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高堂殒于昨夜,与母亲成永诀涕泪滂沱;
恩情深似东海,伴我辈此一生永久相随。
母亲大人千古  
- Mark Young (written on 5/20/2012)

This memorial website was created in the memory of our loved one, Baoxia Jin/金宝霞, 81, born on December 19, 1930 and passed away on May 19, 2012. We will remember her forever.

Timeline:
1948- 1953  Working in Oil company of Shangdong Province, China. 山东省油脂公司
1953-1957   Working in Grain bureau of Shandong Province , China 山东省粮食局
1957-1959   Working in High Education Bureau of Shandong Province, China 山东省高教局
1959-1976  Working  and retired in Education  Bureau of Shandong Province, China 山东省教育厅

Private messages and condolences to the family may be emailed to markluck89@gmail.com  or sent by regular mail to Mark Young, 20 Wagon Road, Westwood, MA 02090

Private Family and Friend viewing will be held at 3:00PM, Monday, May 21st, 2012.
Location: Bedford Funeral Home, 167 Great Rd, Bedford, MA 01730
Tel: 781 275 6850

Private Family and Friend memorial service will be held at 10:00AM, Saturday, May 26th, 2012
Location: Bedford Funeral Home, 167 Great Rd, Bedford, MA 01730
Tel: 781 275 6850

December 24, 2013
December 24, 2013
亲爱的妈妈,
大家浏览过您的追思网站的次数已经超过三千人次。 我们都十分想念您,缅怀您的恩情。时光的流逝永远也淡化不了我们对您的思念。

儿子:旭东
May 21, 2013
May 21, 2013
母亲已经离开我们一年了。

一年来, 我们常常思念着母亲,提起到母亲。 因为母亲是我生命中的一重要的部分,母亲的离世也意味着我生命中的重要的部分永久的缺失。母亲十几年前病倒与一年前的离世,让我真正体会到了什麽是心痛,什麽是痛不欲生。母亲的离世也让我的人生观、世界观有了质的改变, 有了更深刻的体会。

上星期六(5 月18日)我们带着两个女儿为母亲墓地献了鲜花。
May 16, 2013
May 16, 2013
母亲节时赞母亲,千份感情万份情,
含辛茹苦数十载,言传身教严训庭。
熬过多少不眠夜,呕心沥血养育情。
勤勉坚强树样板,子孙个个逞英雄。

张川于一九九三年母亲节
May 10, 2013
May 10, 2013
你的母亲是一位伟大的母亲。她的音容笑貌时常在我们脑海里萦绕,她的高尚品德将铭记族民心中,吾杨氏子孙永远怀念她。在吾杨氏老族谱中有一位女性记载谱中,待你回国后,我们再商议,将你母亲载入谱中,让她的懿德阃范传承万代,激励后世子孙发扬你母亲的才智,再创吾杨氏事业之辉煌!

中国山东莱芜杨氏族谱续修委员会主任委员 杨广君
April 30, 2013
April 30, 2013
惊悉你母亲去年驾鹤西去, 深表哀痛。我谨代表全体族民表示哀悼,顺致节哀。 你母亲的去世是杨氏家族的一大损失,杨氏子孙将永远铭记你母亲的光辉形象。她的优良传统将铭刻史册,传承百代。

                                         杨广君
April 2, 2013
April 2, 2013
一年一度的清明节马上来临,我们将为妈妈去扫墓。 妈妈,我们无时无刻不在想您。 想着您给与我们的爱和教诲。
August 30, 2012
August 30, 2012
母亲已经离开我们三个多月了,我们每天都在怀念妈妈。回想妈妈对我们那慈善无私的爱与无微不至的关怀与爱护。我们每次想起与妈妈在一起的美好、温馨的时光,都感慨万分,无限的怀念之情则油然而生。我们多麽想再与妈妈能再在一起度过一段美好的时光啊!

妈妈我们永远永远怀念您。

儿子:杨旭东
August 9, 2012
August 9, 2012
二零一二年八月三十一日,我们将在波士顿陵园公墓为母亲立墓碑。
July 8, 2012
July 8, 2012
我们已选定七月二十日早晨为母亲下葬于波士顿牛顿陵园公墓,I-112 号。

杨旭东
July 2, 2012
July 2, 2012
I feel very sorry for the loss of your dear mother. I'm sure your mom will live forever in your heart.

Take care!
Lucy
July 2, 2012
July 2, 2012
Mark,
Sorry about your loss of your beloved Mom. We believe that her love,her kindness to the others, as well as many other wonderful attributes that she possessed, will continue to live on in all of the hearts and memories of the people whose lives she has touched.
Tony and Jessica
July 2, 2012
July 2, 2012
Hi Mark,

I know you are an exceptional son and Zhang Chuan is a excellent daughter in-law. Your mom was the luckiest lady in the world. She had a good life with you. You should be satisfied for what you have done to her. I am sure she will bless you from haven.

Lu
June 26, 2012
June 26, 2012
Dear Mark and Chuan, This is a beautiful tribute. The pictures tell a wonderful story of joy and love and pride. May she rest in peace.
I send much love and prayers for the whole family.
Kitty
June 24, 2012
June 24, 2012
老杨,
知道你家阿姨去世,我们都很难过。我十分理解知道你此时此刻的心情。人啊,活100岁也要有个妈呀。天底下,知冷知热,无私奉献,对你无微不至最疼爱你的人,谁也比不上这个妈了。妈妈走了,生命中最疼爱你的人走了, 你的生命中就缺失了一大部分。好在你和阿姨相处走过了几十年这么长的一段路,不像我们早就没有母亲了。我们敬爱的金阿姨走了,望你节哀,多保重。
吴淳 小青
June 24, 2012
June 24, 2012
旭东,
惊闻金阿姨仙逝,心中万分难过。金阿姨是我们的慈祥善良的长辈。我们会永远怀念她。在国内需要为她老人家做些什么,请告知。
金阿姨千古。
付平
June 22, 2012
June 22, 2012
我们已经为母亲选好了墓地:波士顿牛顿陵园公墓 I 区112 号。(Newton Cemetery, District I, 107) 具体埋葬日期待定。
June 19, 2012
June 19, 2012
致沉痛哀悼!
Gene &Ting,   Xiao Wei ,Zhi Guang,  Jim and Jiang, Shirley Chen, Charlie Hu & Lu wen Lan,  Shuzhen Qin & Yan Dai, Gui Ying &Guo shing, Qingping &Xiao Yu, 齐培敏,章奕, 彭正,许朝霞,董苏,利钦,玉兰,万君德,杨明。
June 19, 2012
June 19, 2012
谢谢朋友们给予我们的同情与关怀,使我们在失去了亲爱的母亲最痛苦的时候,在心灵上得到许多安慰。在此我代表全家对各位表示衷心的感谢。

杨旭东
June 19, 2012
June 19, 2012
张川 老杨,
惊悉伯母安然逝世,深表沉痛哀悼!我们朋友虽相处不长,但对你们的悲痛有切肤之感。因为我们是同一传统中成长的一代,一样的命运使我们心心相映!敬请节哀,保重身体!
你的朋友: 孙谦及全家
June 19, 2012
June 19, 2012
张川 老杨,

谨致以最诚挚的哀悼。愿慈母在天之灵安息!

明艳,继伟
June 19, 2012
June 19, 2012
十年照顾卧病在床的母亲,你们已经尽孝了,你们的母亲的在天之灵会感到欣慰的,望你们节哀,保重自己。

黄绿 孙林
June 19, 2012
June 19, 2012
Please take care and remmber the beautiful years you had with your Mom. you were lucky to have had her for so many years.
Mingqing and James
June 19, 2012
June 19, 2012
May God comfort you in this difficult time.

Love

Dingding
June 19, 2012
June 19, 2012
Dear Mark,
So Sorry for the loss of your dear Mom. you had done everything you could. your Mom was lucky to have you in her life. 节哀!
Lucy &Jin
June 17, 2012
June 17, 2012
亲爱的妈妈,
转眼之间,您去世快一个月了,我们都那么 那么的在怀念您,想念您。 您好像无时无刻不伴随着我们,无时无刻不在我们的心中,无时无刻不在我们的生活里。您的音容笑貌无时无刻不闪现在我们的脑海中。我们每天都谈到您,回忆起从小到大,过去与您渡过的那美好的时光,虽然时间遥远,但婉如昨日。美好的记忆是永恒的,您在我们的心中也是永恒的。
儿子:旭东
June 16, 2012
June 16, 2012
老杨,川川,
看了你们妈妈的追思网站,感触良深。羡慕你们有一位在逆境中不屈不挠对孩子既爱又严的母亲。同时也更敬重你们这么多年对她的悉心照顾。请节哀。
杜希 学菁
June 14, 2012
June 14, 2012
Mark,

Here with my deepest condolence and sympathy to you for losing your wonderful mom.


Warren Kaiser
June 13, 2012
June 13, 2012
Dear Mark,

Sorry to hear that you lost your mom. With our deepest condolence to you and your family. May her soul rest in peace in the Heaven of God.
Sherry Jones
June 12, 2012
June 12, 2012
Dear Mark,

Thanks for sharing the story of your Mom. We are all very touched by her kindness, conscience and 见义勇为。Few of us can behave like her. You should be really proud of your Mom.
Eric
June 11, 2012
June 11, 2012
Dear Laoda,

The story happened at Jinan train station was like a beacon in the old dark days, a flash of lightening across the long forgotten nation's righteousness. She guided you to go on your journey with a clear conscience, a road to a bright future.
June 8, 2012
June 8, 2012
Dear Mark and Chuang,

We are saddened to hear your loss and please accept our condolense. 我们敬佩金阿姨积极向上, 热情待人,任劳任怨。她的美好品德已经传给了子孙后代。她会为有你们这样孝顺的儿女,成功的儿女而感到自豪。May God bless you all.

Jack and Catherine (Wenjie Qiu)
June 7, 2012
June 7, 2012
Dear Mark,

I am so sorry to hear that! I wasn't there in the class last week either, so I did not know the news.

I know you are a good son. I know exactly how it feels with a lost as such. My father just passed away last year. Please let me know how I can help.

Xylina
June 7, 2012
June 7, 2012
The whole week since you told me that you lost your dear mother, I cannot stop thinking of you, Chuan and your 慈眉善目,眼睛都会笑的母亲. Ten years, you and Chuan have set a high standard how to be a good son and daughter-in-law. Your love and care to your mother, has touched so many people.

Please accept our condolences and best wishes, take good care of your self and your family.

Mingyan and Jiwei
June 7, 2012
June 7, 2012
Mark,

I am so sorry to know your mother passed away. I know how deep your love to your mother is! I have read the website and get to know more about your mother. She is a great great person.

Joan
June 5, 2012
June 5, 2012
Hi, Mark,

I can feel your loss and pain. She is a great soul and she will keep guiding us in our journey. We will all meet with her again.

Please accept me deepest condolence to you and your family.

Paul
June 4, 2012
June 4, 2012
Hi, Dear Mark:

Sorry for your loss and please accept my condolence.
I read through your Mom's website and was very touched by your deep love to your Mom.

You are a great son and Chuan is also a great daughter-in-law, both of you took good care of your Mom for almost 10 years, which is not easy to do for everyone.

Thanks for sharing your Mom's website with me.

Take care of yourself !

Hui
June 4, 2012
June 4, 2012
川儿, 你好。
今天从教会的周报上看到你的婆婆,老杨的母亲去世的消息,很是挂念你们。
本想打个电话给你,说上几句安慰的话。不过深知你们在这个伤心的时候,仍然有许多事情要处理,许多访客要接待,身心俱疲。我打一个电话是想送去慰问和关心,但恐怕也会给你们添上一份繁忙和劳碌。所以决定还是发个 Email。

在你们经历悲伤痛苦的时刻,我们的心思意念都与你们在一起。愿意分担你们的悲伤和痛苦。愿你们能从回忆和希望中撷取力量,在悲哀中找到新的快乐。
“我们若信耶稣死而复活了,那已经在耶稣里睡了的人,神也必将他与耶稣一同带来。”(帖撒罗尼迦前书四:14)
“愿颂赞归与我们的主耶稣基督的父神,就是发慈悲的父,赐各样安慰的神。我们在一切患难中,祂就安慰我们,叫我们能用神所赐的安慰,去安慰那遭各样患难的人。”(哥林多后书一:3-4)

Together with you in His greatest l
June 4, 2012
June 4, 2012
特别衷心感谢波士顿华人基督圣经教会张子义牧师在我母亲生病期间给与母亲的关怀与祷告;在母亲过世之后,给予我们的带领,指导,抚慰,主持追思。。。。使我们能在神的福音沐浴下度过这哀思的时刻。

               - 杨林,陈倩夫妇
               - 杨旭东,张川夫妇
June 1, 2012
June 1, 2012
旭东,
惊悉您家老母亲过世,我们都十分悲痛。 您家老太太仁慈而善良,宽厚而爱人,她的生病与过世, 使我们失去了一位良师益友,失去了一位慈祥而善良的老人。自从她老人家去了美国, 我们虽然没再见过面,但当我们小时在一起玩的时候,她对我们的教育与照顾,却永远记在我的心里。我曾给你讲过,您今天取得的成绩,无疑来自于您妈妈的培养与教育。你应为有这样的母亲而自豪。
愿她老人家一路走好。业明 于济南
May 29, 2012
May 29, 2012
Even though I never really got to know my dear Aunt, all I heard from my mom and dad was how strong she was raising her family and helping people around her. The only time I saw her was a few years ago in Boston, under the great care of my cousin in his house, she looked great, her skin was pure and healthy, she has a very peaceful and kind look on her. God bless your family!!! Jenny
May 29, 2012
May 29, 2012
在此万分悲痛的时候,我们向在母亲十年生病期间曾给予我们无私援助 花费大量时间与精力的张华医生 詹卉医生表示衷心的感谢。
May 28, 2012
May 28, 2012
I'll missing u forever,my kind grandmather.


金延财 悼于青岛
May 26, 2012
May 26, 2012
良操美德千秋在,
亮节高风万古存。

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December 24, 2013
December 24, 2013
亲爱的妈妈,
大家浏览过您的追思网站的次数已经超过三千人次。 我们都十分想念您,缅怀您的恩情。时光的流逝永远也淡化不了我们对您的思念。

儿子:旭东
May 21, 2013
May 21, 2013
母亲已经离开我们一年了。

一年来, 我们常常思念着母亲,提起到母亲。 因为母亲是我生命中的一重要的部分,母亲的离世也意味着我生命中的重要的部分永久的缺失。母亲十几年前病倒与一年前的离世,让我真正体会到了什麽是心痛,什麽是痛不欲生。母亲的离世也让我的人生观、世界观有了质的改变, 有了更深刻的体会。

上星期六(5 月18日)我们带着两个女儿为母亲墓地献了鲜花。
May 16, 2013
May 16, 2013
母亲节时赞母亲,千份感情万份情,
含辛茹苦数十载,言传身教严训庭。
熬过多少不眠夜,呕心沥血养育情。
勤勉坚强树样板,子孙个个逞英雄。

张川于一九九三年母亲节
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疾恶如仇,刚强不屈,无懦者软骨。


母亲从小就受了许多苦。在妈妈刚刚懂事的年龄,姥爷就离开青岛的家,到天津去做生意,后来姥爷与姥姥离异,在天津又结了婚,成了家。妈妈的童年是在几乎没有父爱的岁月中度过的。妈妈九岁的时候,就与大姨(大姨当时11岁)在德国人开的公司大德袜子厂工作。后来又在日本人开的卷烟厂作童工。

在上世纪三、四十年代,日本鬼子穷兵黩武,在亚洲到处发动侵略战争,并在1941年爆发了太平洋战争与美国开战。 日本的无休止的侵略战争,使得日本自己陷入战争的泥潭,本国的经济达到了疲惫不堪、频与崩溃的境地。在日本人殖民统治下的青岛,更是经济萧条,物资匮乏,民不聊生,妈妈一家人挣扎在生死线上。我们小时候,据妈妈给我们讲,舅舅、大姨、妈妈他们在那时要整夜排很长时间的队去买定量的粮食,家里没有烧的柴火,妈妈他们兄弟姐妹就到附近的山上去砍柴。。。。。艰难的生活,恶劣的工作环境,长时间的繁重劳动, 微薄的工资,刻薄的工头体罚与虐待,使妈妈从小就承担生活的重担,受了很多苦,体验到生活的艰难,但同时也使得妈妈从小练就了刚强的性格,不畏强暴,不怕困难, 顽强的生存意识和乐观向上的世界观。这些品质都充分体现 、贯穿在妈妈的一生中。

一九六四年,妈妈由山东省教育厅组织四清工作队到济南市第五中学搞四清运动,妈妈担任四清工作组组长。 妈妈积极工作, 十分认真,疾恶如仇,查出许多贪污问题,贪污数额相当大。因当时的五中盘根错节,校长与贪污的人互相勾结,互相包庇。 对妈妈查出的问题竭力掩盖,挑动不明真相的人与学生,对妈妈进行迫害、报复。妈妈坚持原则,无所畏惧,与那些包庇坏人的领导进行了针锋相对的斗争。在屡次向省、市 及妈妈所属单位领导反映无效的情况下,妈妈毅然带着我哥哥(11岁)与我(9岁)(当时我父亲在农村搞四清)到了北京中央国务院信访接待办公室向中央反映五中贪污盗窃的现状,以及迫害、报复四清工作组人员的问题。中央十分重视,当时打电话给山东省委,要求派人调查五中的情况。我们从北京回来后,发现我们家的窗被人撬开,丢了许多东西。之后,市里组织的调查组上下推诿,调查工作没有任何大的进展。于是妈妈就第二次去北京上访,这次中央直接要求山东省委组成专门调查小组,到五中作彻底的调查。在几个月后,1966 年5 月,山东省委工作组作出了结论:金宝霞同志是正确的,反映的情况是属实的,撤销五中正、副两位校长的职务,给予正、副校长党内严重警告的处分,对贪污的人员进行处置。。。。。。 



杨旭东

忆母亲(4) 母亲对我们的教育

July 18, 2012

妈妈对我们的教育是十分用心的。 从我们很小的时侯,妈妈就要求我们要努力,要自强,不要浪费时光。她经常告诫我们,古人说:一寸光阴一寸金,千金难买寸光阴。“少小莫笑白头翁,花开能有几日红”, “三十不发,四十不富”。 人的知识与财富的积累是要有一个过程的,不是一蹶而就的。 她经常说,人是要有本事的,孙中山先生说的好: 有本事有饭吃。妈妈的教诲一直是我们不断学习,不断努力的动力,也是我们不断要求上进的力量源泉。

妈妈是一个爱国主义者。妈妈在我们小的时候,就给我们讲民族英雄:讲岳母刺字;讲苏武牧羊;讲文天祥英勇就义;讲林则徐禁鴉片;讲中国近代一百多年来的屈辱的历史。。。。。。妈妈经常教我们背诵并唱岳飞的“满江红” 和“苏武牧羊”等歌曲。妈妈的爱国情怀深深地打动并教育了我们。她的教育使我们从小对历史、文学、诗词等产生了极大的兴趣,成为我们终生受益的爱好。妈妈是我们最好的启蒙老师。

杨旭东

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