST THING OF ALL IS THAT YOU ARE A GRANDPA TO A HANDSOME LIL BOY U HAVE LEFT UR LEGION N IT WILL LIVE ON THRU UR CHILDREN.. PEOPLE PROBABLY THINK IM CRAZY ALREADY N THAT I SHOULD MOVE ON WITH MY LIFE N AS THEY SAY LET U RIP BUT UNTIL I GIVE MY LAST BREATH YOU WILL ALWAYS LIVE ON N ON, I WILL NVR FORGET YOU. IT GETS HARDER FOR ME AS THE YEARS GO BY, MAYBE CAUSE IM GETTING OLDER N I REALLY NEED YOU DOWN HERE ON EARTH TO ENJOY YOUR BABIES WITH ME.. I LOVE AND MISS MORE THAN ANYONE CAN EVER IMAGINE, MAY YOU HAVE A FEAST UP IN HEAVEN WITH THE ANGELS... RIP MY BBY BOY

THIS IS YOUR SPECIAL DAY ! MY BBY BOY TURNS 31 . I NEVER THOUGHT THAT I WOULD BE HAVING TO DO THIS, WISHING YOU A VERY HAPPY HEAVENLY BIRTHDAY ! I CAN'T HOLD BACK THE TEARS JUST THINKING ,WISHING, & WANTING SO DESPERATETLY FOR YOU TO BE HERE WITH US . NOT A DAY, HOUR,MIN, SEC GOES BY THAT I DON'T THINK OF YOU ! THANK THE LORD FOR ALLOWING US 27 YRS WITH U. YOU WILL LIVE ON IN OUR HEARTS FOREVER .

MISS U LIKE CRAZY BIG BROTHER I HOPE YOUR LOOKING DOWN CAUSE FOR YOUR BIRTHDAY IM DRINKING A SHOT OF CROWN JUST FOR U FOR UR BIRTHDAY!!

3 YRS THAT U LEFT US , NOT A MOMENT IN MY LIFE HAS GONE BY THAT I DON'T THINK OF YOU N MISS U LIKE CRAZY, I KNOW THAT U R IN A BETTER PLACE N THAT IS THE ONLY REASON THAT KEEPS ME GOING TILL WE MEET AGAIN. I STILL SEE U IN UR SON DAMIAN HE IS SO MUCH LIKE U N U WOULD BE SO PROUD OF HIM , AS WELL AS UR GIRLS. THANK U FOR THE MEMORIES N ALL DA HAPPY TIMES THAT WE SHARED. I THANK THE LORD FOR ALLOWI

HAPPY HEAVENLY BIRTHDAY MY BBY BOY TODAY U WOULD'VE TURNED 30 YRS OLD , HOW I WISH U COULD B HERE TO CELEBRATE BUT, INSTEAD U R UP IN HEAVEN CELEBRATING WITH THE ANGELS. I LOVE N MISS U MORE N MORE EACH DAY , DON'T KNOW WHO SAID IT GET'S EASIER AS THE YEARS GO BY, FOR ME IT SEEMS HARDER WITH EVERY PASSING YEAR. GONE BUT NOT FORGOTTEN U WILL ALWAYS B IN OUR HEART'S N PRECIOUS MEMORIES.

TODAY WILL MARK UR 2 YR ANNIVERSARY SINCE U WERE CALLED TO B WITH THE LORD, ALTHOUGH IT'S BEEN 2 YRS FOR ME IT STILL FEELS AS IF IT WAS YESTERDAY . I DON'T KNOW HOW TO ACT SOME TIMES FORGETTING THAT I HAVE TO PRETEND TO B HAPPY , WHEN IN REALITY I'M STILL DYING INSIDE. WHAT I WOULDN'T GIVE TO HOLD U ONE LAST TIME ,TO HEAR UR VOICE AND SEE UR BEAUTIFUL SMILE. RIP !!!! ILU N MISS U SO MUCH.

Noni ,missed your birthday ,,not feeling well ,,my deepest regret is not being there for Nancy ,

29 YEARS AGO YOU CAME INTO MY LIFE,I LOVED YOU SO MUCH YOU WERE A BLESSING TO THE FAMILY . THEN SUDDENLY YOU WERE TAKEN FROM US, WITHOUT A WARNING IT BROKE OUR HEARTS AND CAUSED EXCRUCIATING PAIN WHICH WE DEAL WITH EVERYDAY. I LOVE N MISS YOU MORE THAN WORDS CAN SAY. HAPPY B-DAY!

2pac said it best "the good die young"...r.i.p arnold!!!

I miss the talks we used to have, I miss the voice I used to hear... I miss hearing your crazy stories, and above all these... I just miss you! You will always be my buddy and I still see you in my dreams. I know you are still here with your family and one day we will all meet again. love ya always Jenn

OUR LIL NONI.U WERE LIKE A LIL BROTHER,U HAD BEEN IN OUR FAMILY SINCE VERY YOUNG,N ALSO MY HUSBANDS COUSIN @THAT,INTRODUCED ME TO MY VERY BEST FRIEND BK N 1995, UR SISTER JAMIE:)) THANKU 4 THAT! WE LUV U N MISS U DEARLY,EVEN THOUGH WOULDNT SEE U OFTEN, UR N MY HEART FOREVER,I PRAY FOR UR MOM DAILY, SHE LUVS U SOO MUCH N MISSES U NONI!!WE WILL SEE U 1 DAY IN HEAVEN..LUV YA

Noni ,I am still trying to adjust that you are no longer with us,Even though I did not see you as often these last years ,I was there for the beginning days and years of your precious life,,you were as cute as the a baby could me,,little did we know that you were gonna leave us ,,this little boy was Nancy's baby ,,my only peace is that we will see you again,,for now save a place for me