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Barbara Mitchell Gray

Barbara Mitchell Gray of Kinderhook passed away October 22, 2012 at Columbia Memorial Hospital after a long illness.  Mrs. Gray was born April 7, 1935 to William H. Mitchell and Drucilla Garis Mitchell.  Mrs. Gray married the late Robert M. Gray of Hudson in 1956.

Mrs. Gray is survived by her three children: Justus Mitchell Gray of Oceanside, California, Barbara Jo Salden and her husband Michael of Aloha, Oregon, Robin Gray Giammarco and her husband Gregory of Kinderhook; a brother, William Sheffield of Speculator, N.Y.,  two sisters, D Mitchell of Kenduskeag Maine, Kathleen Smith of Cliffside, Colorado; and predeceased by her sister Elizabeth Quilliam.

Mrs. Gray leaves behind several grandchildren, great-grandchildren, nieces, and nephews.

A Memorial service will be held Friday October 26, 2012 at the First Presbyterian Church at7:00 P.M.  in Valatie, N.Y. with Rev. Kathi L. Jones officiating.  A coffee hour will follow immediately after the ceremony at the Church Hall in lieu of calling hours.

The family requests, in lieu of flowers, that remembrance be made to the Chatham Rescue Squad, P.O. Box 55, Chatham, NY 12037. 

October 22, 2014
October 22, 2014
Barbara, thinking of you today. We miss your laugh, and all the wonderful things you have done for all of us! We love to tell stories about you. You had a great sense of humor and I miss you deeply. Hope your hanging out with my daughter Amanda Jean!!! She could use a swift kick too! We miss her. Love and hugs too you my sweet angels!
November 9, 2012
November 9, 2012
Special friend, the wonderful memorys from our past will always remain a special part of my life.
November 4, 2012
November 4, 2012
Aunt Barbara was not only my Aunt, but also my Godmother :). She will be forever missed, but I know that her soul survived and is with us,always. I'll never forget the letter of encouragement she sent me after I had my back surgery when I was only 13. It meant so much to me.
October 30, 2012
October 30, 2012
So sorry to hear the sad news! My condolences to Robin and all of the Gray family.
October 25, 2012
October 25, 2012
Aunt Baba will always be the declared backbone of my NY family. Wish I could make it back East to see everyone and share in the memorial.
October 25, 2012
October 25, 2012
Hey Barb!
God Speed, as one of the partying Mitchell clan nobody had a better belly laugh than you! You always had a smile and a laugh ... and a positive spin on life ... I'll miss that ... Cheers and see you on the other side!
October 24, 2012
October 24, 2012
I didn't have the pleasure of knowing Barbara Gray, but I knew of her through my sister Annamarie and friend Jay. Without actually meeting Barbara she shared her nature of generosity by sending me a couple keepsakes that I will cherish and think of her whenever I read them. I am sorry I never had the chance to say "thank you" in person. My condolences to Jay and his family. God Bless
October 23, 2012
October 23, 2012
We lost Barbara Gray, 10 / 22/ 2012 to complications associated with heart disease. After 20 plus years battling cancer she is finally declared cancer free then she passes from pulmonary and cardiac complications a few months later.
She will be loved and missed.
Thanks to everyone who has expressed their support and offered their prayers
October 23, 2012
October 23, 2012
Mom,
I am going to miss you more than you know....
You were always there for me with love and encouragement or if needed a kick in the ass to gain a different perspective !!!
Glad I was able to make it back to NY in Sept to spend time with you and will cherish that for ever....Love YOU
October 23, 2012
October 23, 2012
Prayers for healing for the family. Any loss, even one that is expected, leaves a hole for God to fill.
October 23, 2012
October 23, 2012
I have so many memories of Barb. She was the best. We shared many laughs and many funny times. She was a good friend to my dad, Bob White and was Nanny Barbara to my daughter Ariel.
Over the years we didn't see each other as much but every time I use the frying pan she gave me yrs ago I thought of her and will forever. Love you forever my friend.
October 23, 2012
October 23, 2012
Such a difficult time! Words cant explain how much I miss my mom and my best friend. We shared so much and lucky me, I have gained some of your pickiness. I am so glad I was able to have you at my wedding and to share so much of my life with you. You listened when I needed an ear, you gave me and earful when I messed up and you were alot of fun too. Love you so much...xoxo

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October 22, 2014
October 22, 2014
Barbara, thinking of you today. We miss your laugh, and all the wonderful things you have done for all of us! We love to tell stories about you. You had a great sense of humor and I miss you deeply. Hope your hanging out with my daughter Amanda Jean!!! She could use a swift kick too! We miss her. Love and hugs too you my sweet angels!
November 9, 2012
November 9, 2012
Special friend, the wonderful memorys from our past will always remain a special part of my life.
November 4, 2012
November 4, 2012
Aunt Barbara was not only my Aunt, but also my Godmother :). She will be forever missed, but I know that her soul survived and is with us,always. I'll never forget the letter of encouragement she sent me after I had my back surgery when I was only 13. It meant so much to me.
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Moms Pakistani

October 26, 2012

After Greg and I were married, Greg would frequently call Mom on the phone and change his voice to sound just like a Pakistani....she would laugh and laugh each time he did so.


When Mom had to go to an emergency medical appt not so long ago and I wasnt able to bring her...she made arrangement for a medical taxi to bring her....when the owner of this taxi called mom to confirm the arrangements of her ride the man spoke the same way and she said...ohh Greg knock it off I dont feel well...then when she realized it wasnt Greg she laughed and laughed


Thanks Greg for being you and loving and making mom laugh so often


xoxo   Robin        

The Mouse

October 26, 2012

Again while Mom was living in Utah in her appartment on the side of Bobbi and Mikes house Mom was doing / washing her dishes in the kitchen and Bobbi and Mike were in the garage working on a car...


As mom was washing her dishes she kept feeling an itch on her leg, then she had an itch on her thingh and then she realized this feeling was moving...she had a lump under her sweatpants and it was a mouse that Bobbi's cat had brought into the house...well mom freaked and almost wet her pants and proceeded to find Bobbi and Mike.  


She had hot potatoes in her mouth as she tried to tell them what happend and thus had everyone laughing so hard.  such a funny moment for mom....


Love and miss your funny stories mom,   Robin       

October 26, 2012

Mom would frequently say to me how lucky she was to have three such unique and wonderful children and so lucky to also have wonderful son-in-laws...she idolized Mike and Greg to anyone that would listen.


when mom moved to Utah to live with Bobbi and Mike, Mom repeatedly asked Mike to hang a shelf in her kitchen so she could house more trinkets.....so Mike finally made mom happy by doing so while she was at work, but little did mom know that when she came home Mike had done a great job as usual and also had all moms bras hanging across the front of the shelf.  Mom laughed so hard and still has a picture of it.


Thanks Mike for making mom laugh so often.  xoxo   Robin     

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