EULOGY FOR AVM EKO OSIM DSS, psc(+), mni.
FROM HIS COURSEMATES
Our very dear Eko, our Knight in Shining Armour; one of the main pillars of our regular course - Cadet Military Training Course 3 (CMTC 3), is gone. It's with utmost pain and heavy heart that we, your Course Mates, write this eulogy for you following your sudden and shocking departure from this plane of existence.
When our Course congregated at the Cadets Quarters of the then NAF GTG Kaduna in April 1978 to commence our career, you were one of those who visibly stood out in a crowd of 60 of us, for you were literally a Gold Fish, which has no hiding place. Not necessarily for your striking complexion but due mainly to your gregarious and easygoing nature; traits that pleasantly remained your hallmark throughout your career. As each and everyone of us embarked on our individual career paths, you were one of those that gravitated towards Aircraft Engineering specialty in which you excelled, eventually rising to the peak of your chosen field.
Eko, a lot has expectedly and justifiably been said and written about your benevolence, which permeated across the social strata within and outside the NAF family. It's therefore needless for we your course mates who witnessed it all to over-flog those beautiful attributes of yours. However, we will never forget your gracious acceptance to host the first CMTC 3 Reunion in Calabar; an event which was slated for April 2020 to coincide with the date of our enlistment into the Service. We all knew you didn't volunteer to do so out of being the most affluent amongst us but rather it was obviously borne out of your usual eagerness to play host and joyfully entertain your colleagues.
As we looked forward to that impending re-union with eager anticipation, what no one foresaw was the intrusion of a deadly pestilence, which virtually brought the entire humanity to its knees. The resulting nationwide lockdown inevitably stalled all preparations, which had been made in respect of our Reunion Project. However, when the lockdown was eased towards the end of 2020, you once again stated your resolve that the Calabar Reunion would definitely become a reality this year. Unfortunately, we were taken aback by your post on our Course WhatsAppp Group on 15 February, intimating us that you were proceeding to India, based on medical advise, to undergo a surgical operation. While you enjoined us to thank the Chief of the Air Staff for his magnanimity, there was nothing in the tone of your post to suggest that you might not come back alive from that trip. Instead, you typically sounded very upbeat and entreated us to be ready for a dual event of course Re-union and Thanksgiving to be held on your return. Alas, it was never meant to be when you couldn't make it back alive to Calabar, the Canaan city which you loved so much.
Eko, you raised our hopes so high only to have it dashed because you went to be with the Lord. Our dear course mate, words are not enough to express our sorrow and sense of loss as we commiserate and mourn with your family in this period of their grief. We know we cannot question the will of the Almighty who gives and takes at the times most appropriate to Him. With all sadness we know there can never be another Eko for us again, but in all that we are comforted by the fact that you lived your life to the fullest, irrespective of how short it might seem. We will forever be proud to have had you as a Course Mate and friend. Fare thee well our own dear Eko and God be with thee till we meet again! ADIEU!!
Air Commodore Ibidapo Shomade. Rtd
Course Leader