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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Ba Gomia Kungwe, 91 years old, born on October 1, 1930, and passed away on October 10, 2021. We will remember him forever.
November 15, 2021
November 15, 2021
Dear Ba, as we called you, it was always a pleasure to meet you, enjoy your wisdom, calm and confident expression. We will miss your encouragement and assurances. Fare thee well till we meet again.
Ma Ceci's Children
November 9, 2021
November 9, 2021
Dear Dad,

The reality of your passing is beginning to sink in a couple of weeks after. I mourn your departure and, in the same breath, celebrate your life. I mourn because of the vacuum your departure has created, a vacuum that will seldom be filled by anyone. I celebrate because of the imperfect but very full and rewarding life you lived; a life with numerous turns that were often dictated by circumstances often not of your choosing but often embraced with uncanny stoicism and poise.
I knew you as a father much later than kids would typically know their father. As a kid growing up in Naka village, I knew your father and mother as my parents. It took a while for me to realize that they were my grandparents. That realization never made a big difference in me because of the unconditional love and care your parents accorded me. Moving to Bamenda in the late 70s to continue primary education was necessitated by the Chomba-Bali rivalry. There were reports of skirmishes in the bordering farmlands and (out of abundance of caution) parents and guardians of kids from Naka and Ngwatkahn decided to withdraw their kids from P.S Chomba, the lone primary school in the area at the time. Moving to Bamenda to continue primary education was the lone choice I had, and which my grand parents reluctantly accepted. I joined the family in Bamenda where, along with my siblings, I continued primary education. Living in Bamenda almost always seemed to me like being at home away from home. This was articulated very visibly in my endearing and understandable inclination to and predilection for Naka. I recall there was hardly a Friday I returned from school at C S Big Mankon and never went to Naka for the weekend. Also, I hardly spent an additional day after the end of each school term in Bamenda. I would be off for Naka.
I share this slice of my experience because it later defined my perception of you and also in some ways had long-lasting implications to me and the nucleus family. The nature of your job never gave room for the fatherly presence that kids typically need in their formative years. As I look back to those years, I can say (like I told you in one of our conversations) that I am proud of you and your imperfect effort to make life better to the family. I recall how you would provide for your parents at Naka and the bigger Kungwe Family at Njenka in Bali routinely. Every December, you made sure you sent groceries to them. You were also quick to cater for their medical needs. Your generosity in ensuring that every child who grew up in your home (irrespective of whether they were biologically yours or not) went to school was remarkable. You did what you considered right and never looked back until your last days. You were quick to enroll the few of us who qualified for secondary education to the best school in the area. It became difficult to afford the same attention to others who came after us. Your business efforts had suffered a hit. It was a test of your tenacity, and we saw the real you during that period. That is the period that unveiled the your ability to withstand difficulties . You endured adversity with uncommon finesse. It was difficult to know or see a difference between when you were afloat and when your endeavors went under the water. On a more close-up, daily contexts, it was never easy to know what made you upset. You maintained a calm, endearing demeanor most of the time. You were as well a man of very few words. You held back a lot in you and kept others guessing. I guess some of us inherited this character trait from you, and while it may be pre-mature to see it as good or bad, it appears you had little control over it.
You celebrated your 90th birthday in October last year in the Naka congregation, a church house you worked relentlessly for the past twenty years to give a face-lift. What a befitting farewell to your maker after working in His vine-yard. As we prepare to send you off to your maker, I believe you will rest in true peace. Thank you and thank you again for your life and the legacy you leave behind.

Victor N. Gomia, Son.







November 8, 2021
November 8, 2021
My Grandfather was a very kind person. I remember visiting him in Bali when I was in Cameroon and he would tell me a lot of stories. Although I am sad because of his passing, I am also happy that he is in a better place now
November 6, 2021
November 6, 2021
"My dear Papa as I called you, it has been an amazing blessing to have known you and to become a part of your life and lives of your great boys. I believe you have been a super proud dad to leave not just sons but also daughters in law who came into your life and became your daughters. I am so blessed to be one of them.
I got very close to you during my stay in Bali/Bamenda. At first I was hesitant to be in your presence because of your imposing nature. I thought I could never be able to carry out a long conversation without overthinking on how to go about it. When I got to know you better, you always made me feel comfortable and I always enjoyed being in your company whenever I visited you in Naka. I learned many things about you and family in the many conversations we had. You expressed yourself freely with me and you would tell me what you enjoyed eating and explained why. Sometimes you would apologize on behalf of others for things I didn't think were necessary for you to apologize for because I believe in life things we have no control over happen. When such things in life happen we ask for God's guidance, wisdom and strength to accept them and move on. In fact, you were a very calm, soft spoken, very clean and orderly man in both your physical presence and your manners. Ni Victor, the kids and myself are truly blessed to have talked with you on the phone a few days before your moving on to eternity. Thank you so much papa . It has been a great blessing to have known you. All the beautiful moments and memories shared with you will live in my heart forever. You lived a very simple and humble life. You always put God at the center of everything you said and did. I recall the many instances I came to Naka congregation for worship service, a congregation you were a pillar of (instrumental in raising funds for the church house and serving as a dedicated CMF member and the congregation's treasurer for decades). Although I mourn your passing away, I celebrate, praise and glorify the most High God for His faithfulness in His word and promises of long life upon the lives of His faithful children. Papa, your life was a living testimony of God's promise. I weep as you leave this earth but I celebrate even more because I know you are now resting in eternal glory with Jesus.
I love you dearly, your beautiful memories will live in us forever. We will all greatly miss you Papa. Sleep well in the eternal peace of our lord Jesus Christ!
Adieu!"

Nelly Tutuwan Gomia
November 4, 2021
November 4, 2021
On Tuesday October 5th when I came to see you in the hospital, you asked me why I had to risk the trip from Douala after work to Yaoundé. You told me you were not going to die now, insinuating that if you had to die, you would have died two weeks back, specifically reminding me of the night that you could not sleep. You gave me all the assurance and that I should not bother. That was the assurance I took back to Douala not knowing that it was going to be my last time hearing the voice I have been hearing for almost 50 years.

What gladdens my mind is the fact that you endured pain for less than 24 hours. This had always been your wish as you kept saying you didn’t want any of us to suffer should you be unable to carry yourself.

A brave and hardworking man I have always known you to be. And that braveness stayed in you right till your last second on earth. The story of your life has always been very fascinating. You always stood your calmness despite the many tough times you went through, be it as “moto boy” between Bamenda and Ekok in the fifties, the courage to explore the unknown by trying to join the then Nigerian military, an adventure that was thwarted by the fact that you didn’t have 5 pounds to give as kickback to the medical officer who was doing pre-recruitment medicals.

That didn’t stop your courage to forge ahead. On your way back from Enugu you ventured into joining planation workers in the then Fernando Po. While there you carried on without your parents knowing your whereabouts despite being a lone child. From a plantation worker, through a steward to a driver (driving the first taxi in (Fernando Po) and later opening one of the most popular Bars in Malabo.

Ba as you journey to the world beyond, let it be that the best is reserve for the end. Your gentle words of advice and the stories of your past and the challenges stay in me as a great wealth of knowledge. Your calm, gentle, and meek disposition, coupled with your unperturbed approach to life’s hurdles is a great lesson. No matter how hot a situation was, you remained calm and gentle in your words and attitude sometimes even in needful situations. That was your style and it earned you an additional two scores on earth as prescribed by the bible. I will not write much about your rich life. I will only thank God for making me your son and you my dad.

As you go to have a deserved rest in the bosom of the lord, do know that these adopted children of yours in the last two decades will always miss you: your daughter-in-law, Ericka, my wife with whom you were very close and spent most of your time when you were in Yaoundé; Franck, the house “chef” who made sure breakfast, lunch, and dinner were always available as per your choice; Silvie, your steward who was always there to make sure your hygiene was in place and above all my driver Mbi, who was always ready at anytime to drive to Bamenda and back because of your health concern. Dr Kazie and Kamga of the Central hospital became your children for the last 10 years. To all these people I say thank you.

Nwana Pius Bobga (Uncle Doh as you are fondly called), you started crying on the phone when you saw papa in pains during the last 24hrs. You had never seen him in that pain for over a decade that you stood by him during all his health challenges. Your tears on the phone signaled to me that you saw papa’s end coming even-though I decided to live in denial. This brother of mine for the past 30 years became Papa’s closest son despite not being his biological son. I want to use this opportunity on behalf of our entire family to say a special thank you to you “Uncle Doh”. Wherever papa is resting, I can say with all confidence that he will intercede for you always.

As you go into the world beyond, do join our late mothers, sisters and fore-fathers to continue to intercede for us. Do tell them you stayed back to see baby Kenna come to join the family.
I remember last April when you had come to see her, the only thing you said in tears was that you think it was time for you to go. As you will tell those who went before you that you saw and carried her. She will only grow to see those pictures with her in your arm.

I can write and write and write but it will not express the joy I have in my life that I had you as father and that you lived such a fulfilled life.
Adieu dad.
Your Son Manna.
 
November 4, 2021
November 4, 2021
Beloved uncle,




You cannot imagine, the grief you left us. I in particular, when I only think, I will never see you anymore.

Who will be there, for us.? Who will solve our problems, as you did with much calmness, punctuality and success.?  

The entire Ntangtang's family, will forever live to mourn you.

Your last statement was that, grand pa asked you to take care, of us. Which you did unfailingly.

Greet them all, Nahba, Guté and Mbut, with the rest.


Rest in perfect peace.

Adieu, Papa...


Agnes Ntangtang.
November 4, 2021
November 4, 2021
Papa can't believe i will never see or hear from you again. I will always remember those special smile of yours,the caring heart and the warm embrace you gave me. You were the first person to carry me when I was brought into this world and that means alot to me. I will never forget all the advices you gave me while growing up for there have been my pilar in life. Words can never express what you meant for me papa. Grandpa your legacy will live for generations to come and you will always be remembered for there can never be another like you to replace you in our heart. Go well our Hero.

Your granddaughter Andin
November 2, 2021
November 2, 2021
It’s with deep regrets and sorrow am writing this testimony with tears on my eyes . I knew my father at the age of 28. The short Time I stayed with him, I learned a lot from him. Father was a man of love and long suffering. He was so humble and he was a familly man. He was indeed a father. Even when he was provoked, he was never angry. He took good care of us. I know that father has gone to be with the lord. May your soul rest in peace for your fought the good fight of faith.                                                        Babila George B. (Son).
November 2, 2021
November 2, 2021
"Ceci! I have gone to Yaounde for check up so do not look for me". Pa, who will call for me again? With whom will I discuss important things in the family again?. During my youthful period, I often spent time with you during the holidays, journeying around town from savanna street to old town, old town to metta quarter and finally to Naka. You gave me aid as a little sister in one thing or the other ; helping me to become what I am today. Thank you for everything. Pa fare ye well, safe journey. Till we meet again to part no more!                       Cecilia Fomba (sister).
November 2, 2021
November 2, 2021
Ba Kungwe, we lived like brothers and not like in-laws. I enjoyed that and thought we were to be like that for long. I did not know it was just for an hour. One thing is good that is to say everybody respects the will of God. So brother, bye.           Pa Fomba Aiden.
November 2, 2021
November 2, 2021
Ba Kungwe, we lived like brothers and not like in-laws. I enjoyed that and thought we were to be like that for long. I did not know it was just for an hour. One thing is good that is to say everybody respects the will of God. So brother, bye.   Pa Fomba Aiden
November 1, 2021
November 1, 2021
A good reputation is better than a precious ointment..." ( Eccl 7:1a) If given the opportunity, we would have to write a booklet about a man who was selfless, calm, soft spoken , reserved, etc etc. we saw Ba and my father Ba Fonka get along in a way that keeps us wondering if actually they were mere friends. Yes indeed, this kind of friendship we are still to see. Who would we see coming home with a plastic full of eggs, sardine, pear, and milk for us to *prepare breakfast for yourself and our father"? Who will come to ask him out for a delicious meal in this and that restaurant? Who would he be going to Naka to meet? Thank you daddy Manna and Mommy Ericka for adding a more concrete bond to the relationship between these two fathers. Your great bond and friendship has also built in us the special attachment as children to one another. We will continue together where you left off.

We were together on Sunday and you asked us to keep that your Palm wine since you were on drugs. We did, then on Tuesday on your sick bed in the hospital when I entered, you said you felt good seeing us around and that you won't die, not even here in Yaounde. "Take care of the children and stay well with your husband and family...", you added with these very comforting and reassuring words from a kind-hearted father. We left the hospital with great hope that you'd get back home to us but God decided that you rather meet Him in His peaceful home. Fare thee well Ba, we would always remember you.
Mbotiji Grace on behalf of Ba Fonka's children and grandchildren
October 31, 2021
October 31, 2021
From Elizabeth Nyonka'a Ntangntang

Fare Thee well Papa!

I am stronger today because of the foundation I had living with your beloved Mom and my fathers auntie, Nah’Ba, in Naka from the tender age of 5 to 11 when she passed away in 1988. You treated me like one of your daughters. You were the first person I remember addressing as “Papa”. I received tender love from Nah;Ba and the entire family and still cherish all the beautiful experiences I had growing up in Nakah. I remember our last meeting and what we discussed when I came to bid you farewell prior to traveling to the U.S. I have communicated your wish to the family. We celebrate your life even as we mourn your death, Papa. Rest In Peace.
Elizabeth

Nyonka’a Ntangtang
Pittsburg, PA USA.
October 31, 2021
October 31, 2021
From Valentine Asongwe, Grand Son

Papa the love you gave and your generous way is remembered with affection everyday. If we have forgotten to show our gratitude enough for all the things you did, We're thanking you now. Your life was a blessing, your memory a treasure, you are loved beyond words and missed beyond measure.

Valentine Asongwe, Washington, DC
October 31, 2021
October 31, 2021
From Professor Charles Fokunang, Cousin/Grand son

Ba Gomia Kungwe meant different things to me at different intervals. As a kid, I knew him as Ni Dodo. He was a beloved cousin, the first son of my maternal uncle. He later became Doh when he succeeded his father who had been my uncle and grandfather. Therefore, I knew him the past three decades as Doh. In all these capacities Doh stood out as a towering example of calmness, humility, and grace. He inspired me in many ways. He was a gentle man by many standards; softspoken, often very quiet and reserved but very observant and analytical. He engaged in entrepreneurship and self-employment at a very young age and later flourished. We counted ourselves privileged when we saw breakable plates and cars for the first time. The pride of seeing these things from our own was even more exciting. We saw the first breakable plates from Ni Dodo when he returned from Fernando po. We later saw cars for the first time again from him and Ni Adolf. It was a genuine source of pride that our own were among the first to bring them to Bali. Doh was an envy of Naka. No other person had his own car or truck as we now know it. Doh was a man of few words but very benevolent in nature. He was very interested in kids who loved school. That's why he had interest in me and supported me in many ways in my student days. He supported all the late dad and grand dads wives, especially my own grand mum, kah charlie. Doh Kungwe never failed to call me just to find out how l was doing. What a great cousin, and Grand Dad. Adieu Ni Dodo. RIP.

Prof. Charles Fokunang.
October 30, 2021
October 30, 2021
My dearest grand father,you have left us to the journey of no return.I knew a day like this will come but I wasn’t expecting it this soon , I have always prayed to God to grant you long life because all this years you have been the sweetest father and grandfather I have ever had you treated every child with No discrimination, your love knows no boundaries chaiii grandfather who will advise me again and tell me to be patient in this life? Who will still call me Sammy and tell me the sweet stories of the pass, including your own experiences , the stories and life theories of carrying small money (cash ) with you along each time you are traveling or walking, Who will always take his phone and dial my number just to ask me how I am doing with the family... up to your dieing moment you still asked me about all your grand children and great grandchildren. GrandFather I will really miss you but God knows best continue to Rest In Peace

Your Grandson
  Sama Bertrand
October 30, 2021
October 30, 2021
Ni George as we fondly called you since the year 1973 when we lived in the same neighborhood with you at "meta quarter" in Bamenda. Your selflessness, quietness , simplicity and self discipline made it difficult for us to find anything wrong in addressing you the way we did. You were naturally huge physically and psychologically, in the sense that you always made sure that whenever you were with your Bali Nyonga friends like Ni Ndanji (Savannah), Ni Philip Fokwa, and Ni Paul Sunyin ( my brother in law) all of blessed memory, you never made noise, but in all your meetings saw to it that all went well for everyone present. A man of very few words you were though very observant and meticulous. A very silent organizer. Even your own voice seemed to be noisy to you , infact one needed to be very near to you to get what you had to say most of the time. Very peaceful and friendly and for the sake of not hurting the girls you couldn't call their names, you called all : "Ngondam" . Your very caring nature made you even at your very ripe age blessed with an extraordinary memory always asked some of us each time you saw us about the fate of your late friends' widows and kids. We thank God for your long sweet life in which you blessed and led so many. Sleep on our "Anya" as the Bali people would call your kind. To God be the glory.
           Angeline Yetna (Ngondam)
October 30, 2021
October 30, 2021
Dear grandpa,
It’s hard for me to accept that I’ll one day return from school and I won’t see you at home. I could never imagine that the evening we left the house to go to the hospital was the last day you were ever going to see the house. You were always strong and you even walked to the car and I just told myself it’s a minor issue. When I was leaving for school I came to the hospital to tell you bye and you were looking so much better. You were even able to sit and talk to me and I was happy that you looked better but little did I know that the Lord had other plans for you. Rest well grandpa. I’ll miss you.
      Your grandson, Karel Manna
October 29, 2021
October 29, 2021
Dear Papa, it's so sad am writing this as memories to keep of you. I wept in the hospital when I saw you so weak and frail. I noticed you were no longer the one I took care of and we always chatted back a few days at home.

Papa, I remember all what you told me and I am promising you now that I will keep them. You told me that you were very happy with me, the way I took care of you for the last year's and bathe you during your last days. You told me that I should note one thing: That I was your son and you were at the same time my own son from the way I took care of you. You told me that real and true children are not just biological and that you found me a real father to you too. You told me you were very happy I was part of your family and told me never ever to abandon your family. This promise, I am going to keep and will respect it especially because I have been accept and treated like a true son of the family. My brother and wife and the entire family have been real parents to me too. I won't fail you.

Just know Papa that I found real love in you, being with you and the advice you gave me always was gold. I have enjoyed real fatherhood being with you. I won't weep again, because you have been raised to glory as a kind, humble and wonderful father.
Rest in Peace and watch over us
Your adopted son: Doh
October 29, 2021
October 29, 2021
Our great, soft spoken and kind hearted papa, it's heart breaking to know l won't be able to see your always cheerful face and listen to your soothing words and jokes. Your presence in my life made me forget my dad passed on 2 decades ago. You taught us that family isn't all about blood links but one in which abides True love, affection and being one another's keeper. Life by your side had been so peaceful and I really can't remember any dull moment. I celebrate you today papa for you remain a living monument and trust your legacy lives on. Rest well Ba and we'll Forever miss you.
NAHBILA Yvonne ( daughter-in-law's sister)
October 29, 2021
October 29, 2021
It took me almost 40minutes after midnight that early Sunday morning driving across town from one Pharmacy to another in search of your drugs. Little did I know that the medications were never to be attended to as you passed on to glory less than 35 minutes after I got them.                My dear Dad, it is so hurting putting how I feel right now into writing. The void you have left in my heart is so big and I have been wondering how I am going to cope with your departure.       You were such a nice, compassionate and soft spoken man; someone I never saw angry through out your existence. In fact, I believe all these attributes made you find favour in the hands of the lord which earned you such a fulfilled lifetime. You were a hustler Ba! Venturing into so many businesses and activities that could put food on the table for your family. I truly appreciated and admired your resilience and sense of composure when faced with the numerous challenges and difficulties encountered there in.                 I thank you for being there to see and watch all your Children grow to attain adulthood and parenthood. Your grandchildren have been asking so many questions to me about your transition to eternity and I am short of words to answer them.    Ba who will call me again to ask how I am doing as far as my health is concerned? It pains a lot! I hope this brief illness that snatched you away from us would have shut all doors to health issues in the family. As you move on Papa, we are going to miss you lots. May you find rest in the bosom of the lord and as you join our mothers( Ma Gla, Ma Grâce, Ma Chri) and the rest, continue to intercede and pray for us.                                     Adieu Papa! Dinga Pius Gomia (son).
October 29, 2021
October 29, 2021
Dear Papa, it's so sad am writing this as memories to keep of you. I wept in the hospital when I saw you so weak and frail. I noticed you were no longer the one I took care of and we always chatted back a few days at home.

Papa, I remember all what you told me and I am promising you now that I will keep them. You told me that you were very happy with me, the way I took care of you for the last year's and bathe you during your last days. You told me that I should note one thing: That I was your son and you were at the same time my own son from the way I took care of you. You told me that real and true children are not just biological and that you found me a real father to you too. You told me you were very happy I was part of your family and told me never ever to abandon your family. This promise, I am going to keep and will respect it especially because I have been accept and treated like a true son of the family. My brother and wife and the entire family have been real parents to me too. I won't fail you.

Just know Papa that I found real love in you, being with you and the advice you gave me always was gold. I have enjoyed real fatherhood being with you. I won't weep again, because you have been raised to glory as a kind, humble and wonderful father.
Rest in Peace and watch over us
Your adopted son: Doh
October 29, 2021
October 29, 2021
From the autobiography of our illustrious Father/Grandfather, Ba Gomia Kungwe, we gather that he was a man of substance and unshakable character. He is an example of a man who gave his all and all to the service of his kindred and mankind in general, who in return received the abundant blessing of his creator to live a fruitful and fulfilling life. Ninety one years of age is a special gift from God the Father because it goes beyond His own very prescription of three scores and ten, ie 70 - 80 years of lifetime.

So, we should celebrate our Father/Grandfather's life with Thanksgiving, Adoration and Joy for what the Lord has done for him.

However, a little tear from our human perspective will be understood by the Lord Himself because He too wept at the tomb of friend Lazarus. I admire the effervescence of Unity and Love that has engulfed the the Kungwe Family as their great Leader and mentor transits graciously to meet his Creator. This Love and Unity is undoubtedly the Legacy he leaves behind for us. March on triumphantly great soldier of Christ Jesus, in the company of the Heavenly Hosts and Angelic choir, to the Place of Rest the Lord has prepared for you. FARE THEE WELL TILL WE MEET TO PART NO MORE.
October 29, 2021
October 29, 2021
Dear Dad, My inspiration, my Advicer, one of the memories which I am not sure will be forgotten so soon is seing you breathing your last breath on earth,

48 hours to your to your last moments on earth, I remembered Ni Doh giving Telling you no take the drugs and be careful not to vomit it out and you laughed and trying to remind us how strong you are and making us understand that you are not that sick to vomit while taking medication, that is the strong man I have always known all my life as a Dad, you will never say never until it's over

Your death is one of the most difficult things I have gone through. 

I remember when ever I visit you during your usual visit to yde, you will always have stories to tell, stories about your youthful days, stories about the recent happenings in Bda. you will always call from time to time to check on our warfare

I am so fortunate and blessed to have you as my Father.  There are not words to express your influence in my life.  It is through your life example that I learned to be the father and husband that I am today

You were so tolerant and loving, I have never seen you angry, your whole life to me has been a lesson and an inspiration to me

You showed us strength and love right up until your last moments.
your legacy will reign forever. Till we meet again.
ADIEU PAPA
Emmanuel Gomia (SON)
October 29, 2021
October 29, 2021
By  Anyim Esthel Gomia (Granddaughter)

Dear Grandpa,
   I never had the opportunity to spend time with you or know you better. But at least I had a chance to see you once and that was enough for me. my father called and told me I was going to meet with my grand father, I was so excited to finally meet you that I even confused the road to my house. We were on our way, and finally arrived there. I had already prepared a long list of things we were going to discuss together just to find out that you were not feelling too well. I was so sad. And when it was time that I had to go and talk to you, you actually spoke to me in the mother tongue, though I did not understand anything, but I know that all you said to me was out of love. I went back home that day with joy and happiness of finally meeting my grand father. Where ever you may be Grandpa, I know you are filled with joy to see people gathered in honor of your stay on Earths, but I want to guarantee you that you will always be in our hearts. May your soul rest in peace.
  Anyim Esthel Gomia (Granddaughter)
October 29, 2021
October 29, 2021
By Asongwe Valentine ( Grand Son)



Papa the love you gave and your generous way is remembered with affection everyday,If we have forgotten to show our gratitude enough for all the things you did, We're thanking you now,Your life was a blessing, your memory a treasure, you are love beyond words and missed beyond measure. continue to rest in the lord.
October 29, 2021
October 29, 2021
Oh Ba! It took me unaware on Sunday morning when I heard of your sudden departure. I couldn’t believe it was true. I think of when I had problems with my husband , we were moving together and when I turned around and saw you people behind me I knew I was blessed with a beautiful family. Now you people are all gone leaving me alone. When I have another problem, who will I see to help me? Ba! You have ran a good race, fought a good fight and I know you are resting with the lord. Till we meet again to part no more, greet Na Kehsiga for me. RIP Ba.                                Sister( Anna Gomia).
October 29, 2021
October 29, 2021
Ba we spoke on phone 3 days before you left this world and you told me that you were feeling fine eating well and that you were more worried about ( your grand children ) . Going to school and I told you they were already in school ,and you told me you were very happy about that . Little did I know that was our last conversation .
   Ba it is always hard to say goodbye byo a love one because we will no longer have you physically in our lives. But this time I am at peace because you fought a good fight , you finish the race you kept the faith .( 2Tim 4:7)
 Ba though you are leaving this world at the ripe age of 90 plus I will still miss you passionately ,I have lost a hero and mentor . I miss you dearly and I know you are in a better place and preparing a place for us all . I love you and rest in perfect peace Ba
      Bahlabim Valentine
      (Son)
October 29, 2021
October 29, 2021
World alone cannot express the pains we feel as a result of your departure . When I was in school and you took ill daddy called me and told me you were under oxygen . I prayed and believe ferevently that God will heal you .He rather answered by taken you away from us , you have struggle much maintaining your health you fought for your life I remember all the times and memories we shared .it is just like yesterday but now you are gone .I wish to say thank you once more as you to the world of no return . Your memories sharll never depart from me but will be forever embedded in my heart . Fare well Papa .
Nahbila Ashley
(Granddaughter)
October 29, 2021
October 29, 2021
Dearest Grandfather most caring and most loving . The highest grandpa that showed me love even when my things got burn on the 23/10/2021in PSS Mankok .Papa you gave me 20000 frs to buy my new things, Papa now that you are gone who will do that for me again . Grandpa you will forever be in our heart like saying "the old has gone he new has come".so grandpa I pray that may your soul rest in perfect peace and may the almighty Lord bless and guide you
Kemvi Micah
(Grandson)
October 28, 2021
October 28, 2021
By Emelda Tengeng (Granddaughter)

Death is a hard reality of life we have to accept though it hurts to be departed from our love ones we just have to accept cause God has made it to be so. Grandpa ''papa'' i am sad that i will never see you or listen to your voice over the phone, i will surely miss your encouragements and inspirations. You where my grandfather and my father and I am glad i had someone like you in my life. I admired the manner in which you lived your earthly life papa, never had I seen you angry or raise your voice at someone. You were always calm in all situations. These were the qualities i really admired in you . Your love for God and your zeal to do God's work, your patience, kindness and understanding are examples to be copied.
Even though you are gone , you remain loved forever in our hearts and memories.
Farwell PAPA!
Say hi to my mom, my brother, my sister and my grandma. Till me meet again grandpa!
Emelda ( granddaughter)
October 28, 2021
October 28, 2021
My dear grandpa,
Given that i process pain slowly, my mind has still not accepted the fact that you are no more. Every time i look at your pictures and watch people post pictures of you, i keep asking myself if it is for real that you are no more. The earlier years of my life were the ones i spent with you. Though i was very young, i remember they were good years filled with so much love.
One of my best memories with you is the time i had to reach you how to use your mobile money account. I loved the fact that you trusted me to be able to help you out with that.
I wish i had more time with you. More time to be a grand daughter and for you to be my grandfather. I guess i still have more time as my mind is yet to process and get to the point where i believe you are no more.
I pray the host of heaven receives you. Rest in peace "Papa".
Say hi for me to my mum, big brother, and grandmas.
Till we meet again!

Nardin Tengeng (Grand daughter)
October 28, 2021
October 28, 2021

By Mrs Manna Ericka Daughter-in-law

Oh papa ! My father, friend and consellor. The one who gave me reasons to smile amidst tears. Where are you? I remember the times you took me into your bedroom, just to encourage,
appreciate and assure me of your unflinching love and support all the way.

So unassuming and appreciative you were. No effort from those around you was ever minimised. In our conversations, you always informed me about every kind gesture from those who served you in the house. You made me a queen as you always tagged me "intelligent and hard working". Those words melted my heart and gave me reasons to push on more. Who will make me feel like that queen in the family again?

I was your daughter indeed. How many fathers-in-law would take their daughter-in- law to see a Doctor in order for her to have her own child? I will never forget the day you bought palm wine, a pot and took me to that mama, to help me through infertility. Despite your age and position in the community, you stooped so low, just to to make me happy. A great man you were indeed with a heart of gold.

To me, you have always been the dad that I lost 20 years ago. Coming into your family gave me real joy as I found another mum and dad. Unfortunately, the cold hands of death snatched Ma Mantan Grace, my mum and friend barely a year after I knew her.Though a difficult pill to swallow, your presence and love remained my greatest consolation. Today, you are gone and I have again become a complete orphan. Oh God! help me.

Your dream came true the day you set your eyes on Kenna. Little did I know you had hidden tears because you had not seen my own child. Your joy could not be hidden as you publicly declared "I have seen what I have been waiting for all these years. I can now rest in peace". These words sank deep and meant a lot to me each time you told people who came to see the baby. It didn't increase my love for you, but only confirmed the feelings I already had for you. Kenna, became " Ngondam Ba" (Ba's new wife), who had returned. You could not stay for 5 hrs without seeing her. She may not grow to know you, but I'm thankful to God for the time you spent with her.

Today you are no more. I wonder what Uncle Doh, Sylvie, Franck, Mbi, Oumarou Nadine, Karel, Zephrinus, Joyce, Cristine, Serena, Naura Perez, Kenna and others who were so fond of you are going through. Your presence with us made life so sweet and lively. The house is so quiet without you. Sometimes, I open your room as usual before coming to the reality that you are no more.

My soft spoken daddy, man of the people and peace maker, today you are resting from your labour. I know your spirit lives on and will help the family to live in peace, unity and love as you so desired.

On that faithful day we took you to the hospital, little did we know you will never return home. Even on that hospital bed, you didn't stop thanking us for the love and care. I saw life gradually ebbing away from you, but your strength gave us hope. I am however convinced you were ready to leave as you rested just a few hours after the pastor's prayer.

As you rest on Dad, we know heaven has gained another angel. If one could live forever, we would wish that for you. Like Paul, we declare, you lived for Christ and your death is gain.

My hero, my shining star, as you rest on Ba, I love you dearly and forever keep you in my heart.

Mrs Manna Ericka
Daughter-in-law
October 27, 2021
October 27, 2021
Papa its hurts so much to know that you are gone forever.You were the best father in law to me.In as much as I cry your demise, I celebrate you and miss the beautiful moments we shared in Naa'ka and Yaounde. Papa continue resting in the lord.I will forever miss you. Your Daughter-in-law :Dinga Elizabeth
October 27, 2021
October 27, 2021
Grandpa,as we cry your passing on,we will miss you and the happy moments we spent together. Grandpa we know you are in heaven watching over us. So rest in perfect peace Grandpa. We love you. Your Grandchildren: Anye Dinel , Bengha Miguel-Shawn , Kehdinga Awesome-Blessed and Nahsima Kehmia Pearl Dinga.
October 27, 2021
October 27, 2021
My sweet father, iam so saddened as to why the Lord would have to take you from us so soon. It is still like a dream to me. You were the most loving and caring father any child could wish for. After all the disappointment I gave you first my failures in school and having a baby(Andin)at home just to name a few, you stood by me and showed me unconditional love and protection. You were a dad for all and your departure leaves a gab in our hearts that can never be filled. Rest well Papa and know the family you left behind will always stay strong and as one. We love and appreciate you for everything. You will always be in our hearts my king and father.
Your daughter Ma Bisona Caroline.
October 27, 2021
October 27, 2021
Dr. Gomia...
May fond memories of Ba continue to enlighten your mind and inspire your life's path. My sincere condolences for the loss of such a great gift to your family and country.

Kind regards,
Kula Maria Thompson-Williams
Delaware State University
October 26, 2021
October 26, 2021
  By MA CELINE ( WIFE)

MY HERO, MY SOUL MATE IS GONE!
 

   It's still like a dream to me but I pray God wakes me up from the sleep because I can't really explain what happened till today. It is really hard for me to believe that you are no longer here. Words cannot really describe how this makes me feel that you have passed on to the other side. Though I wish you could still be here with me!!


I felt so heart broken on that morning of 7th October, when the first call I received was to inform me that you were admitted in the hospital. I took a bus immediately for Yaounde. I met you and you were looking very strong though on the bed but I had hopes that you will live again. Yet to my greatest surprise I came to realize that as time passed your condition kept changing until that early Sunday morning of the 10th of October 2021 that the Lord called you to eternity.

  Daddy you left at a time when I needed you most. Even if you had to die, why now?Why oh God help me! How I wish money or my tears could wake you up again! Why did you do this to me daddy?

  You were a remarkable man, dependable, loving and caring.
You were the center of my world. You meant just a lot to me! You made me laugh, you made me smile, you were my companion, you were my best friend,you were my father ... and you were a wonderful husband from start till where you left me. But like the saying goes "If it's the will of God, then God, let thy will be done"
   For ever you will live on in my heart and mind, you will for ever live in my thoughts.

With love, I will remember you.
I am so grateful to God for the most beautiful times we had together and I will always cherish our memories forever.
   Our dearest love, I will keep in my heart forever !!  REST IN PEACE MY SOUL MATE .
         
  MA CELINE ( WIFE)
October 26, 2021
October 26, 2021

Posted by Lum Joyceline(Daughter Inlaw)on October 26, 2021
I grew up without a father figure around me,but having you made me feel complete on that part. Thought we rarely spend time together but I loved you like a father i never had,each day i prayed for God to give u long life so i get to hv good moment with u, but what I noticed was God looked around His precious garden and saw it empty,and looking down on earth He saw ur tired face and knew no medicine could handle that. So God decided to call u close to Him so u can have that joy,peace and eternal rest by Him. Papa it pains to know u are no more,and I believe u leaving us now was for a purpose which must be accomplish by the Grace of God. You were a Hero and died a Hero ,so I won't cry but celebrate ur life,farewell Daddy until we meet to part no more.
October 26, 2021
October 26, 2021
By Nahbom Manka'a Micheala Gomia and Mbongeh Aariela Gomia (Grand Daughters)


Dear Granddad, knowing you was the most precious gift we ever had, you were so loving and caring, we were preparing to come and spend Holidays with you in bda, but due to the crisis you had to came over to yde, we never had the opportunity to spend much time together due to the crisis but the few moments we spent with you will never be forgotten, we will always make you proud where ever you are, rest in peace Grandpa. we love you
October 26, 2021
October 26, 2021
By Nkonyuko Edwine Gomia (SON)

daddy it is with a heavy hearts that we grieve your departure to the world beyond,even though we grieve and miss you.we are grateful to God almighty for the wonderful family, memories and lesson's learn.i will forever have you in my prayers we miss you. We little knew that morning that God was going to call to your name.in life we loved you dearly in death we do the same.                        it broke our hearts to loose you you did not go alone.for part of us go with you the day God calls you home.       You left precious memories your love is still our guide.And though we cannot see you you are always by our side.                   Our family chain is broken. and nothing seems the same.but as God calls us one by one the chain will link again.......rest in peace pa Bali.

(SON)
October 26, 2021
October 26, 2021
By Munyonga Clovis Gomia (SON)

Dad it hurts so much to think I will never see you again but I know you will always be with me through out.Thank u so much daddy for everything you have done for me all these years,i couldn't imagine what life would have been without you.You are everything I wished for, and the good memories we shared will remain in my heart forever.I will missed our jokes,our chats, and all the lovely moment.They may be some odds but i promise to make things right especially now that u are gone,honestly Looking back now I wish I could have told you all the things I wanted to say, because the shock of you living us hit me so badly,cause ur last days on earth was hard for me,but you fought like a Hero that u were. You were such an amazing FATHER, HUSBAND,and SON.Your grandchildren and i will miss you so much, Rest in the bossom of Lord Daddy you will never be forgotten.I LOVE YOU.
(SON)
October 26, 2021
October 26, 2021
By Fidelis B. Ndangoh (Ba Fonka)

ADIEU-BA-GIOMIA BABILA GEORGE KUNGWE
Its forty-five years (45 years) as I met you and we worked together in Ets. P.V. Boyo Bamenda. Indeed, I met you already working there. We were the only two Bali people in that big company at that time. You handled me as your kid brother and friend. You took my wife and I to register in Nda Ngu of the Bali Nyonga people at old town. Again, you registered my name and yours in a njangi in your house. I am still a member of that Bali meeting house with my wife. When you left Ets PV Boyo on retirement, our relationship still continue till today that God has called you and Doh Titi Gwanulla Vincent. We were this time three of us moving together.
Doh Titi Vincent Gwanulla will drive to any house, we will come to Naka and take you to town. Drive around and sit at a place, have a drink and have fun. Talk all what good friends talk and laugh that laughter together which makes high blood pressure disappear. After we would go and drop you back to your house.

Ba Kungwe you were the president of some Njangi houses, in some I was with you. I told you over the phone that Doh Titi Vincent Gwanulla had died on the 03/10/21 before you left for Yaounde, he was alive and kicking.
You said its God’s call and you are in the hospital in Yaoundé. You told me again that now that you had been admitted in Yaoundé, and you wondered what would happened if you were still in Naka Bali? You went further and asked me how I would have taken you to the hospital, since vehicles and motor bikes were not moving around that area. In conclusion you said: "So, lets thank God and Ni Manna Joseph for asking me to come for a check-up in Yaounde. If I was in Naka Ba Fonka, the only transportation means would have been a wheelbarrow or a push-push. So again, let’s give thanks now that I am in Yaounde".

I know people are expecting to hear more from me, but I say that only what every man or woman talks with his or her friend is what we use to talk. Yes, the three of us moved together, the memories of these movements are what is troubling me now. People have been questioning me about the two of you. Forty-five years is a very long time that I can not write it all here. If I want to do that, I will employ a secretary.

Let me end here. Memories of you and Doh Titi Whiteman keep worrying me.
When you meet the other old brothers and friends, salute them. Your departure and that of Doh Titi is already a message. Prepare a place for me till we meet to part no more.
Fidelis B. Ndangoh (Ba Fonka)
October 26, 2021
October 26, 2021

By TERENCE GOMIA ( last son)

FAREWELL TO YOU DADDY!!


Really I lack words but gradually am accepting the defeat daddy! I don't even know or have what to say when someone asks what happened to you (daddy) because the whole scenario came more like a drama in my eyes !! You have taught me so much about life that being at my age and to see you still live was full of blessings but God knows why.
You were a father like no other, you gave me life, nurtured me, fought for me, shouted and even beat me, but the most important was the unconditional love you had for me daddy.
 If I could write a story about you, it could be the greatest ever told of a kind and loving father with a golden heart. I could write a million pages but still be unable to say just how much I love and miss you. Every single day, I will remember all you taught me! Deep in me am hurt but won't I be sad because I know God will send the answers down to me.

 I cried when you passed away
  I still cry today not because you are gone but seeing you struggling to breath in your last minutes on earth!! I remember that night of 09th October when I called you ( PAPA! PAPA!) and you answered. Then I said ashia; you will be fine! But to my greatest surprise you didn't say anything. Although I loved you so dearly, I couldn't make you stay because I had rather chosen we stayed in the hospital while you were strong.
  Your golden heart stopped beating, hard working hands at rest.
 God broke my heart to prove to me that he only takes the best. Indeed daddy you were a great man,you gave-up just 9 days after your birthday......!! I will for ever miss you daddy just hope you prepare a better place for us all.
( RIP DADDY).                 
TERENCE GOMIA ( last son)
October 26, 2021
October 26, 2021
Grandpa was a quiet man, but his silence could speak volumes.
The warmth of his gaze said "i love you"
The strength of his hugs said , "i will keep you safe"
the gentleness of his hands said "you're precious to me"
 I may not remember many of the words you spoke to me during our holidays , but the memories of what you conveyed without speaking a word will stay in my heart.
i will always love and miss you Grandpa.
until we meet again , goodbye papa.
 I'm whom you called your little girl Kennah Shalom-caltin Gomia.
October 26, 2021
October 26, 2021
I thank God for the privilege he gave me to see you papa.
Your love was a thing to emulate, and this formed part of my overall marital happiness.
I did not know you were of fun until my children and I spent time with you during our holidays.
pa I call you a King because that's what you really were, the little time i spent with you, made impossibilities possible.
your positively touched many alife.
I call u a king because you had all the qualities of a King.
All so far indicated I had no reason to ask for a better Father in-law
Pa, we all love you but God loves you most, may you enjoy your stay with God.
 your daughter in-law Dilys.
October 26, 2021
October 26, 2021
      Ba I called you on Thursday 7 of October and you told me you're better ,little did I know that in won't be able to talk to you again.
Becoming your daughter-in-law wasn't a mistake because you took me as your own daughter .The years we shared ,you showed me and your grand children love .
      Papa I have fresh memories in my mind how you usually call and ask me to cook a particular food for you .I was still waiting for you to come and give me your order on what to cook for you . Am grateful to God to have spent time with a father like you.
      Papa, your love , your patience ,your understanding , your wisdom and your amazing sense of humour will live on ,inside us forever . You have given us gifts that are more precious than anything in this world .Goodbye
Papa you will always live in our hearts
                        Daughter-in-law
                             MBA Zillah
October 23, 2021
October 23, 2021
I will miss your presence in my life, granddad is such a precious gift from above for us to love and treasure. Even when you are gone to be with the Lord, you will be in our hearts forever. There was a point in my life where I did not believe in the existence heroes until I met my grandfather
May ur soul Rip
Son’s friend; BABILA K

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November 15, 2021
November 15, 2021
Dear Ba, as we called you, it was always a pleasure to meet you, enjoy your wisdom, calm and confident expression. We will miss your encouragement and assurances. Fare thee well till we meet again.
Ma Ceci's Children
November 9, 2021
November 9, 2021
Dear Dad,

The reality of your passing is beginning to sink in a couple of weeks after. I mourn your departure and, in the same breath, celebrate your life. I mourn because of the vacuum your departure has created, a vacuum that will seldom be filled by anyone. I celebrate because of the imperfect but very full and rewarding life you lived; a life with numerous turns that were often dictated by circumstances often not of your choosing but often embraced with uncanny stoicism and poise.
I knew you as a father much later than kids would typically know their father. As a kid growing up in Naka village, I knew your father and mother as my parents. It took a while for me to realize that they were my grandparents. That realization never made a big difference in me because of the unconditional love and care your parents accorded me. Moving to Bamenda in the late 70s to continue primary education was necessitated by the Chomba-Bali rivalry. There were reports of skirmishes in the bordering farmlands and (out of abundance of caution) parents and guardians of kids from Naka and Ngwatkahn decided to withdraw their kids from P.S Chomba, the lone primary school in the area at the time. Moving to Bamenda to continue primary education was the lone choice I had, and which my grand parents reluctantly accepted. I joined the family in Bamenda where, along with my siblings, I continued primary education. Living in Bamenda almost always seemed to me like being at home away from home. This was articulated very visibly in my endearing and understandable inclination to and predilection for Naka. I recall there was hardly a Friday I returned from school at C S Big Mankon and never went to Naka for the weekend. Also, I hardly spent an additional day after the end of each school term in Bamenda. I would be off for Naka.
I share this slice of my experience because it later defined my perception of you and also in some ways had long-lasting implications to me and the nucleus family. The nature of your job never gave room for the fatherly presence that kids typically need in their formative years. As I look back to those years, I can say (like I told you in one of our conversations) that I am proud of you and your imperfect effort to make life better to the family. I recall how you would provide for your parents at Naka and the bigger Kungwe Family at Njenka in Bali routinely. Every December, you made sure you sent groceries to them. You were also quick to cater for their medical needs. Your generosity in ensuring that every child who grew up in your home (irrespective of whether they were biologically yours or not) went to school was remarkable. You did what you considered right and never looked back until your last days. You were quick to enroll the few of us who qualified for secondary education to the best school in the area. It became difficult to afford the same attention to others who came after us. Your business efforts had suffered a hit. It was a test of your tenacity, and we saw the real you during that period. That is the period that unveiled the your ability to withstand difficulties . You endured adversity with uncommon finesse. It was difficult to know or see a difference between when you were afloat and when your endeavors went under the water. On a more close-up, daily contexts, it was never easy to know what made you upset. You maintained a calm, endearing demeanor most of the time. You were as well a man of very few words. You held back a lot in you and kept others guessing. I guess some of us inherited this character trait from you, and while it may be pre-mature to see it as good or bad, it appears you had little control over it.
You celebrated your 90th birthday in October last year in the Naka congregation, a church house you worked relentlessly for the past twenty years to give a face-lift. What a befitting farewell to your maker after working in His vine-yard. As we prepare to send you off to your maker, I believe you will rest in true peace. Thank you and thank you again for your life and the legacy you leave behind.

Victor N. Gomia, Son.







November 8, 2021
November 8, 2021
My Grandfather was a very kind person. I remember visiting him in Bali when I was in Cameroon and he would tell me a lot of stories. Although I am sad because of his passing, I am also happy that he is in a better place now
His Life
October 23, 2021
  • Born on October 1 October, 1930 in Bali Nyonga, Northwest, Cameroon
  • Passed away on October10, 2021 in Yaounde, Cameroon
With a profound sense of gratitude and Glory to God Almighty, the Gomia and the wider Kungwe family of Njenka Kungwe, Bali-Nyonga, makes public the transition onto eternity of Ba Gomia Kungwe on October 10, 2021 at about 1:30 am. Ba passed on this Sunday morning after a brief illness. He was surrounded by some of his children, his wife and his entire family in spirit. He peacefully transitioned to his maker after a life well-spent on earth. He leaves behind numerous children, grand children, great grand children of the Kungwe family, brothers and sisters at home and abroad.

Please refer to the "Life" section on this page and leave your tributes.

May Ba Kungwe’s soul rest in perfect peace.

The Biography of Ba Kungwe by himself in an interview conducted

October 25, 2021
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By Mbotiji Walters

In loving memory of Ba Kungwe through his own very voice. He recounts his biography in a succinct and eloquent manner.
- Note his accuracy with references particularly dates.
- Listen to his life lessons, his challenges and his philosophy of life. 

- Find out how he succeeded as a polygamist with four wives and never ever laid his hand on any of them. Even to quarrel, he didn't.

- Also learn how he was daring in his quest for survival and became the first truck driver not only in Bali but in the entire North West. Remember he also "fall bush" and went and abroad to Santa Isabel and returned as a hero. 

Find out how he missed his first wife and two sons and died without knowing their whereabout. He hopes his other children who are already looking for them may find them one day. 
- listen to some testimonies by some of his children and wife feeling the great man who was never angry.

It is just a combination of successes yoked in a mire of challenges, good and difficult moments which moulded the real man Ba Kungwe.
We shall miss you but you live on and in our memories.
By Mbotiji Walters, his Biographer

RIP Ba



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October 23, 2021
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Though sincerely sad for his departure, fond memories of him make me happy I got so used to Ba Kungwe and we actually became intimate in a father-son relationship. I am happy we chatted and he unveiled  some excepts about his life. It's such a beautiful story and also a great inspiration. One learns that the best virtue in life is to be calm and do good. He was just an incarnation of what he preached which made him to live for 9 decades going largely above the bonus as the holy book says. Listen to him, and be moved to modify certain aspects of your attitude today. Adieu Ba, who will I buy white stuff for again in Yaounde?
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Ba Gomia Kungwe's Journey

October 23, 2021
On October 1, 1930, Ba Nkom Gomia Kungwe Gwannugbia and Na Monica Nubia were blessed with a baby boy named George Babila Gomia Kungwe. Bali Nyonga Fondom had become the epicenter of Christian Missionary evangelization a couple of decades before. At that time in the fondom, formal education was not considered important. Sending kids to school was largely considered a form of punitive action visited on kids with poor behavioral patterns at home and in the community. Well-behaved kids were therefore kept away from school. Nonetheless, few parents in Bali at the time sent their kids to school either because they valued formal education or due to the fascination associated with British life-style and taste, easily gleaned with mounting curiosity and fascination in activities like reading and writing in English Language.

Ba Nkom Gwanugbia was among those who saw value in education. He enrolled his then only son in Basel Mission Primary School Njenka, Bali Nyonga in 1944 where he joined, among other students, Pa Longla and Pa Ntang. His son did very well in school up to Standard 4. He was successful in promotion exam to Standard 5. He however succumbed to the lure of adventure and quest for what most of them at the time believed was the yearning for one's place as a man. Of course, this was a chronically male chauvinistic setting. At the age of 20 when he was expected to begin Standard Five, he left school and Bali against his father's wish for Victoria where he met his uncle Ba Ntangntang with whom he lived for a year. He returned to Bali during the Bali-Widikum crisis. He later left again this time for Mamfe where he worked as a public transportation associate. He later left Mamfe for Enugu with the intention of joining the army. While in Zaria, he was successful in all the physical assessment steps but could not afford 5 Pounds required for the last phase of enlistment into the Nigerian/colonial army. Disappointed, he returned to Enugu where he found on a billboard an advertisement for positions to work on a farm in Santa Isabel. He met the agents and signed a contract that would take him to Santa Isabel in 1951.

While at Santa Isabel he got married and had two children with Comfort Sunday, who was herself an immigrant in that country from Nigeria. They had two boys named Friday Gomia and Dieudonne Gomia in 1962 and 1965, respectively. During all these years he never communicated with his parents, who at some point gave up on the expectation of seeing him again. He took his family back to Bali, Cameroon, in 1966. Comfort was never comfortable in Bali which (unlike Santa Isabel) had limited pipe-borne water and electricity. She eventually asked that the family return to Santa Isabel. Her husband never wanted to return to Santa Isabel. The Commissioner of Police in Bamenda at the time (Superintendent Doh) advised him to allow her to return with the children since they were still too young. He then took the family to Tiko where Comfort and the children boarded a banana ship back to Santa Isabel. Comfort, Friday and Dieudonne would later travel to Spain thereby severing ties with him and his family.

Ba Gomia Kungwe then began a new phase of life in Bali. He served as a truck driver for a Nigerian freight company, transporting goods from Nigeria to Cameroon between 1966 and 1969. In 1969 he joined PV Boyo's Bamenda gas distribution franchise, Texaco, and served as the lead driver transporting petrol/gas from Limbe to Douala and Bamenda. He served in this position for a decade, retiring in 1979 and establishing as an independent transporter with a truck of his own. Between 1967 and 1979, he married four wives making a polygamous family of 13 additional children (3 girls and 10 boys).

Ba Gomia Kungwe made a foray into politics in the second coming of multiparty politics in Cameroon in the early 1990s. He joined the Movement for Democracy and Progress (MDP), the Samuel Eboa slice of the United Democratic Party (UNDP) that had emerged out of a controversial UNDP convention that held in Maroua in 1991. Ba Gomia Kungwe made progress in the ranks of MPD, becoming the party's North West provincial Chairman. Among the key functions he played in that position was planning and organizing the party's provincial rally in December 1991. During that rally he delivered a welcome speech at the Bamenda stadium, welcoming the party chairman, guests and delegates.

In 1993 he succeeded his father becoming Ba Gomia Kungwe and later retired and moved to Naka, Bali Nyonga where he maintained a physical presence as the family head of the wider Kungwe lineage until his demise on October 10, 2021.

This is a synopsis of the life journey and story of Ba Kungwe Gomia whose life we are celebrating. To many of us children, wife, extended Kungwe family and friends, we mourn his passing but in the same breath celebrate a life began in the 1930s in humility, poise and determination, a life with numerous turns dictated by circumstances often not of his choosing but often embraced with uncanny stoicism and determination.

Profound gratitude to Ni Walters Mbotiji who took time to conduct an interview with the deceased.  The story on this page has been heavily informed and corroborated by that interview.

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