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Meeting Bobby

April 16, 2017

I was doing the Sun Circuit Show in Scottsdale, and it was on Sunday evening just as we were about to close for the day. So this guy walks up to the booth looking like he just stepped off of a sailboat (sorta out of uniform at an Arizona horse show if you get my drift) and starts talking to me like we had been friends since kindergarden. As we're talking about anything and everything, he asks about a bracelet we had in the showcase. I show him the bracelet, give him the details, he looks it over and hands it back. We go back to talking like we've been buds for years. "Hey, do you want a beer or something?" I think  we must have BSed for at least 30 - 45 minutes, just bein Buds. I liked him form the get-go! Just be fore he left he said "I'll take that bracelet." He bought it for Terrie and she came by and showed it off later.

Bobby had the ability to meet someone and instantly put them at ease. Not many folks can do that, and I'm proud I knew him for the short time we were life-long Buds. 

Ecuadorian Watermelon

August 26, 2013

In college Bobby was chosen to be part of a team thesis project that spent a semester in Ecuador our fourth year of school.  Since we were newly married, I went with all of the guys for that semester, where we lived in Quito.  Sometimes food was a bit hard to come by, or at least food that I would eat, not wanting to get sick as one of the team members did.  We lived a couple of miles from the grocery/market and our typical mode of transportation was our own feet.  One day Bobby came in to the apartment we shared with 5-6 of the guys, and he had a big watermelon in his arms. I love watermelon and he had seen this melon, bought it for me knowing that I had been pretty hungry and then carried it for MILES to bring it to me. It was a heavy watermelon, too! It was such an act of service and love.  Bobby was a people-pleaser and many times I saw him carry heavy "weights" wanting so much to make someone else happy.  Part of it was how desperately he himself wanted to be loved, but part was just a real servant heart that was willing to do and to give.  Unfortunately, the watermelon in Ecuador tasted AWFUL and wasn't edible, but I never forgot his gesture or the love that propelled it.  And, I was just one of so many who received "watermelons" from the heart of Bobby Booth.

HKS

August 25, 2013
Bobby Booth joined HKS 35 years ago. This was on the 29th floor of the Southland Life building. Most of us at HKS measure our tenure at HKS by what building we were in when hired. Bobby was a young draftsman. He always dressed sharp and he was assigned to a project that Noel Barrick and I were working. Bobby immediately fit into HKS. He and I became fast friends. We would race to be the ones to turn on the lights each morning and start the coffee. Harwood Smith took an immediate liking to Bobby. We would jokingly call him the "golden boy"! He excelled in everything he did. He eventually came into design and then was recruited into marketing by Paul Terrill. Paul took Bobby under his wing and mentored to him about building business relationships. As our generation began to take over the firm, Bobby became a major contributor to HKS. I used to call him "Billion Dollar Bobby" after consistently bringing in multiple billion dollar projects into HKS. He also took that skill into China and the Middle East. Bobby took the 2008 downturn hard, his markets vaporized. As part of the management council, bobby was listening to our discussion about improving our interview process to raise our hit rate. Bobby interjected simply and boldly to the group, " you don't understand, there is no work". We all stopped and looked at him and I started to laugh and said, that's true! One of my favorite quotes of Bobby was, " I have an insatiable desire to serve our clients". I quoted him many times because it is the pure essence of how Bobby brought so much work into HKS. We thank The Lord for letting Bobby be a part of our HKS family for 35 years. He will missed but forever remembered.

East Texas House

August 24, 2013

Bobby was very spontaneous which could be really great or sometimes not. One Saturday he took our family to East Texas because he wanted us to go visit someone he knew from the board at Pine Cove who was building houses at Holly Lake and he was going to visit with this man for a few hours.  We had never, ever talked about buying a property over there or anywhere like that, but we walked inside one really cute house that was not quite finished out and I said to Bobby "I love this!"  He just immediately said with excitement, "Do you want it???"  And, with that "discussion" of less than 15 seconds, we decided to buy a cabin at the lake.  It was a place of so many happy memories, including one Christmas where we went out and chopped down a tree, we made our own ornaments and my parents came, and it was so nice. It was a holiday of fewer gifts, no electronics, and much family and love. Many friends came with us and with our children to the "cabin" for weekends and the memories are some of our happiest.  The kids were given an old golf cart, which gave them their first taste of freedom, and Bobby had a giant two-layered treehouse built for them in the back, with a zip line.  It was so peaceful and there were many happy times there. Sometimes that spontanaeity of his was perfect and brought us such joy.

Bobby's way of raising his kids

August 23, 2013
There are so many stories, but one unassuming moment that sums up the kind of father he was to me was when I was 16. I was leaving his house one day, and he was out in the front yard watering. I hugged him goodbye, hopped in my car, and reversed straight into our friend's car that was a few feet behind mine. After the loud crash, I look up in horror of what I just did, and he is bowled over laughing hysterically. He just hugged me and kissed me and never stopped laughing. He was always incapable of punishment in situations like these because he knew I already felt guilt and had learned my lesson. He always just wanted to comfort me.

My first day

August 22, 2013

I came to HKS 30 years ago. I sat in the corner design studio with Sheila and Doug Dotter. I remember that first day...I was nervous and doing all I could to look composed.  Bobby walked into the area with the incredible smile and that infectious positive attitude. He was bigger than life. I had no idea who he was but I immediately liked him.  Bobby walked over to me and put his hand on my shoulder and said, "first day, huh?",  "don't worry each day gets easier from this day forward, you're going to do fine."  That day, Bobby comforted me and brought an ease to me.  In the 30 years that followed with Bobby, he was always there to comfort me, to ecourage me, to be my friend. He never wanted anything in return just a friendship. I will miss my friend... his softness, his love and his sincere generosity.  I am sad that I will not have the oportunity to grow older with Bobby. He made me a better person...he made us all better people.   
 

August 22, 2013


Bobby was family. He gave me my nickname Rooney. I have no idea where it came from but to this day my sister still calls me Rooney. We went camping (to Turner Falls?) and Bobby made t-shirts for us and put our nicknames on them. He put bugs on his face and made us all laugh. Countless times Bobby made us laugh. I don't remember an unkind word or impatient tone. He made me feel like I was one of his own. Until recentely I had forgotten how much richer my life has been with Bobby.

25 Years

August 21, 2013
Bobby always had a big, kind, giving heart. The first time I witnessed his generosity and thoughtfulness was just over 25 years ago, Ann and I were celebrating our first anniversary, Bobby happened to be at the same restaurant. I hadn't been at HKS that long and didn't know Bobby well yet, he came by our table and congratulated us and told us what a special day this was for us. When it came time to pay the bill our waiter told us it had been taken care of. Bobby had left by then... no words...no expectation of recognition or payback, just a sweet act of kindness to a couple young architects he barely knew. The last time I spoke to Bobby was two weeks ago, I was on my way to our London Office, he offered me words of encouragement about the trip and the road ahead. From that kind gesture 25 years ago to his recent words of encouragement, I've only known Bobby to be a kind, thoughtful, generous man with maybe too much love in his heart. He was one of a kind and will be sorely missed.

Dancing & $20 bills

August 21, 2013

As kids we often took vacations to Colorado with The Booths.  Bobby was the life of the party on those trips - always singing and dancing and making the kids laugh.  No matter where we were - Colorado or home in Dallas - Bobby always turned up the music and got us all dancing. My parents, my brothers, everyone.  He knew how to have a good time and make life more fun.  Even I as I recently bought some old 80's disney movie for my kids it brought back a memory of Bobby leading us kids in a dancing train around their house on a friday night to a disney song.  As a little girl I looked up to him so much for his fun and affectionate personality.

He was incredibly generous too.  He used to stop by our house on Saturday mornings sometimes and usually when he did he would slip me and my brothers a $20 bill.  As a kid I felt positively rich after spending time with Bobby - not just from them money :)  but from the way he made me feel so special and loved. 
 
Bobby loved others well.  That is what I will remember most about him - his loyalty and love.  (And maybe some $20 bills...)  
He will not be forgotten and will always be missed.


Fun trip to Mexico

August 21, 2013

Many years ago, Ralph & I went on a fun little trip to San Miguel, Mexico with several HKS couples, including the Booths. While we walked around the historic town center, we encountered a young boy selling packages of Chicklets Chewing Gum.  He had a box full of the gum packages - Bobby bought all of his product.  As you can imagine, the young boy was delighted with such a big sale!  Well, it didn't take long before Bobby started giving the little children in town the Chicklets. A few minutes later, we turned around to look for Bobby - there he was with a line of about 20 children with their little hands held up waiting to receive their Chicklets. Those children were so excited and thrilled over that small act of kindness. As you would expect, he gave every piece of his gum away to those children. We will forever miss Bobby and his kind, generous heart.

A Day on the lake

August 21, 2013

Years ago the Booths, Dickersons and Lafittes went on an outing to Lyn Creek Marina. Bob Dickerson had just bought a new Sea Ray boat. As we all know, Bobby loved fancy high end things such as cars and boats. Bobby, after admiring Bob's new boat for some time asked "So Bob, how much did this boat cost?" Bob told him and Bobby responded, "Hum, well I don't want one but i'm glad to know i could write a check for one if i did!"
Classic Booth!
We will certainly miss him.

Walking in Memphis

August 20, 2013

When we were kids, dad would to take the family to Colorado during the summer. I remember a perfect Colorado summer day. We were driving down a country road. Blue skys. Open fields. Big mountains in the background. And dad is driving us in the family suburban with the windows rolled down singing "Walking in Memphis" by Marc Cohn (one of his favorite songs). I was young at the time, but there was such a sense of peace and contentment.

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