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Dearest Friends and Family,

This memorial website was created in honor of our beloved husband, father, grandfather, brother, uncle and cousin, Bill. He was born December 5, 1944 in Newark, New Jersey and found his peace May 13, 2016 just outside his childhood hometown of Maplewood, New Jersey with his family at his side.

Growing up, Billy teamed up with brothers Michael and Frankie, “sisters” Joyce and Gail, and many friends (including the Cohen family, Bob, and Barry) to give parents Ethel and Anson (and the rest of Maplewood), all they could handle.  After graduating from Columbia High School and then surviving the frigid weather at Allegheny College, Bill pursued both a career in hospital administration at George Washington University and Carolyn Staub.  They met on day one of his first job as a hospital administrator and began dating on day two.  In October they celebrated their 43rd wedding anniversary.

A job opportunity at a hospital brought Bill and Carol to Richmond, Virginia where they met many treasured friends who are still like family today.  A few years later, the couple welcomed daughter Rachel and then son David.  In the ensuing years Dad enjoyed shuttling the kids between dance classes, soccer games and tennis tournaments, not to mention assisting with homework, science projects and other fun activities that come with children.   A promotion at work led to extensive travel which made him rethink this career.

So he took the obvious path from hospital administrator to BBQ restaurant owner where his secret sauce was the best in town.  During this time he became a member of the Chester Rotary Club and has participated in numerous community service projects over the past 20 years.  In retirement, Bill followed his passion for children and learning by substitute teaching at the local elementary schools.  This “job” allowed him flexibility to enjoy golfing, hanging out at the library reading, gardening, visiting with friends, and traveling often and extensively with Carol and other family members. 

Despite his lifelong pursuit of continuous learning, Bill resisted incorporating what he learned of technology into day to day life.  He enjoyed being “old school” with a flip phone, even programming the number for Expedia in to help him plan all their amazing trips (rumor has it Expedia has a website as well).  Bill often retold stories of skipping school to go to Yankee Stadium, traveling cross country after college, and attending Woodstock. In more recent years his most loved hobby was spoiling his granddaughters, Sarah and Ella.

A true gentleman, always kind and patient to all, Bill touched many lives and was universally loved. Though we will miss him dearly, we’re grateful for the incredible memories and wish to honor Bill with a Celebration of Life on Saturday, June 18, 2016 at The Boathouse Restaurant in Brandermill, located at 4602 Millridge Parkway, Midlothian, VA. Please feel free to join us anytime between 11:00 am - 2:00pm.

Dad - We hope you are now searching for “The Truth Out There” with Mulder and Scully!

Write to David (david.rauschberg@gmail.com) if you plan to join us for Dad’s celebration.

Please feel free to share your memories of Bill on this site or send them to David, as we plan to compile a memory book to pass on to his granddaughters. 

In lieu of flowers donations may be made to the Maplewood New Jersey Library Foundation (https://maplewoodlibraryfoundation.org) or your local library. 

December 5, 2023
December 5, 2023
Happy Birthday in Heaven, my very dear old friend
December 5, 2023
December 5, 2023
I just spoke with Carol. Always in my heart and in my mind. Missing you.
December 5, 2023
December 5, 2023
Never fortotten. Always missed.
May 14, 2023
May 14, 2023
Bill, I think of you always. Your legacy is the many good deeds during your lifetime, and the beautiful family you and Carol created. Joan and I have been privileged to attend the two Bat Mitzvahs of your granddaughters, Sarah and Ella. They have grown into beautiful young women, who you can be immensely proud of. Those two joyous occasions have enabled us to stay in contact with Carol, Rachel and John, and David and Cali. When Joan and I were leaving Ella’s recent Bat Mitzvah, and I hugged David good bye, I started to cry since I was also hugging you, because David is the spitting image of you. He knew what I was feeling and he told me so. You can be so proud of your family.
I am too.
May 13, 2023
May 13, 2023
I just spoke with Carol and we had a moment to remember our fabulous trip in 2014.
It's hard to believe it's 7 years already. You are missed.
December 5, 2022
December 5, 2022
Happy Birthday! It's amazing how time flies. I try to live each day happily. 
Just know you are missed. Each occasion our families are together, your presence is noted and deeply felt.
May 13, 2022
May 13, 2022
While you are physically gone, your spirit lives on with us forever. Seeing your face vividly, hearing your kind words, laughing at your humor, and feeling your presence. This everlasting legacy comforts us for all time.
May 13, 2022
May 13, 2022
Just like Ben and Joan, my thoughts of you are very close to the surface. I talk about you and Carol, remembering our amazing trip across the USA. We did a second line for Karen and Alex's wedding last Saturday and you would have loved that. We talked about our trip 10 years ago to NOLA and what fun we had eating our way through the city. I miss you.
May 13, 2022
May 13, 2022
Just yesterday my wife and I went for a walk, and we passed the house where Bill grew up, 537 Summit Ave. in Maplewood, N.J. As always, my recollections of the good times we had there when we were children came flooding back to me. Those carefree days will always be among my most cherished memories.
I will never forget you, Billy.
December 6, 2021
December 6, 2021
Billy,
I think of you often, especially at this time of year.
In my mind’s eye I picture us having a catch on the street outside your house where we grew up. That makes me happy. In those days it seemed like summer would never end.
I will always miss you, buddy.  
December 5, 2021
December 5, 2021
Remembering you on your birthday, dear friend, and remembering you as a kind and wonderful person always. 
December 5, 2021
December 5, 2021
Just wanted to let you know I was thinking about you and so missing you. We have had many celebrations where your name comes up. You are always in my heart. 
December 14, 2020
December 14, 2020
I continue to miss your presence at the regular Urofsky - Rauschburg family gatherings. You are always with us at these events in spirit and fond memories ... and of course on the Thanksgiving golf outing!
December 5, 2020
December 5, 2020
Remembering you on your 76th birthday. Norm and I will always miss you dear Bill.
May 14, 2020
May 14, 2020
I miss my old friend. And I feel for the wonderful Rauschberg family he left behind. When I think of Billy I remember the carefree days of our boyhood and how much fun we had together. I am proud of the truly good man he became and the legacy of loved ones, friends and the many people whose lives he touched and enriched. RIP, buddy.
May 13, 2020
May 13, 2020
It's true how many times I think of Bill. Our 6th anniversary of our epic cross country trip is coming up. Best weeks EVER! I'm glad I did that blog so we can share our adventures. Always in my heart. xxoo
May 13, 2020
May 13, 2020
Sending love to Bill’s special family today - to Carol, Rachel and David! Boy, would he be proud of your accomplishments - especially Rachel working on the front lines and protecting lives! It may surprise you but I actually think of Bill every night. That’s because upon one of my sleepover’s with Carol on my drive down to Sanibel Island, she showed me how Bill used to squeeze out every drop of tea from his tea bag by wrapping the string around the bag. I’ve adopted that strategy and use it every night. I can’t help but think of Bill each time. Much love to all!
December 6, 2019
December 6, 2019
I miss our golf outings and Rotary Events together. Rest In Peace until we meet again. Happy Birthday.
December 5, 2019
December 5, 2019
Bill, On the anniversary of your birthday, I am thinking about the joyful legacy you left behind - a delightful, creative, fun filled, loving family. We will never forget you.
December 5, 2019
December 5, 2019
Happy Birthday Bill. I will make a wish and blow out a candle. I miss our times together and am grateful for the wonderful trip of a lifetime. I am reminded not only by your passing, but by my father's that we must live life to the fullest. 
May 15, 2019
May 15, 2019
Though three years have gone by since your passing, Norm's and my vivid memories and great affection for you are timeless. Our connection to you and all the good times we shared are engraved in our hearts and souls. RIP forever dear friend.
May 13, 2019
May 13, 2019
I am pleasantly surprised by how often you come to mind, Bill. We shared so many family celebrations over the years that it is impossible to not think of you whenever we gather. The amazing thing is how easily I see you sitting there at each. I also think of you each time I see Beck heading out for a round of golf. Y'all share a passion for the game and I think the two of you would have had some great times out there together.
May 13, 2019
May 13, 2019
Bill is the type of person you never forget, not only by me, but for Chester Rotary members. Rest in peace my friend.
May 13, 2019
May 13, 2019
Three years and it seems like yesterday. So many times during the year things come up and I think of the fun we had, the surprise visits, the talks about books and movies and so much more. I am so glad you were a part of my life. I just had a big birthday and found pictures of us when Carol was pregnant with Rachel. I was visiting Richmond. Great times. Thank you.
December 5, 2018
December 5, 2018
Happy birthday! Today we ordered Chinese for dinner and took turns 'getting busted' by sneaking various treats (yes, mostly chocolate!). You may be gone from us in flesh but we feel your spirit near always.  Miss being able to talk to you and hear your theories, advice, & comments on everything going on with us and in the world. Thinking of you always....
December 5, 2018
December 5, 2018
Happy Birthday Billy. What a tribute it is to be remembered by family and friends. The impact we make on the world is created while we are here. You made a big mark and it is still being remembered. I think of you often and am so happy you married my cousin.  It's hard to believe it was going on 5 years that we made that amazing cross country adventure. Thank you both for taking me along.
May 14, 2018
May 14, 2018
Remembering you, and the warm, wonderful and caring person that you were, on the second anniversary of your passing. These memories will last forever. Your legacy lives on in your beloved family. RIP dearest Bill.
December 7, 2017
December 7, 2017
As our three days of Thanksgiving celebration comes and goes, we always pause and think of you and the fun memories we shared and made together over the decades. With love, Melissa & Philip, Emma and Chloe
December 5, 2017
December 5, 2017
Many a day you are in my thoughts and prayers. I talk about you often. Now I'm in a book group and have suggested your titles. I just shared our trip book with a friend. Best time of my life. Thank you, always Bill. Love you.
December 5, 2017
December 5, 2017
Dad/Grandpa- We miss you so much, you are always in our thoughts and hearts. We celebrated you today, your 73rd birthday, with some chocolate of course! Weren't able to hit any golf balls today, but have taken the girls to Top Golf several times this year.  I'm sure you are having a good laugh watching us hit. 
We decided to donate books to the girls school library in your honor. You'd love the topics of the books, everything from music, space, weather, religion, movies, and more. Sarah has turned into a big reader just like you. And Ella is going to be a total mischief maker like you as well. You'd be so proud of them! 
We hold tight to all our wonderful memories of you and bring you along as we make more. 
Happy Birthday! Love, Rachel, Jon, Sarah, and Ella
December 5, 2017
December 5, 2017
Dear Bill,
You are greatly missed in this world - you have left an amazing legacy in your family. What a heavenly job you and Carol did in raising your children. You must look down so proudly in what they have become. Love to all of you, Lorraine
December 5, 2017
December 5, 2017
Dear Bill,
Remembering you on your second birthday in Heaven, and knowing you should still be down on this Earth with us. Hoping you know the love and wonderful memories your family and friends will have for you forever. Indeed you are "Forever Missed?
December 5, 2017
December 5, 2017
Bill - We continue to think of you often. You've been especially in my thoughts as Beck has discovered a love for golf that in so many ways seems to mirror your love of the game. His contentment never seems to lie in simply playing and hitting the ball straight, but in playing with each shot to see what he can do and whether he can get the ball to do this or that. We miss you out there, but know that we think of you each time.
December 5, 2017
December 5, 2017
Dear Billl-I love thinking of summer evenings sitting on the Slavin’s lawn across from your house—eating Good Humor and having fun. So many lovely memories of you!
May 15, 2017
May 15, 2017
We miss you, Bill. It is our great privilege to remain connected to your family, and through them, you.
May 14, 2017
May 14, 2017
Dear Bill,
A year ago you passed on from this earth,, but you live on vividly in the hearts and minds of your family and friends, and you always will,. Norman's and my thoughts and love go out to Carol, Rachel, David and all the family
May 13, 2017
May 13, 2017
It seems so long ago that Bill left us, and yet, at the same time it seems like just yesterday. While his life was cut short and with a suddenness that was very difficult for his family and many friends, I am glad that he did not suffer. And I am happy that he lived such a good life, as the many tributes here attest to. While we are all saddened beyond words by his death, those of us who knew him can take solace in all of the fond memories we have of Bill and be thankful for all the ways in which he enriched our lives. He was a good man who led a good life. I am proud to have known him and to have been his friend.
RIP, good buddy.
Ben
May 13, 2017
May 13, 2017
365 days. It's a thoughtful time in Judaism. I have said Kaddish for Bill almost every day. When I pick up a book he recommended, saw a show on Nature, Parks or History, talked about BBQ, or watched a golf tournament, he was there. Not many people can impact your life like that. How blessed I am for have known him, he is missed. I hope Carol, Rachel, David and all of their family will hold those sweet wonderful memories close to carry you on. With all my love. M
December 9, 2016
December 9, 2016
We miss you a great deal Bill. I thought of you often as Beck, Fred, Philip and me played some variation of golf over the holidays. You very much remain with us in our fond memories and through your wonderful family.
Love, Robert, Leslie and Beck
December 5, 2016
December 5, 2016
Remembering you on your birthday, and the wonderful person that you were. You will always be missed and dear to our hearts. You live in my memory always. Rest in Peace, dearest Bill
December 5, 2016
December 5, 2016
Thinking of you always ... especially at Mel & Susan's Thanksgiving dinner and on the links the following day. You have left us with a wonderful, warm and loving family - wife, son, daughter and grandchildren!

Much love from Philip & Melissa, Emma & Chloe
December 5, 2016
December 5, 2016
There isn't a day that has passed that Bill doesn't come to mind. When I get a book from the library to read that he suggested or talking about our amazing cross country trip. That will remain in my memory forever. Thank you for taking me on the adventure of a lifetime. Happy Birthday Billy.
December 5, 2016
December 5, 2016
Lovingly thinking of Bill today on his birthday.
June 10, 2016
June 10, 2016
We feel very privileged to know Bill. He was a beautiful man. He listened, loved and enjoyed every moment of life. He had the ability to touch your heart in a short amount of time and leave a lasting impression. And even though he is no longer with us he will always remain in our hearts and our memories. We send lots of Love,
Jonathan and Kathy
June 8, 2016
June 8, 2016
Bill was a loving scholarly gentlemen. These traits were exhibited throughout the years our families have been friends. Whether it was tennis tourneys, family outings, a bar mitzvah, or a daughter's wedding, his presence was always a pleasant persona.

He taught me how to select books to read. Since his search for knowledge was enormous, he once told me to go to a library or bookstore and research the writer before buying. In this manner you didn't amass author volumes with which you did not agree and would not enjoy. Many times I would run into Bill in bookstores researching titles. Both of us were UFO believers. We often debated theories on extraterrestrial life. I liked his Woodstock stories and he liked my CIA tales.

As a successful hospital administrator, restaurant owner and now an educator, he once kidded me he was on his third career and I had not yet finished my first one!

More recently he seemed to be focused on his granddaughters where that love dimension i referenced earlier was perhaps brightest.

There's a song lyric made popular not long ago that states "Only the Good Die Young". So true in Bill's case and I'll miss that loving scholarly gentlemen.
June 3, 2016
June 3, 2016
In the summer of 1967 Bill and I drove a'61 Chevy around the country.We were temporary hippies on the most amazing road trip. There were grizzlies and snow in Yellowstone.The trail scraped from the walls of the Grand Canyon was terrifying when the mule trains waddled past .Billy had a beard and straw cowboy hat by the time we reached San Francisco.We could find places to crash through McCarthy headquarters;Clean for Gene was our Expedia.Big Sur was chemicaly enhanced.Disneyland.When we crashed the dorms at Tulane the tennis team saved us from the football evictors.                                                Bill's calm , easy going, good natured, open hearted appreciation , enjoyment and connection to the people in this adventure made all the difference!
May 26, 2016
May 26, 2016
Dearest family,

Am so sad about losing one of the best cousins at such a young age. I remember when Bill was a Hospital Administrator, Restaurant Manager, and eventually an Elementary School Substitute when he finally retired. In fact, the children and teachers loved him so much... he was booked every week.

Bill and Carol always made time to visit their west coast relatives ever since Rachel and David were born. I remember those days in North Hollywood and those later days in Pacific Grove and Mendocino. Bill was such a soft, sensitive, and brilliant cousin who listened to every word others shared, invited them to share more, and made everyone feel at home.

Will miss those days when Bill read a book every day, shared every book's story, and kept us warm with his heart and stove tight fires. When the fire was losing it's flame, Bill knew just how to rebuild it again!

Have lit a candle and planted a flower on behalf of Bill. With so much love and affection,

Cousin Melanie
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Happy Birthday in Heaven, my very dear old friend
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I just spoke with Carol. Always in my heart and in my mind. Missing you.
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Never fortotten. Always missed.
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December 5, 2018

I remember last time I talked to Bill I just finished a book on the Kennedy assassination and Bill and I sat down to talk about it so I loaned him the book. Well by the time he was ready to leave he almost finished the book wow! Happy birthday Bill you are truly loved by so many and will always be missed. Wish there were more of you in this world. Love Bob Dease Jr



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May 17, 2016

It is incredibly sad to be writing this today. I met Bill about 3 years ago when I joined the Chester Rotary club. He was instrumental in getting me to join after having visited. I remember the excitement on his face when he found out that I was a golfer. Bill and I played in a few tournaments with Rotary, but the most enjoyable times were with me and Bill at Brandermill Country Club and Birkdale Country Club. Every Wednesday at our Rotary meeting we greeted each other with "you want to golf this weekend." We played a lot of golf in the short 3 years that I knew him. A few times we would end those rounds with a beverage in the club house, Bill with his Cherry Coke and me a beer. I will miss these golf rounds with Bill very much. A great Rotarian and an even better person. I dont make new friends very easily, but Bill was one of them. He will be missed.

Joe

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