This memorial website was created in memory of Robert Charles Scheno, aka our beloved "Bob" or "Uncle Bob" -- world traveler, master chef, connoisseur of wines and champagnes, lover of all things French, family member, and friend.
Please use this site to share your memories of Bob and pass it along to anyone that you know who was touched by his life.
His official obituary can be found here.
Service Information (*Updated 9/16*)
Internment of Bob's cremation ashes has been scheduled at the Arlington National Cemetery on Wednesday, October 25 at 11am.
If you are interested in attending, please RSVP using this link or by contacting Tom Bozzo directly.
Those attending are to be at the Administration building no later than 10:15am. Information concerning directions to the cemetery, parking, etc may be obtained by visiting www.arlingtoncemetery.mil or callling 877-907-8585.
We will be organizing a lunch nearby to follow the service which we hope all can attend.
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A memorial for Bob took place on Saturday, May 13th at Asbury Methodist Village, where Bob resided. The program from his service can be found here.
Tributes
Leave a tributeThanks be to God.
And in Christ, there is no end
So I'll hold onto Jesus with all that I have
To see you again
-Mercy Me, Homesick
I know he would be enjoying the Bozzo boys!
As always Bob will be forever missed! He was so generous to share his talents and how to get things done. Bob was one of a kind!
It was a comfort to have lunch with others who loved Bob. He touched many lives and we were blessed to have him in ours. And he will be forever missed.
A group of friends gathered at Mele Bistro Restaurant to celebrate and offer a toast for Bob’s Birthday! A great time was enjoyed by everyone as we reminisced and exchanged personal stories. Bob was a remarkably talented Renaissance Man, who made a lasting impression on each of us. Rest In Peace, Bob!
Susan MacDonald Wehrenberg (daughter of Mildred Stover MacDonald, oldest daughter of John and Cora and Bob's cousin.)
Bob was a positive force of nature. We were so fortunate to have him in our lives and he is impossible to replace. He did light up our lives!
We had the opportunity to remember all of Bob's remarkable talents. He made his own pasta and the sauces, created wonderful meals but most of all we were able to share his joy and humor. He did light a candle for all who knew him.
We have some beautiful books that he saved from when our son was young. Now our Shane always asks to read “Uncle Bob’s special books.” The boys loved him so! His memory lives on with the Bozzo family.
People come and go on this journey. I can only imagine when I look back at some of the early photos of my parents and their friends that they couldn't have fully grasped at the time the longevity and impact that some of these friendships would end up having on themselves and their children.
And so it was with Uncle Bob. I was fortunate to have him be a part of my life from the very beginning and I am so grateful to my parents for that gift. It means more to me than they could ever truly know.
To say that Uncle Bob had an adventurous spirit would be an incredible understatement. Some of my earliest memories with him involve various adventures, or sometimes misadventures: camping, horse-back riding, spelunking, sailing, traveling, nature exploring, you name it. He was always looking for new and exciting experiences to share, and happily encouraged me to try new things despite any preconceived doubts on my part. A fair share of these experiences later ended up as embarrassing stories in my adulthood, but I wouldn't trade them for anything.
As I got older, I began to realize more and more what a special and unique person he was. A true renaissance man, well-versed in so many things - from foreign cultures (particularly French, his family's roots), to history, world travel, cooking, appreciating and creating art, wood-working, gardening, reading and so much more. Uncle Bob found beauty in everything. His quest for knowledge never dwindled. His love of life and everything it had to offer was infectious. His excitement in experiencing it, or its prospect, palpable. It's a trait that I hope to instill in my children.
But the true gift was that when he spoke to you, he truly engaged and showed genuine interest in your life, making you feel like you were the only person in the world that mattered to him. He listened, and made you feel loved and accepted.
Uncle Bob had an extraordinary ability to build community and connect with people which led him to establish friendships with people of all walks of life. He was fascinated by different experiences, beliefs, and opinions. He was respectful and conscientious. He exuded love and encouragement. Uncle Bob drew people to him like moths to a flame. His easy, welcoming smile, his boisterous laugh, his desire to celebrate everything - a promotion! An engagement! A completed task! All calls for popping a bottle of champagne, plenty of good food, and tons of fun and laughter together.
Uncle Bob loved being together. Let's get together. Let's try this new restaurant together. Let's go to the museum exhibit together. It really didn't matter what the outing entailed - if I asked, "Uncle Bob, do you want to…" he was already smiling and agreeing. "Yes, Tommy! Yes, I would LOVE that." I'd ask, how about on… and before I would name a day or date, he'd be nodding enthusiastically. "We'll find a day, oh yes, that will work. It will be WONDERFUL!"
Uncle Bob was so generous in spirit. Growing up I knew he would take me just about anywhere I wanted to go. And more times that I can count that was to the Putt-Putt mini golf and video game arcade with my friends. He let me drive his brand new car! And well before that command the radio. Every. Single. Time. No questions asked. No task was too big or too small. Making others happy brought him so much joy.
Above all, his family and friends meant the most to him. Despite never marrying or having his own children, Uncle Bob's family was enormous. The deep connections he made with people throughout his life, whether at work, on his travels, during his service in the Navy, at church, with his neighbors, his extended family, and even the extended family of his countless friends….were all truly fortunate enough to find a spot in Uncle Bob's family.
Uncle Bob adored children and found them endlessly entertaining. He loved spending time with and hearing stories about our children. he loved telling (and re-telling) stories.
Uncle Bob was a gifted storyteller. Drawing on his many life experiences, he was literally never without a story to tell. Uncle Bob remained young at heart and full of stories until the day he died.
And now his story is being told. We cannot help but to share the stories of our times with him because, when you feel love like his, it never burns out. We will miss him dearly and we will always, always remember him. And his stories will live on.
"My tribute to Bob is so full of love and beautiful memories. I am his Minnesota cousin, Shirley Stover Johnson. Bob came to our family (his uncle John Stover) in Minnesota at age 18 ready to begin school at the University of Minnesota. He immediately became another sibling and son, as well, to all of us - not just a cousin and nephew. He seemed to have no trouble becoming a "Minnesota country boy". I will forever love and miss him." - Shirley
Love you always
Florrie Stover Stewart
It seemed everyone knew Bob. He possessed that wonderfully cheerful personality that drew in others.. But it was his friendship with so many people of different ages & cultures tat I found so extraordinary.
He cared deeply about his friends & family & would do anything for them. He was especially close to his sister, June, & his Godson, Tommy Bozzo. He lost both his parents quite early & cherished the opportunity to "adopt" his friends parents & siblings. He assimilated entire families, notable am,ong them the Bozzos, Farfas' Petersaons & Yokoyamas. After only half a day on his 1st of many trips with me to Ailey, Ga. he seemed to have transformed himself into a Southerner, complete with the appropriate traditional culture. This was typical of his unique ability to quickly blend in with any group. Naturally, this always delighted & endeared himself to them, esprcially with his genuine good-naturedness & , cheerfulness but especially his humor & wit. He could trade quips with anyone.
He introduced me to foreign travel with trips to Greece, England, Egypt, & his beloved France. He told me at one chateau, "I can make the stones speak". And indeed with his extensive knowledge of French history he did indeed make that happen. He was without a doubt the best tour guide I ever had.
As in all friendships there were a few speed bumps,but there was never any doubt that our friendship was steadfast and everlasting. I always knew that Bob had my back, & remained my confidant until the end. A few days before he died, I visited Bob in the Asbury nursing wing where I found him cheerfully "holding court" with another patient & an Asbury aide. I didn't catch the preceding conversation, but heard the other patient reply, "everybody knows you Bob". Even blind & suffering from heart failure, he was still the same entertaining Bob. I told him I had two 3 week Southern trips coming up. He replied to have fun, be safe. & come see him when I returned. I think we both knew that that might be overly optimistic. He passed on the first trip & now I will be with 2 couples at my timeshare in Gulf Shores, Ala. (affectionately called "the Redneck Rivera) Three of the 4 people were friends of Bob.. I am sure I have Bob's blessing to remain with my friends---after all he taught me to be a good host. So on the 13th we will raise our glasses & toast that dear, unique friend who brought so much laughter & pleasure to so many people.
Writing this is starting to make me tear-up & I am reminding of one of Bob's favorite activities. It was to reminiscence about the many travels, adventures,parties,beaches, racetracks, & other fun times we had enjoyed together. Of course our memories were always enhanced by several drinks. Invariably this process would trigger our sentimentalities & two emotional old men would replace laughter with a good, heartfelt cry.
This was the Bob that I knew & loved & will miss terribly.
Salute Bob.
We had many happy times entertaining his friends from Meaux and traveled there to share a visit with Bob. We shared a love for travel and enjoyed all the details of trips. We shared our love of France.
Guy and Bob enjoyed preparing meals and had many discussions on the best way to prepare a meal.
Bob will indeed by forever missed.
Bob was a sweetheart and a terrific cousin-in-law. We will miss him.
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Thanks be to God.
Bob and St John's Community
Bob converted to Catholicism at this Silver Spring, MD parish in 1989. He was a very active member as a Eucharist Minister for a local nursing home and for home bound members and as an RCIA leader. He served as a Godfather as needed. When the Adoration Chapel opened, Bob could be found there at 11AM every Monday for an hour in adoration before the Eucharist. He offered prayers for the intentions of many.
He developed a friendship with the IHM Nuns that served the school and was Uncle Bob to many friends in Tommy Bozzo's class. The many church and school activities filled his life after his early retirement.