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Gone From My Sight by Henry Van Dyke

I am standing upon the seashore. A ship, at my side,
spreads her white sails to the moving breeze and starts
for the blue ocean. She is an object of beauty and strength.
I stand and watch her until, at length, she hangs like a speck
of white cloud just where the sea and sky come to mingle with each other.

 Then, someone at my side says, "There, she is gone."

 Gone where?

 Gone from my sight. That is all. She is just as large in mast,

hull and spar as she was when she left my side.
And, she is just as able to bear her load of living freight to her destined port.

Her diminished size is in me -- not in her.

And, just at the moment when someone says, "There, she is gone,"
there are other eyes watching her coming, and other voices
ready to take up the glad shout, "Here she comes!"

 And that is dying...



Robert John Meinert, 75, passed away in his home, just after 10 pm on January 10th, surrounded by his family. Bob had been living with pulminary fibrosis for several years and over the past few months it has taken its course. Robert was the beloved husband of Patrica, father of Sherron (Rob Morrison), Nancy (Steve) Atkinson, Bob (Teresa) Meinert, and grandfather of Haley (Benjamin Durham), Amy (Brian Barnes), Josh (Bridget) Meinert and Tony Meinert. He is also survived by his loving sister Jane Sokol and her family.

Bob was born on September 2nd, 1940 in St Louis, Missouri. He married Patricia Buehler, April 8th, 1961. Bob and Pat moved with their three children, Sherron, Nancy and Bob, to Portland, Oregon, in January 1970. Bob was working as an accountant with Wagner Electric in St. Louis and requested a transfer after falling in love with Portland on a business trip. Bob made Oregon his home, enjoying trips to the coast, the mountains and enjoyed helping others discover the beauty of his beloved home as a Boy Scout Troop Leader, Little League Coach, and driver for Hood to Coast race.

Bob owned Riverside Autoparts in Sellwood for ten years, through the 1980's. While running the store he began serving the local Sellwood community as board member for the Sellwood-Moreland Lions club and served as their president from 1991-1993. Additionally he volunteered as a driver for Meals on Wheels and continued to deliver food and hope for nearly thirty years.

Bob's commitment to his family and community was unwavering. He dedicated himself to providing the same opportunites and priveleges that he was given to those who were less fortunate. One of his greatest legacies is over twenty years of service with Rebuilding Together Washington County. As a volunteer, project leader, and later chapter president for two terms, Bob prepared homes for families in need of a fresh start. He invited his family and friends to be a part of the mission.

Not only was Bob recognized for his service by Rebuilding Together, and as a Melvin Jones Fellow for his humaitarian services with the Lions, he also leaves a legacy of service and generosity instilled in each of his children and four grandchildren, Haley, Josh, Amy, and Tony. His grandchildren continue his legacy of service; Haley has been teaching in a low income community for several years, Josh volunteers with the youth in his community, Amy is pursuing a career in counseling and Tony will be serving our country in the Air Force.

In lieu of sending flowers we ask that you would make a donation to either Rebuilding Together Washington County (http://www.togwc.org/donate/) or Care Partners Hospice (http://hospicepalliativeportland.org/).

September 2, 2023
September 2, 2023
September 2, 2023
Today would have been your 83rd Bday. You were remembered by family and
friends once again. You are still very much missed.
I am now a 2 time cancer survivor and trying to keep moving.
I walked very slowly around Commonwealth Park today and
thought about the many times we did that together. Then I went
to Einstein's for breakfast. They have open seating once more - we had
lots of breakfasts there, it was once of our favorite spots.
Planning a trip to St. Louis to see family and Tom & Lucy. I have traveled
more this year than I have in years - New York w/ Sherron & Amy
Canada train trip with Lee's family.
Still doing the quilts for Providence - 50 so far this year.
I'm doing pretty well, but miss you every day and every way - particularly
miss the political discussions. We would be having some dandy ones about
Trump etc.
The kids are al fine - Sheron & Rob retired this year and Bob will next year.
Lucy started school and Emme is in pre-school. You would enjoy these two
very much, They are happy, healthy children.
All my love, Peppermint Patty (smile)
September 3, 2022
September 3, 2022
Happy Birthday Dear,
Lots of people remembered your birthday,
our children, your best friend Tom, your "girlfriend" Cindy.
You touched a lot of people's lives and are so very
missed in our lives. All my love, Pat
January 12, 2022
January 12, 2022
I watched the video that the family did for your memorial, so many pictures
of you over the years. I can't believe you have been gone for 6 years.

Amy said you would be proud of how well the family is doing.
Amy & Brian are doing well with their floral business. Haley says
you would be proud of how Lucy & Emme love their veggies. Haley &
Ben are both teaching in Portland schools.
Sherron & Rob are planning to retire in 2023,can you believe our daughter
will be retiring at 60? Bob & Theresa are doing well as are Nancy & Steve.
Tony is still in the Air Force and Josh is in Kansas City.

I'm tired of the containment COVID has forced on me, but I'm doing well
health wise and just waiting for a time when I can do some traveling.
I had some extensive work done in the backyard so that I can enjoy staying
home. You would have hated the cost, but loved the results.

Bob you will forever be in my heart and mind - you are truly unforgettable.
Happy New Year 2022 form your loving family.
September 2, 2021
September 2, 2021
Hi Bob
Today is your 81st Birthday, wish you were to celebrate with your family.
It is a beautiful Fall day, one like made you want to come to Oregon.
The pandemic continues and still there are many people who refuse to be
vaccinated. 
I am well and staying safe!
You would so enjoy Emme - Lucy's little sister. 1yr old and moving fast.
Miss talking to you so very much. The whole family is doing well and I am
so very grateful.
Love ya forever !!!
December 23, 2020
December 23, 2020
Bob
I am hoping that you have been able to be joined with Jane. She left
us on December 16th.
You will be forever missed ! I'm glad that you missed this year of the pandemic. You would have had a very hard time being confined for
such a long time. We all hope an pray that the vaccine will save lives that
would have been lost.
All my love forever!
February 20, 2020
February 20, 2020
Some days you're right here with me - today I just miss you.
I love you Fred.
January 10, 2020
January 10, 2020
Bob, you will be forever missed - best friend I ever had and best one to
talk about everything, but especially politics. You were right about Trump
winning - although you didn't want that either - smile!
Thank you again for moving us to Oregon!
You would be so happy to see how well our children and grandchildren
are doing. You would love Lucy who is 2 and a delight and will be having
a sister or brother late this year.
All my love from your favorite girlfriend.
January 11, 2017
January 11, 2017
When I think of Dad I see him in the stars - moving farther from us on his next journey.
Stardust to stardust.
September 2, 2016
September 2, 2016
Today is his birthday - while I think of Dad everyday I let him slip in and out of my mind, never letting myself dwell on the sadness but today... memories are rolling in bringing tears.

Today is his birthday - not a day we really celebrated, we're not a big birthday family but we had small traditions. No singing (tone deaf, the lot of us), one huge candle in the middle of the cake, no presents just sharing time.

I miss you Dad - today I'll think about you and I thank you for everything.
January 23, 2016
January 23, 2016
"My Dad has always been, and will always be My Best Friend."
Miss You Very Much...
January 20, 2016
January 20, 2016
Bob and Pat were our neighbors for 10 years, many years ago. It is difficult for me to talk about Bob without including Pat, because both of them were the very best neighbors and friends we have had. To this day, many years later, we are so grateful for the friendship and kindness they offered to "the newly weds in the house across the street." We had so many good times and good conversations with Bob and Pat. You think about those who have influenced you and made a difference in your life and Bob is right at the top of my list. His dedication to his family and his community was something that we never forgot. It truly made a difference in our lives and I'm sure that it made me a better person and parent.

 Thank you Bob Meinert for being a shining example of integrity, of commitment to family, and commitment to helping others in need.
January 19, 2016
January 19, 2016
To the Family of Bob Meinert,
Bob was a gentleman. He was always kind to all.
I will miss his humor and his friendship. I will cherish our many hours at Rebuilding Together. He helped make life enjoyable for many.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Jack White
January 19, 2016
January 19, 2016
Played softball and basketball with Bob in the 70's. Wonderful guy and always fun to be around. Very sorry to hear of his passing.
January 18, 2016
January 18, 2016
I came to know Bob about 10 years ago through our connection to the auto parts business world. We had many discussions about what we thought was right and wrong with our world. We laughed a lot and I truly enjoyed his personality. I have only good memories of Bob and know the world has lost a wonderful person but, Heaven has gained one.
January 16, 2016
January 16, 2016
I met Bob while working in the automotive industry. He was one of the good guys, always upbeat, with a smile and that humor too. He was a gentle man and the kind of person that makes the world a better place. We need more Bobs in our lives. I am grateful my life's paths crossed his. I am grateful too he introduced me to his daughter Sherron, as that enabled me to see the love and the connection the Meinert family has.My sincere condolences to Pat , and the family as they begin to try to heal this huge void in their lives. Give yourselves plenty of time, as this is a huge loss~~~~~~~~
January 15, 2016
January 15, 2016
My Father was a good person, strong and kind. He also had an incredible sense of humor. I miss him in my world --
January 15, 2016
January 15, 2016
Bob was a high school classmate and a basketball teammate. He was competitive in sports, a superb "team player," and inspirational in his commitment to play hard no matter what the scoreboard read.
As a friend he was supportive, fun-loving, and loyal. He was, in a word, genuine, a friend who felt your pain and enjoyed your success.
After his move to Oregon, I saw him only on occasion. His life, his wife and his family clearly reflect the character of the man I knew many years ago. May he live in God's eternal joy and may God's protective light shine on his family.

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September 2, 2023
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September 2, 2023
Today would have been your 83rd Bday. You were remembered by family and
friends once again. You are still very much missed.
I am now a 2 time cancer survivor and trying to keep moving.
I walked very slowly around Commonwealth Park today and
thought about the many times we did that together. Then I went
to Einstein's for breakfast. They have open seating once more - we had
lots of breakfasts there, it was once of our favorite spots.
Planning a trip to St. Louis to see family and Tom & Lucy. I have traveled
more this year than I have in years - New York w/ Sherron & Amy
Canada train trip with Lee's family.
Still doing the quilts for Providence - 50 so far this year.
I'm doing pretty well, but miss you every day and every way - particularly
miss the political discussions. We would be having some dandy ones about
Trump etc.
The kids are al fine - Sheron & Rob retired this year and Bob will next year.
Lucy started school and Emme is in pre-school. You would enjoy these two
very much, They are happy, healthy children.
All my love, Peppermint Patty (smile)
September 3, 2022
September 3, 2022
Happy Birthday Dear,
Lots of people remembered your birthday,
our children, your best friend Tom, your "girlfriend" Cindy.
You touched a lot of people's lives and are so very
missed in our lives. All my love, Pat
January 12, 2022
January 12, 2022
I watched the video that the family did for your memorial, so many pictures
of you over the years. I can't believe you have been gone for 6 years.

Amy said you would be proud of how well the family is doing.
Amy & Brian are doing well with their floral business. Haley says
you would be proud of how Lucy & Emme love their veggies. Haley &
Ben are both teaching in Portland schools.
Sherron & Rob are planning to retire in 2023,can you believe our daughter
will be retiring at 60? Bob & Theresa are doing well as are Nancy & Steve.
Tony is still in the Air Force and Josh is in Kansas City.

I'm tired of the containment COVID has forced on me, but I'm doing well
health wise and just waiting for a time when I can do some traveling.
I had some extensive work done in the backyard so that I can enjoy staying
home. You would have hated the cost, but loved the results.

Bob you will forever be in my heart and mind - you are truly unforgettable.
Happy New Year 2022 form your loving family.
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