UNIVERSITY OF IBADAN DAYS AND LASTING FRIENDSHIP
Muyiwa Onabolu
UNIVERSITY OF IBADAN DAYS AND LASTING FRIENDSHIP
Muyiwa Onabolu
THIS HEART OF FLESH ... A PANORAMC VIEW
FROM COLLEGE, TO INGOTS AND THE TRIPARTITE GROUP
MORE… THAN A CLASSMATE AND FRIEND
TRIBUTE
Obioyam, My memories of you are indelible. My understanding of who you were became clearer after I had left KC. The memories of you were indelible Ewure found Obioyam truhful always , frank and hard yet underneath compassionate. I learnt from you that always jotting , copiously,was a good aide to learning. Your intolerance for pretence was remarkable. Your passion for excellence and firm conviction on ethical matters, were admirable even at our young age., Furthermore, it was from you that I learned that ,for young boys, insisting on making COPIOUS notes in class was a virtue. I also remember well your role as a stubborn defender in our hockey team. Obioyam, Ewure will always remember you.
DIPO FASHINA
A tribute to a friend and brother Prof babatunde lombard Fetuga.
KCOB
Mid 60s: The music of love started between you and sister Ronke, my dear cousin, the last born of my cherished aunt, chief E. Ola. Adenubi (mama lshaga) who loved you so much. You paid frequent visits to our home at lshaga, during the nine months long vacation after HSC exams. You lived at your mum's place at Ojuelegba which was a ten minutes walk to lshaga. Early 70s: The 'fairytale love' between you and sis Ronke (mainly found in Barbara Cartland novels) culminated in a most beautiful wedding in lagos. I was the little 'omo iyawo' who escorted sis Ronke to her 'husbands house' on Ring rd. in lbadan. You were deeply into your PhD work then, producing so much pork from the research into piggery. Anyone who came visiting had a large piece of pork to take home. As a young lady in secondary school, l was amazed that you could produce so much pork for family and friends. You then told me the story of how at a very young age, while living with your grandma in Calabar, you would wake early in the morning to pluck oranges to sell and bring the proceeds back home for grandma to buy fish that she would cook for the family lunch. All this was done before you would quickly get ready to go to school, knowing a good meal was waiting for you after school. I would say your zeal for achievements started way back then. God blessed us with a most beautiful babygirl, Oyinkan. We enjoyed surprise visits from family and friends. Our several visits to Cocodome in cocoa house lbadan to swim and later eat club sandwiches with quarter roasted chicken, washed down with cold punch, and you a cold bottle of beer, was our Friday evening treat....and we enjoyed it. We moved to Adenuga str. in Kongi layout where God once again blessed us with a bouncing baby boy....Babajide (my 1st God son). To Jide, I must have been a 'super nanny', to the extent of him telling everyone on a cool day that he 'would take aunty Toks to Dick rd to marry her'.....let was laughter galore ooooo. It was a quiet and friendly residential area, midway between UCH & UI, where many of the senior staff of both institutions lived with their families....doctors, nurses, lecturers and administrators. As a nursing student in UCH. I remember taking baby Oyinkan to spend a night with me and when the matron came knocking to check that nurses were in bed, Oyinkan made an attempt to answer...did l cover her mouth to stop her from saying anything.... Yes! 'I love daddy'!! was a statement you taught your children from childhood and they did love you to the very end. You were too pleased to host my birthday mate, Sister Oyinade(Prof Mrs) and l celebrating together our 40th & 21st birthday party with family and friends at your home. It was a memorable day for the 'ancient and modern', never to be forgotten. No doubt, you worked hard and returned from work on several occasions, announcing your promotions until the big one came.....Professor at 32 years old. I was moved to tears in gratitude to God. This is a record no one has been able to break in U.I. Becoming a Professor required us to move to another more quiet area on UI campus.....Parry road. I was admitted to continue my nursing education at the Univ. of lbadan, so l was still near home. At the home front we ventured into backyard poultry farming when a tray of large chicken eggs sold for N2.20k. You would bring home pork for boiling, frying, roasting, grilling and crunchy ljebu garri was in trouble. I never bought pork afterwards. Your culinary expertise was at it's best in the home kitchen........and the blessings from God kept coming......Oluwagbenga, another bouncing baby boy was added to the family. You were a good father to your children and a most loving husband to sister Ronke, to the envy of your friends. Most of the older and genuine friends l still have, were met through you and sister Ronke. Your family moved into your own 'state of the art home' in Kongi layout. A house you supervised from foundation to finishing and furnishing. Oyinkan has taken after you in that line. We enjoyed several outdoor garden parties.....You just enjoyed hosting guests in the backyard garden filled with exotic flowers and good music from the record player. It was fun. I got married and left for Lagos with my husband, Kunle, who was one of your students. You and family later moved to Lagos after you ventured into the food manufacturing industry at GlaxoSmithKline in Apapa where you made a mark by producing the BABEENA BABY CEREAL. Lagos life was tough and rough................and you went on a marathon 'sabbatical leave' that never ended. The family was pained but took refuge and strength under God's tabernacle. Thank God for His love, mercy and grace which was more than enough. On learning you were living in ljebu Ode, Kunle & l visited you, spent the whole day with you and didn't want to leave. When it was time to leave l gave you a goodbye hug to see you with the ginger ogi you requested me to personally make for you. You went on admission in st. Nicholas hospital and l was expecting to speak with you after dialysis, but the inevitable happened, just two days after your 74th birthday...."Come unto me all ye who are weary and heavy laden, and l will give you rest" and you obey the call. I am joyful you made peace with your God and sister Ronke, your first and last love. I will not forget your baritone voice, your sweet and genuine smiles, your humility and down to earth personality. l will always have sweet memories of you even though the sweet music of love between you and my sister Ronke was turned low by intruders, it was never switched off.....Sleep on our dearest brother Tunde, till that glorious Resurrection morning when there shall never be parting again.
Your dear aburo: Adetokunbo Onanuga-Ogunlesi
TRIBUTE TO MY CHERISHED GRAND PA
TRIBUTE TO MY BELOVED, CHERISHED
TRIBUTE TO MY LOVING AND CARING
"Prof" was my fond way of addressing this wonderful personality in my life.Not just because of his academic prowess, but much for the fact that he had been an inspiration and support for the realisation of the educational goals of many and mine inclusive.
We all must endeavor to live our mark on the sand of time. That is the purpose of God for our lives. How many people we are able to put smile on their faces. When we talk of poverty alleviation in Ijebu lands our own Prof Tunde Fetuga took control of empowering youths to go into fish farming. Many of our otherwise idle youths were encouraged to go into farming. Areas like Idowa, Idomila and Ibefun etc. are now populated by youths growing and harvesting catfish. May the Lord grant Tunde eternal peace for empowering youths without blowing his trumpet. Up KC!
Pastor Wale Balogun KCOB
History has been made,History is being made,History will continue to be made.We have to bear the loss of our dear Lumbardo.May his soul Rest In Peace.
Wow, Eyen Obong gone? No, ,No, No. We shall miss Lombardo, he was a great Brother, Ingot, Kingsman and Family man. God bless his soul. Floreat!
David R. B. Johnson KCOB
Eulogy to my good friend Babatunde Fetuga. To say Tunde was brilliant is an understatement. In fact I used to joke with him here in Ijebu-ode that like Albert Enstein, he should will his brain for preservation by the public after reaching the ripe age of 95 like his late mum! Tunde was the youngest Dean of Post Graduate School University's of Ibadan..the Premier University in Nigeria. He had such a retentive memory that kept me astounded during his illness here in Ijebu-ode. Tunde was a triple Prince of Ijebu-ode, Itele and Calabar. Always immaculately dressed despite his long illness. He was not given to self pity. As a KCOB he hated corruption in high places. He was indeed a honorable man. As close as we were Tunde always gave me respect as his KC senior and as an older person. After every Church Service on Sundays, I always looked forward to sharing my time with him. May the soul of this honest Kingsman rest in peace. Amen in Jesus Anointed Name.
Pastor Wale Balogun KCOB
It is difficult to believe that you have gone forever my great uncle with a sweet and beautiful voice. You laboured and achieved greatness at a younger age and made us proud. You cant even hurt a fly and your annoyance cant last more than 5 mins. You are such a fantastic and wonderful man with you no dull moment. Love all your aburos and Fetuga families to a fault. We love you so much but God loves you more. Continue to rest in the bossom of your creator and be singing songs of praises. We are all missing great Prof Babatunde Fetuga. Omo Ikanigbo lomokunrin wa.omo elewu woyi woyi.oh wo dudu o wo pupa.o wo aluko o tun wo mosara oogo.omo arowo pe onilu fun wobia jo.omo olowo je oye neji po.oje oba o tun je dagburewe. Adieu my great uncle.
Your 22B
Mrs. Tutu Bakare
Sir..even though I met you only once at St Nicholas Hospital what a impact you had on me. I kept saying to my self and to Oyinkan..what a gentleman with incredible joie de vivre and of course that uniquely beautiful Baritone voice
ADIEU PROFESSOR BABATUNDE LAMBARD FETUGA (BOY)
TRIBUTE FOR AN ICON
A TITAN, GENIUS of our time and Father indeed.
Tunde ẹsẹ lọ mo bi ori made and ade ori kole so ibi to ma de, sugbo. Ori ade are da de, laiye yin.
Tunde of ori Ade Ajalorun Olutufese Ijebu-Ife in Ogun State. Academic titan and icon in field of Anima Science in the faculty Agriculture at the university of Ibadan. Dean of Deans and professor of academic icon, a genius of our time. Your academic pro and record i the field of Agriculture are still unbeateble.
You came to this world to demonstrate the Glory of God in the life if your family extraordinary nding from Ijebu-Ife to the Calabar Kingdom from Ikamigbo in Ijebu-Odewhere only men exist (Ikamigbo l'omo ọkùnrin wà ín Ijebu Land).
Tunde, you came and saw and shone like a star at the igbosere college known as king's college in Lagos at Igbosere where you excelled among your classmate of the year lasa. Baba Oyinkansola, Baba Jide and Baba Olugbenga (Ọkọ Ronke Ọmọ Adenubi of Ìjèbú-igbó. Eku ilede baba yin and olufe yín.
The class of 1959-63-65 of king's college, Lagos. I salute you all. Eku ilede eniwa to lọ simi. For those of you who visited in the early days of Tunde and Ronke at the Ibadan cookings of Tunde were well appreciated, what a good couple but at last the devil struck and finally took away our loving brother Tunde. Kí Ọlọrun dele fun. Òrún rẹ Tunde ọmọ Ajalorun - olutufese sún re o.
Prof. Yemi Badejoko.
My oldest memories of Uncle Tunde Fetuga are in black and white, mainly around the time of his wedding to my Aunty Ronke, where I was press-ganged into being a page-boy or ring bearer or some such.
TRIBUTE TO PROFESSOR BABATUNDE LAMBARD FETUGA
A Great, Grandfather
TRIBUTE TO PROF. BABATUNDE LAMBARD ADETOKUNBO FETUGA
We graduated together exactly 50 years June 1969 ago from University of Ibadan and exstablised a record of graduating class of 2 1st class and 2 2nd class honours degree namely: Tunde Fetuga and Olomu as 1st class and Biodun Ejemai and Muyiwa Onobolu 2nd class honours. You are a man of excellence and you lived it to become one of the youngest Professors under the age of 40 at the Univeristy of Ibadan. you devoted your life to achieve and make the world better through your contribution to knowledge and prosperity shall judge and honour you accordingly. Your legacy shall be Veni vidi vici you came and saw and conquered REST IN PEACE. From Biodun Ejemai
A lion has fallen.
TO THE BEST GRANDPA IN THE WORLD
Dear Grandpa,
You were simply “the best”. You are my love. Nobody or nothing can stop me from loving you even if you are alive or dead.
My love for you is as big as the whole universe. I promise I will always remember you. You are the most loving and caring Grandpa.
The time I spent with you was really amazing and I had so much fun. I was looking forward to our trip to Ijebu and see all the places you told us about.
You shall rest in peace, even your soul shall rest in peace in Jesus name… Amen!
From
Your darling granddaughter
Mofetoluwa
My Grandpa!
Grandpa Lekki, I don’t think it has sunk in that I will not see or speak with you again. I remember when I use to come to visit you in Magodo and I was always scared to get out of the car because of your dogs, then you will come to get me yourself.
You told me so many stories of when you were growing up, our great-grandma, about Ijebu and Calabar, the farm. We talked about everything, anything to the extent I asked to come play football in the house in Ijebu, which we did.
I was extremely happy when you told me you were moving to Lekki but I did not think of the distance and how I would not be able to see you as often as we did before.
I love you and you will forever be in our hearts…
Rest in peace Grandpa
Your grandson and birthday mate
Grandpa Fets!
Where do I begin? How does one summarize the years but not as much as we would have wanted into words? Trying to remember the first day I met you at the house in Magodo and honestly it seems like such a distant memory. With a warm welcome and embrace, we hit it off like old friends and that was the beginning of our wonderful relationship.
It was like we never spent time apart and always picked up the conversation from where we stopped despite the days/weeks in between. You were always so appreciative of everything; the time spent with you, no matter how small.
The time with you never seemed too long, always entertaining. You were so proud of your Ijebu and Efik heritage; and I am so glad you shared these with the children.
Grandpa Magodo, Grandpa Lekki and later Grandpa Ijebu! This is so surreal…
In the 74 years God granted you and which we are thankful for, you did so much; in UI, in Glaxo (Babina which stuck because of the jingle on NTA), Porpapine (the popular pineapple fruit wine your farm supplied) to the KC old boys association; I was confident that you will beat this again. Seeing you lying there, I know you have gone to rest…
We will miss you but hold on to the wonderful memories
We say Adieu Grandpa Fets
Rest in peace
ArinolaFetuga
Tribute to my old man...PROFWow...I cant believe I am writing this but all in all God knows best.It is sad to know that you have left but again it is a loving memory for me when I think about the legacies you have left behind...the good memories will remain with me forever.An intelligent and intellectual man, a full bright scholar, graduated with First Class Honors from the University, a professor at the age of 32, an astute business man and a builder by default... thank you so much for leaving some of this innate gifts with your children and grandchildren.Growing up was so much fun, I remember all the trips to all the happening spots in Ibadan and Lagos respectively mostly on Sundays after church, trips to get goodies at any opportunity. Its funny that I am trying to create this same memories for my children today. My dad set an example to others for his integrity and loyalty to friends and family. His joyful, positive spirit was remarkable, along with his acceptance of everyone he knew. He gave back so much to the society, birthed so many scholars that are doing tremendously well in their various endeavors today.A multiple prince from Ijebu Ife, Ijebu Itele and the Efik Kingdom of Calabar, the tales of our lineage was always fun and educative. You were a true prince , a loyal friend , a good dad...and all in all a great man.I saw you shortly after you breathed your last on the 20th of April 2019.... you had a smile on your face ... I am fully convinced that you are resting in the bosom of the Lord.You lived a good life.Rest in peace PROF.Oluwagbemiga.
*Prof Babatunde Lampard Adetokunbo FETUGA- A Tribute*
TRIBUTE FROM PROFESSOR ADEBISI. M BALOGUN
TRIBUTE TO MY DEAR NEPHEW AND BROTHER PROF. BABATUNDE LAMBARD FETUGA.
Eno Ekanem
A Tribute to My Godfather
My earliest memories of Uncle Tunde are from the Fetuga home at number 19 Parry Road in UI Ibadan in the early 1980s. I remember his big smile, his deep voice, jovial personality and his cream colored Volvo.
Uncle was my Godfather and he was EXTREMELY generous. Birthdays often meant cash gifts which were usually four or five times as much as the next biggest cash gift I received was. I remember him bringing ‘suya' to our house in Kongi some Friday nights when he came to pick up Gbenga from playdates with my brother Lanre. Those were the few times we had ‘suya' when we were little.
He was full of life, larger than life and just seemed cooler and more fun than all the other dads around. He was such a wonderful Godfather that my childhood best friend (Busola nee Soyannwo) insisted to her parents that he become her own Godfather as well when she was baptized years later.
Sadly, we lost touch while I lived in the US and in more recent times…..I have many great memories of Uncle Tunde Fetuga and I will always remember him fondly.
Rest in Perfect Peace Dear Uncle
Kemi Adekanmbi (nee Osinusi)
The News Rudely Had It, That Prof Babatunde Lambard Fetuga - Exited the World.
Boy,
It is very hard for me to accept that you have passed on. I am however deeply consoled by my strong belief that your soul is resting in the Lord's bosom. The whole world may miss you, but I miss you more.
Adieu,
Fidelis .C. Nwafor
GONE BUT NEVER FORGOTTEN
This is coming too soon and also so unexpectedly. Where does someone start to write about someone who had achieved so much in such a short period of time….
My memories of you as I saw you lying down in the Morgue at Alausa is how I will always remember you, with a smile on your face. A knowing smile, saying you had transcended this world and finally at peace with yourself and your maker.
Early memories of you were the fact that you had so much to give and your cerebral activity was next to none. You wrote a myriad of papers, research, studies, and involved in several consultancies. It seemed like you had a source that was unlimited. Always looking for a new project, ready to advice on an existing one and always so full of ideas. Ideas that at times seemed crazy or a bit too farfetched but you just never stopped.
From the piggery in Abadina in UI, your students constantly milling around for new and fresh ideas, till you went on to the Private sector and birthed the Babeena range of baby food. You definitely were a star, meant to shine and shine you did.
Everything you set out to do, you did well. I remember how you went from a farmer to an architect and subsequently a builder when you built our Ibadan and Ijebu homes. Designs that were way before their time but that was what you were, a truly brilliant mind.
I could go on and on, and clearly there is no way I can summarize the 74 years we had you here with us in just a few lines. One thing I must say though, is you never bore a grudge. You certainly didn’t know how to keep malice and you were a damn good story teller. We all enjoyed time spent with you and most especially in the last few years after your kidney transplant. All you ever asked for was just a few hours so we could catch up and never more.
Your love for us your kids, in laws and grandchildren was amazing. Birthday presents, Christmas presents, early morning phone calls and always a willing ear to listen.
Thankful for the life you lived even though it became pretty uncomfortable towards the end. Thank you for the many lessons you taught me. You always emphasised the importance of being impeccably dressed at all times, this I will take to the grave with me.
You also taught us how important it was to see the world, travel to new destinations and learn to eat any and everything.(I didn’t imbibe this though. After you ate frog legs in Indonesia and had to be hospitalized, I learnt quickly not to be adventurous with food).
You had the history of your lineage in both Ijebu and Calabar and used to reel it off at every available opportunity. You had even promised to write these down or have a voice recording so we could also pass it on to our kids as you learnt from your father. Sad we never got to do this.
Spoke to you an hour before you left and I’m glad I heard you say ‘Babajide’ one last time….
Thank you dear dad for all the beautiful memories. Though I write this with a heavy heart, I find solace in the fact that you are in a better place.
Babajide
Uncle Tunde, you were a star that touched this planet earth. I won’t venture into academia... done and said, you wore the tee shirt.
My memories of sharing fun times with you, goes so far back... My family returning from England and my mum couldn’t wait to show you off. Our many trips to Ibadan ( my keen interest as a child... how come his voice sounds different, Golden, like a gong??? ). It was the first time I came into being with any man of my fathers flare, confidence, elegance... and he was my uncle ( a show piece... and everyone new his name)
I grew up and we started sharing more lovely times with the family, at Ijebu-Ode ( in the beautiful home ) drank together and shared just awesome moments. Music was something we lived by in my family and it all so added my love for this my people, cos music was the stitch that held it all together. Uncle Tunde, Aunty Ronke, Oyinkan and yes, the boys ( then ). I had an interesting, everlasting memory of him referring to his wifey, at fun loving times at an evening dining and drinking as ‘ Aderonke mi ‘. It sounded so sweet and a groovy kind of love.
He was always at our home, at Glover road Ikoyi. He loves to know who I was dating, “hope not an IGBO man” ( with fun and love ). Excited about my progress and had an intelligent all so needed advice to give. Relating with my Uncle was just fun and it was on a constant basis.
Then, the music and fun for all seized. I still saw you always, but....
I shared a lot of beautiful days, months and years with my darling Coz Oyinkan ( being an only one, I had a second ) that’s why she is dear to me.
Went away to the states and spent decades, came back and it still was...
When Grandma had her 90th, everyone was excited and joyful, but my Uncle ( though happy ), kept saying ‘ I want to be alive to bury my mum ‘. Oh well, you did!! And did a superb job of it.
We always talked over the phone ( especially cos Prof and his sista talked till the cows came home ). He had so much advice for me on Politics - my area, way things are done etc
I knew it was getting harder for him, but somehow I kept thinking a Star, a Genius, an erudite Scholar can’t just fizzle and let the Mother Earth win. He did!! But after giving it a good fight!! Yes he did!
Then thecall came ( Oyinks on the line )
You are loved, appreciated and forever in our hearts.
May your soul Rest In Peace and perpetual light shine upon you.
Goodnight ❤️
Oyinkan could not hide her love for her Dad. She proudly makes it known, "I am a Daddy's girl"
Our conversations were incomplete without talking about our parents especially Granpa Fetuga more recently because of his health challenges.
We thank The Almighty God for the 16th February 2019 election postponement which made it possible for Grandpa to be hurriedly taken from Ijebu to hospital in Lagos.
Though we prayed for Grandpa's quick recovery, the LORD called him.
We are comforted that Grandpa Fetuga lived a good and accomplished life. Despite all his achievements, he was proud to be called Dad and Granddad.
Whilst we mourn his passing on, we celebrate his life and pray that his legacy will live on.
I pray that God in his infinite mercy will grant the entire Fetuga family the courage and fortitude to bear this loss.
Grandpa Fetuga - Baba Oyinkan, Jide and Gbenga, sun re o.
Baba rere.
Dele Jemibewon
(Oyinkan's Friend & School Mother)
I have gone to the website on my friend Prof BABATUNDE ADETOKUNBO LAMBADO FETUGA. But I didn't know the significance. Tunde was brilliant, genuine and pioneering in many fields. He was the young Dean of Post graduate School University of Ibadan. He successfully mentored many young professors. He was very sacrificial. When he told me he left Unibadan before reaching a pensionable age I was shocked to the marrow. But he was an astute businessman. What I learned from Tunde about balanced dieting was not taught anywhere else. He spoke about Biology Physiology and Biochemistry like a senior medical professor. I became more fond of Tunde when he came to live in Ijebu-ode. Why do I need a website to show my fondness for Lambadi? I noticed he expected so much from his friends when they promised him they were visiting him! Finally I found out that he loved his children a lot. He was very protective of them. All of us who loved Lambadi also appreciated the love and dedication of his PA..Mr Debo Ilori. May God Almighty bless him and his family. Father God please receive your son Tunde into eternal paradise.
Daddy....my heart is broken into a Trillion pieces...words fail me...it's all so surreal...i want to wake up from this horrible dream. I was so sure you'll get better to spend more time with us ...to celebrate more milestones.
You were far from perfect...i loved you still..and unconditionally too... and it was mutual. You were my greatest cheerleader, my gist buddy, my best friend. You were such FUN to be with..your laughter, your jokes, your sense of humour, your stories....oh your many stories and your keen memory was unparalleled.
A tribute to you? Where do i start? This is sooooo difficult. You were clearly a ' Special ' being... you were a GENIUS. A genius in every area of your life...in Academia, in Business, in the kitchen, in designing/ decorating( i got my flare from you), in entertaining( Babajide got this from you) , extremely cerebral ( Gbenga got this from you). With Mum you were a Genius husband....super super romantic..super super loving and you expressed it through Music. You were such great friends! Everyone wanted a marriage like yours... oh the days of Louis Armstrong playing in our living room, Jim Reeves, Nat King Cole, Grover Washington Jnr, Earl Klugh, Miles Davies, Al Jarreau, Ella, Abba, Frank Sinatra, Smokey Robinson, Fela, Tunji Oyelana( you made all 3 of your children serious lovers of music),....the dinners, the lunches, inaugural lectures, theatre, weekends playing Monopoly Scrabble and Cards, the road trips to Cotonou Lome Accra, the holidays, the shopping!, the many garden parties in our homes, my 40th in Dubai. I never got over your split from Mum....it was tough...tough for us All. Who am i to question God?
Your illness in the last 4 years brought us much much closer together again. I spent a lot of time fasting, interceding, praying and caring for you. You fought gallantly and elegantly till the end...especially giving your precious 94 years old Mum, our dear GrandMa a befitting Burial & Tombstone in Calabar just a few months ago. This made you very very fulfilled as you had an extremely special relationship with her.
You celebrated your last birthday, 18th April 2019 two days before you passed on...on Easter Saturday 20th April 2019 surrounded by your ever loving King's College classmates, your core family including Mum, Gbenga, Tomilola & I ( loads and loads of phonecalls!) except for Babajide who was away in the States with his family. You kept on asking for Babajide who had risen up to the task of assiting me in taking very good care of you too( Thank you JIDE). It was such a special day for you...you looked forward to it so so so much. I should have known ........i would have hugged you tighter . I spent almost all my time by your bedside at the St Nicholas Hospital with Mr Debo, your Amazing God sent Personal Assistant ( Thank you Mr Debo: God BLESS you for loving my Dad Totally) from the 13th of April till the 20th of April making sure you were super comfortable and Happy. ( Thank you Dr Bamgboye...Thank you Uncle Ladipo Oyewole for going the extra mile: God BLESS you). As usual , we talked non stop....going down memory lane. I will cherish these precious moments in my heart Forever. I will cherish MORE the fact that you tidied up a 'not so tidy' part of your life and you spent the last one year evangelising using social media as a strong tool, worshipping, praising and drawing closer to your creator. I THANK you Daddy and I THANK God.
Daddy.....i will always always always LOVE you and i miss you soooooo much already...the daily phone calls are no more....that deep baritone voice "Oyinkansola Good morning " is no more....the pain is unbearable. Rest in Peace my Dearest Daddy...my Best friend. I heard God tell me clearly..."He's with ME"......so comforting. Go and Rest ....Rest in the Bosom of God...you deserve it ... God BLESS your Beautiful SOUL Daddy . Amen
Your darling, one & only daughter
Oyinkansola
PROF, MISSING YOU AND MAY YOUR SOUL REST IN PERFECT PEACE
I was completely devastated when I heard of your passing on but who are we to question God. We spoke last on your birthday, April 18, 2019 and never knew that was the last day we would speak together. We got so close in the last five years after my retirement and we were always on telephone calls on a daily basis. We kept each other’scompany and had very useful and constructive discussions. You also provided excellent guidance to me about life and forging ahead.
You were a great man and an asset to humanity with several huge talents, capacities, strength and attributes. Your DNA was very unique. You were an academician, agro-industrialist, farmer, designer/builder, adviser, mentor, prolific writer, planner, strategist and a very good friend to all. Your barry tone voice was unique and will be missed.
Your contribution to the development of a 500ha farm for Nucleus Farm at Ado Odo and Baby food Cereal at Agbara Estate cannot be forgotten. You made history in Nigeria by contributing to backward integration, ensuring food security and creating jobs with outstanding achievements. You were unequalled and you name was written in gold.
By working with you at Nucleus Farm, I learnt several important things in life--- hard work, drive for quality results, never leave a problem unsolved, courage to confront challenges, put in your best and leave the rest to God.
After, we both left Glaxo, I still worked with you as part of Fetson Associates in the areas of agriculture and agro-industrial consultancies. We both worked so hard and delivered very important reports to the admiration of your clients.
While working with you, you thought me so may things about consultancy which money cannot buy- -high quality of work, zero tolerance for error, style of prolific writing, presentation of facts and their supporting evidence, front end engineering/designof lay outs of factories, world wide search and ordering of documents to address each assignment we had, meeting dead lines without excuses and story. I remember some of the occasions where we wrote reports for 24 hrs,non-stop and no sleep. On one occasion, I delivered a report at 3.0am in order to meet one of the deadlines. We had no excuses for failure. All of these training and technical know-how contributed to my success in life for which I am very grateful.
You were by brother and a true friend. The role you played in my life cannot be forgotten and will always be remembered. I recall the fire incidence in my house and the role you played in giving succor to the family including relocation of the family to Agbara estate.
Prof, I do not have works to express how I feel, but to say I miss you and may your soul rest in perfect peace.
Dr. Kola Akapa
Bro. Tunde!
Bro Tunde – with that unmistakable baritone!
How could I ever have imagined when I called you on Thursday 18th, April to wish you happy Birthday, that it would be our last conversation on this side of the divide. I wish I had prolonged the call, but you sounded tired, and I wanted you to rest, so I told you I would call back later. Alas, it wasn’t meant to be. I remember the fun times we had, as a student in University of Ibadan, you and Sis. Ronke opened the doors of your home to me. From Ring Road, to Adenuga St. in New Bodija up to Apapa in Lagos, I was always welcomed, and I witnessed first hand what it means to be married to one’s friend.
The food we ate! From Otong and Eba to Kainji fish to Sokund’ale (beans, super soft dodo and garri mixed into a concrete mixture that once you eat, you just sit somewhere and sleep off. The music, the love, the fun, the gist! I thank God for the memories and I thank him more that you knew the Lord and had a personal relationship with Him. Towards the end you became an Evangelist, always sending scriptures and words of encouragement to me on Facebook and messenger.
In all things the Bible says we should give thanks. Therefore I thank the Lord for your life, for the laughter we shared, the way you accepted me and related to me and my husband, Ladi(who even though is your Ijebu relation), you treated me most times as the real aburo and friend which made it possible for us to discuss weighty issues without the fear of straining our relationship.
I will surely miss you!
A man of impeccable taste, a most diligent and accomplished scholar, a man of sartorial elegance.
As we bid you goodnight, I say to Sis. Ronke, Oyinkan, Jideand Gbenga that we never really lose those we love. I know that his memory will be forever evergreen.
Bro. Tunde was much loved.
Thank you Lord for the life you gave and which has pleased you to take.
Adieu, Bro Tunde, until the resurrection morning.
Tokunbo Okuboyejo
Beyond the sunset, o blissful morning, when with our Saviour heav'n is begin, Earth's toiling ended, o glorious dawning beyond the sunset, when day is done. Beyond the sunset, no clouds will gather. No storms will threaten, no fears annoy. O day of gladness, o day unending. Beyond the sunset, eternal joy. Beyond the sunset, a hand will guide you, To God the father, whom you adored; His glorious presence, His word of welcome will be your portion on that fair shore. Beyond the sunset, o glad reunion with our dear loved ones who've gone before. In that fair homeland, we'll know no parting, beyond the sunset forever more. Goodnight brother Tunde