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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Bobbi Bourbonnais, 21, born on February 24, 1993 and passed away on July 7, 2014. We will remember her forever.
Please joing us for Bobbi's "Life Celebration"  
When:  Sunday, August 24, 2014
Where: 14475 Makikuja Drive Grass Valley, CA 95945
When:   10AM until.....

 

Donations can be made to through paypal to Bobbiesblessings@gmail.com

Donations will go towards the extensive medical testing for Bobbies Sister Starla.

 

August 19, 2014
August 19, 2014
I remember when I met you, I was bitter, and cynical. Our parents both worked at NCSA, so we ended up spending a lot of time together after school... I remember in that time was some of the happiest days of my life, when you genuinely made me believe in impossible things, and made me think that I was special to the world, and you showed me what love truly feels like. You were able to make me believe in vampires before I had a belief in any god or spirituality. We drifted a while during highschool, mostly because I was a shut-in and wouldn't talk to many people, and the school I was at definitely permitted that kind of antisocial behavior, but when I got kicked out of that school, I think I found myself again, and soon after you found your way back to me. In our last two years of school you and I spent a lot of time together, and you were meaningfully there for me during my darkest times in a way nobody else was. You again, made me feel wanted, and special, and like maybe the world wasn't ending. After highschool, I remember you once sent me something on Facebook, talking about all of the good times we had together, and how you had actively cut out a lot of people from our past from your life, and how I wasn't one of them, and how you wanted to keep me in your life for a very long time. I wish I would have responded in a more sincere, less characteristic manner, because the truth was, and I hope you understood, that I felt entirely the same way, and that I have always realized what an intimate part of me you have always been, and how much you've helped me survive and mature over the years. There are so many people I thought would be around today that aren't, and so many people I thought would be loyal to me that haven't been at all, and I was so happy when I realized that you still cared about me all of this time, and I really hope that you knew it was mutual. You were one of the few people who never resented me for who I was, or what I believed in, or judged me for being weird, who instead embraced everything about me, and in a lot of ways made me better without trying to change me. I have an irreparable debt to you, and there are so many things I wish I would have said to you, and so many more that I wish I would have said better. I wish you could have met my son, I bet you two would have been good friends, just like we are. I will always miss you, and you will always be in my fondest memories. Thank you for everything you did, I'm sorry I wasn't a better friend to you.
July 28, 2014
July 28, 2014
wow... so grateful this page was made. when i first met Bobbi, I was so so shy. she was always th energetic one and got everyone up on their feet & always made sure you were doing okay. I spent a week with her & she showed my the most stupid show I had ever seen, but we kept watching it. we'd watch 8 episodes every day and not get tired of it, & to this day I make sure it is recorded when a new episode comes on. Bobbi really brought me out of my shell and her funny jokes made me look even cooler when I came back home ;) bobbs, even though I rarely saw you, you meant a lot to me. I'll see you soon, you'll forever be in our hearts. RIP
July 27, 2014
July 27, 2014
Bobbi you were the best sister I could have ever asked for. I'm so grateful that god blessed me with someone like you. One of my favorite memories is when we broke open a stink bomb on the bus before school LOL. We went through some hard times together and I couldn't have done it without you. I never thought you'd be called home this soon but I know you're in good hands and I'll see you again someday. Such a beautiful person inside and out, I will love you and miss you for the rest of my life. May your soul be at peace <3
July 26, 2014
July 26, 2014
I never did get to meet Bobbi. I only knew her through family and pictures. She was obviously a wonderful person and a wonderful treasure to my lovely cousin Tina. We will never understand why someone is taken at such a young age. I had several former students who also had short lives. My thoughts and prayers are always with you.
July 26, 2014
July 26, 2014
Bobbi, you are the most amazing person I have ever met. You will always be missed and your memory will always be cherished. You have touched a countless number of lives. I know you have touched my life in a great way. I love you Bobbi. Thank you for being a part of my life.
July 24, 2014
July 24, 2014
What a beautiful tribute to an exquisite woman. My only regret is that I didn't get to meet Bobbi until about three years ago. When I was around her, she made me happy and she did that with everyone she met. She was funny, quirky yet very sensitive to everyone around her.

Her time on this Earth was not enough. Those who loved and mourn her are dealing with that loss. My heart-felt prayers and sympathy to her whole family and the love of her life, Demetrius. May you all find peace and comfort in knowing that Bobbi touched many people the short time she was here.

God Bless You All! God speed Bobbi till I see you again and get my hug.

Debbie

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August 19, 2014
August 19, 2014
I remember when I met you, I was bitter, and cynical. Our parents both worked at NCSA, so we ended up spending a lot of time together after school... I remember in that time was some of the happiest days of my life, when you genuinely made me believe in impossible things, and made me think that I was special to the world, and you showed me what love truly feels like. You were able to make me believe in vampires before I had a belief in any god or spirituality. We drifted a while during highschool, mostly because I was a shut-in and wouldn't talk to many people, and the school I was at definitely permitted that kind of antisocial behavior, but when I got kicked out of that school, I think I found myself again, and soon after you found your way back to me. In our last two years of school you and I spent a lot of time together, and you were meaningfully there for me during my darkest times in a way nobody else was. You again, made me feel wanted, and special, and like maybe the world wasn't ending. After highschool, I remember you once sent me something on Facebook, talking about all of the good times we had together, and how you had actively cut out a lot of people from our past from your life, and how I wasn't one of them, and how you wanted to keep me in your life for a very long time. I wish I would have responded in a more sincere, less characteristic manner, because the truth was, and I hope you understood, that I felt entirely the same way, and that I have always realized what an intimate part of me you have always been, and how much you've helped me survive and mature over the years. There are so many people I thought would be around today that aren't, and so many people I thought would be loyal to me that haven't been at all, and I was so happy when I realized that you still cared about me all of this time, and I really hope that you knew it was mutual. You were one of the few people who never resented me for who I was, or what I believed in, or judged me for being weird, who instead embraced everything about me, and in a lot of ways made me better without trying to change me. I have an irreparable debt to you, and there are so many things I wish I would have said to you, and so many more that I wish I would have said better. I wish you could have met my son, I bet you two would have been good friends, just like we are. I will always miss you, and you will always be in my fondest memories. Thank you for everything you did, I'm sorry I wasn't a better friend to you.
July 28, 2014
July 28, 2014
wow... so grateful this page was made. when i first met Bobbi, I was so so shy. she was always th energetic one and got everyone up on their feet & always made sure you were doing okay. I spent a week with her & she showed my the most stupid show I had ever seen, but we kept watching it. we'd watch 8 episodes every day and not get tired of it, & to this day I make sure it is recorded when a new episode comes on. Bobbi really brought me out of my shell and her funny jokes made me look even cooler when I came back home ;) bobbs, even though I rarely saw you, you meant a lot to me. I'll see you soon, you'll forever be in our hearts. RIP
July 27, 2014
July 27, 2014
Bobbi you were the best sister I could have ever asked for. I'm so grateful that god blessed me with someone like you. One of my favorite memories is when we broke open a stink bomb on the bus before school LOL. We went through some hard times together and I couldn't have done it without you. I never thought you'd be called home this soon but I know you're in good hands and I'll see you again someday. Such a beautiful person inside and out, I will love you and miss you for the rest of my life. May your soul be at peace <3
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Younger Years

November 3, 2014

I was very effected at the news that Bobbi had died.  Memories came back.  I have shared some photos in hopes that it might mean something to Starla.  I hope these can comfort and not create any unwanted feelings. I am the sister of Kevin Gooch, Starla and Bobbi's step grandpa (biological granddaughters of Joann Huddleston Weaver Gooch). They lived with them after leaving Tracy (biological mother) and before Joe died leaving them to John and Tina.  I am happy to know they have been loved and cared for all these years.  Added are photos of a Christmas, dressup, playing the park with Kevin and Joe's sons Kurtiss and Kyle.  We did a skit for St. Patrick's Day at an elementary school class.  There is one photo of Starla as a baby with Tracy.  And various others.  It was such a difficult time for all of us and I know the girls remember the harshness but I hope they can also remember some good times when they were small.  We still love you Starla and hope your life is full of joy and satisfaction and that you carry on with strength and the vibrance of Bobbi's spirit.  Thanks for letting me share. God bless.  Debbie

 

Blood is just DNA

July 24, 2014

I don't believe Blood is what makes us family.  To me, family are the ones we surround ourselves with that we love, respect and value.  They say blood is thicker than water but don't we need water to live? Our bodies carry more water than blood I think somthing like 60% water to 12% blood. What I am trying to say is that Bobbi and I didn't share the same DNA, but she will always be family and i am feeling a little dehydrated without her.
I feel so blessed to have watched her grow into such a beautiful woman.  I loved the way she was so close to my girls and was a good influence.  She would have burping wars with Annabelle and Elizabeth, burping songs or the alphabet.  She tried to teach Annabelle and Elizabeth how to fart on command. HA! She loved Sock Monkeys and candy.  Bobbi was so loving, kind, funny, and such a care-free spirit.  Bobbi would always make sure to give every animal she came accross attention and care.  She loved to scare me with spiders and although I HATE spiders with a passion, I will miss her taunting me.  
I don't think I had enough time with Bobbi, none of us really did she was taken from us too soon.

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