Richmond Dayo Johnson - ForeverMissed.com Online Memorials

Heaven received the perfect gentleman, Richie Dayo Johnson.

This memorial website was created in memory of our beloved husband, son, father, grandfather, brother, uncle, mentor, friend, Richmond Dayo Johnson. We will remember him forever.

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July 8, 2020

....I am still in shock.

Lost for words.

Impacted me immensely. You have left a legacy that lives in people.

You are one person that would be difficult to forget because of the multitude of lives you have impacted.

Wow! Life!

Egbon. You have completed your race. We mourn because we want you present, physically, however, you are resting with the Lord, and we are rest assured you are at the best place.

Egbon Dayo, I will miss you.

I pray for God Almighty to give your wife and children the strength and understanding to fathom your physical loss. I really do, and our Lord Almighty will take care of you and fill you up with his LOVE because he never fails.

Rest in peace Egbon Dayo.

July 8, 2020

Uncle DJ, you will be truly missed. We are praying for everyone you've left behind.

July 8, 2020

Rest on RDJ You have indeed brought light and laughter to everyone you come in contact with. May your gentle Soul Rest in Perfect Peace! Good night ToastMaster General

July 8, 2020

The news of the passing of my very dear friend and Brother RICHMOND DAYO JOHNSON hit me like thunderbolt. There are great men and women one wished could live forever, for various reasons. Dayo was one of such. He was too good in his art and act that I wished he could be cloned. He was extremely warm and friendly. He was a decent and respectable gentleman. He was reliable and capable. I could go on and on. He liked me unconditionally, and so was I to him. We discussed literarily everything. Our mutual passion for Nigeria was exceptional. Dayo and George Noah got me totally committed to Radio Freedom (later changed to Radio Kudirat). They sacrificed a lot for our country. I'm not sure our country remembers. But I do. I will never forget Dayo. My thoughts and prayers are with his adorable family. He loved them absolutely. We all knew it. May the almighty console them. May Dayo's soul Rest in Peace...

July 8, 2020

RDJ...you are a blessing to this world at large. A great teacher, coach and mentor.
Meeting you was not a mistake, I remembered our chat and the way you talk to me. You challenged me to be a better person and you follow up on your word with it. You welcomed us to your home with open arms and it was an opportunity to know who you are in person, how you carry your personality both at home and at work. I am grateful for to God for a life well spend.
You will be greatly missed.
Good night Sir.

July 8, 2020

It was October, 2018. “I’m so gonna clone your brain, but I’d keep the original copy”. These were my words few hours into meeting you for the first time in Lagos, Nigeria. Even though we laughed over this, those thoughts came as I began to wonder, “how deep and intellectually sound can one man be?”

In only months of knowing you, I learnt sooo much, that cloning your brain became pointless. You shared knowledge and life lessons freely. Your words of encouragement were priceless. And just the other day, you wrote, “I’m extremely proud of your penchant for persistence and determination even in the face of uncertainty”. Oh! RDJ! I don’t believe I’m referring to you in past tense now! But it is well indeed.

I’ve shed quite some tears (especially now, writing this tribute), but I shall weep no more remembering one of your many words on marble - “Whatever we do for ourselves we take to the grave. But whatever we do for others, we leave behind”. RDJ, you’ve left lots of beautiful memories behind and I shall find solace there, and in the fact that you are in a much better place. My husband, Mazi Emeka, as you call him, wishes you well too.

- Monday, June 8, 2020: “In London safely ✈️ “
- Monday, July 6, 2020: In Heaven safely
Wow! Life!

Joining all to whom you were Son, Husband, Dad, Brother, In-Law, Grandpa, Friend, Colleague, Mentor, it’s Rest In Peace.

I’d end this same way we end our playful conversations.
Me: “RDJ!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!”
You: “All the wayyyyyy!”
Now I’m smiling.

Rest on, my dear friend, RDJ.
Good night

July 8, 2020

Dayo my Bro... your exit was so sudden and shocking... l am yet to come to terms with the news... l just told GK that You have been so wonderful to us lately keeping in touch asking about our safety and all with this Corona thing.... whaooo . Well l believe that you have gone to REST in the bosom of the Lord... You came.. you saw... You conquered. RIP. Segun Sidahome and family.

July 8, 2020

My heart aches having to write this about you RDJ as I can't seem to wrap your demise around my head!. I saw you first at our 2017 Annual JCI Ikeja QLV and you struck a cord in me. And in 2018 our communication took another level into mentoring. Your were a leader extraordinaire.

You were the one who gave me clarity, proper direction and defined my path as the 2019 JCI Ikeja President. You helped me grow with the quote: ""As a leader, you need to take the time to truly understand what motivates and what doesn't motivate each one of your direct reports. They are not all the same. Do not make the mistake of thinking one size fits all! He will tell you how to do better, without highlighting what you did wrong." ©️ RDJ

You connected people, to boost their careers.
Our several breakfast/Lunch at your home or Citiheights hotel was always something to LEARN as you devote time to coach me thoroughly on my appearance, Behaviour and Communication...You invited me to your home, took me on a tour everywhere asking me, How many mentors let you in into their home? You were that open. You can't miss the learnings from RDJ even on the table while you eat. So it was never too Much to surprise you with my presence at your son's wedding in Nnewi....I am glad I did!

I can't mention all you've done for me RDJ. You speak so well that one word from your lips can enthrall an audience. Yet, you were the finest communicator I had ever met. Thank you for trusting me enough to always share your itineraries and your next destination. You were never too busy to return calls, generous with your time, lavish with words of affirmation. I practically cramped the text message I would get from you if you weren't available to pick my call. You were my greatest cheerleader. You took time to correct every of my letters, articles, proposals before they go out. You were involved in all of my meetings as President until I handed over.

You were genuinely concerned about me 360 degrees, you walked with me step by step to where I am today and sadly you NEVER got to meet your Son-in-law. A genuine gentleman you were, a thoughtful leader and a sensitive mentor. You lived a good life, impacting lives and grooming leaders.

It's so painful that you left so soon but I take consolation in the fact that you left behind incredible legacies which will always remain in our hearts. You've mentored lots of people and I'm so privileged to be amongst them.

Heaven has INDEED welcomed an ANGEL. Rest in the sweet bossom of our dear lord RDJ. May God console your Wife, Children and all you left behind.

GABRIELLA ASISAH

July 8, 2020

Its hard to believe you have switched locations permanently. We reunited December last year and I was hoping for many more years of learning from you. Whenever I remember ZoomApp I definitely think of you. You practically helped me download the app to enhance our communication. Thanks for pouring out yourself to the lives of many. Thanks for being a loving Father. Your legacy lives on. I'll miss you. Dearest RDJ❤❤❤❤

July 8, 2020

With a heavy heart I write this because I am yet to get over the shock of your death and it’s really hard to accept that you’re no more I couldn’t ask for a better lecturer, a mentor & a friend. You were committed to helping me achieve my significance in life, you helped me overcome my fears and taught me how to do things I never thought I could do. It’s heartbreaking to know that you are not there to watch and listen to my news presentation and make observations as you often do. It’s also sad you won’t be there to always correct me whenever I pronounce words wrongly and to make sure I do something meaningful everyday of my life. You were like a father to me, who wanted the best for and out of his daughter. Men like you are rare, I’d forever appreciate your support and I promise to put all that you’ve taught me to practice & continue on the path you’ve shown me...It’s comforting to know that you’re resting with the Lord Sir. My sincere heart condolences goes to your family and loved ones. You might be gone in person but you still live on in my life and in many others, you’d greatly be missed sir Continue to Rest In Peace Sir

July 8, 2020

It was saddened to hear about the death of RDJ.
We are going to miss him so much.
May his soul rest in peace.
Accept my condolences.

July 8, 2020

Where do I begin? Is it from 2:30pm 6th July, 2020 that will remain frozen in my mind forever when I sat waiting for you to log on to Zoom where we scheduled a meeting. Or was it when I met you in 2015 and immediately taught me how to use the google calendar to schedule all my appointments? You were my teacher, mentor, coach and friend and I'll always cherish the beautiful teachable moments you invested in my life. See you at the resurrection Coach.

July 8, 2020

I am broken but not in tears, I have got to celebrate your life as you lived it admirably to the fullest doing what you loved doing best.

Oh! My great mentor has died.

Below is my last grateful text I sent you on fathers day.
Happy Fathers day Sir. In your own way have you stood in that gap lovingly doing your best.
God bless you and keep you in good health and longest of life as you so desire.
You will not know any sorrow.
Happy Fathers day.
Bimbola Junaid.

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I sincerely wish you soundness of mind, body and spirit along with blessings of the purse to play your role too as a mother to many ❣RD

Our last rubbing of minds meet up last January 2020. Here is what we both had to say afterwards not knowing the heavens bid it so
[14/01, 5:15 pm] Richie Dayo Johnson: Spending time with you is always an opportunity to challenge mindsets.
[14/01, 5:16 pm] Richie Dayo Johnson: Today was an experiential lesson in unadulterated service culture.
[14/01, 5:16 pm] Abimbola Junaid: I simply am grateful for the time we are blessed to share together. Moments count forever.

Sir Richard Dayo Johnson as I fondly called you. Make heaven chatty and bubbly for it has welcomed its very own.
And for the rest of us the living lets spend many more of our time collecting memories and less of things.

July 8, 2020

I am so heartbroken about your loss. You will be greatly missed.

July 8, 2020

WHAT AN EXTRAORDINARY MAN!

Sir Richmond Dayo Johnson (RDJ),

There is no gainsaying the fact that you were the quintessence of ENGLISH elegance, FRENCH verve and UNIVERSAL appeal. I came into contact with you in 2009 at the Federal Radio Corporation of Nigeria Training School now the National Broadcast Academy (NBA). Sure enough, the encounter made a strong impression on me, for the reason that, you commanded the English tongue with effortless grace and encyclopedic finesse.

Since then, you have been my trusted mentor, close confidant and bosom friend. Indeed, it is indisputable that you were a sparkling gem whose life was replete with impact, wisdom and knowledge, to such an extent that, your words of encouragement motivated me to earn a distinction (first class) at the NBA after I enrolled on its intermediate course in 2016.

In a style befitting a gentleman, you urged me to climb on the bandwagon of Toastmasters International. I will never forget your originality, conviviality and profundity.

Sir, may the light of your legacies incline you to rest easy in transcendence.

Best,

Craig O. Esohwode
English Doctor

July 8, 2020

I am so heart broken about the news of your demise. I was going to share a good news with you the day you left this world, it was what you wanted for me. It's painful that you left so soon without goodbyes, I don't know if I will get over this but I know that I can never write my story without your giant footprints.

The first time I met you was at the Presentation class of the National Broadcast Academy in 2019. I was lost in awe of how you spoke, and I was sure I found a mentor in you. I will never forget the times you put me on the spot just so I could be a better speaker.

RDJ you loved, supported, encouraged, and taught me many things. No matter the amount of time spent with you even if it was for a minute, I was sure to learn something new from you, needless to say you always took your time to pass whatever message you wanted me to learn.

A humble leader, you often say you learn from me as well and I wonder what I have to offer an enigma like you.

The last time we met at a wedding you chaired, i remember how everyone was wowed with how you spoke eloquently especially the master compere that day.

I will never forget you daddy. I hope we will meet again at the feet of our Lord Jesus. Till then, wow the angels with queens English. Goodnight Daddy, Goodnight Richie Dayo Johnson-RDJ.

July 8, 2020

RDJ as you are fondly called.

You were such a great and homely man willing to counsel and coach at any point you were engaged in a conversation.

A father figure, Mentor, Excellent Orator ..the list is endless.

I am consoled by one of your quotes 'Whatever we do for ourselves we take to the grave but whatever we do for others we leave behind'...You have really done alot for me and those are the memories and legacies of you I'll keep with me.

Rest on Sir.

July 8, 2020

RDJ,
You left too sudden. My meeting you you through Ayo Jolayemi many years ago was not by accident but Ordained. You had such a large and and Kind Heart. You made me better in character and business dealings. You will indeed be missed greatly. Rest in Peace Sir.

July 8, 2020

The life you lived speaks more volume . Julie really made you proud cos I and so many others know how u were so passionate about helping pple who had a vision to accomplish. Rest in the bosoms of father Abraham. Richard Dayo Johnson

July 8, 2020

Adieu Richmond Dayo Johnson

You call me Bosede omo iya oniyan or Engr Bose both names sets the tone of our discussion if only I had chosen 5.45am on Monday....
You still sent so many messages ahead of my 5.45am Wednesday preference as if you knew.....
Today was diarised in our calendar together....my cheerleader.

No conversations ends without bami ki Bale e o ati awon omo mi
Some many Memories.... you are a generational gift...

You loved God and cherish your family....I teased you about the excitement in your voice when your flight was confirmed, a genuine lover man was my response to your excitement.
Thank you Prof. Lere Baale and Toastmasters for the gift of a Father and Mentor to me.

To your wife who you unashamedly call "my girlfriend or Babe for life" anytime I ask after her, I pray for God's strength to you and the entire family ma.

I bless God for crossing path with you.
Rest in Peace RDJ...all the way

July 8, 2020

Meeting with you for the very first at JCI Ikeja Quality Leadership Value Seminar in 2017 is an experience that can never wipe off my memory, I remember the dollar drill at the seminar, there and then I learnt the value of strength. Of not relying on others, of being self-preserving and able to provide for yourself. Of not whining, not complaining, not arguing about the hand you've been dealt. You're a magnificent example of a man. I am grateful to God for the impactful life you lived RDJ. Keep resting on in the blossom of the Almighty.

Good Night Richie Dayo Johnson.

Oluwabusayomi Oyebolu says farewell Great Man.

July 8, 2020

My fingers couldn't match the right keys! I wasn’t sure what my ears just heard. My eyes tried to pop out for confirmation.
How can this be? RDJ gone @ 60?
This tribute was meant for another 30 years from now. Alas, it has to be written now. A good heart has stopped beating, a finest gentleman has gone and a good soul ascended to heaven.
To a great orator, leader, mentor, teacher, coach, quintessential Public Speaker, Toastmaster per excellence and the man who invited me to join Toastmasters International in 2003, Mr Richie Dayo Johnson.
Eternal rest grant unto him, O Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon him. May he rest in peace.
My heartfelt condolences to his bereaved family. I pray that the almighty gives his family the fortitude to bear this irreplaceable loss.
His last words to me on Saturday 25th April 2020 at 4.45pm, “Whatever we do for ourselves we take to the grave but whatever we do for others we leave behind”.
For those of us who knew him, he will live on in our minds and in our hearts and continue to help us conduct our business and our lives with honour and integrity.

July 8, 2020

I met Uncle RDJ at the maiden African conference of lead nurse Africa in Lagos. I had lots of fond memories of him because his presentation at the conference touched my heart and made me move a step
Ahead in my profession as a nurse. Way back in my country, the effect was seen in my line of duty. During the familiarization dinner he sang, oh he was not only a good communicator but a good singer. We exchanged numbers and started chatting. It was unfortunate I fell sick and could not see him during the Ghana version of the conference. I celebrated him on his 60th birthday, little did I know it was the last time of hearing from him. I have been heartbroken since I heard of his demise on Monday evening and could not sleep. Uncle RDJ rest well in the bosom of the lord till we meet again. My condolence to his wife, children and the entire family.

July 8, 2020

TEACH US TO NUMBER OUR DAYS.....

This was, and remains one man who lived, liked, loved and left... with eloquence to spare. The phrase “in your face” is the only way I am able to describe the feeling when Michele told me. No one is immortal but some characters and characteristics are, and that is where RDJ falls. He lived a dream, liked the challenges, loved the people and left with so many answers after bequeathing us the questions. RDJ helped me reignite my passion for speaking. He helped me sharpen my iron by showing me the opportunities in sharpening other irons. The sound, the person, the presence, the camaraderie and oh, that smile.... and also the heavily pregnant silence! Thanks for crossing our paths but no thanks for the untimely parting. This is one loss too many but hey! He came, he saw, he conquered AND he built! Rest In Peace RDJ - too many pieces for us to pick!

July 8, 2020

Dear RDJ,
I met you in 2008 in London on a major project in which I was a consultant and you had come in as a potential vendor with so much confidence and energy. To everyone on the team, a newcomer was meant to observe and pitch their strength, but you were no novice or pushover. You sold your services from the first minute and never gave up till you secured the gig. You showed from the very start that you were a go-getter and would achieve your mission irrespective of what the obstacles were or what anyone thought.

We had to become friends because you would have it no other way! You were way older than me but this was never an issue for you. You were humble and accessible. You shared your ideas and ideals freely and cared for your family and friends.

You knocked on my digital door from time to time, the last time being a couple of weeks ago. This is your nature, always checking in for the love and for the opportunities. Only if I knew, I would have made hay.. I would never have procastinated. I would have made more effort to sit and hear you one more time.

Yours is a painful one because you were one of the few left who genuinely cared. You were a good man. A gentleman in everyway possible.

May God grant you eternal rest my Egbon and Friend.

July 8, 2020

TO YOU SIR...AN UNFORGETTABLE EXPERIENCE!!!

"Advance in the direction of your dreams and meet success unexpected in uncommon hours ~RDJ"
This phrase captures the beginning of my journey with you, a professional connection that was divinely ordained. It is impossible to count all the times I have flown under your wings, Thanks for opening my eyes to new stages of opportunity and strength.

I will forever be grateful to you for being a guardian Angel and a light to my career Path.

Steph...

July 8, 2020

I am painstakingly coming to terms with the times and season that we're in. Sometimes, it's scary and sometimes exasperating. When I hear the news of a loved one like this, I just feel gutted and numb
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DJ, This one cuts deep‍♀️You were a big brother, a friend and an inspiration. You helped me find me and my passion in soo many ways I can not count. You were always boisterous, unapologetically positive, grounded in your philosophies and hilarious. (So many jokes we shared). If these were values for long life, then you don't deserve to die at this early age. Sadly and unfortunately it is not!
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I know you inspired and impacted lives. You left an undeniable, indelible legacy. This I will hold dear to my heart and will lovingly reminisce in your memory.
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My heart goes out to Aunty Funmi ( your biggest cheerleader) and my aburos, Dan, Funto and Seun whom I spoke with along with Demola the same night of 7th. May they find strength in the words of wisdom you always share from time to time to all of us.
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Sleep well DJ. May heavens receive you with a gentleman's handshake. You did well...you did well

July 8, 2020

Rest on boss! You have indeed brought light and laughter to everyone you come in contact with. May your gentle soul rest in perfect peace! Good night RDJ

July 8, 2020

Hmmmm...The ToastMaster General, A fine Gentle Man, Role Model, Mentor and Father. Every moment with you is always memorable. I try as much as possible to jot points. Your words are quotable quotes "Integrity Keeps you there!
Nearly everyday an opportunity arises to take undue advantage of someone.
Professionals knows that today's dissatisfied Clients may prevent them from making transactions in the future.
Professionals know the value of honesty , integrity and respect for authority.
Integrity is the most valuable currency you hold. Model It! "- Richmond Dayo Johnson @askrdjofficial ( Patron, JCI Ikeja ikeja).

Rest On RDJ. We miss your attention to details and Professionalism Checks .

Femi Davies Alagbala says Goodnight

July 8, 2020

I'm still in shock!!
I wish I can just wake up and I'm told you're still very much alive. Meeting you at presentation class last year as brought out the best in me. You're a father and a mentor I can easily run to whenever I'm at loss. Thanks for giving yourself as lamp to light my path and bringing out the best in me. I'll always remember you in my heart and bring to limelight all you've encouraged me to do.
I know you're resting well for lives you've impacted to greatness.
Sleep on RDJ!
I love you.
Good night!

July 8, 2020

The news was very shocking! I'm still pained by this loss. A teacher and a mentor. He was the consummate compere. The most distinguished gentleman I know. Very uniquely English in everything he does. He is the quintessential, stylish, conservative English persona that leaves an indelible impression with everyone he encounters. I can recall flashes of him teaching on the topic 'Releasing the Imprisoned Splendor' encouraging us to strive to achieve more. RDJ, as he was fondly called, you will be sorely missed! Rest in Peace...

July 8, 2020

I was fortunate enough to attend Lead Nurse Africa for my first time in Nigeria. Words cannot describe the friendship, hospitality and pure joy I felt. Richmond had a lot to do with that. He was a kind charismatic and intelligent man. But more than that he empowered others. He chose some of the most dynamic young leaders I’ve ever seen to start the legacy of Lead Nurse Africa.
Since that time I was able to go to Ghana and we kept in touch on WhatsApp. It is an honor to have known him, my thoughts and prayers go out to his family and friends. When he gets to the gate in heaven they’ll give him a special pass to come on in right away! He is definitely a blessing from God!

July 8, 2020

A Saint departed. Yours was a very impactful life such that you left something unique that stares something good out of everyone you met. I pray that your departure to the great beyond when we least expect it will also challenge all that you have reached to be the best of our talents at all times. The LeadNurse Africa Board will miss you everyday. Rest on, Saint.

July 8, 2020

Dear Dad,
My heart is so sadden ,you ask me to call you the dad I never had, you mentored me, was happy each time I told you I achieved or did something productive..
You told me I will be great and you will see me become great ... Am so in tears now ...

My mentor, my father and guardian...
Rest on dad..
Blessing Agbago

July 8, 2020

When I was told Monday evening, that he passed, I said no, he was still chatty in the morning. What a total shock!

RDJ led, taught, guided, feted; when others sniggered.
Toast-Master, he taught me to charge a professional fee for every engagement.

A mentor to many professionals, he enjoyed to stay in the background and encourage.

He will tell you how to do better, without highlighting what you did wrong.

He connected people, to boost their careers. He wanted none of the accolades.

Lunch; was always a pleasure. His wine had to be at the perfect temperature.

His spoken English, belied his excellent Yoruba. He loved and enjoyed a good laugh.

Coach and Teacher;

“Yet He is not partial to princes,
Nor does He regard the rich more than the poor;
For they are all a work of His hands.

In a moment they die, in the middle of the night;
The people are shaken and pass away without a hand”. Job 14: 19 & 20.

Rest well Richie Dayo-Johnson!
You will definitely be missed.

July 8, 2020

I'm still in shock.....
His voice still echoes in my head.
"Chizoba you can do more, the media has a lot of opportunities to harness" He would say. His mentorship was something I couldn't afford but he was willing to share the knowledge and wisdom with me. He will say "Chizoba you are strong, hardworking, industrious don't let no man push you around".
He send me News 7am everyday. He called me when I was emotionally down, sent me things to read to lighten me up.
A humble man, full of words of encouragement and wisdom.
I will miss you sir, but God knows best.
Rest in peace sir.

July 8, 2020

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I remember googling the best speakers in Nigeria in 2015 and your name popped up amongst others. When I read your profile, I just concluded in my mind that I could never meet you because you were an embodiment of excellence, class and inspiration.

Yet, by some twist of days in 2017, you stumbled on my book, PAIN IS A GIFT and called me from the UK. I thought I was dreaming because it was as though a god had called me. Yet, you showed genuine interest in me and offered to mentor me. You even consented to meet my father in the UK. I still couldn't believe it.

That someone as influential as you are in my line of calling would take so much interest in me to want to mentor me? Yet you kept your word. The next month you came to Nigeria and scheduled a meeting with me and the rest is history.

You were the one who gave me clarity, proper direction and defined my path to me. You were the first to call me an Emotional Intelligence Expert. You introduced me to the Toastmasters that I am so passionate about today. You advised me to attend NBA to improve my speaking skills.

You would often invite me over to your hotel and devote time to coach me thoroughly on my Appearance, Behaviour and Communication..... A. B. C as you would often call it.

RDJ, it was your belief in me that made me grow astronomically. Seeing my mentor show so much conviction in me boosted my confidence. You saw my potential and despite my mistakes, you would often encourage me, telling me that I would definitely get better. You barely allowed me call you with my airtime. Rather, you would call me and then speak to me for hours.

When I asked out of curiosity why you were so interested in me, you said, "I simply see myself in you and I want to assist you." Interestingly, we both have a penchant for quotes and employ the use of storytelling. Little wonder we both admire Les Brown and try to emulate him.

I can't mention all you've done for me RDJ. I admire you alot. You speak so well that one word from your lips can enthrall an audience. Yet, you were the finest communicator I had ever met. To show how passionate you are about my development, you still recommended a renowned psychiatrist to me to follow and read his books just yesterday. If only I knew those were going to be your last words...

It's so painful that you left so soon but I take consolation in the fact that you made a legacy. You've mentored lots of people enough to start a nation and I'm so privileged to be amongst them. Though I owe you a debt I can never repay, I'll lean on the words you often tell me: "Tosin, help others as I have helped you."

Farewell to a Father, Role Model and my number one Mentor

July 8, 2020

Dear RDJ, your legacy lives on. Just from the very day you walked into our class at FRCN Ikeja, you inspired me. Not to now talk about the surname we share. You called me your beloved daughter. Thank you for not forgetting my birthday.Thank you for helping me discover myself. Thank you for teaching me the importance of culture, when you will always insist I respond in Yoruba throughout our call. I miss the Hymns you share with me. You taught me to put God first in all i do. Thank you for trusting me enough to always tell me your next destination. "Hello Miss Johnson" am coming to Nigeria so so day and by so so day I'm leaving for Ghana. RDJ it's sad you didn't wait to see me make you proud. RDJ you didn't wait to fulfil the promise you made to me about CNN. It's hard to say goodbye but I'm happy Heaven gained another Angel. Sleep well sir.

July 8, 2020

Richard is a very good humble and caring in-Law never looked down on anybody and will always welcome you with His beautiful infectious smile anywhere he sees you.. Am yet to come to the reality that you have left us. May His Soul Rest In Perfect Peace. Amen

July 8, 2020

Dear RDJ,
I still cannot believe that I am leaving a tribute to you at this time. My fingers trembling, my heart racing and tears in eyes. I continue to ask why now as if there would ever be a good time to say goodbye. This is too sudden it hurts so deep.
I can remember the first time I saw you back in August 2018, I was star strucked. So this is the Quintessential gentleman. We had some chat and then exchanged some mails. Your key word looking at the reply of a mail was "This is most impressive. All it remains is to get out of your own way"!
I would pay anything to hear your encouraging words again. You left an indelible mark in the world you lived. You are all that and much more.
I miss you Sire.

July 8, 2020

Hmmm still finding it difficult to believe this ... RDJ a father, a teacher , a mentor and indeed a great communicator who made me to realize the person I'm, we have so many unfinished work who will help me with my book writing, who will correct my mistakes , God now who will I talk to on directions that will gives his time and attention just like You❗ who will
give me fatherli advise❗, who will wake me up with early morning quote and inspiration all the plans of putting my work on rape and child abuse into movie is gone death is just so shameless and cheap ❗ take away good people easily without notification 2020 the worst year that can never be forgotten You will forever remain my Mentor .... continue to rest well GREAT ICON ❗

July 8, 2020

RDJ, my heart skipped when I saw the status update that brought me here because I thought it was an update from you. How could you die? You who epitomized the name 'anikulapo', with your larger than life persona.

I first met him in 2013 and from that first encounter at TVC, Lagos, RDJ became a significant part of my life - my mentor who saw beyond my insecurities and called forth gold.
"Everything you is created twice, first in the mind and then in reality" he would say as he urged me to keep creating the future I wanted.
He was always on hand with quotes, messages, articles and advice to help me grow.
He was never too busy to return calls, generous with his time, lavish with words of affirmation and patient with corrections.
A genuine gentleman, a true thought leader and a sensitive mentor.

If I could have one more conversation with you, I would say thank you again and again. I'm however grateful for the privilege of experiencing you. RDJ, you assured me that you were committed to my growth and you kept your word. Your legacy will live on!

July 8, 2020

It is still a shock to me RDJ. You gave me an appointment for 5:45am 9th, July 2020. I was looking forward to that day which is tomorow but I can't believe you have left us. You touched my life positively and I was looking to share my progress with you since we last met. Continue to rest in power until we meet again... RIP RDJ

July 8, 2020

I met him 2 years ago at LeadNurse Africa conference. I was amazed by his words which made me eager to want to learn from him. Words really can’t express how sad I am, and to think I procrastinated texting or calling him till I heard about his demise. He lived a good life, impacting lives and grooming leaders. He left behind incredible legacies which will always remain in our hearts.
The legacy of heroes is the memory of a great name and the inheritance of a great example.” —Benjamin Disraeli

May his soul Rest In Peace

July 8, 2020

My heart is heavy as i write this,i still find it hard to believe he's no more. Daddy Richmond as i fondly call him was a man of great attributes, so kind, welcoming,funny, direct and always willing to help. I remembered vividly,the last time he took me on an interesting topic in class at the National Broadcasting Academy. It was a funfilled interaction class,and afterwards i decided he was going to be my mentor. The last few months was wonderful, knowing that i have someone i could call when the chips were down. He was there to listen,given advice and also scold me where necessary . On the 6th of July, which was my birthday ,he was the first to send me a hbd wish . i didn't know it was the last time i will be getting a message from him. When i heard he passed on, i was devasted and cried my eyes out. Why did you leave this world on my birthday? "Oh death,where is thy string " Heaven has lost a wonderful soul.

Daddy, i already miss you a lot. i look at my phone everyday,hoping you will send me messages of encouragement like you always do. But it dawned on me,you were gone for real.

Continue to rest in the bossom of the Lord,till we meet again.

July 8, 2020

"THE KEY TO IMMORTALITY IS FIRST LIVING A LIFE WORTH REMEMBERING"

It will be impossible to count all the ways you've helped me in my career. You're always proud of the progress I made and always provided me and my colleagues at the Citi Heights Hotel with solutions in the best way you can.

Thank you RDJ

July 8, 2020

How can you be gone so soon? The news of your demise threw me off balance oh RDJ! You’re such an amazing man! I remember our first meeting years back at @poisenigeria you told me Oluwaseun Johnson, that’s my child’s name! I always look forward to seeing you in our Public Speaking programme. You once gave me a topic to speak for 15 minutes and I did! You asked me to work on my podium presence and be bold that you see me being a beautiful facilitator someday‍♀️ oh @askrdjofficial I will surely miss you sir, Rest In Peace ❤️

July 8, 2020

My earliest recollection of Dayo Johnson (we always had to say his full name)was over 4 decades ago,when I was my cousin's ,and his eventual wife,escort from our Grandma's house to Ayinde Giwa street ,where Dayo lived.I was completely amazed as to how two people could be so enamoured of each other and would have to abandon her with him ,as they spent hours talking.

Theirs,was a match made in heaven and the commitment was total and undiluted.

In an age where relationships were fleeting and based on material considerations, this one was different.

Dayo,was a perfect gentleman,a loving father and a very responsible in-law.

I recall days in London ,when they will visit and we will debate everything under the sun.

He was very good company and didn't have a mean streak in him at all.

Though in later years,distance kept us apart,I will always hold fond memories of him.

We take solace in the good name and legacies he has left behind.

May his gentle and distinguished soul,rest in perfect peace.

July 8, 2020

Papi, i always call you. You PUSHED me to be a better person. You inspired and challenged me. You always looked at the bright side of things. Thank you for all you do. Heaven gained another beautiful soul.
Forever in our hearts
ADIEU!!!
RIP

July 8, 2020

Daddy Johnson, it's hard to believe I wont laugh hard at your jokes and listen attentively to your words of wisdom!
You always showed us love. I wish I spoke to you more often.

You were a great man, a lovely father and awesome grandpa!
We will miss you so much but we take solace in knowing that you are resting with the Lord.

Rest on Daddy 2.

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July 26, 2021

How time flies but never forgotten, you'd always be in my heart... Till we meet again. Sleep on RDJ.

July 26, 2021

Unimaginable exit!
365 days like a flash! It is still a mirage.
What's in this life after all?
Adieu!

Gbenga Adeyinka (Jolo)

July 26, 2021

Wow... taken a few days to post again when your birthday came up in my diary and so no ususal birthday greetings to you this year...but I must celebrate you in all your reciprocity, kindness, commitment, dedication and excellence that you have portrayed to so many of us that have touched our lives. still missing you so much that tears come to my eyes as I write this but I will always hold on to the memories and implement what you have taught and showed me over these years ..
Richie, you not being here it's going to take some time, and only time is a healer.. will never forgot you ...

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His Life

July 8, 2020

July 22 1959 - July 06 2020

Richie Dayo Johnson or RDJ as he was fondly called, was a highly sought-after international keynote speaker, experiential consultant and coach on Appearance, Behaviour and Communication. His vast practical knowledge of the Anglo/African environment spans three decades and has worked with a mix of clients ranging from radio, television, corporate organisations, politicians, the military and governments.

Some of his recent satisfied corporate and high net-worth individuals on three continents include the former Governor of Lagos, Akinwunmi Ambode, former governor Babatunde Fashola, his deputy and the entire cabinet, Nigerian Presidential Candidate in 2011, Mallam Nuhu Ribadu, Nigerian Breweries, Exxon-Mobil, England & Wales Cricket Board, NHS, YMCA, HSBC, British Food Standards Agency, Citigroup, MTN, Access Bank, LASAA, The Wheatbaker, LEAP Africa, Windsor Fellowship, Daystar Christian Centre, RCCG Nigeria, UK & Ireland, Terra Kulture, Diana, The Princess of Wales Fund, Commonwealth Business Council, Nottingham County Council, Peace Alliance, UK, London, Islington Business Education, Stonebridge HAT, London Boroughs of Barking & Dagenham, Brent, Wandsworth, Sutton and Croydon.

Based on the dictum that there is something good in everyone and it is the foundation upon which all other great values can be built, RDJ led with a heart aplenty with “hands-on” experience and pragmatic common sense.

An alumnus of the prestigious University of Teesside, Middlesbrough, England, RDJ was a Fellow of the Royal Society of the Arts, a certified coach and an accomplished and certified advanced Toastmaster. He worked at GEC, Newton Aycliffe, County Durham and IBM London before becoming Deputy Managing Director of Universal Communications Group - publishers The Job Paper, London. He spent over 3 years at different locations in Europe as one of the key strategists and presenters on Radio Kudirat – the voice of democracy during the tyrannical years of military despotism in Nigeria. He was also Chairman, Southwark Community Businesses in South London during the inner-city regeneration of the 90’s by the British Government.

RDJ was a lead judge on a weekly television reality programme: “The Debaters” – Oratory, the Power to Change, watched all over the African continent and beyond by millions of viewers. He was the Charter President of Croydon Toastmasters and a past Area Governor, East Surrey and Kent of the esteemed international organisation on effective leadership and communication.

He was until recently an integral part of the transformational team building Radio & TV Continental (best Radio and Television NBMA 2016 Award Winners) and their subsidiaries into one of Africa’s most admired.

A keen wine enthusiast, RDJ was full of life with an infectious positive energy. He was a man of integrity, excellence and perfection who had a heart full of love for people. He gave everyone who met him an immediate sense of worth and dignity regardless of their status in life. He will be sorely missed by all whose lives he impacted around the world.

RDJ or DJ as he was fondly called by his family, was happily married to Funmi and was blessed with three adult children and grandchildren.

So hard to believe that you’re gone!

July 11, 2020

It’s really so hard to believe that you’re gone RDJ!

For days now, I have struggled to put my thoughts together, but I’ll just write this hoping that this hurt will go...

You called me at around 11am on Sunday 5th July for my birthday and we ended up chatting for a very long time about everything else but my birthday. You then advised that I should send a reminder sms the following day to arrange a meet up. A couple of minutes past 3pm you called again and I asked if everything was okay and you mentioned that you forgot to actually say Happy Birthday earlier and we started another round of convo - reminding me of how we met over 15 years ago and how proud you’re of the progress that I’ve made to date. We kept on switching between English and Yoruba language all through the conversation and here I was looking forward to continue at our meet up in person that will sadly never happen!

Coincidentally, I was about to hit send on my reminder sms to you on Monday afternoon, when my friend called from Nigeria to confirm if your demise was true. I screamed NO in disbelief! I still sent my sms regardless and then went on to call your UK line and Whatsapp an hour or so later without any success. Following few calls and enquiries...the sad reality soon hit me!

You were not just a mentor or a coach but you were also a father to me. You always called me Son and I - Dad. So was the amazing relationship we had. You invited me into your home the first time I visited the UK...introduced me to your family and always made sure to invite me over whenever you’re in Nigeria before I moved to the UK. Going through our messages, I found one of your many invites in your usual manner - “I'm in London and might be a good idea to meet up for coffee ☕ “

Knowing you has been life changing! I learnt so many life lessons from you beyond your usual etiquette and modern manners forte. You taught me goal setting and planning ahead of a new year. I remember sharing my plans every December with you until we discontinued it.

One experience that I will never forget in a hurry, was when I was briefly in London for a meeting and Aunty Funmi or Mummy as I often call her, came over to drop a luggage for onward delivery to you in Nigeria. I recall you asking if I opened the luggage when I came over to drop it and I replied “No...why would I?” You then giggled and responded “what about if you just couriered an illicit item?”. I was completely baffled and replied but “it’s yours Dad” and you simply replied...”it doesn’t count, always check every item you travel with!” Your face soon lit up when you saw your well wrapped favourite mug and other essentials in the luggage. You gave me a bear hug, said thank you and squeezed some crisp notes into my palm which I grudgingly accepted albeit with a big smile.

What even hurts the most is that you were only 16 days shy of your 61st birthday. The 22nd of July that holds strong memories for me - the birthday of my only sister who I sadly lost in her prime. I strongly believe that this also drew you and I closer when I surprisingly found out your date of birth whilst creating your Facebook account, when you invited me over, on a visit to Anthony Village in Lagos years ago.

I can go on and on...but I’m consoled by the fact that your exemplary lifestyle and mentorship has been a blessing to me and many others too numerous to mention. We will continue to be shining lights of the values that you instilled in us.

In closing, I’ll end with one of your favourite quotes “At the end of our lives, we won’t regret the things we failed at, but the things we hoped for but never attempted.”

Adieu Uncle Richie...it’s so hard to say good bye! May the almighty God comfort Auntie Funmi and give the rest of the family the strength to bear this irreparable loss. It’s well!

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