ForeverMissed
This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, bonita spoonamore 38 years old , born on January 31, 1971 and passed away on January 28, 2010. We will remember her forever.
Posted by Tanya Brewer on January 31, 2017
Still missing you today as much as i missed you 7 years ago. I love and miss you so much Bonita. There was so much unsaid between us. My heart still aches for you. I will always keep your memory alive. We have so many memories together that I will never forget. We had some really good times together growing up. Life seems so unfair sometimes.
Posted by Bonnie Barnett on July 17, 2015
Bonita, I miss you ! Not a day goes by that I don't think of you and wonder why your life was cut so short... I remember little things and it makes me wonder even more "why??? You will forever be my little girl.
Posted by Tanya Brewer on January 31, 2015
Happy Birthday Bonita. Still missing you today and always. Love, your friend., Tanya.
Posted by Tanya Brewer on June 13, 2012
Been thinking about you alot lately and I know that you are by my side from heaven above. you are always still here with me when i need you most even in spirit. I miss you friend.
Posted by Bonnie Barnett on June 13, 2012
BONITA, you really are loved and missed by so many.. I love you and there isn't a day that passes I dont wish you were here..all my love mommy
Posted by Bonnie Barnett on May 30, 2012
I am so lost and lonely without you, Bonita. I miss you every day of my life!
Posted by Bonnie Barnett on February 3, 2012
happy birthday to my special, beautiful daughter. we love and miss you so bad 1
Posted by Tanya Brewer on January 28, 2012
I will always miss you Bonita. Not a day passes that I dont think of you.
Posted by Becky Bussell-Brown on January 17, 2012
Bonita, You were the most beautiful person inside & out that I will ever have known No matter the situation we were faced with you always found the good in it You will always be me and Lil Dallas' Nemo And like he told me one night "Mama when I walk through the yard at night, I feel Nemo all around me when the wind blows" As I cried I told him yes Dally that's Nemo watching over you MissU
Posted by Tanya Brewer on December 14, 2011
Bonita is the bestest friend I ever had. I will never forget you Bonita. God took you so suddenly. I never had the chance to tell you what an important part of my life you were when we were growing up. You were always the one that was right there by my side when ever I needed someone. I miss you friend.
Posted by Bonnie Barnett on October 16, 2011
My wonderful,beautiful,special daughter died so unexpectedly at such a young age.She was just begining her life as Samuel's mommy. We all miss her everyday and love her with all our hearts. As Bonita's mommy I feel like a part of me is also gone forever.

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Posted by Tanya Brewer on January 31, 2017
Still missing you today as much as i missed you 7 years ago. I love and miss you so much Bonita. There was so much unsaid between us. My heart still aches for you. I will always keep your memory alive. We have so many memories together that I will never forget. We had some really good times together growing up. Life seems so unfair sometimes.
Posted by Bonnie Barnett on July 17, 2015
Bonita, I miss you ! Not a day goes by that I don't think of you and wonder why your life was cut so short... I remember little things and it makes me wonder even more "why??? You will forever be my little girl.
Posted by Tanya Brewer on January 31, 2015
Happy Birthday Bonita. Still missing you today and always. Love, your friend., Tanya.
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Shared by Bonnie Barnett on October 25, 2011

Another example of what a caring and thoughtful daughter Bonita is happened when she was about 13 or 14. We were in Lexington going somewhere and passed a homeless man holding a sign.Bonita had whoever was driving to pull over and she jumped out of the car and ran back to where the man was, took her coat off her back and gave it to the man. It was real cold and her coat was a nice one so I cringed a little wondering what we would do to replace it but it was very important to her and such a special thing to do but that's how she was....

Shared by Bonnie Barnett on October 25, 2011

It is really hard to remember the things that happened,sometimes the page gets all blury...I do feel better when I can remember the good times though, the good was always so very good..

When we were in my girls teenage years times were real tough finically.We lived literally hand to mouth as the saying goes.Once when we had a particularly bad month, I had gotten our monthly check and then figured our bills. There was 20.17 left for us to live on for that month. I had a weak moment and broke down and cried.(and cried..) Bonita had 20.00 she had saved for about a year and planned to save for her cheerleading expences.Yes, Bonita was a cheerleader in grades 6,7 and 8... anyway she got her money and brought it to me to put on our bills...I didn't take it but I have never forgotten how sweet her gesture was...

Shared by Bonnie Barnett on October 18, 2011

Bonita was about 2 or 3 and I had gotten her and her sister a mickey mouse watch which they dearly loved. One day they were playing in their sandbox and Bonita buried her watch deep in the sand.I was upset so I asked her why did she do that to which she replied "don't worry Mommy, it's a timex. It can take a lickin' and keep on tickin'"

Another time when Bonita was probally 6 or 7 a little girl came over to play. With the innocence children have she asked Bonita "are these 2 rooms all the house you have to live in?" (our house was really small..2 rooms) undaunted, Bonita calmly walked to the backdoor,which led to the outside ,flung it open and stated "welcome to my boudwaeh" I spelled that wrong but it means an elaborate bedroom.