This memorial website was created in the memory of our loved one, Alfred Kirkland, 82, born on July 27, 1930 and passed away on August 30, 2012. We will remember him forever.
The email invitations for the memorial service were sent the evening of September 5. If you would like to attend, but did not receive the email, check your junk-mail box before contacting me via the link with my name (Kelly Kirkland) on this page on the right side.
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Miss you,
Elsie
Bwana
I have very fond memories of Al. He was always available to see us and always made time for us. Throughout my three years at Stanford Al would drop by and have lunch with us on almost a weekly basis. It was always great to chat with him and we shared a lot of laughs. And Al always gave great advice.
Jeanne and Al were the only non-family guests at my graduation dinner. Jeanne and my grandmother really hit it off!
Al was a wonderful guy. I will always remember him fondly.
Kind regards,
Matt
I am so sorry for your loss, and the loss to your family as well as the the rest of us who knew and loved Al. Unfortunately I was away the week-end of the memorial up here but my thoughts then and now are with you.
Al was a very special gentleman who appreciated our family, kept us connected, and still loved us even if we didn't reply to his emails! Your visits to Mom and Dad meant so much to us, and we are so happy you and Al were able to share Alison's Wedding Day with us. Al will forever be in our hearts and prayers. We love you! Chris & Jim
I was greatly saddened to hear of Al's passing; he was truly one of the Great Ones! I'll always remember driving around Atherton in Big Blue drinking champagne with Big Al at the wheel. I will offer my daily Mass for Al. Be at peace knowing he is waiting for us in Heaven
Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Jeanne, and your family.
Condolences on the loss of your father and a true force of nature. When you and I lived 4 houses apart, I ate a lot of Al's cooking, and as a softball coach, he celebrated my few decent games with true enthusiasm. He and Jeanne danced at our wedding- we'll miss him. My parents send their sorrow as well. Love to the whole family.
his communications and dedication. May he rest in peace.
Sally and Henry Baumgartner
RC and I send our sincere condolences. I was surprised by Al's age - he seemed much younger! I know how hard it is to lose a parent. We wish you strength at this time and hope that the pain you feel now will be replaced in time by happy memories. All our love, MMM and RCW
I was so sad to hear of Al's passing. Kelly and I became best buddies at the age of six and I always thought she had a great Dad! From sleepovers at the Ladera house to RV adventures in the mountains, I have many wonderful childhood memories, courtesy of the Kirklands.
reunion next year in Big Al's honor. He did such a great job
in keeping us informed on the situation of so many
of our friends.
Jack Lauderbaugh
What a shock! I thought that Big Al was going to be around forever. He was the Glue for the "How Boys" I hope that without him we can still hold together. What a great asset he has been to Stanford and all of us. And now how are we all going to stay up on all of our teammates?
Al loved football and rugby. He was a big supporter of both. We didn't get to know each other until later in life. Out of the blue, he would send advice how to improve Stanford Rugby. They were always good ideas. He was inspirational to all of us. We will miss him greatly.
Hal Steuber
I am very sorry to hear the news about your Dad. Reading all of the tributes paint a beautiful picture of how loved he was by family and friends. He really did take advantage of all life has to offer. This really serves as an inspiration. My condolences to you and your family.
So very sorry to learn about Big Al, our family connector and all around great fellow. Our deepest sympathy to all of you. Wouldn't be surprised to know that he was in the front row of the Julia Child cooking school on high! Our prayers are with you.
Linda and Cliff (Buddy)
I will miss my smiling teammate. Respectfully, Hal Sachs, '47 Pasadena Bullpup & Basketball manager.
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I remember meeting this wonderful gentleman when I came to Athletics, turned into one of the people I LOVED seeing daily. I Miss You AL! I do want to say my oldest now works on Campus and I am so glad you took time to talk with me occasionally! - wish I could have introduced him to you! Love, John! You are STILL MISSED!
Love is A Many Splendored Thing
Independently, my son Jim and I immediately had the same reaction to the photo on the back of the memorial program (an enlargement was displayed outside the chapel.
Al waving from the top of the grassy hill was a near duplicate of the final scene in "Love is a many Splendored Thing" with William Holden waving from a nearly identical hill.
Jim had seen the movie many years ago, as had I, and I had watched it again just the night before the memorial!
I wondered if the film had any special remembrance for Jeannie and Al.
Al was great friend!
Dick Rutter '54
American All Stars legend
I heard about Al's death last Saturday and was deeply saddened that he had not lived long enough to read my book about the American All Stars rugby league tour in 53, to which he contributed such magical stories. I only met Al twice, both times he was wonderful with his generosity of time and spirit.
Having travelled from England to interview him a second time in April 2007, he was in bed recovering from an operation. I arrived late and he was about to have his daily treatment. But he told his nurse "Leave us to it - this fella's come further than you have"!!
It was so fitting that on Sunday I was at the Rugby League Heritage Centre in Huddersfield and there on the wall in the boardroom was an All Stars team group including Teddy Grossman, Ed Demerjian, Bob Buckley, Pat Henry, Al Abajian, Vince Jones, Jack Bonetti and Big Al.
My book No Helmets Required will be out next year - I had hoped Al would be a special guest at a launch event at Stanford. I will invite his family instead.
Thanks Al.
Gavin Willacy, Bengeo, England