Crazy how time flies, can’t believe it’s been 11 years. Also, you would be 60 this year, ya old ass. I am so thankful for the memories that you’ve left behind, but so sad that you were taken so soon. We show you to the babies often, so they’ll always know their Papa Ben, even though Macee would probably call you Dad Dad’s Dad since she calls Pam Dad Dad’s Mom, and Bubba would probably call you Dad Dad truuuuuuck. They’re amazing, and you’d love them. It hurts that We don’t get to see them with you, but we know that you get to see them with us, and that makes me thankful. I know you’re with your bud Kenny Kay now, and I’m sure you’re talking about the good old days more than ever. I know he’s telling you about your kids, and all the things that changed after you left, and I find comfort knowing we’ll all be together again someday. Your son misses you, a lot. He’s a man of few words, but his actions show his moods, often. Thanks for raising him to be such a hardworking man. You would be so proud of the way he talks about trucks and towing all the time. When the bees are gone, we’ll be up to visit your spot. So many miss you, and it hurts knowing they’ve had this void for so long. It makes me realize life is short and it isn’t fair. And I wish you were here, but God had other plans. Until we meet again, love and hugs. ~ Jess