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It was Brian's wish that there be no formal service so please feel free to express yourself here.

If you can, please go and see a baseball game or listen to some good music to say goodbye to him. He would like that.  He loved Frank Sinatra, Louis Armstrong, Ella Fitzgerald, Jonny Cash, train songs and good jazz. 

If you wish to make a donation in his name, please donate to the Alzheimer's Society or Prostate Cancer.

Thank you for all your love, support and warm wishes.

Sandy

August 25, 2019
August 25, 2019
It's been six years, one week and one day since you were called to that great golf course in the sky. The children and I were watching Foghorn Leghorn and Bugs Bunny and Yosemite Sam ... the original Looney tunes and you came to visit in all of our memories. You are so missed and though of often in laughter and fondness and with a big wet kiss on the forehead. Love you Bri.
August 17, 2016
August 17, 2016
I watched that big moon while sitting out on our deck last night with you Brian, and the wonderful reflections on the water. I will always love you. You are always with me.
August 31, 2014
August 31, 2014
Dear Sandy, 

I can not believe a year has passed. I still remember you and Brian coming to visit Terry and me. The love that you had for each other was beautiful. Brian is at rest now and I am sure he is up there having a laugh with Terry. 

Love Ann
August 19, 2014
August 19, 2014
I miss you my friend ... always remembered in my heart, the good friend you were to me Brian ..... R.I.P
August 17, 2014
August 17, 2014
Good Morning Sandy,
I hope this finds you smiling and in peace as you remember Brian on this one year anniversary of his passing. It has been quite a year for you as life has gone on while he rests. Yet you have held up and navigated well through the rapids of life and still been able to rock yourself gently in times of respite. Today may be one of reflection upon the sweet memories of your time with Brian but also time to bathe in the many blessings that have brought you comfort and joy in this past year like Benji, rekindled and new friendships, your grandbabies, a new studio and your own creations on canvas to name a few. I pray you never lose your smile in remembrance of Brian and may your tears wash away all your fears.
Love and Hugs,
Lois
August 17, 2014
August 17, 2014
It's hard to believe a year has gone by since you laughed with us last. I am glad that I had the time to know you, Brian. Whatever you're doing I am certain you are doing it with as much zest and enthusiasm as you always had. Your laugh was contagious and as I looked over the pictures I remembered how much so it was. 
Remembered by your friend,
Diane
August 17, 2014
August 17, 2014
It seems like only yesterday that we said see you later. You are often in the thoughts of my family, remembered with fondness,laughter, and love. You blessed us with the gift of laughter, Brian. You are often missed and will never be forgotten and will always be loved. We hold you in our hearts and memories.
March 22, 2014
March 22, 2014
Thinking of and missing you my friend on this day your Birthday. You impacted my life in so many ways and for that I am eternally grateful. I am blessed today and always for the memories of the times and laughs we once shared. Missing you and hugging you in my heart <3 R.I.P.
March 22, 2014
March 22, 2014
Happy Birthday Brian! Looking over the photos helped me to remember how big your smile was. I always felt like you were giving me a hug with your biggg smile! I'm remembering blowing bubbles and sharing birthday cake, songs and of course -LAUGHTER- at your birthday party during your stay at the RVH. If I had a problem I knew you and Sandy would always support me and then laugh about how great it was to be alive, despite how I was feeling. Hope you are celebrating today, having cake and at peace!
Love, Diane xo xo
March 22, 2014
March 22, 2014
Dear Sandy and all, I hope you are reliving fond memories of Brian on this day and always. It is a fine tribute to the man that so many miss his smile. I'm thinking of you too.  Take care.
October 17, 2013
October 17, 2013
Dear Sandy and family, I am so sorry for your loss of Brian. I know that your heart is very sad, may all your memories help you through the days and months ahead.  

Sherrie
September 12, 2013
September 12, 2013
I didn't know Brian for very long however after getting to know him I wish I had! His smile, his kindness and his enthusiasm were inspiring to me. He made me laugh every time I saw him and I was always laughing WITH him. Sandy, Brian's love of you was evident and I believe his love for you endures in so many ways. Thank you both very much for the honour of being a part of your lives!
September 10, 2013
September 10, 2013
Dear Sandy and family,
We are so sorry to hear about Brian. Our thoughts are with you.
All our love
Fiona and John-Paul, Braeden and Corran
xo
September 2, 2013
September 2, 2013
Dear Sandy, We first met Brian when he came to Woods Park, he took on the role of watching over my dad Ken reporting any health issues, much appreciated. 
We shared our countryside car trips and going to the Dairy Queen for Brian's favourite bananna split. Brian will be missed, his goodness will not be forgotten. Sincerely, Ken Barb Ron
September 2, 2013
September 2, 2013
Just picked up your voice mail Sandy - so sorry to hear of your loss and the loss of an old friend. All my memories of Brian bring a smile to my face, I will hold them close to my heart always.
August 29, 2013
August 29, 2013
I don't think there was ever a time I didn't see Brian smiling; his positive outlook was contagious. You will be missed Brian, rest in peace.
August 29, 2013
August 29, 2013
Dear Sandy, Bill and I are sad for your loss of Brian. A terrific man with a fabulous wit and sense of humour. We fondly remember our ongoing joke as to how you, Brian and Bill would win a three legged race hands down. Much love, Louise and Bill Clearwater
August 27, 2013
August 27, 2013
Dear Sandy:
I know that Herb and I have only known you and Brian for a short period of time, and we noticed how both of you had such a zest for life. We remember Brian having a great sense of humor, laughing a lot and the two of you were so blessed to have met and enjoy your time together here in your lovely Cabin in Innisfil.
August 27, 2013
August 27, 2013
Dear Sandy, we are very sorry to hear of your loss. We are thinking of you and sending you our love. Kim and Lesley Parker
August 26, 2013
August 26, 2013
Dear Sandy, so sorry to hear the news about Brian. Our friendship goes back to our childhood and although I have only know Brian in recent years, it was obvious just how happy you were together. You offered each other love, support, friendship and laughter. My thoughts are with you as you adjust to this next stage of your life without him, drawing strength from family and friends.
August 26, 2013
August 26, 2013
dear Sandy,
Gordon & I send our sincere condolences and love. Gordon knew Brian from an early age and were friends for many years. Only in recent years did they reconnect and it was such a pleasure to have you both for a visit. Our thoughts are with you and your family.
Love from Gordon, Janet, and June
August 24, 2013
August 24, 2013
God Bless you and yours Sandy as you recover from the changes that are occuring right now.
Brian and yourself are so Blesed to have been given the opportunities to express God's grace towards your fellow man.
Your powerful example has certainly touched the lives of many in very profound and positive ways. Thank you.
August 24, 2013
August 24, 2013
Sandy and family,

Please accept my deepest condolence. Brian's warmth, laughter, and sparkle will be truly missed.
August 24, 2013
August 24, 2013
Sandy, I send you my deepest condolences to you and your family. For the brief time I knew Brian he brought some wonderful laughter into my life. I remember you, and Brian, and myself enjoying a brunch after an art exhibition. He told some hilarious stories in such a heartwarming way. He was a very good man and a blessing to all those who knew him.
August 23, 2013
August 23, 2013
Dear Sandy my thoughts and prayers go out to you and Brian's family. He always took the time for a cup of coffee and he always shared from the heart and made me feel better then when I first sat down. He was a good man who will forever be missed.
August 23, 2013
August 23, 2013
Dear Sandy, you know I am thinking of you with sympathy and sending condolences  What memories I have of Brian, his warmth, wisdon, and humour, I will always remember him with such fondness and love.
August 22, 2013
August 22, 2013
I didn't know Brian personally, but Sandy has been a dear friend for many years. I know Brian was a very special man to have Sandy in his life. May he rest in peace. Take care, Sandy. Jerry & I are thinking of you and all the family. Best to everyone. Fondly, Suzi
August 22, 2013
August 22, 2013
Always with a smile, Brian wore this world like a loose garment. He always lightened any weight I was carrying and we would laugh until the tears ran. Often at 5:00 AM his phone would ring to hear just "See you there" His reply "OK" and we were off for a fun day of golf, meetings or a road trip, singing our hearts out. Sandy, sorry for your loss.
August 21, 2013
August 21, 2013
Sandy and family, my condolences for your loss.
Spent many nights seated in a circle listening to Brian's wisdom and experience. Learned about Monk's piano playing , talked and teased about the Jay's. Will be forever grateful I had the opportunity for this beautiful man to gently cross my path, he will be sadly missed.
God's gift.
August 21, 2013
August 21, 2013
Saddened by the news of Brian's passing. My friend, mentor, and Father I never had, I will forever cherish the memories of your laughter, storytelling, and fellowship you gave to me and so many others in your travels. I thank you, my family thanks you, for your love and support..a power of example to many. R.I.P. my friend. Heartfelt condolences to your wonderful wife Sandy and family.
August 21, 2013
August 21, 2013
Brian, thank you for the lessons you taught me, about trust and forgiveness. They will never be forgotten. Thank you for all the times you made my mom smile and laugh, I'm sure her memories of your time together will make her smile and laugh in the future. Rest in peace, our love and thoughts are with you. Clay & Claire
August 21, 2013
August 21, 2013
My condolences Sandy. I remember Brian from long ago when he was doing a lot of travelling with Larry. They were always so much fun and so helpful when I was just starting my journey. God Bless Him! He was a kind gentle soul.
August 20, 2013
August 20, 2013
Brian will remain with me,his humor,wit,commitment to principals I pray, will remain with me foreever.Sandy,please accept my heartfelt sympathy regarding this loss. Brian was a true leader and a powerful example for me in dealing with our common disease. My soul has been enriched by sharing with him. "A blessing,not soon forgotten."
August 20, 2013
August 20, 2013
Sandy, I am sorry to hear of Brian's passing. May you find comfort in the memories you and Brian shared together and know that you are loved.

I will always remember Brian at Friday night meetings at the "old" hospital and coffee afterwards. He kept me going on my path with his smiles and sharing.
August 20, 2013
August 20, 2013
Sandy. So sorry to hear your dear Brian passed away so suddenly
I remember him telling how luckily he was to have found you and how much he loved you. When he was sharing those words to me. I can still see the sparkle in his eyes 
He was a special man who shared joy and love wherever he went I treasure the memories we shared in fellowship
August 20, 2013
August 20, 2013
Brian, your sense of humour and kindness will always be remembered. May you be at peace now, free from difficulties. To my dear friend Sandy, I offer my sincere love and condolences for the loss of your loving husband and may you find peace in the memories of the love and friendship that you and Brian shared for such a long time.
August 20, 2013
August 20, 2013
Sandy - my love and thoughts go out to you and your family.
August 20, 2013
August 20, 2013
There will be a candle lit in his honor - we will play some jazz music and start watching the blue jays. A few tears to acknowledge the wonderful moments we had the pleasure of sharing with both of you. A celebration to life!!

Marc, Jan and Wulfie
August 20, 2013
August 20, 2013
GOD BLESS YOU SANDY....BRIAN WAS A GOOD MAN...HE WILL BE MISSED BY MANY......
August 20, 2013
August 20, 2013
Sandy and family He was a great man and will be missed by many....

Those we love don't go away,
They walk beside us every day,
Unseen, unheard, but always near,
Still loved, still missed and very dear.
August 20, 2013
August 20, 2013
To Sandy and Family; such a blessing to many was Brian. His sense of humour and story telling helped myself and others to forget their own problems. I loved hearing him talk about the days when he worked on the rails. It was by God's Grace that he held out and waited for you, Sandy, to embrace him as made his final exit. How precious that final moment must be. Peace to you.
August 20, 2013
August 20, 2013
From Kahlil Gibran, The Prophet: "For what is it to die but to stand naked in the wind and to melt into the sun? And what is it to cease breathing, but to free the breath from its restless tides, that it may rise and expand and seek God unencumbered? Only when you drink from the river of silence shall you indeed sing...when the earth shall claim your limbs, then shall you truly dance."
August 20, 2013
August 20, 2013
R.I.P.
Many Laughs with Brian one of the best co-sponsers and Friend I had.
God Bless Sandy in my thoughts and prayers.
xo
August 20, 2013
August 20, 2013
Brian,
Only a few months ago when i had the pleasure to take Merrick for a visit, your jokes and laughter echoed the halls,brightening everyone's day ! May there be an unlimited supply of colourful socks waiting at the gates ! Thinking of you and Sandy both Love Jenn, Austen Merrick and Hogan
August 19, 2013
August 19, 2013
Sandy and Family,
So sorry to hear this sad news. I will always fondly remember Brian from meetings, sharing his words of wisdom. I also remember the good times we had at the Little Red Book Study in the basement at Tom's house in Ivy. He was an active part of the program and will be missed.
Till we meet again!
August 19, 2013
August 19, 2013
Dear Sandy, I am so saddened by your loss, please accept my deepest sympathies. Brian was such a good friend and no matter how bad things were he always looked on the bright side. He is going to be missed but his memory will continue.
August 19, 2013
August 19, 2013
Dear Sandy, Glen and I would like to offer our condolences for your loss. Brian will be remembered for the laughter and humour he brought to recovery, and for his encouragement to attend the 'meeting after the meeting' at coffee shops throughout the years.

Lynn Stewart and Glen Cah
August 19, 2013
August 19, 2013
To Sandy & family, it has been a long good-bye for you all and we were very saddened to hear that Brian has passed on, we hope that the memories will ease your loss.
Brian, thank you for all the miles and all the laughs we shared, I could not have asked for a better companion to go trudging with, save me a seat at the big meeting! Love always and forever Larry & Leslie
August 19, 2013
August 19, 2013
Sandy, you and your family are in my prayers.

Patrick

When true-time takes me over,
after God has held my mind awhile
I’ll think of those I love so dearly
And how much they meant to me

Then, in my time I will go gently
and give the other side a chance
knowing God has blessed my soul
and love has filled my heart......
August 19, 2013
August 19, 2013
Dear Sandy,

I am so sorry for your loss. Your life together with Brian was a gift tied with heart strings and love. I am always here for you, as I have been and will be for me.

Meredith
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August 25, 2019
August 25, 2019
It's been six years, one week and one day since you were called to that great golf course in the sky. The children and I were watching Foghorn Leghorn and Bugs Bunny and Yosemite Sam ... the original Looney tunes and you came to visit in all of our memories. You are so missed and though of often in laughter and fondness and with a big wet kiss on the forehead. Love you Bri.
August 17, 2016
August 17, 2016
I watched that big moon while sitting out on our deck last night with you Brian, and the wonderful reflections on the water. I will always love you. You are always with me.
August 31, 2014
August 31, 2014
Dear Sandy, 

I can not believe a year has passed. I still remember you and Brian coming to visit Terry and me. The love that you had for each other was beautiful. Brian is at rest now and I am sure he is up there having a laugh with Terry. 

Love Ann
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February 18, 2014

William, Brian's father fought in WW1.  His medals were in a lovely old wooden box in a drawer in our bedroom.  Brian pulled them out to look at and talk about them fairly often.  He was proud of his Dad.  I believe he hoped his grandchildren might inherit and value this bit of family history.

 

 

To the railway trains Brian loved

October 18, 2013
It is the 17th of October, two months now since Brian died. It is a beautiful sunny warm fall day on Vancouver Island. Austen and I went for a great hike with Merrick, (his little son) to Goldstream Provincial Park where we hiked up to a trestle railway bridge. The rail is now unused, and is about 260' above a stream. After a prayer I let the remains of Brian's ashes float down from the fire barrel platform at the middle of the bridge. As they dropped gently away from me I saw a rainbow on them. The 18th of October is yet another full moon. Goodbye Brian.

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October 18, 2013
I turned to a tree who had lost its leaves - she knew how I was feeling. I turned to a rock who knew how hard it was to be one and only. I turned to a blade of grass because there were bonds I had to sever. I turned to wildflowers in a wood and they gave me some assurance. I turned to a friend who sat with me until she had to be leaving. I turned to Shaddai who stayed with me and helped me through my grieving. Miriam Therese Winter

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