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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Benjamin F Stanford, Jr, 44 years old, born on October 30, 1965, and passed away on September 11, 2010. We will remember him forever.
September 11, 2014
September 11, 2014
Good morning my baby. I am sitting here fighting back the tears as always. There is not a day that goes by that I don't think about you and how much I miss and love you. I am sitting here remembering the last conversation that we had. You had called me to go and get Dooley some flowers and put on his grave and we would split the cost. I said boy stop playing you know I am going to have to pay for the whole thing. You laughed and said not this time. I got you. (smile) Man these tears will not stop. Jr. I miss you so very much. I will always love you, yesterday, today and forevermore. Dooley birthday is September 10 & your death is September 11. Lord when these days roll around it seems as though my heart is just going to explored. I miss the two of you so much. But until we meet again. I love you. I know the two of you are looking down and watching over me. Jr. thank you for loving me the way you did. Continue to rest in paradise my brother. Love you much.
December 15, 2013
December 15, 2013
My Dear Benjamin,
As I celebrate our 23rd Wedding Anniversary, I miss you much. I wish you were here with me but I know that you are in a far better place. You will always remain in my heart and thoughts. Until we meet again in that beautiful land. Rest In Peace.
Your loving wife,
Janice
October 30, 2013
October 30, 2013
Well it has been three years.since you had to leave us and today is your birthday. I wish you were here so we could celebrate what would have been 48 years. I know you are celebrating in a far better place now. I love and miss you greatly. Happy Birthday my love!
September 11, 2013
September 11, 2013
Today I experienced so many emotions. I sent out birthday wishes and paused to remember those who lost their lives in the 911 terrorist attacks. But a huge part of my heart still mourns the loss of a very dear brother-in-law. I still struggle to understand but it helps to know that you are at rest in a far more peaceful place than this world could ever offer. Love and miss you so much.
September 11, 2013
September 11, 2013
My dear, Benjamin. It is still with tears in my eyes that I right yet another tribute. It has been three years today and I still feel that pain and lack understanding as to why you are not here. I know that God truly knows best and I try really hard to remember that you are at peace. I love and miss you and I know I will see you again one day. Rest in Paradise Ben!
September 11, 2013
September 11, 2013
My how time flies! It was 3 yeara ago today that thw Lord God calles you home to rest. Yet, it still feels like yesterday. They say that time heals all wounds but I don't believe that to be true. It still hurts just as bad today as it did those few years ago. The only solace is knowing that you in peaceful slumber. Miss & love you dearly.
January 1, 2013
January 1, 2013
Happy New Year Ben. I love and miss you! Rest In Peace!
December 15, 2012
December 15, 2012
Happy 22nd Wedding Anniversary Ben. I will never forget you and will love you for eternity!
November 1, 2012
November 1, 2012
Ben, you will be forever missed. I know you're singing in the "heavenly choir," and just that thought, fills my heart with joy.
October 31, 2012
October 31, 2012
My dear, sweet brother-in-law. Well, yesterday was your 47th birthday. Im a day late but just couldn't bring myself to come to the website & see all of those photos of you again. I still cannot believe you are gone. But you will never, ever be forgotten. It still hurts but the memories of you bring such joy. I know you are looking out for Janice & the boys. Love you & miss you dearly
October 30, 2012
October 30, 2012
Happy birthday my wonderful baby brother. I miss you dearly. People say time heals all wounds but so far the wound that you left in my heart has not healed yet. I know God will see me through but I still miss you terribly. Rest in peace. With all my love, your big sister Alice.
October 30, 2012
October 30, 2012
Happy Birthday "Jr.". Man I miss you so much! There is not a day that goes by that I don't think about you. I miss your laughter, your smile, hearing you sing. I know that it has been two years since you have left us, but I still find myself picking up the phone to call you. This is so hard for me but I do know God do not make mistakes. I will always love you. Rest in peace my brother.
October 30, 2012
October 30, 2012
My Dear Husband, today is your 47th birthday, birthday number three since you departed this world. I miss you so much and I know you are celebrating your birthday in heaven now. Till the day we meet again. Love you and miss you forever! You will always be in my heart. Your loving wife, Janice
September 11, 2012
September 11, 2012
My darling baby brother it has been two years since you left us. We miss you very much. As I looked at the pictures, tears clouded my eyes as I began to think of our growing up together. You were our shining star then and you are even more so now because you touched so many lives with your singing. God chose to take you because he knows you are--not were, but ARE special. Love you-- Alice
September 11, 2012
September 11, 2012
Yet another year has passed but my memories of you will never fade. You are greatly missed by us all. Be sure to sing to Allana when you visit her.
Love always,
Cheryl
September 11, 2012
September 11, 2012
Today is the second anniversary of your transition. Miss you so very much. R.I.P. dear husband. Until we meet again.
January 1, 2012
January 1, 2012
Happy New Years Day to my husband in heaven. I love and miss you so much!
December 25, 2011
December 25, 2011
Merry Christmas to my first and only love. I miss you so much!
December 15, 2011
December 15, 2011
Happy 21st Anniversary! I love and miss you so much. R.I.P. Dear Benjamin!
November 24, 2011
November 24, 2011
Missing you so very much! Holidays are the hardest. Happy Thanksgiving. Rest in Peace.
October 30, 2011
October 30, 2011
Fourty six years ago, God brought you into this world. You blessed so many lives while on this earth. You were so faithful & hardworking. Now, you rest. . Miss you so dearly. May you rest peacefully! Love you always & the memories of you will forever be in my heart.
September 23, 2011
September 23, 2011
My dear, sweet brother-in-law..oh how I miss you. You were always more than that. You were a brother, a confidante, an advisor & so much more. Thank you for being a wonderful husband to my face big sister & a magnificent father to my nephews. Love u & rest peacef!ully!
September 19, 2011
September 19, 2011
For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life. Ben will always have a special memory in my heart. He was an awesome young man. Love, your Cousin "Penny.
September 18, 2011
September 18, 2011
Big brother, I miss you and think of you practically everyday. You will always be a special part of my memories and have a special place in my heart. Rest in peace. Love, Cheryl Lynn
September 12, 2011
September 12, 2011
You are so missed Uncle JR...gone, but never forgotten...love you all very much Auntie Janice!
September 11, 2011
September 11, 2011
My baby brother I thought of you practically all day today. I miss you dearly and you will forever be in my heart. Just the thought of you not being with us during our family gatherings brings tears to my eyes. But your presence will always be with us. Love & miss you, Alice.
August 26, 2011
August 26, 2011
My Dear Husband you are forever in my heart. Rest In Peace.
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October 30, 2022
October 30, 2022
Happy birthday Ben! Time continues to pass as those left on this earth work towards the great reward you have already earned. It never gets easier to post a message hear, but I still rejoice that you are in God's loving care and there is no better place to be.
In loving memorie,
Chery
October 30, 2022
October 30, 2022
Happy Happy Heavenly Birthday Husband!
I know you are truly rejoicing this birthday because you have your mom with you now. I know you’re having a great celebration. However we still miss you down here. I won’t ever forget you and all you brought to my life. Still a bit difficult after all this time but still feels like yesterday for me. Life is still going on and I still wonder what you would think and do. Continue to rest in paradise. Until I see you on the great getting up morning.

Love forever,
Janice
September 11, 2022
September 11, 2022
Dear brother Ben! Continuing to miss you dearly. It seems that the strongest links in our family chain are leaving this old world. First you, then Mommy. I honestly don't know how much more I can handle. But I do know this...you, Mommy & now Mother Edith are resting in paradise & rejoicing. Time has passed and it has not gotten any easier for me, but I rest and have joy in the fact that you are all no longer suffering and living in this troubled and sinful world. I cannot wait to join you all on the other side where we will be reunited and do nothing but sing and praise our blessed Heavenly Father all day long!
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