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To Our Guests and those who were unable to attend, but sent their best wishes:

OUR FAMILY SINCERELY THANKS YOU FOR  MAKING BERNIE'S 
CELEBRATION OF LIFE A GREAT SUCCESS. 

IF YOU SHARED A MEMORY, A LAUGH, OR EVEN A TEAR OR TWO, RE-CONNECTED WITH A FRIEND OR A FAMILY MEMBER YOU HAVE NOT SEEN IN A WHILE, OUR OBJECTIVE WAS MET.  

I INVITE YOU TO CONTINUE TO SHARE YOUR THOUGHTS, MEMORIES AND PHOTOS OF BERNIE ON THIS SITE OVER THE NEXT YEAR, SHOULD YOU CHOOSE TO DO SO.  OFTEN THOSE WHO NEEDED OR WANTED TO SPEAK DO NOT HAVE THE OPPORTUNITY OR ARE NOT QUITE READY ON THE DAY OF THE SERVICE. THIS CAN BE YOUR VENUE. 

I URGE YOU TO TAKE EVERY OPPORTUNITY YOU HAVE TO FIND THE SIMPLE JOYS IN A DAY AND REACH OUT AND SHARE THEM.  PUT YOURSELF ASIDE, LOOK SOMEONE IN THE EYE, OFFER THEM A WARM HAND SHAKE OR  HUG, PUT YOURSELF ASIDE AND REALLY CONNECT. YOU WILL BE ALL THE BETTER FOR IT; BERNIE WAS.   
 


November 8, 2023
November 8, 2023
I downtown last week and drove by a corner when Bernie came into my mind. The last time I saw him was at an fundraiser. People were drawn into his soft and warm hearted conversations. He truly cared about the community and the people around him. I'm lucky to have had the opportunity to know him.
January 21, 2023
January 21, 2023
Miss you Bernd & all the good times we had. Mike & Peggy Mellum
January 21, 2021
January 21, 2021
Happy 75th Birthday in heaven Berndog. We love you and miss you so very much!
January 21, 2021
January 21, 2021
Great man! Generous in many ways. Very polite. Miss his smile. He is missed a lot.
November 10, 2020
November 10, 2020
Bernie was a true gentleman and I miss his laugh and generosity.  He always shared his French fries at lunch.  What a sweet man. So glad you were in my life ... and one of the four “B’s”!  Barbara
November 8, 2020
November 8, 2020
Keep him and his family in my thoughts and prayers - wonderful friend
January 21, 2020
January 21, 2020
I think of Bernie often and our good times in high school and college. He was a good friend who left us too soon. I still see his smiling face and think of his great sense of humor.
November 8, 2018
November 8, 2018
Dear Angel Bernie....you were one of the first friends I made when I moved to Portland in 1980. So many laughs and memories since then. You are missed so much friend. From your “pink fuzzy slipper” girl, Barbara Baker  ❤️
November 8, 2018
November 8, 2018
The thing I admired most about Bernie was his huge love for the company where we both worked, for his community, his family, his country and the Ducks! He cared deeply about all of them in a way you rarely see in a person. We would often (practically daily) chat about the world and how we could make it better. Bernie's passion and enthusiasm would often guide our conversation. I miss him so much.
August 7, 2018
August 7, 2018
As we all know, Bernie will be missed always / keeping him,Carol and his wonderful family in my thoughts and prayers!!!
November 8, 2017
November 8, 2017
Miss our dear friend very much- great cherished memories-
so many amazing wonderful times shared!
Blessed we are to have had him in our lives!
November 8, 2017
November 8, 2017
How everyone misses you my friend. It's not the same here without you.
July 25, 2017
July 25, 2017
My teenage daughter and I had the pleasure to volunteer with Bernie and Carol for the Susan Komen event several years ago. We knew right away that Bernie was someone very special as he was very kind and cheerful (at 5 am). He was a "giver", which made a long lasting impression on my young daughter as she always talked about the kind couple she met while volunteering at Wells Fargo. After Bernie retired, he still kept in touch and stopped by at the Beaverton Farmers Market. You will be missed, always.
July 3, 2017
July 3, 2017
Thank you, Carol and Bernie for being such sweet, welcoming neighbors. Bernie's infectious smile and laugh is deeply missed. My heart breaks for you, Carol. Although we only knew him a short 17 years, I can well imagine the depth of your grief. He was a dear man. We will remember him fondly, and hold his memory close in our hearts.
With much love and support, your "backdoor neighbors" -- cindy and alex
March 9, 2017
March 9, 2017
My family is so grateful and blessed for having Uncle Bernie in our lives. His love and friendship will never be forgotten. We dearly miss him and cherish the many memories of so many wonderful times shared. Simply no one like him. Bern, dear friend --miss you always.
March 8, 2017
March 8, 2017
I knew him as Uncle Bernie...I have very very few memories of him (due to distance probably), but I do remember your beautiful wedding at grandma and grandpas house by their pool filled with rose petals(though maybe that was the reception, I was fairly young)...I do remember you two being very happy, pretty much everyone was happy that evening. Fast forward a few years and my next memory is of him throwing change in the bottom of the pool at grandma and grandpas Arizona house...then throwing me in behind it all!!!(I did have my swimsuit on though lol!!) like I said, I don't have many memories but the two that I do have cemented uncle Bernie in my memories forever...he was a very fun uncle:) I truly wish I had more memories...because I'm sure they would have been great as well:)
February 27, 2017
February 27, 2017
If I would have had a moment with Bernie before he suddenly slipped away, I would have said thank you for being a wonderful friend. Bernie was a combination of a great professional- dignified, diplomatic and yet could be crazy fun, a good listener and all around great guy. I would tell him I felt so honored to be part of the group in Tahoe that watched you marry the love of your life. Peace be with you Bernie until we all meet again.
February 18, 2017
February 18, 2017
"Death Leaves a heartache no one can heal; love leaves a memory no one can steal ...the legacy you left..
Larger than life, with a heart to match and an infectious smile, holding your uke in hand and Carol by your side in Maui is how we will remember you. You lit up a room and so loved your family... .  when we go to Maui, your spirit will be alive in us--how grateful Mike & I are to have shared our anniversary with you and Carol in beautiful HI. 
"Dying is not an end in itself; a sequel lies beyond...
Beautiful as music; positive as sound"...E. Dickenson Play that Uke!
Love & Blessings, Mike & Barb
February 15, 2017
February 15, 2017
Across The Street

Across the street I would see him
Bent over the roses he would trim
Looking up, he walked toward me
Always friendly, a smile I would see

A booming voice, assures me all was well
His visits brought kidding and things to tell
He was generous, giving and kind
His leaving has left a void, but across the street
He is still on my mind
February 7, 2017
February 7, 2017
Dear Bernie, so many years we worked together. I'm reminded of the day I asked you to represent us at the memorial site in New York immediately following 9-11. It's hard to imagine you're no longer here for us to seek your advice and counsel on all matters important to our community. I'm unable to attend your Memorial which Tracy has nicely planned, however I'm thankful I was present for your retirement celebration. God bless you Bernie and Carol. George
February 6, 2017
February 6, 2017
I was surprised and saddened to learn of Bernie's passing. I truly enjoyed meeting and talking with him about subjects far and wide. Clearly he left a great impression on all those he met and/or worked with. Thank you Bernie for giving back to the community in so many ways.
February 1, 2017
February 1, 2017
I had the honor of knowing and serving with Bernie for a couple of decades. Even though we worked for different banks, he has a colleague, not a competitor. He was a pillar of the community and will be missed. 

We were so looking forward to visiting with Berand Carol in Costa Rica in March 2017. Brian Stewart and Barbara Smith made their visit to Costa Rica a “Bernie Memorial Trip”. We made a lot of Vernie toasts. 
January 25, 2017
January 25, 2017
I had the pleasure of working with Bernie for many years at Wells Fargo and was always impressed with his dedication to the community that he loved so much.  One trait that always stood out for me with Bernie was that he was a consummate gentleman.  Rest in peace Bernie.
January 24, 2017
January 24, 2017
I had the pleasure of working closely with Bernie at Wells Fargo for many, many years. We spoke practically daily. He was the type of person who preferred face-to-face meetings rather than by phone or email. He'd wander in and we'd discuss the matters of the day: typically a grant he was providing a community group on behalf of Wells Fargo and what I could do to publicize it. Other popular topics of our frequent meetings were his beloved Oregon Ducks football team or the Portland Trail Blazers. Bernie had a huge heart and passion for his role of helping others in the community. He will truly be missed.
January 21, 2017
January 21, 2017
I had the Privilege of working with Bernie for 10 years. During that time, I learned that he was funny, kind and generous. He was always welcoming to the people he met ....I admire the work he did that directly supported many non profits in Oregon, through donations from Wells Fargo Bank and participating in events from luncheons to raising walls on a Habitat for Humanity Willamette West build. He helped make our community better...both personally and professionally. What a wonderful legacy.
January 21, 2017
January 21, 2017
Bernie and my mom were married when I was in college, so I was really an adult when he became my Stepdad. That didn't matter to Bernie, who I somehow called "Bern-dog". He treated me like the daughter he never had, and was always doing special things to let me know he cared. Little things like buying me a silly little gag gift, or big things like buying my wedding dress for me. We loved him so much and will miss him every day. ♥️
January 21, 2017
January 21, 2017
It has annually been my pleasure to call Uncle Bernie on his birthday to extend greetings and catch up. Our four boys took pleasure in calling him Uncle Bernie as he had been our first born's godparent. He made it his business to visit our family with each newborn's birth, often sneaking in a bottle of champagne. Like Mike M, I date my meeting Bernie to our
early years in high school in Eugene. To share this age with Bernd and have the many memories of through the years is priceless, as the passage of time doesn't always permit this luxury. Joining him for
Oregon football games, GI Joe IMSA Auto Racing (sponsored by Wells Fargo), and Trailblazer games in the Wells Suite are among the many
fond experiences we've shared over time. Proud to have celebrated his
40th 'over the hill' birthday, and attended his lovely wedding to Carol in Lake Tahoe. Though it appears he has met and brightened the lives of
many hundreds of others in his corporate life, I have been fully blessed
to have enjoyed Uncle Bernie's friendship interwoven into my life for over 50 years. Please rest in peace, and...Happy Birthday, friend!
You are missed!
January 5, 2017
January 5, 2017
We were very sorry to hear the news of Bernie’s passing away.
We met Bernie about 13 years ago, whilst on holidays in Spain, with his lovely wife Carol. We virtually spent the whole tour together, very pleasant company.
Later on, we had the opportunity to visit Portland, on the occasion of the birth of our grandson. Bernie was an excellent example of American hospitality. We spent quite a lot of time with Bernie and Carol. An experience we will always cherish. Unfortunately Bernie never made it to Australia so we could reciprocate.
Bernie was a gentleman and fun to be with. Bernie Rest In Peace as you deserve it.
January 5, 2017
January 5, 2017
Bernie's motto was "let's have some fun". So let's do it, let's have some fun. Life is short so like, Bernie let's enjoy it to the utmost. Thank you Bernie!
January 4, 2017
January 4, 2017
Bernie was a dear friend and one of the "B's" in our tight circle of friends.  His warmth and compassion for others defined who he was and what he did.  He will always be with us ... love you Bernie.
January 3, 2017
January 3, 2017
I am so sorry to just receive this news of the passing of Bernie Kronberger. He was a long time friend more than in business. Bernie reached out to me when Juanita passed away and we had the opportunity to have a fellowship lunch not too far from my Portland home. One of the few times that we did not have to talk business. I told him that I was proud of his retirement. I promised him that I would be retiring myself sometime soon. Well soon, came December 15 and I was planning to have another lunch with my friend when I came back to Portland from holiday vacation. I was shocked to receive this news.I was glad to surprise him a earlier when he and his wife sat at my court side seats at the Blazer game while I was out of the country. I will miss my friend. Roy@RoyJay.Com
January 3, 2017
January 3, 2017
I first met Bernie as sophomores in South Eugene HS's band playing in the trombone section. I found him to be very personable & outgoing. We got along very we'll having similar interests and became friends from then on. We both attended the University of Oregon where we had different majors but we manage to take few classes together. We played a lot of tennis in high school & college. We attended many sporting events together at the UO. After college we went in different ways but got back together in Portland/Beaverton area. Recently we went to the Davis Cup tennis match between the US and Croatia. I always admired his initial contact with people. Very friendly & concerned about how things were going in your life. Bernie was a great guy and will be missed. Carol, you had a wonderful man for a husband!
January 3, 2017
January 3, 2017
Bernie was the kindest, most considerate partner I've ever had in my position which I've held for 22 years. He had an infectious smile and truly cared about people. His passing is Oregon's greatest loss of 2016.
God Bless Him.
January 3, 2017
January 3, 2017
Bernie made such a difference in our company and our community, he will never be forgotten. I will not forget his help and friendship when we moved to Portland and I know he is looking down and making sure we keep our commitments to this community.
Miss you Bernie
January 2, 2017
January 2, 2017
To my big, beautiful, proud Austrian Prince. Thank you for choosing me. Life with you was never dull. You burned your candle at both ends and always gave your best. You could call anyone by their first name and make people smile within a few minutes of meeting them. Thank you for loving and accepting my children & grandchildren as your own & for sharing your extraordinary life with me. Thank you for making me proud to be your wife, I will love & miss you forever.

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November 8, 2023
November 8, 2023
I downtown last week and drove by a corner when Bernie came into my mind. The last time I saw him was at an fundraiser. People were drawn into his soft and warm hearted conversations. He truly cared about the community and the people around him. I'm lucky to have had the opportunity to know him.
January 21, 2023
January 21, 2023
Miss you Bernd & all the good times we had. Mike & Peggy Mellum
January 21, 2021
January 21, 2021
Happy 75th Birthday in heaven Berndog. We love you and miss you so very much!
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The Turkeys

February 26, 2017

In 1968 a bunch of University of Oregon kids were thrown together in apartments around 15th and Hilyard, just off campus. Bernie had met some of these students through Alpha Kappa Psi, UO’s business fraternity. We all had a blast partying, celebrating, eating, drinking and occasionally studying together. Most Monday nights we got together to watch “Laugh-In,” where cast members would say to each other, “You turkey!” We picked up the habit, and soon we were calling ourselves the “Turkeys.” Many of us inter-married, so we were able to continue getting together even after graduation. Our Turkey Reunions started out...naturally...on Thanksgiving weekends. As the years passed, with the birth of babies and moves to other cities, it became difficult to meet regularly, but we always kept in touch, and even managed to have a Turkey Reunion every now and then. Of course, after nearly five decades, some of our group have passed on. Ten of us will be representing the Turkeys at Bernie’s Celebration of Life to honor the sweetest Turkey of all.

Nurtured with a love for music

February 19, 2017

As the child of parents, who left their home country to provide their only child Bernd with opportunities unavailable in post war Austria, Bernd became an American citizen, but carried his parents’ undying love of Austria.  

Bernd’s father Albert came from very humble means. His father, a blacksmith, died when he was young, leaving a wife with three young sons.  Albert, the youngest was a baby. He was exceptionally intelligent, outgoing, proud, and very good looking. When he became a young adult, he lived in Vienna, and was hired as a ‘clapper’ for the Opera.  He secretly cued the audience when to clap, by clapping at the carefully scripted times.  Thanks to that opportunity, Albert became familiar with all of the popular operatic performances of the day.  His job helped him pay for his boarding house room, and his education.  That opportunity planted the seeds of a lifelong love and appreciation for opera and the arts. It also gave a poor widow’s son access to a network of people from the upper classes, some of whom (counts and countesses) he called friends until his death.  

When they immigrated to the United States in 1951, the family of three had to focus their energies on learning to speak English and Albert had to find a job.  He could no longer work as a skilled electrical engineer; his English was not good enough.  He was hired as a lowly meter reader at the public utility.  With a will to learn, an optimistic attitude and good humor, he thrived and eventually headed the department and taught metering at the University of Washington's summer training classes, for many years.
He was able to provide for
his family as they each earned  their American citizenship.  The family was eventually able to save the money to pay cash for their own home in Eugene, where Bernd lived during his teen years.   

Bernd attended the University of Oregon and fulfilled his parents dream of succeeding in America. The family no longer had access to the great opera and symphony halls of Europe, but they never missed the televised OPB New Years’ concerts from Vienna, or watching Great Performances. 
When I married Bernie, it became an integral part of my life as well.   

Through the years, it has been a great privilege for Bernd & I to attend so many wonderful productions put on by the Portland Opera and the Oregon Symphony. Thanks to Bernd’s position with Wells Fargo and their ongoing sponsorship and support of the arts, and our own private attendance, we have been blessed with more memorable experiences than I could count.   

We could never claim the level of knowledge of music Bernd’s father acquired, but Bernd continued to advocate for funding for the
Opera, the symphony and the study and opportunity to have access to the arts, for the remainder of his working career and life.  

Bernd never had children of his own; he was the last of his small, Austrian-American family. Albert, Erika, and their son Bernd, who was so like his father, are together again now. How very fitting that the Portland Opera should honor Bernd's life, with the music of his birth country, at his 'Celebration of Life.' I'm sure the three Kronbergers will we watching and enjoying it together. 

I would like to sincerely thank Director Christopher Mattaliano, Sue Dixon, and all of the staff and performers of the Portland Opera for honoring my precious husband with this wonderful surprise.  (Click on picture for full photo)

The Comedian

February 16, 2017

As a neighbor Bernie always took an interest in my and Carol’s life. He was a generous person. He was always concerned about the well being of people around him. But most of all I remembered that he liked to be the comedian in any situation.  I especially remember the time with my Mother on her birthday. This is the picture that comes to mind when I think of him.  
Carol & Nitu

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