Let the memory of Becky be with us forever
  • 34 years old
  • Born on December 28, 1978 .
  • Passed away on January 13, 2013 .
This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Becky Shugars 34 years old , born on December 28, 1978 and passed away on January 13, 2013. We will remember her forever.
Posted by Crystal Brown on 31st December 2017
Becky another birthday has passed and I'm still stuck here in hell on earth. Life has been extremely hard since you left. The kids said since you passed I have changed and never really found my way back to the happy person I once was. You left me, grandma s, grandma g and my Radar and my mom accidently killed me birds by cleaning the oven I was crushed and heart broken. George and I are parting ways I put my foot down thinking after 11 years it was time he put a ring on my finger but when I gave him the decision he decided to let me go. His family had a large part of that to. But so be it. I just want you to know these are things I have to go through without you here to give me those aged wisdom statements. I am now broke again moving in with my mom the kids and I. I guess me life will always be like this.. I love and miss you Becky Jane give my grandma' s a hug and kiss from me and tell radar his mommy loves and misses him so much. Not making it slowly dying over a broken heart. Happy birthday girlie.
Posted by Crystal Brown on 13th January 2017
It's been 4 years since you decided you were tired and ready to leave to go to a much happier place where you will be pain free and now you are up there with Grandma, Kenny and my Grandma Graffious and you know Aunt Martha and my Radar. There isn't a day goes by that I don't think of you, think of my grandma's and daily thinking about Radar he help me get through many hard things and one was your death. I know you hated the shell of a life you had to live in. I don't blame you for not wanting that kind of life who would? I just hope you know I loved you so much so so much and how I miss taking care of you. I took care of you and grandma for so long now I feel empty and have nothing. I lost my Radar in October and I hope he is with you and grandma and y'all are taking care of him. It broke my heart to lose him. I am so lonely and broken hearted with out him. He was my security. I know I told you Gene married Ashley she is a good girl Becky and loves Maddie to pieces and Maddie looks a little like you and Gene mixed together. She has that blonde hair for sure and she has these bright beautiful blue eyes she is going to be a knockout for sure. She is growing so tall I know you see her and you are with her always and you are smiling down you and grandma smiling down at her. Anyway I just wanted to let you know I miss you more then you know and won't say goodbye but will say see ya later. Much love and hugs sent above. Love and miss you, Crystal
Posted by Crystal Brown on 28th December 2016
Happy Birthday Becky. I miss you more and more as the days go by but I am so glad your not down here to experience this horrid world we live in people have went plum crazy. Tell everyone I said I love them and keep an eye on Radar and play with him he likes that just don't take him away from me. I love you and miss you so much. Hope your birthday in heaven was a joyous one. I love you.
Posted by Crystal Brown on 2nd April 2016
Becky, Just thinking of you and how you are up with grandma and poppop.I know your enjoying your time with them. I miss you so very much. Life is different now with out you and grandma I have no one to talk to or hang out with or just talk and talk about every little thing and just to see your smiling eyes, and to hear your laugh is what I look forward to so much miss you so so so much. Love you, Crystal
Posted by Crystal Brown on 13th January 2016
Becky, It's been 3 hard years it never seems to get easier especially this year because we lost grandma before Christmas and dealing with your death after. It's been hard for me Becky I wish it would get easier but it doesn't. If I wouldn't of had the picture of you that I have with the words reminding me "Do not cry for you" I don't know what I would do. I cry all the time and boy would I would give to have just that one more day with you just to tell you everything. I love and miss you Becky and look forward to seeing you again my beautiful sister..I love you, Crystal
Posted by Crystal Brown on 28th December 2015
Becky, Happy Birthday to not only my cousin but my sister. I miss you more and more as the days go by but believe me I get all your signs you send me to let me know your happy and okay. I'm getting closer to the day I will be up there with you and grandma. Take care of her till I get up there. Love you Girlie, Missing much. Love, Crystal
Posted by Crystal Brown on 13th January 2015
Becky, It's been 2 years today since you left us to be with Poppop. My heart is still broken and I miss you dearly. There are so many things I want to share with you and can't, so many things I want to do with you and can't, and like the song sings "One more day, One more time" would I love to have with you. If I had only one wish it would be to have you with the kids and I for just one more day. I have so much that I can't share with anyone else that I would only share with you and would love to hear your advice. I remember running in grandma's when you were sick and shutting the door telling you things that I could only tell you. I know my poem and picture of you tells me "if you could see me now" I know you are in such a better place and doing much be better. I also know Grandma is close to being on her way to be with you and Poppop let her know Becky that I love her and do what you can start working on it now to show me you, poppop and grandma all together when the time comes. I love you forever and ever and a piece of my heart will be yours forever. I love you my darling cousin/sister, Crystal
Posted by Crystal Brown on 29th December 2014
Happy Birthday Becky..
Posted by Crystal Brown on 7th August 2013
Becky, You were not only my cousin but my sister. I cry and miss you more every passing day. I know I will see you again one day but it doesn't make it any easier. I miss the talks we had and would give anything just to hear you say I love you just one more time. What I wouldn't do to have you back but know your in a better place, I love & miss you so much.

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