February 16
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HappyBornDay my love.
This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Arnol Tolbert, 56 years old, born on February 16, 1956, and passed away on December 15, 2012. We will remember him forever.
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February 16
February 16
Hey Asante!! Happy celestial Birthday! As my kids brothers and sisters in Africa would say “Shine On”. My son went to Africa and spent some time with his brothers and sisters that were born there. I know you would find his story/journey blissfully amazing, which it was. I plan to go visit Africa as well in the near future. You will be hearing about it. The family there invited me as well as my daughters . Shakira is going in May and I might join her a few days after her arrival.
I went on Festival At Sea last year and had an enjoyable time. There was not that much partner dancing but I did get my dancing in( New school, old school, hip hop, line dancing and a few partner dances). Wish you were there to dance our feet off . I joined a few Activities on board. You would have loved to have seen me in the fashion show. You always loved it when I dressed up especially in “The Mother land” attire. Asante, you are so missed and I do wish you were in my life for an eternity my friend, instead of a season. God bless the family, I think about you all and I continue to send prayers up for you all.
I went on Festival At Sea last year and had an enjoyable time. There was not that much partner dancing but I did get my dancing in( New school, old school, hip hop, line dancing and a few partner dances). Wish you were there to dance our feet off . I joined a few Activities on board. You would have loved to have seen me in the fashion show. You always loved it when I dressed up especially in “The Mother land” attire. Asante, you are so missed and I do wish you were in my life for an eternity my friend, instead of a season. God bless the family, I think about you all and I continue to send prayers up for you all.
February 18, 2023
February 18, 2023
Blessings Tolbert family friends & aquatinted folks,
I AM feeling Blessed today.
I have heard there to be a first time for all things to happen. Well alrighty then, now I know… this is the first time that you Bretheren Arnol MarioTolbert are to now be known as someone who looks down on people. YES, Heaven smiles upon us because of you my dear friend. Happy Birthday love and Piece Be Still.
Yours Truly,
Ms. Carmela Murray
I AM feeling Blessed today.
I have heard there to be a first time for all things to happen. Well alrighty then, now I know… this is the first time that you Bretheren Arnol MarioTolbert are to now be known as someone who looks down on people. YES, Heaven smiles upon us because of you my dear friend. Happy Birthday love and Piece Be Still.
Yours Truly,
Ms. Carmela Murray
February 16, 2023
February 16, 2023
Honoring you Arnol On your birthday!
You would have been 67 yrs old today.
I am two yrs older and I am now 69 yrs old.
You would have been 67 yrs old today.
I am two yrs older and I am now 69 yrs old.
February 16, 2023
February 16, 2023
In love and memory of my beloved brother
Asante. I will always hold your memory in my heart.
I have a large pic of you in my bar room. All the ladies admire your pic. I’m always proud to tell them about you. It’s been so long since we parted. I love living in Vegas but I loved living next door to you even more. Please continue to watch over me and the rest of our family and friends across the world.
Asante. I will always hold your memory in my heart.
I have a large pic of you in my bar room. All the ladies admire your pic. I’m always proud to tell them about you. It’s been so long since we parted. I love living in Vegas but I loved living next door to you even more. Please continue to watch over me and the rest of our family and friends across the world.
December 18, 2022
December 18, 2022
Blessing's Arnol, friends and Family,
Asante- May God Holy Yeshua continue to bless you in your assignment. Until we meet again, have a good one.
Asante- May God Holy Yeshua continue to bless you in your assignment. Until we meet again, have a good one.
December 17, 2022
December 17, 2022
Hey my friend, wow 10 years and you still leave an impression on a sister. Life is good, wish you were here to share some more awesome memories of your life with me.
I’m finally going on Festival At Sea Cruise in which you recommended I try. Guess what, you definitely will be on that cruise with me. I’m sure a few people will member you because you are not one to easily forget Asante.
Majority of everyone still dancing, traveling big time and continuing to cherish “The Love Of The Dance”. Much love to you Asante and you are definitely “Forever Missed”.
I’m finally going on Festival At Sea Cruise in which you recommended I try. Guess what, you definitely will be on that cruise with me. I’m sure a few people will member you because you are not one to easily forget Asante.
Majority of everyone still dancing, traveling big time and continuing to cherish “The Love Of The Dance”. Much love to you Asante and you are definitely “Forever Missed”.
December 15, 2022
December 15, 2022
Arnol,
It's been 10 years since your passing. I will never forget my first day at Modern. At had left a job where I was very unhappy, and I didn't know if going to Modern was a mistake. You came up to me that day and said "I'm here to help you in any way I can. My door is open - I'm here for you". You didn't know me from Adam, but you showed me kindness. You didn't know, but right after that I choked up a little bit and had to wipe a tear. I knew I had not made a mistake. You made me feel welcome. I still play that moment back in my head all these years later. In our 3 years working together, I went into your office numerous times with electronics questions (my own stuff) and you were always this calm, easygoing, likeable presence. You were one of the best things about that job. I hope your rest has been peaceful.
Jeff
It's been 10 years since your passing. I will never forget my first day at Modern. At had left a job where I was very unhappy, and I didn't know if going to Modern was a mistake. You came up to me that day and said "I'm here to help you in any way I can. My door is open - I'm here for you". You didn't know me from Adam, but you showed me kindness. You didn't know, but right after that I choked up a little bit and had to wipe a tear. I knew I had not made a mistake. You made me feel welcome. I still play that moment back in my head all these years later. In our 3 years working together, I went into your office numerous times with electronics questions (my own stuff) and you were always this calm, easygoing, likeable presence. You were one of the best things about that job. I hope your rest has been peaceful.
Jeff
February 16, 2022
February 16, 2022
Happy Heavenly Birthdays Love.........
February 16, 2022
February 16, 2022
“Anyone can find fault. It is the wise person who finds that which encourages another in the turmoils and strifes of the day.”
- Edgar Cayce.
Arnold - you gave me that and soo much more my man. Thank you.
- Edgar Cayce.
Arnold - you gave me that and soo much more my man. Thank you.
December 15, 2021
December 15, 2021
Ah Yes, I can attest that Bro, Tolbert is in the wind. Like a wheel within a wheel. Yesterday, today and into tomorrow. I’m a witness to those types of dreams. Blessings family. So sOrry for your loss.
December 15, 2021
December 15, 2021
Its not everyday this happens, my beloved cousin appears to me in a fleeting dream, when it does it HITS like a ton of bricks, wakes me up with tears streaming down my face, damm I miss him...
February 16, 2021
February 16, 2021
Happy Birthday Dad,
I miss you everyday. Everything I am today is because of you. You were truly one of a kind and still so inspirational to this day. You were always there for me. You were the best dad a girl could ask for. You taught me there is no dream too big to attain and now I am living proof. Deep down Im still the little girl who would call you with some new interests and to my amazement you would send me research on that subject a few hours later. I will continue to walk in your legacy and strive for black excellence as you did.
Love You,
Your Babygirl
I miss you everyday. Everything I am today is because of you. You were truly one of a kind and still so inspirational to this day. You were always there for me. You were the best dad a girl could ask for. You taught me there is no dream too big to attain and now I am living proof. Deep down Im still the little girl who would call you with some new interests and to my amazement you would send me research on that subject a few hours later. I will continue to walk in your legacy and strive for black excellence as you did.
Love You,
Your Babygirl
February 16, 2021
February 16, 2021
It's Tuesday and you know where we would be tonight celebrating your birthday. On a dance floor somewhere in this world. I love that you are a wonderful memory in my life. One thing God has giving the living is the ability to cherish those who transitioned to heaven first. Forever missed and always remembered for the man you were.♥️
December 17, 2020
December 17, 2020
Yes indeed, dearly missed, for reals cousin. From time to time, a little nudge or flickering light from you is all we need to know you ARE with us.. Love you man.
December 16, 2020
December 16, 2020
My Beloved, my friend, miss u, love u. I see you. ❤️ Step on......
January 18, 2020
January 18, 2020
In addition to opening his heart and arms, Arnol opened his home to me for the two years that I lived in L.A. from 2003 to 2005. As I've lived in Seoul since then, I only today learned of his passing. My prayers go out to all who miss him, his generosity, his indomitable spirit, and his zest for life.
December 16, 2019
December 16, 2019
Dear brother today marks the anniversary of your transition. I know you are still watching over me and smiling.
You left a lasting mark on those who had the pleasure of knowing you.
I will always hold a special place in my heart for you Asante.
You left a lasting mark on those who had the pleasure of knowing you.
I will always hold a special place in my heart for you Asante.
February 16, 2019
February 16, 2019
Dear Asante,
Today is the anniversary of your birthday. You will always be forever
Missed! My beloved bro made me
Feel protected and respected.
May the good love you brought into
The world last forever!
Happy Birthday brother.
Although we are not physically together we will always celebrate in spirit.
Today is the anniversary of your birthday. You will always be forever
Missed! My beloved bro made me
Feel protected and respected.
May the good love you brought into
The world last forever!
Happy Birthday brother.
Although we are not physically together we will always celebrate in spirit.
December 15, 2017
December 15, 2017
Hey all, Arnold is deeply missed on my end. We always had a good time together, highly conversational, stepping through all levels of memories of the Tolbert-Olivier clan.
MIss you cuz.
MIss you cuz.
February 16, 2017
February 16, 2017
Today is February 16, 2017. My beloved brothers born date. The light in my heart will always shine brightly for you. I am so proud to be your big sister. The love and laughter we shared will never be forgotten.
I lost a piece of myself on that cold winter day in December 2012. You were my bodyguard on earth now watching over me from heaven. The warm memories help me to heal my broken heart. May the love you shared last forever!!!!
I lost a piece of myself on that cold winter day in December 2012. You were my bodyguard on earth now watching over me from heaven. The warm memories help me to heal my broken heart. May the love you shared last forever!!!!
December 15, 2016
December 15, 2016
Hey Asante this is your sister "Cerina" Gayle Tolbert:
Today December 15, 2016 is the 4th anniversary of Asante's transition.
Out of Love, honor and respect I must stop this morning and pause in memory. My brother and I lived next door to each other for many years in Los Angeles. I moved this year but I know Brother is watching and protecting me from on High. I will always hold a special place in my heart for you brother Arnol "Asante" Tolbert.
Today December 15, 2016 is the 4th anniversary of Asante's transition.
Out of Love, honor and respect I must stop this morning and pause in memory. My brother and I lived next door to each other for many years in Los Angeles. I moved this year but I know Brother is watching and protecting me from on High. I will always hold a special place in my heart for you brother Arnol "Asante" Tolbert.
December 11, 2016
December 11, 2016
I miss him sooo much. Hope all my family is doing well and healthy.
'E'
'E'
March 12, 2016
March 12, 2016
Googled Arnol and found this page. So sad to hear. I went to SIU-C with Arnol. Had a crush on him :) Bless you, sir.
Susan Crusoe (Thompson Pointe)
Susan Crusoe (Thompson Pointe)
December 15, 2014
December 15, 2014
Life has many challenges and opportunities. I know that you took a big part in preparing me for those that confront me on my journey. Thank you for your lessons and guidance. I love you and miss you, uncle. I know you're still smiling down on me and my boys.
February 1, 2014
February 1, 2014
Just passing through, thinking about my Big cousin, by this time we would have been hearing about a "Birthday Party" for Arnol, Soon and he would want Everybody to be there! Arnol Love to be around family and friends, he was Definately a People Person! Loving, Kind, would give you the shirt off his back if you needed it! He was Family, great friend, easily to talk to. He always had a open door to talk about anything! He always told me to stay positive! You're a Great Mom, your kids will appreciate you! Do your best in whatever you do! Accomplishment is Everything! I will miss you Arnol, I was just passing thru, thinking about you and will see you on the other side, love baby cousin Tiya
November 29, 2013
November 29, 2013
Thinking of you very often over the past days. You are in my heart and part of my soul. You are the start of the building blocks of my dance journey. Thankful that you were such a good friend. No one can forget a friend like you!
March 27, 2013
March 27, 2013
Passing by to say i miss you and think of you often
February 19, 2013
February 19, 2013
Arnold , It was a pleasure to have you to travel with me to Africa.
Thank you for your friendship, it was a pleasure to have known you as a friend . I will see you on the other side
Thank you for your friendship, it was a pleasure to have known you as a friend . I will see you on the other side
February 19, 2013
February 19, 2013
Took my friend Asante with me to Phoenix Arizona on his Birthday. Danced the weekend away with his spirit connected to my soul. Peace and love to Asante forever on his special day.
February 18, 2013
February 18, 2013
Happy Birthday
February 8, 2013
February 8, 2013
Arnol's Birthday is Feb. 16th, he would be 57yrs. old. I would buy a cake and card for the guest of honor, and he would smile an say; " thank you sister". He would take lot's of pics. Arnol was not camera shy. He has taken so many wonderful photos. Thanks for the memories my Dear Bro Arnol " Asante". May You Rest In Peace! "Cerina"
January 18, 2013
January 18, 2013
As Arnol's oldest sister I want to say; Thanks again to everyone for all the warm expressions of love. I want to give a special thanks to Enoch Carson for remembering my brother Arnol after all these years. Love is everlasting! I am sure Arnol is in heaven smiling and shining down on us all. Everytime I see the sunshine I will see Brother Arnol. "Cerina"
January 14, 2013
January 14, 2013
What can I say about Arnol.I met him over 30 years ago when I dating his sister and he made me feel nothing but welcomed. Arnol,the fact that I'm writing this today after all these years means that you and your family made a lasting, positive impression on me. And I know this. You are in a better place. And somehwere there are Angels feeling so much better because you are there.
January 9, 2013
January 9, 2013
Dior is now back in school. He took your pic Asante. He is so proud of you! He will always love, honor and respect his grandpa.
January 9, 2013
January 9, 2013
With a heavy heart, I say, my thoughts go out to the Tolbert family. Within the short time that I've known Asante, he has encouraged me to be the best "me". I've never met anyone like him. Thinking of you Asante...always.
January 6, 2013
January 6, 2013
With Sincere Thanks, To all of our family and friends I will always cherish the support and love shown during this special time in our family.Your kindmess is deeply appreciated and will always be remembered. "To God be the Glory"
The family of: Arnol " Asante" Tolbert "Cerina"
The family of: Arnol " Asante" Tolbert "Cerina"
January 2, 2013
January 2, 2013
I will miss your warm and kind spirit. I will not forget the psychological steppin tip you gave me. See you in heaven.
December 30, 2012
December 30, 2012
Arnol, you wil be missed by many. You had had an energy and presence you dont find in all people, and for those of us who knew you, I am sure they felt it too. You will always be in my heart. To your family my condolences, I know how important family was to you. RIP my love.
December 29, 2012
December 29, 2012
I was blessed to have the pleasure to meet Asante on the 2012 festival at sea cruise. Wonderful man & a beautiful spirit. I will miss you my friend. Rest in Peace
December 28, 2012
December 28, 2012
My prayers go out to the Tolbert family. Met Asante a short 1 1/2 years ago in the ballroom community. Asante, I will forever miss your positive energy. Every time we talked, regardless of the situation, you always had a positive outlook on life. Resting in the Lords arms now.
December 28, 2012
December 28, 2012
Goodbye, Asante...
I WILL miss you forever...
Peace to you, Cerina and your precious family
I WILL miss you forever...
Peace to you, Cerina and your precious family
December 28, 2012
December 28, 2012
I met Arnol, in 2005, always a very pleasant person...with a smile. :o) God Bless you and your family Truly. Sandie
December 27, 2012
December 27, 2012
R.I.P uncle arnol...you will forever be missed. when you left us, my heart was so saddened...but now i realize your in a better place. tears, yo nephew !
December 27, 2012
December 27, 2012
There are few words to say. What a amazing man and friend. You will be missed. I always enjoyed seining that wonderful smile. R I P MY FRIEND. Thank you for the friendship.
December 27, 2012
December 27, 2012
Arnold thanks for the memories from LA to Africa through the Front Page family. I will always remember the trips...God Bless
December 27, 2012
December 27, 2012
Gone way 2 soon! I'm devastated 2 hear of your passing! Been friends for many years. Lost touch, & recently reconnected on FB. I'll never forget your smooth, cool, classy, always positive demeanor! I'll always remember your deep baritone Barry White voice & beautiful smile! I recently learned steppin' and hoped we'd dance 2gether one day! Such a lesson not 2 procrastinate! RIP dear friend!
December 26, 2012
December 26, 2012
May the Good Lord wrap his arms around the Tolbert family, during this time of transistion in life and spirit of brother Asante. He was an amazing man, that I had the honor of knowing for only five years. His inviting and warm smile will greatly be missed. God bless you Arnol.
December 26, 2012
December 26, 2012
Gone to soon....rest in peace Asante, dance with the angels.
December 26, 2012
December 26, 2012
God bless you and now keep you my Brother. I have known Arnol for over 20 years. Worked with him at Channel 9 until I moved to Modern Videofilm where he soon followed. He loved his good times and always made sure you were part of that. Proud to be a Chicago Brother!, he would remind me. My Friend, I will miss you but always find joy in the memories. For you...We will continue here richer.
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HappyBornDay my love.
February 16
February 16
Hey Asante!! Happy celestial Birthday! As my kids brothers and sisters in Africa would say “Shine On”. My son went to Africa and spent some time with his brothers and sisters that were born there. I know you would find his story/journey blissfully amazing, which it was. I plan to go visit Africa as well in the near future. You will be hearing about it. The family there invited me as well as my daughters . Shakira is going in May and I might join her a few days after her arrival.
I went on Festival At Sea last year and had an enjoyable time. There was not that much partner dancing but I did get my dancing in( New school, old school, hip hop, line dancing and a few partner dances). Wish you were there to dance our feet off . I joined a few Activities on board. You would have loved to have seen me in the fashion show. You always loved it when I dressed up especially in “The Mother land” attire. Asante, you are so missed and I do wish you were in my life for an eternity my friend, instead of a season. God bless the family, I think about you all and I continue to send prayers up for you all.
I went on Festival At Sea last year and had an enjoyable time. There was not that much partner dancing but I did get my dancing in( New school, old school, hip hop, line dancing and a few partner dances). Wish you were there to dance our feet off . I joined a few Activities on board. You would have loved to have seen me in the fashion show. You always loved it when I dressed up especially in “The Mother land” attire. Asante, you are so missed and I do wish you were in my life for an eternity my friend, instead of a season. God bless the family, I think about you all and I continue to send prayers up for you all.
February 18, 2023
February 18, 2023
Blessings Tolbert family friends & aquatinted folks,
I AM feeling Blessed today.
I have heard there to be a first time for all things to happen. Well alrighty then, now I know… this is the first time that you Bretheren Arnol MarioTolbert are to now be known as someone who looks down on people. YES, Heaven smiles upon us because of you my dear friend. Happy Birthday love and Piece Be Still.
Yours Truly,
Ms. Carmela Murray
I AM feeling Blessed today.
I have heard there to be a first time for all things to happen. Well alrighty then, now I know… this is the first time that you Bretheren Arnol MarioTolbert are to now be known as someone who looks down on people. YES, Heaven smiles upon us because of you my dear friend. Happy Birthday love and Piece Be Still.
Yours Truly,
Ms. Carmela Murray
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Touched by exuberance
December 22, 2020
Today I reflect on warm moments shared
between the two of us. Asante your spirit continues to live on in everyone whose life was touched by your exuberance. Words cannot express the emptiness in my heart since the day you departed.
The vacancy in my heart is filled with the joy and laughter we shared during our lifetime.
covid-19 has transformed the world! Wearing mask is now the new norm. While soaking in the warm waters of my backyard pool/spa I wish you were here with me. I know you enjoyed many trips to Las Vegas and today we are here together in spirit.
Looking forward to a New Year, 2021, hopefully coronavirus free.
between the two of us. Asante your spirit continues to live on in everyone whose life was touched by your exuberance. Words cannot express the emptiness in my heart since the day you departed.
The vacancy in my heart is filled with the joy and laughter we shared during our lifetime.
covid-19 has transformed the world! Wearing mask is now the new norm. While soaking in the warm waters of my backyard pool/spa I wish you were here with me. I know you enjoyed many trips to Las Vegas and today we are here together in spirit.
Looking forward to a New Year, 2021, hopefully coronavirus free.
A Brother's Love
December 21, 2017
Today is December 21, 2017.
I'm sitting in my living room in LasVegas Nevada.
I'm Looking into your eyes Asante. Well
Actually it's an oversized photo of you.
Your smiling face warms my heart on
This cold winter afternoon.
I will always cherish and share the love
We shared as brother and sister. In this
Pic it appears that the queen of hearts is
In trouble. I know that " Asante " always
Has my back.
Cerina's birthday w Arnol
January 13, 2013
Arnol and his friends showered me with love and attention during my birthday celebration at the Art Gallery in Inglewood. Arnol had come by straight from his bible study class with Rev. "Chip."
During our dance classes and other events, I loved to dance with my brother Arnol. Today, I tell all my friends; " If you see me dancing by myself, I'm not." "I'm dancing with Arnol."
I am two years older than Arnol. Arnol would sometimes tell a little white lie about his age. I would say to him; " hey, I thought we were 2 yrs apart." I guess it depended on his mood that day. I didn't know if he was getting younger, or if I was getting older.
Others never really understood the deep brother, sister love we shared. Sometimes we would have disagreements and other times we would dance. Everlasting Love!!!