When I heard that David Bowie, had passed, I instantly thought of you, it is almost 5 years. He passed away from Cancer, this was a secret from his fans until today, I got heart sick at the thought of his wife, watching him die slowly, as I had to watch you ......and then the other memory, you had Bowies song "Under Pressure" as your ring tone on the iphone. I have cried all day on and off, thinking of you and wishing you were here with me, to talk and tell you the lastest, I lost my POP this last year too, all the wonderful men in my life are gone. I will always wait for the day we meet again. xxxooo my Love forever, Ro 

Someone asked me yesterday if I talk to you often. She thought you had moved to New York. I told her I talk with you all the time...then I told her you had died almost 4 years ago...she had no idea. It got me rethinking about regrets. Regretting the mistakes we made in the past. Regretting the time you missed with your sons, you would have been proud of them. Tony is 110% DNA match to you! Not at all sure that is a good thing! Then I remember that tomorrow is not promised to anyone and I am glad his spirit is like yours. He will go places, see and do things that most people are afraid to take the chance on. He loves Vegas, cooking and wrestling, wonder where all that came from... Vinnie is more level headed, he joined the Marine Core just before your diagnosis. With 1 foot in the US and the other foot ready to board the plane to Okanawa I called him with the news.  He is strong and caring and plans for the future. I ask myself all the time if things would have turned out differently for you had you seen a doctor sooner. Always the strong one, always tough, never admitting anything was wrong or that you might have needed some help. I saw the signs at least a year earlier, heard them in the tone of your voice and the hesitation of your words. The weight loss was also a red flag. I kept telling you to please go see a doctor, you kept telling me "Kiddo, I am fine, they are just working me too much". I regret not being more persistent... You left behind great memories for so many people. Your cooking talent was second to none, I miss the favors, they are in my memory always. I know you are at peace, surrounded by family, friends and loved ones. My mom and dad joined you this past year, they never stopped loving you.  I adopted a 5 year old English bull dog, I tell her all the time, Bobby would have loved you...I miss you and my heart will always remember and love you.

Love Rose

To Uncle Bobby, Love Leo your nephew you never met and your niece Alyssa you met when she was a baby xoxoxoxo

Love and miss you forever!!!

7 years ago I met Bob Oct 7 2005,I called him Bobby G from that time on....I am wife number 3, he was husband number 3 for me also.....I knew the minute I met him ...he was mine...I thought for a longer time than we would ever have.... we had 5 years 8 months 12 days to live together and love and live...we didn't know that at the time. I thought we would live to old age together....I hoped he would out live me. That was not the case......I will always be grateful of his time in my life. He was seasoned like... wine by the time we met. He had been through a lot of life by the time I met him, he had a lost a loved one, Barbara, and Treva and Rose. the women of his life and the girlfriends, oh well, he lived a full life...but always, he loved his family...I know at the end of his life, he thought back to all his mistakes, and regrets, but in the end he loved us all....I know his heart was with us all.....he was human, not perfect....just perfect to me......I love you Robert Harold Anderson-Genosa
Forever and always.....thank you for loving me so much......RO  

 Bobby Genosa came to work at Fresco Catering exactly when we needed him.  We were expanding and we wanted a chef who was well trained, cool under pressure and could handle any event or task that came our way. Well, that is exactly what we got. Bobby was so good at every aspect of the business.  His experience so varied, that he could cook everything and work any event.  We shared so many wonderful times with him. "A Night in Paris", "In Spain", our anniverary celebrations where Bobby could flip and flash saute pans and dazzle the crowd, not only with his skill but also his wonderful smile, personality and charm. We realize now, that those skills helped him keep his cool when this horrible cancer presented him with his greatest challange. Never did Bobby complain or give in.  He was as strong as a man could be, and so grateful to all of his family and friends that came together to be a comfort to him. But in the end, it was Bobby who gave all of us comfort. He was courageous and kind and serves as an example of what we all aspire to be.

Missing you and always inspired by your spirit,

Jill and Mark Brouillard

Bobby,

Our lives took a turn to eternity, that day a year ago. I cannot believe its been a year ago......your gone ....home in Heaven.....how I will miss you so.  I will grieve.. they tell me, till,  I see you again in Heaven...why do I have to wait till then?

I ask God everyday to give me peace and relief of the pain.. the loss of you has left me with....but alas...no relief.......only hurt and sorrow...till we meet again. 

I will never live really without you..I'll just exist in this life ....no joy without you here.

Forever missed by me your wife....left behind...  Ro

I remember our first kiss after the pastor named us Husband and Wife, you took my face into your soft beautiful hands. What a lover you were! I was so happy that day, You were always kind and gentle with me. Always calm and loving.

I still cannot believe your gone. ......it will be a year this June 27th that we were told your condition......

I will always remember your soft sweet kisses. The ones on the top of my head meant the most ....you always showed your love that way....so many pictures of you kissing those you loved on the head.....but the ones on my lips will be remembered till I die and see you again.....Do we get to kiss in Heaven?.....

Love your wife here missing you more than ever.....Ro xxxxxxxxxxxxxx 

 A death bed 
All it took
Memories flood
Pond of regrets 
Unasked questions 
Hidden beneath
Cloak of pretensions
Woven in ages
Engraved on scriptures
Embedded within
Great minds
of Righteous men
Declaring destiny
as Preordained 

Who would console
a Dying man
Deprived himself
that Makes who he is
Doing things only
that Please and Satisfy 
Norms and the Culture
Where he was born,
When the curtain falls
Everything else
is Meaningless

~Unknown Poet~

It was June of 1998 and I was so excited and ready for graduation.I couldn't wait for our road trip but first a big party with the family and a little map planning.It was so nice to see you having a great time.So on the road we started and it was an adventure of a lifetime.Getting to New Orleans and having french toast made from french bread in a french restaurant in the french quarter  .Making it to San Antonio and having a cup of coffee across from the Alamo and taking the tour was a blast I have to say..LOL.Getting to AZ was great but now I realize the best part was the Journey with my Dad.

Love You Dad 

Miss You

Chenny