Miss you so much. Wish we could have lunch one more time. Miss your advice and your laugh. Please visit me again in my dreams and continue to protect your family. Love you, always. Your little sis.

Miss you so much. Happy heavenly birthday. Not a day goes by I don’t think about you or the advice you would give me. Love you.

Jackie My sincerest thoughts about your family's loss. This is a proper way of keeping the right perspectives on the future as well as beautiful memories of the past.

Benny

I miss you very much my brother. You will never be forgotten. I treasure the memories of us hanging out. Our laughs and great conversations. I love you Beezo.

May you Rest In Peace!! And my condolences to the Paredes Family.

My condolences to the Paredes Family..❤
My love and prayers goes out to you all
May God give you all strength during these difficult times ❤❤
Benny was an Amazing Son, Amazing Brother,Awesome Father,
The Best Uncle to Frankie..and the funniest and coolest friend..
Benny you will be missed
#SIP# BENNY..❤
MRS ANITA ❤
JACKY❤
Aubrianna❤
FRANKIE ❤
LOVE,
YSA $ MC

Dear Jackie, Sra. Anita, Frankie and Aubrianna,
Our hearts and prayers are with you. May Benny RIP and continue to watch over your family every day.
We love you. Benny will be missed.
Zeo

Dear Tia Anna, Jackie and Frankie,

We love you all more than words can say. We will miss you cuzzo...your beautiful deep eyes, your wisdom, your joy..may you rest in the love and peace of the Almighty. Blessings from my mom.

Querida Anita y familia,

Mi mas sentido pésame por la partida de Benny. Que Dios les de la fortaleza que necesitan en este momento. 
Anoche estuve soñando con el difunto. Todos estábamos en su hogar éramos jóvenes y felices. Usted nos cocinaba un delicioso locrio. Benny como siempre estaba bromeando con Jackie y yo feliz de estar acompañada de una familia tan hermosa. Pienso que anoche esta memoria de Benny me vino en un sueño para traerme un poco de esa paz y felicidad que sentía cuando compartía con ustedes.
¡Bellos recuerdos que llevaré por siempre en mi corazón! 
La presencia de Benny en mi sueño fue pura paz y felicidad. Vuela alto querido Benny y que descanses en paz

My love and prayers go to his loving mother Anita, sister Jackie and the rest of his family. He has a very special place in my heart and I have always considered him one of my best friends ever. The loss to us here is very deep. Look out for me up there my brother whenever I get there, I want to see you again. Love you Beezo

My deepest condolences, words cannot express my sadness. May the comfort of god help you get through this difficult time Benny may your soul Rest In Peace You will truly be missed

My deepest condolences. With his memory in your heart he will be with you forever.

Jackie,
Our deepest condolences. We were unable to sign onto the zoom service but will keep trying. I know how important your brother was to you. Let his memory bring good thoughts to you forever.
Alan and Sharon

Jackie, Frankie and Family,
May Our Lord comfort you during this time of sorrow.
Please accept my condolences.
Vida

Growing up you were the big brother I never had you guided me and protected me in the tough streets of Harlem and helped mold me into the person I became you always had my back and was always there for me I miss you big bro❤️

I grew up with Benny in Harlem. He and Alex were the two brothers I never had. I spent most of my youth unsuccessfully trying to prove to Benny that “girls were just as physically strong as boys”. Well, Benny was a big’ole boy and I... let’s just say that it was like Olive Oyl going up against Brutus. Every “match” resulted in me crying like I’d never cried before (the pain of him teaching me a lesson...Jesus)...BUT...I was like Jason. By the following week my hands were on my hips and I was in his face again saying (to my demise) “I DARE YOU!” Those hazel eyes would glow... and well... ya know how the rest goes.

There was one battle that will forever be etched in my mind (and spine). It involved one of Benny’s FAVORITE “sports” as a child. I can’t go into details because it was such a traumatic experience (which I was totally game for...until...). All I’m gonna say is the WWF and ‘THE BACK BREAKER’/‘Camel Clutch’ owe me reparations!!!!

As teens, Benny literally gave me the shirt off his back. I was admiring a grey, hooded, lightweight jacket with a drawstring waist that he was rockin (think 90’s/Busta Rhymes). It was so fly and he looked fly in it. After many compliments and requests to try it on, he finally let me...then in a nonchalant/I’m busy don’t bother me tone said “You can have it”. I too was now fly.

Benny and I recently reconnected via Messenger and I was so excited to be able to chat with him. He was truly a sweetheart who you never wanted to cross-not only because of the consequences you might face, but because in hurting him you’d only be hurting yourself. Benny was my brother...and l will always remember and love him.

Due to Benny’s enormous personality & spirit, there forever will be a void now that he is gone. I am grateful and blessed to have had a special friendship with him for close to 20 years. I truly thank God for all of the memories that we have had. I will forever cherish them. 

Mrs. Anita, Jackie and Frankie, I love you and you are in my prayers. As Benny would say to me quite often, “It’s not good-bye, it’s until later….”  Thank God through faith, we will see him again.
With Christ’s love, Beth Bonesteel

Uncle Benny, you will be greatly missed. Thank you for making us all laugh with your contagious energy. I am forever grateful for having you in my life. You will be deeply missed and forever loved. Rest in POWER Uncle Benny

My boy we did not get to hang much as adults but our childhood memories I will always cherish.

Jackie and Frankie,

Benny knew how to light up a room, with his smile and his words. He will be deeply missed. You are in my prayers. Love Stacey

Jackie,
My heart goes out to you and Frankie and your entire family. Mi sentido pésame.
Abrazotes,
Melanie