Weeehhh Bih!!!!

Bih my dear,
It has taken me so long to write this; maybe because I have found it so difficult to come to terms with the fact that you are no more.
Indeed, I have been living your passing as if in a daze, and to be honest, it still feels like you're still here.

My dear sister, it was only recently that we were mourning with you the passing of your beloved husband and I remember vividly your strength in the face of death and distress. Only, to a few months later, be talking of your own demise. Indeed, God is God and God is not Man, so we can never begin to understand how he works and his reasons for allowing things.

It is not that we did not pray, or that He did not hear us. He did indeed; as since He's the Alpha and the Omega, the Beginning and the End, we trust in His judgment and His timing. He alone knows best!

My dear sister, what comforts me at this time is the knowledge of your faith in our Lord Jesus Christ and the certainty that you're with your heavenly father.

As a Christian, I believe that you are in a better place. As you were always a light of inspiration and a pillar of strength to all around you, I sincerely believe that even though gone physically from us, you remain spiritually, guiding, comforting and helping us deal with your passing.

I extend my sincere condolences to all your family and friends mourning you at this time.

It is Well!

May your gentle soul rest in peace. Amen!

By
Cécile Ndeley

Dear sister,
We never thought we will lose you
But here we are
Now we have memories to stand in your place
Life has separated us
we know it is only your Soul saying goodbye to your body
But your spirit will be with us always

Weh Bih, may you rest in peace till we meet again.

Hello Bih, its never an easy thing to accept the exit of a loved one.
Memories of our days in pneu flash thru my mind. Years passed and the '78 forum brought us together again, what a joyful reunion, but for how long.......
A loving soul gone too soon.
I remember the news of your illness getting to us, prayers going up oh how i prayed, expecting goodnews anytime soon. But God had His own plans which we never knew. What shock! what horror; to hear you gone, not to see your lovely face and smile anymore. Ahhh
I believe you are in a better place sis. However much you will be missed, God needed His angel beside Him right now.
Rest in His bossom sister till we meet to part no more.
Forever in our hearts
Adieu Bih


PNEU Class of 78
Mankaa Fombad

Bih, Bongkar ohh, I can’t believe I am actually writing this to you: bidding you farewell. How did this
happen? What kind of twist of events is this? Is this the reunion we talked about or what? How difficult
it was for me to give you a post-humus birthday wishes, especially as I write this on your birthday.
Bih: The one who was a solid rock of comfort for many including myself....who will comfort others now
with your passing? The calm and gentle voice of reason that you have been from childhood until now.
The smart kid who never boasted about her giftedness. You will indeed be sorely missed by many, yours
truly included.
But I take succour in one thought, Bih: you were a faithful Christian; you loved the Lord Jesus Christ like I
do, so I know I will see you again beyond the river Jordan. In a place where there will be no more death
to separate us, where we shall both follow the Lamb or God FOREVER. Because the blood of Jesus that
speaks better things than the blood of Abel will speak on your behalf on that great and awful day of
judgement of the Lord. On that day, we will truly be able to mock and laugh death in the face for the
toothless bulldog that it really is, when our mighty saviour Jesus casts it finally into the lake of fire
forever.
I am grateful for the time I spent with you while you were here on earth: Yes, I am very much obliged
for, and will cherish the priceless memories of our time together as long as I live.
May your life and passing not be in vain, Bih: but instead serve to draw many to the cross of Christ, and
to an understanding of the Sovereignty of God.
Good night, my darling sister and friend: see you in the morning.


PNEU Class of 78
Masoh Zumafor Vincents.

Bih-B-B as I later on called you when we reconnected in Bambili, there are no words for me to use in expressing my state of mind. I have never felt anything could be above you. From childhood, I have known you to be someone who does what they want just at their own time. The last two years were full of challenges for you and your family, we would talk and find comfort in hope. When the tidings were good we would have a drink or talk. God has decided you deserve a better place, I shall go forward with you in a special place in my heart. Rest in perfect peace sister.

PNEU Class of 78
Sammy Awambeng

There is no eloquence in saying goodbye or should I say farewell.....

Special people in our lives never leave us even when they are gone as their memories remind us of the special moments we shared.

Bih, we reconnected again through our ‘PNEU class of 78’ WhatsApp forum after nearly 34 years, and yes, the connection was effortless.
We recalled old stories laughed and joked like old friends should.

The selflessness, empathy, compassion, kindness you showed me when I was going through the loss of my Mum while you where going through the loss of your Dad left an indelible mark in my heart.
We went through our own little support system. Remarkable is what you are.

Our prayer sessions were not strong enough as the Lord wanted you more.

You will be dearly missed and rest in peace my dear friend.


PNEU Class of 78
Edward Eyong Ebai.

The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched - they must be felt with the heart.

Monica Louise Fomuso

Sis,

One usually hopes for the best but it can be a challenge to tell what'll happen when you meet a school mate again after a lifetime apart.
It was a blessing to come in contact with you again.

Though the time was short, the beauty of your spirit shone through. Your humility, goodness, care, strength, relentlessly positive outlook and most of all, your faith even in very difficult moments are those attributes of your light that undeniably remain with me.

In the midst of sadness, I am able to celebrate and praise God for you, Sis! Thank you so much for your light.

When all is said and done, I am comforted in the knowing that... you believed.

By Naftinyuy Lafon