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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Belinda Olson, 60 years old, born on October 20, 1960, and passed away on February 5, 2021. We will remember her forever.
July 7, 2023
July 7, 2023
Hi momma
I thought i would write just so you know how much i live and miss you. I know you already know since you stay close and yes ive been seeing you when im out in the garden landing on things next me. The funny thing is until you told me to look for that dragonfly and i would know you were with me i never noticed them really before or how beautiful until after you left me. Since you finally went home to rest life has been so up and down so many good things but bad things and so many times ive reached for that phone only to stop and whisper instead because it hit me that you wouldnt answer the phone but you would hear my whisper.... some news on the home front vincent finally had a baby boy who i havent met yet but i will and can you believe our little breana boonana is 25 weeks into her first pregnancy i cant believe my lil baby girl isnt such a lil baby anymore. Now i know how you must have felt. I know you will wat h over all my babies and grandbabies your grandbabies and great grandbabies and please help keep me strong and able to be a part of their lives. I love you so much momma and drew and i are also doing good which i know was important to you.... muahhhhhh
February 5, 2023
February 5, 2023
Well mama we are one day away from 2 years since you went home and became free finally I miss you so much everyday every second every minute. Life has not been the same without you in it I'm lost I talked to you all the time I know You hear me I see all the signs that you're listening in that you're here but it's not the same as talking to you and hearing your voice I wish you were here but then again I'm very lucky to have you where you are because I couldn't have asked for a better angel especially over the last 2 years with these car accident stepping in I know you've been right there but man being a mom I need some guidance on and only you can give me that I love you Mama I miss you so so much and doesn't get easier what time
October 20, 2022
October 20, 2022
Happy Birthday Belinda your so missed. Hope your laughing in heaven and know how much you are loved and missed here we all love you.
October 20, 2022
October 20, 2022
Happy Birthday in Heaven sweet girl. Give my love to your sisters and all our Minnick family.
December 3, 2021
December 3, 2021
My Momma My Hero here it is almost 10 months since you've become the angel in heaven and it doesn't get any easier. Not a second in a day goes by that I don't have you on my mind and missing you.... some says are harder than other but I have noticed you and your guidance on those really hard days and how you show me the way to make it through. Just like a few days ago when I was having really bad problems with my back and having lots of moments with the numbness in my hands and feet, when I was so scared that it may be permanent problem sooner or later but I got up went out side and that dragonfly that just zipped passed a few times then landed on the water hose and no matter the movement it stayed standing tall with no fear of me not one movement until I said ok momma I get it I'm strong and I'm not afraid because I got this and I will not let this injury be stronger than me just like you didn't let the cancer be stronger than you... Not to my surprise as I said that and told you how much I loved you did that dragonfly fly up then down and came from behind me over my right shoulder to just in front of me stayed for about a second or 2 then took off. Yes I did still have some pain throughout the day but the numbness went away and I know that was all your doing. I just want you to know my momma you are so very special to me and if i could give or do anything for just one more day, one more hour, one more minute or even just one more second with you I would just so I could hear your voice and so i could hug you and tell you just how much you mean to me..... I love you momma
November 6, 2021
November 6, 2021
I love you Belinda, you were just a baby when we were all growing up and I was the same age as your sister Sandy. I was so close to Cindy, Sandy and Janet. But I remember you and you was the prettiest baby I ever saw.
June 7, 2021
June 7, 2021
I couldn't scroll past your memorial page and not stop and write something . I can not put into words how much you saved me from myself , especially when my Mom passed away. I remember you telling me I could call you Mom. And I needed that more than you could ever imagine. It was so refreshing having a grandma for Jay since my Mom wasnt here to help me learn how to be a Mom. The love a mother/ grandmother has for their child/ grandchild is so raw and unwaivering and that is the kind of Love you had for both of us. My heart hurts so bad every time I think about the fact that your not with us anymore. Its been about four months and I still find myself bursting in to tears randomly when I think about you, or Uncle Gene and the hurt he is feeling , or knowing I will never be loved ,how I was describing above, again. You were so proud of everyone little accomplishment I made and always told me how beautiful I am, just like my Mom did. And after I had Jay you loved her so much i didnt realize how much I took that love for granted. The last couple years have not been the easiest for me and you were always there for me and offered whatever help you could. I hate that you were sick and suffering but the selfish part of me wishes I had just a little more time with you. I wish I could have taken you on an awesome vacation and just spoil you like the Princess you are, or should I say HBIC you are hookahhh! I love you so much Auntie Bee! The bright light in you truly shined different than any one else's. Heaven gained one hell of an Angel.
May 5, 2021
May 5, 2021
You are missed by many and loved by all. You have touched so many life's and will truly be missed. The memories i share with you i will forever treasure and continue to share to keep your memory alive. I am blessed to of had a chance to have you ln my life. Always down for a good time no matter how you felt. I will continue my life with the lessons you have taught me and promise to cherish those moments. We laughed and we cried together and i miss you. All the times weather it was good or bad i miss it all. You were always there when i needed you and always told me what i needed to hear and i miss that i miss YOU. More then i could even fit into this box. I cant explain the pain it left once you left this world and how life will never be the same. You will forever be missed and loved. Rest in peace to the REAL HBIC if you know you know lol xoxoxoxox
May 5, 2021
May 5, 2021
Momma I am so thankful that I was picked to be your daughter. I couldn't and wouldn't have picked anyone else. I am the woman, mom, wife and friend I am today because you are my momma. I love and miss you so very much. It is so hard cause I want to say I would do anything to have you back but then again no I wouldn't 20 years with that cancer was to long for anyone to suffer but you did and you it for all who love you. You are the strongest bravest most beautiful woman ever

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July 7, 2023
July 7, 2023
Hi momma
I thought i would write just so you know how much i live and miss you. I know you already know since you stay close and yes ive been seeing you when im out in the garden landing on things next me. The funny thing is until you told me to look for that dragonfly and i would know you were with me i never noticed them really before or how beautiful until after you left me. Since you finally went home to rest life has been so up and down so many good things but bad things and so many times ive reached for that phone only to stop and whisper instead because it hit me that you wouldnt answer the phone but you would hear my whisper.... some news on the home front vincent finally had a baby boy who i havent met yet but i will and can you believe our little breana boonana is 25 weeks into her first pregnancy i cant believe my lil baby girl isnt such a lil baby anymore. Now i know how you must have felt. I know you will wat h over all my babies and grandbabies your grandbabies and great grandbabies and please help keep me strong and able to be a part of their lives. I love you so much momma and drew and i are also doing good which i know was important to you.... muahhhhhh
February 5, 2023
February 5, 2023
Well mama we are one day away from 2 years since you went home and became free finally I miss you so much everyday every second every minute. Life has not been the same without you in it I'm lost I talked to you all the time I know You hear me I see all the signs that you're listening in that you're here but it's not the same as talking to you and hearing your voice I wish you were here but then again I'm very lucky to have you where you are because I couldn't have asked for a better angel especially over the last 2 years with these car accident stepping in I know you've been right there but man being a mom I need some guidance on and only you can give me that I love you Mama I miss you so so much and doesn't get easier what time
October 20, 2022
October 20, 2022
Happy Birthday Belinda your so missed. Hope your laughing in heaven and know how much you are loved and missed here we all love you.
Recent stories

That man is either a Drug Dealer or a rapper

February 5, 2023
It blows my mind whenever I think about the fact that your truly gone. I miss you like you wouldn't believe. I've never known  any one as happy as you. Someone who's energy could light up every room you entered. I don't think I ever will meet anyone that has even 10 percent of the heart and soul you did. 
So the story today is a cult favorite, you me, grandma,  Uncle Gene, and dion always laughed about. 
Were going to go back in time a bit. Back to 2009 when I had just graduated high-school, Jay hadn't even been thought of yet and me and her dad had been dating at least 3-4 years.
Im going to tell this story from 2 perspectives here.
Auntie Bee and Uncle Gene's perspective: 
You guys tell me a story about something crazy that happened. You were at  the gas station and your card wasn't working. The gentleman behind you in line paid for your entire 56 dollar order and put gas in your tank. You guys could not wrap your heads around this mystery man's generosity and couldn't remember for absolute sure but thought you had distinctly remembered the man saying "Have a good one Gene" as he was leaving. 
Auntie Bee:
" That man was either a drug dealer or a rapper! He bought all our stuff and didn't even bat an eye and had a SUPER nice car."
Dions perspective:
Dion comes over later that day....
Dion: " So I ran into your Aunt Belinda and Uncle Gene today. They needed help at the gas station. But imma be honest I don't think they recognized me......"
Needless to say Uncle Gene and Auntie Bee were mortified when I informed them that the "mystery man" who had saved the day for them at the gas station was no mystery man at all. He was in fact my boyfriend with whom I was very serious with that they had met over two or three dozen times. 
On a positive note, we were all able to laugh about it and no feelings were hurt in the events of this story  
And you guys always recognized him after that super embarrassing run in! 
I love you Auntie Bee . I  know if you were here that story would Crack you up! Almost as much as Jay saying "Get that baby off your tummy auntie Bee that's my chubby tubby!" But that's for a different day  
I love you so much just as much as I did before you passed! 

A story.....

May 7, 2021
I was lucky enough to be a part of your story just another character in a chapter of your long book of life. To of had that opportunity of being a part of your book i am proud to of had that. I know i was never good about explaining how much you meant to me but i think you always knew my heart. Such a caring loving person you were. You would have given the shirt of your back to a stranger in need. Because that's just who you were. I've seen you help people in moments were you couldn't even help yourself but you never gave up. You always lived life and seen the beauty in it regardless of how stormy the weather got. You were a person who loved your family so much. Even tho life didn't deal you the best of hands your love for your family was so strong. You loved hard when it came to the people you loved and you showed it. It was beautiful. You have taught me to be strong and be grateful of the small things. You showed me that its ok to be myself and if someone don't like it then you don't need them. "Always be yourself and have fun Shelbs" you would say to me. We have had many fun times and have laughed more then i have ever laughed. To when we sung karaoke to just grooving to some Motown and having a good time!  Moments that i will play in my mind that is how I will remember you forever. I will keep my promise you made me promise to you before you left this world. Im sad I wasn't able to hold your hand one last time that day. But I feel your holding my hand now as i remember you and miss you. Your forever loved and forever missed. Life will never be the same without you a whole that will NEVER be filled by anyone. And even tho your story has ended you will always stay a part of mine. I love you i miss you. Always  
May 5, 2021
Your forever in my heart. I have known you forever. You will always be the sister i never had in my heart. Its hard to believe you are gone. Love you forever and always. 

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