ForeverMissed
This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Blanche Bechard 84 years old , born on February 2, 1926 and passed away on November 22, 2010. We will remember her forever.
Posted by Clem Bechard on February 2, 2020
94 th birthday today! Miss you mom hope you are having a good time with pop today..love you. 
Posted by Clem Bechard on February 2, 2019
Happy 93rd Mom miss ya very much.. Love you
Posted by Clem Bechard on February 2, 2016
Happy Birthday Mom Miss you..
Posted by Lisa Chouinard on November 22, 2015
it's 5 years today mom! I know you are around me and you visit me in my dreams. I miss you.
Posted by Clem Bechard on November 22, 2015
Wow. 5 years already today. Seems like it was just yesterday . Miss you so much MOM. Love you!
Posted by Clem Bechard on November 22, 2014
4 years already! unbelievable , hope you guys are dancing the day away today..

Love you
Clem
Posted by pat michaud on November 22, 2014
She's in a better place reunited with her loved ones. We miss them all and hope they are watching over us.
Posted by Lisa Chouinard on November 22, 2013
today makes 3 years since you left me. I miss you and think about you everyday. I love you mom and wear your cross necklace all the time.
Posted by Clem Bechard on May 11, 2013
Happy Mothers Day Mother! Miss you very much. I smelled some lilacs the other day was that you?
Posted by Clem Bechard on February 2, 2013
Happy Birthday Mom miss you a bunch, love you always..
Posted by Lisa Chouinard on November 22, 2012
Today marks 2 years you passed away. I will never forget that night as my hand was on your chest and you took your last breath.
i think of you often and miss you still.
happy thanksgiving in heaven mom. i love you!
lisa xo
Posted by Clem Bechard on November 22, 2012
Yes I made a tribute to you myself the other day MOm, But it was the wrong site my bad! LOL.
 I miss you a bunch hope you and Dad are having a good dance up there, Love you....
Posted by Clem Bechard on February 2, 2012
Happy Birthday Mom Feb 02, 2012 miss you a bunch...
Posted by Clem Bechard on November 22, 2011
1 Year today Nov 22,2011. Miss you Mom . Hope you guy's are looking down on us today. Pray for us MOM & Dad that we may get through the hard times we are going through in this Nation.
Love you always and forever...
Clem
Posted by Lisa Chouinard on November 2, 2011
I can't believe it's been a year mom.
I was blessed to feel your last breath with my hand on your chest. I was blessed to be there when you left this world.
I think about you every day.
I know you are at peace with your family and pop.
send me a hello sometime. ok?
Posted by Clem Bechard on October 24, 2011
In Memory of my Mother Blanche who I miss so very much.
I can't believe its been a year already MOM!
One of the Moments in my Life that took my Breath away!
Love you MOM....

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Posted by Clem Bechard on February 2, 2020
94 th birthday today! Miss you mom hope you are having a good time with pop today..love you. 
Posted by Clem Bechard on February 2, 2019
Happy 93rd Mom miss ya very much.. Love you
Posted by Clem Bechard on February 2, 2016
Happy Birthday Mom Miss you..
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our bond at the end

Shared by Lisa Chouinard on November 22, 2013

my mom and were not close. I know she wanted to but couldnt bring herself to have mother/daughter talks with me but in her own ways she made me feel special since I was her only daughter. She took me shopping and bought me things. She trimmed my hair.

The day she finally told me she loved me was on my fathers funeral. I will never forget it as that is all I ever wanted was to hear her say it.

As she got older in the nursing home, I would paint her nails for her or clip them. I complained to the nursing home if her room wasn't clean enough to my liking.

At the end when she couldnt speak much, I remember it was just me and her in the hospital room and her food came and she looked at it like she couldn't feed herself so I fed her. We just looked at each other as I fed the spoon in her mouth. I wish I knew what she was thinking at that time because she looked like she didn't know me.

When she was unconscience and waiting for her to pass, I couldnt leave her side. I held her hand every chance I could. I didn't want her to leave this world without me there. I was there holding my fathers hand when he passed and I wanted to be touching my mom as well.
I almost went home the night she died but I couldnt go and that is the night she left me. My hand was on her chest as she drew her last breath and it is a gift I will never forget and always cherish.
I wear her cross necklace that she wore and had on when she passed.

I miss her and think of her all the time. I am happy that she is no longer suffering and she is with her family at last.

I love you mom. 

D'Youville Pavilion

Shared by Clem Bechard on May 11, 2013

  I love this picture because she looks so happy in it. She was very hard of hearing towards the end. Her mind was still sharp though. She would call to remind me about something that I would forget sometimes.
  As you can see to her right we got her a small dry erase board to see if that would help out a little. She was always in a good mood though. Very seldom would she complain about anything, so if she did you knew there was something wrong. 
  She was quit a women to last as long as she did with all that she went through..
   
   Kiss and Hugs Mom... 

Mom comes out for my Birthday Party

Shared by Clem Bechard on May 11, 2013

  This was the first time she went out of D'yuville Pavilion in a long time!
I was so surprised she wanted to come share my Birthday in July that year.
It was such a hot and humid day that day too. We strapped her down on her wheel chair , did not want her to fall off.
  I have that hat now and wear it every summer when it gets very hot outside and I have to mow the lawn and stuff..
  That was also the year she passed away. Its funny that is the last thing I remember of her waving to me as we were leaving the Hospital before she had her many strokes..That is exactly the way she was waving at me on the hospital bed!

  Love you Mom!!