A TRIBUTE/ TO Bob Mitchem May 2020 – Lois Douglas
-Dick Douglas and Bob Mitchem:Dick’s first IBM class was as a student in Bob’s IBM Sales Class: in the 60’s. Bob taught and Dick revered!
Phil & Mary Kemp had a Christmas party, 35 yrs ago. We were all excited about Bob moving to Atlanta; this would be the first time I would meet Bob Mitchem and Sookie.We met:
Then, Sookie- Bob- Dick- Lois- committee went everywhere!
.Dinners,
.BBQs,
.Business Mtgs,
.Games,
.Movies
Event: Game day at the Douglases, “Name That tune”…Old Negro Spiritual…Team: Dick, Sookie, and Tinka Green—Bob razzed Dick about one black man unable to carry a team to victory …Bob said “slaves would have done better – you should go back to school!I’m ashamed of you!”
Event: Another Game day at the Douglases: I made homemade rolls and apple cobbler…Bob dipped his bread in the cobbler, then everybody followed suit.Bob bragged, “Nobody recognizes good food anymore—At this age and stage, I’m still teaching!”
Bob & Sookie moved to Florida a few years later.Dick and I visited them in their home where they purchased a huge house—with
-An infinity pool,
-Included ALL the model- home furniture,
-Restaurants all around,
-Lovely!
-Feb 2009, and then there were 3
Bob & Sookie & Lois
-STILL Social; More Food; Deep Culture Conversation.
-Park Family Reunion, 2016, I was inducted into Sookie’s Korean family…One night, a social was held at my house in Dunwoody. Because I’m restricted to food prep & cleanup detail, I needed some African-American reinforcements, so I invited William and
Emily Stanley—people we had traveled with all over the world.William set us up!He brought giant speakers and lots of relevant music in the sunroom.Bob danced, solo, like a Greek (Opa!), bragged the unknown, circular dance he performed was the Merengue , and he smiled throughout!Sookie’s eyes followed him as he sneaked a couple drinks, especially when he thought Sookie didn’t see!...Always a delight!
Bob’s Illness returned, 2019. Back to the drawing board!
-Hospital visitations: Bob would ask Sookie to tip the nurses because he was/always the maître d, with the charm of a Concierge on-call.He loved leading the call to “Play!”
-Every Tuesday, the 3 of us carried on: Sookie cooked good food, we watched Netflix/Amazon movies, and laughed through our irreverent conversation.
April 2020-Tuesday gatherings ended early due to Covid-19
May 2020-Everyday loss ushered in the new normal
Historic Birthday remembrance--
May 14, 2013 – There was a birthday party for Sookie at my house.
Bob demanded he secretly buy something for Sookie.I purchased the gift, Bob adapted these words from the song, “People”:
"Sookie…all of us love Sookie,
We’re the luckiest people in the world
We’re family, needing other family
And yet letting our grown-up pride
Hide all her love inside
Acting more like Meadow, than Meadow*…
Family—is very special people
We’re the luckiest people in the world
With one Sookie—one very special Sookie,
We love her deep in our souls
Once we were half, now we’re whole,
We still hunger and thirst—
Because we’re a family who loves Sookie
All of us love Sookie:
We’re the luckiest people in the world!"