I have been unable to bring myself to think that I am writing a tribute on Deji. I have struggled to accept the news and still shake my head whenever I think about him. The reality dawned on me finally after witnessing the service of songs.
I still vividly remember my first contact with Deji. He had come for vetting as a pre-condition to have the hand of one of my favorite sisters-in-law in marriage. Lawunmi wanted me to, through the lenses of a man, evaluate his eligibility. Within the first 15minutes, I made up my mind that he was very eligible. I noticed a fiercely determined, in-love gentleman who was going to be very loyal to his wife who was going to stop at nothing to make his wife happy and give her peace of mind. He showed humility, ambition and love for God. Despite making up my mind so soon, we were together for long hours which was a testament to how easy it was to get along with him.
Over time, I wasn’t surprised at his progress and achievements. We were at several family events together and his conduct was always on-point:almost faultless. On one occasion, we had business transaction, even though this has not come to fruition, he was eager to help all the way. He did not withhold his network as some may wont to do. He also had useful business advice and showed his firm belief that God reigns supreme in the affairs of men in respect to success as humans.
Despite not living long enough in our opinion, we submit to God who knows all things and take solace that he is looking down at us from heaven right now and that he had his feet imprinted on the sands of time ticking all the boxes of desirable things icons achieve in the world. We fondly remember his infectious smile, love for all, professionalism, commitment to family and God.
We pray that God be with Lawunmi, the children, his father and siblings as they continue to navigate the journey of life without Deji. Difficult to look forward to the journey but God will go ahead and make it easy and console them as well as all of us. Help us all, o God!
Deji, rest on in the bosom of your Lord. Adieu brother......