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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Bede Uku, 64 years old, born on January 13, 1957, and passed away on February 10, 2021. We will remember him forever.
February 10
February 10
Atere!!!
Can’t believe it’s been 3 years of no you!
No you to harass, no you to guide me through the Canadian system, no you to bribe with some tantalizing meal when I need you to fix something in my house (Omo! I didn’t know how expensive handy men are) no you, my encyclopedia, no you to pet me….. no you bros!
I just miss you.
Continue to sleep peacefully

❤️ always

Itse
February 10
February 10
3 years!?! Continue to Rest in Perfect Peace My Brother ❤️
February 10
February 10
"Forever missed, yet always cherished. Three years may have passed, but your presence lingers in our hearts, woven into the fabric of our memories. Your laughter, your kindness, your love continue to inspire us every day. Though you're no longer with us in body, your spirit remains a guiding light, guiding us through life's journey. Until we meet again, dear brother, you'll forever be loved and deeply missed."
February 10
February 10
"Atere!!" We would spend hours just sitting and talking about life and whatever else. I miss those times but I know you're in a better place. Bros P, continue to rest in peace.
January 13
January 13
It’s been three years, but you are still very much there in our hearts… you are dearly missed. ❤️
January 13
January 13
Atere!!
Happy birthday! Miss you everyday.
Continue to rest in peace
February 14, 2023
February 14, 2023
Can one ever forget you? It's still hard for me to accept you gone. For ever to be remembered Uncle Bede. Keep resting in the Lord
January 24, 2023
January 24, 2023
Bede my dear friend. No day goes bye without the thought of you. The vacuum you created on earth remains. But we are joyful because we believe you are resting in the bosom of the Lord. RIP my friend
January 22, 2023
January 22, 2023
BEDEKUS, I miss you everyday. Toronto is totally different for me without you. I bless God for the privilege of knowing you from our teenage years until we both moved to Canada. The private moments shared eating ‘ Abula’, the breakfast sessions, office Christmas parties and generally just taking a drive to show me the city of Toronto. Anytime I see the colour and model of your car, which is everyday, i hail ‘Bidekus’. Every day I remember you..
Gentle man of the highest order. RIP
January 13, 2023
January 13, 2023
Happy 66th posthumous birthday dear big bro Bede! Cherish the priceless memories we shared…. The laughter… that thunderous Uku laughter. Miss you everyday ❤️
Continue to Rest In Peace

Always,

Itse
January 13, 2023
January 13, 2023
Bede, you’re forever missed. Today would’ve been your 66th birthday. Continue to rest in peace. 

Kyei Family
January 13, 2023
January 13, 2023
Dear Bede,

You are forever missed my brother. Keep resting with the Angels!

Ossy Egbaran
January 13, 2023
January 13, 2023
We remember you today and everyday.
Will light a candle to mark this 66th birthday.
Forever missed, forever in our minds.
Rest peacefully Bede.

Kunbo.
February 10, 2022
February 10, 2022
My dear peaceful, ever smiling, quiet cousin,.whenever I see your name, l immediately recall that your laugh, that chuckle from bottom of your heart. O death! Where is thy sting?. Continue to rest in perfect peace at the bosom of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ,until we meet again on resurrection morning.
February 10, 2022
February 10, 2022
BEDE. We are missing you and we miss you dearly. May the GOOD LORD continue to rest you in peace.
February 10, 2022
February 10, 2022
My gentle friend, loving father and husband. We miss you dearly. Continue to rest ever so peacefully in the loving arms of our eternal heavenly father!
February 10, 2022
February 10, 2022
Bede, it seems like yesterday when we talked on the phone, January last year. It's been hard to imagine that you are no longer with us. I always remember those precious days we spent together at southern University with all of us that came from Bendel State in August 1975. Bede, we missed you dearly and I pray that you continue to rest in the bosom of the Lord in haven.
January 20, 2022
January 20, 2022
De Men!
Atere! (I can hear you answer ‘Kada!’)
It’s true what they say that it’s best to write a tribute when the pain is fresh otherwise it gets harder & harder….so true! Almost a year and it’s still hard… I felt like writing something was really saying goodbye and I couldn’t comprehend it. Still can’t…….
I miss you Atere! I’ve dialed your number a number of times hoping to hear your voice mail message,… your voice ‘this is the voicemail of Bede Uku’….but alas! You are still on my speed dial… how can I delete it?
My dear gentle, calm, ever smiling, easy going big bro! You were always there for me and were my 911 when Olumide wasn’t around and you always responded like a true emergency service. Even when it wasn’t convenient, you made a way.
I was a thorn in your flesh in many ways …I agree and we had our many disagreements but you never stayed angry at me.
You were very simple and quiet. Quiet to a fault that even at the end you didn’t share your pain… you downplayed it…that’s a bone I will pick with you when we meet again.
I miss your laughter!
I miss our little fights!
I miss harassing you!
I miss you hailing me ‘It che o’!
I miss my ‘Go to’ guy for all Canadian issues!
I miss my friend!
I miss our chats!
I miss my handy man!
I miss my big bro!
I miss you Atere!
Sleep on dear bro till we meet to part no more.

Your baby sis!
Itse ❤️
January 16, 2022
January 16, 2022
Happy posthumous birthday, Bede! May your soul continue to rest in peace, Amen.
January 16, 2022
January 16, 2022
Beloved Uncle Bede you were so fun to be around. Whenever we came to the
house you met us with a warm smile. You were kind, hospitable, and, loving, and we all loved you so very much. May the Lord Jesus Christ continue to strengthen Aunty, your children, grandchildren, and family. “Precious in the sight of the Lord Is the death of His godly ones” Psalm 116:15. We missed you a lot.

January 15, 2022
January 15, 2022
I miss you dear Bro. It’s been almost a year I heard your gentle voice. You were indeed a big brother to us all. Quiet but wise. I pray you are resting in Gods bosom. Miss you loads
January 14, 2022
January 14, 2022
Continue to rest in peace dear Bede.
January 13, 2022
January 13, 2022
Bede, may you continue to rest peacefully in the bosom of the Lord. You’ll forever be missed by your dear in-laws, the Kyei Family.
January 13, 2022
January 13, 2022
A very happy posthumous birthday to you, Bede. Continue to rest in peace, bro.
January 13, 2022
January 13, 2022
Continue to Rest in Peace Cousin Bede.
January 13, 2022
January 13, 2022
Today marks one year of the very sad departure of our dear brother and friend, Pepe from his earthly journey to heaven. We sincerely pray for the continuous repose of his gentle soul and pray that our Good and omnipotent Lord will also continue to comfort his family. Continue to rest in perfect peace Bro.
February 27, 2021
February 27, 2021
To a kind brother and friend i know.
I can remember your kind smiles and soft spoken words. You were kind and gentle, a man with such great personality, you will be forever missed. Pepe we all love you but Jesus love you more. I take encouragement in the word of God in 1thessalonians 4:16-17 . and the dead in Christ shall rise first. Good night Pepe
My heart felt condolences goes to all the Uku's family. May the Lord Strengthen you all
February 25, 2021
February 25, 2021
You have finished your race here on earth. May the Lord grant your Soul Eternal Rest! May He comfort your loves ones and fill the vacuum you have left in their lives. In Jesus name. Amen
February 20, 2021
February 20, 2021
Bede’s loss hurts but we take solace in the fact he has gone to a much better place. I have known Bede since 1974 when I was introduced to him by my cousins. We remained in touch through our his US college and grad school sojourn and reunited with him again when I worked with Shell in Warri. My wife and kids visited him and his family a couple of times at his Warri GRA residence where his neighbors called him “Baba Landlord”. Bede was the consummate gentleman and his personality drew him to people. Sad to see him go and may our Good Lord bring comfort to his wife, three boys and siblings.
February 19, 2021
February 19, 2021
My condolences to the Uku family on this sad loss. May the Lord comfort your family at this difficult time. On behalf of the OGIDI-GBEGBAJE family.
February 18, 2021
February 18, 2021
What a shock when I heard the news of your passing, my old friend, Bede.
The years have passed so very quickly from our days at Southern University and Avenue F.

May you rest in the bosom of our dear Lord, forever.
May the Lord strengthen and console the family during this difficult time. Amen
February 18, 2021
February 18, 2021
MAY HIS GENTLE AND KIND WARM SOUL REST IN PERFECT PEACE. MISS YOU BEDE. MY CONDOLENCE TO THE UKU FAMILY AND EXTENDED FAMILIES.
February 17, 2021
February 17, 2021
Pepe,
Hearing of your passing was a huge shock to Henri and I. We are deeply saddened, and I’m still unsettled. As first cousins growing up on the same road I have so many wonderful childhood memories. Thankful to have spent quality time with you at the recent Uku family reunion. You were always so gentle. You always welcome us with that smile that would light up your face. Pepe you really have left us too soon, but God loves you more.

May your gentle soul Rest in Peace. I know you are in heaven smiling down at us. Ajua
February 16, 2021
February 16, 2021
Thank God for the life my dear Bede. I am very glad for the privilege of joining the funeral service today from lagos Nigeria. I have always looked forward to you coming back to Nigeria one day but who are we to question our all awesome God. May the warm and gentle soul of my dear Bede rest in peace peace.Amen!!!!
February 16, 2021
February 16, 2021
We bade Bede goodbye today....Still surreal.. .But our God knows best. Bede is in a better place but remains alive in our memories. Rest in perfect peace 
February 16, 2021
February 16, 2021
.....death is a transition but we will miss Uncle Tosan greatly. We give glory and honor to the Almighty God for a life well lived. Adieu our beloved Uncle.
February 16, 2021
February 16, 2021
As a kid I remember you to be a soft spoken, well behaved gentleman. Big Cozz Pepe, you lived a good life. May your soul rest amongst heavenly saints, the good lord comfort your immediate family.
February 16, 2021
February 16, 2021
Sorry to hear this recent bereavement. Although I did not know him well, but met on some occasions , he was always kind, good-humored and respectful. Please accept my sympathy for this sad loss.
February 16, 2021
February 16, 2021
My most profound condolences to Bede's and the larger Uku family. I pray that you are all blessed with all that you need, to address this very great loss. May his soul rest in perfect peace.
February 16, 2021
February 16, 2021
Uncle Bede, I'm still in disbelief of your passing and could only gather little strength today to spill just a few words in expressing my heartfelt pain for you leaving us too soon. May your tranquil soul continue to rest in Power and shower consolation on your immediate families & friends that you left behind. You smiles will continue to radiate in us all... Thanks for the wonderful moments we shared together both when I visited you in Canada plus the LOONG drive you did to mine in Boston few years back.... Rest in Power my dearest Uncle...
February 16, 2021
February 16, 2021

The news of your passing came to us as a Shock..... Hmmmmm
We can't question our creator.
Your infectious smile and that signature laughter .....
You were a part of our family... you will be sorely missed.
We pray the Lord comforts your immediate and extended family.
Rest in perfect peace PEPE.

THE OJEME's
February 16, 2021
February 16, 2021
My heartfelt condolences to Bede’s family. Wishing you peace and comfort in the precious memories you all share. Rest in peace Bede.
February 16, 2021
February 16, 2021
Beds uku
My beloved friend that was like a brother. It is sad to see go so soon
We were both looking forward to a time when we shall seat and watch our children grow but ....you have to go to the lord. I take solaces that you did your best and in my opinion you completed well.
Psalm 128: 3-6 is fulfilled in your life,and God has blessed you with children who has given you a befitting burrial Eccles 6:3
On behalf of the Ukposidolo's
Rest in perfect peace in Jesus mighty name Amen
February 16, 2021
February 16, 2021
Adieu Pepe! Gone too soon indeed!
May your gentle soul rest in perfect peace
February 16, 2021
February 16, 2021
Pepper my brother
I was shocked when I read from Aliwere's status on Thursday morning saying fare uncle Bede just like that my gentle, quite, loving, kind always smiling friend and cousin Rest in perfect peace till we meet to part no more peppes good Night.
February 16, 2021
February 16, 2021
Bede, your departure has left us in shock. I cannot believe I will not see your smile again, or hear your big laugh. But you ran a good race, you can rest now. Adieu Pepe
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February 10
February 10
Atere!!!
Can’t believe it’s been 3 years of no you!
No you to harass, no you to guide me through the Canadian system, no you to bribe with some tantalizing meal when I need you to fix something in my house (Omo! I didn’t know how expensive handy men are) no you, my encyclopedia, no you to pet me….. no you bros!
I just miss you.
Continue to sleep peacefully

❤️ always

Itse
February 10
February 10
3 years!?! Continue to Rest in Perfect Peace My Brother ❤️
February 10
February 10
"Forever missed, yet always cherished. Three years may have passed, but your presence lingers in our hearts, woven into the fabric of our memories. Your laughter, your kindness, your love continue to inspire us every day. Though you're no longer with us in body, your spirit remains a guiding light, guiding us through life's journey. Until we meet again, dear brother, you'll forever be loved and deeply missed."
His Life
February 15, 2021
Bede Oritsematosan Uku was born in Sapele on 13th January 1957 to Late Chief Bede James Alaba and Dorothy Temietan Uku. He was the first of six siblings and hailed from Okere, Warri in Delta State of Nigeria.
Upon his parents departing to study in England, he lived with his grandparents in Sapele until his parents returned back to Nigeria in 1964. There, his grandmother gave him the nick name ‘Pepe’ a name he was fondly called by his siblings and extended family.
He reunited with his parents and three sisters in Benin upon their return. 

He attended Emotan Preparatory School from 1964-1968. 
In January 1968, he began his secondary school life at the renowned Government College, Ughelli and completed his studies there in 1972. He remained, until his demise, an active and bonafide member of the class of 1968 of his alumni by attending school reunions in the United States and most recently their zoom meetings a couple of months ago.

Bede proceeded to the United States for his undergraduate studies in 1975 where he obtained a B.Sc. in Civil Engineering from the Southern A&M University, Baton Rouge, Louisiana, USA in 1979.
From 1979 - 1981 he went further to acquire a Post graduate degree - M. Eng.  Engineering from the Tennessee State University, Nashville.

Thereafter, he returned to Nigeria where he did the mandatory NYSC in Port Harcourt between 1981 and 1982.
A year later, Bede relocated to Warri where he worked with Waratem Engineering Ltd. He was also the Managing Director of Waratem Transport before going into private engineering practice.

In April 1987 he got married to his beloved wife, Onogho and the marriage is blessed with three sons: Bede “JJ’ Uku, Leonard Oritseweyinmi Uku, and Mark Eyinmisan Uku.

In 2002, Bede relocated with his family to Toronto, Canada. Whilst in Canada, he saw all three sons through university. Bede went on to have a fulfilling career with the Mechanical department of the Estee Lauder Group of Companies. 

Bede enjoyed watching sports, particularly football and basketball. He also enjoyed completing DIY projects around the house. He took pride in doing things himself and constantly upgrading his house. He was also ever willing to help family and friends with their home renovations.  

Bede was a loving, intelligent, humble, generous, and selfless man, who always had a cheerful and positive outlook in life. He was always easy going with a great trademark smile and infectious laugh. He had positive energy which he always brought with him. 
Bede was a gentleman to the core and a dependable friend. He was an ardent Catholic who practiced the faith to the end. A proud Itsekiri man blessed with a rich cultural knowledge of his roots. He was without question a reference point for relating and tracing historical family lineage.
A great family man, Bede will be sorely missed by his immediate family, siblings, cousins,  friends and colleagues.

The curtain fell  on February 10th 2021 but we thank God for the lovely memories shared in his lifetime. He will be deeply missed!

He left behind his wife, three children, a grandson and five siblings.
May God have mercy on him and grant him peaceful rest in the arms of the Lord.
Amen!
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Tribute from the Kyei Family

February 16, 2021
We were first introduced to Bede in 2015 by our son-in-law, Leonard and we immediately fell in love with him. His smiles and laughter were so infectious that at that moment we knew our daughter was joining a good family and that was what matters most to us. His jokes, laughter and personality made us forget about our strong dowry demands.
A gentle soul, peace maker, we will cherish your memories forever. You're gone too soon!

May you rest in peace in the bosom of the Lord.

The Kyei Family

February 16, 2021
My heartfelt condolences to his siblings, Onogho and children. Indeed you left us too soon. But God has a reason for calling you home like you middle name depict “Oritsematosan” (God knows what is best). I firmly believe you will rest in God’s bosom because you served God with your heart.

You were a honest and hard working business man and always making those around you smile.
You smiles will always remind me of your dad; a complete gentle man.

I am still finding hard to believe that you have gone. Because I clearly remember your 60th birthday party at Banana Island and Mummy’s burial.

Gentleman rest in PEACE. It is really hard to come to reality. Good night

Tribute to Gentleman Bede

February 14, 2021
What do I say about a man like Bede? I grew up knowing Bede. I do not recall anyone introducing him to me. After all, was part of the famous Uku family of Bata Factory road, Benin City.

Bede was friendly beyond words - a gregarious man with a hearty laugh. There was never a dull moment with him. There was always this unassuming nature about him. Beneath it all was a powerful personality. He was always a loyal friend. Many of our mutual friends will attest to part of his nature.

Bede was an integral part of a company of friends of yore. Even when we all had to part to pursue our various paths in life, whenever we encountered each other, we continued from where we left off. Bede searched out friends, he communicated, he empathized and he shared. He was an embodiment of true friendship.

To his immediate family - I know that Bede must have transmitted some of these timeless values to you. Keep them, use them - they will serve you well on your journey through life. May the Lord comfort you with the comfort only He can give. 

Thank you Bede for the love you shared, the faithfulness you displayed and the good times we had together.

Adieu dear friend till we all meet to part no more.

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