This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Brian Santos Jr., 32, born on October 29, 1981 and on January 1, 2014 he was murdered. He was a Sergeant in the military and did 2 tours over seas. He loved his country and his family and friends with all his heart.
We will always keep him in our hearts until we meet again. As long as there is still ME, there will always be YOU.
Tributes
Leave a tributeI love you bruno!
Man so much has been going on. But first of all the world has gone crazy. lol I know we use to say that a lot when you were here. But for real .. people have lost common sense. I come home from a day at work and sit and talk to you. I get soo tired sometimes. Yesterday I was soo tired I could barely make it up the stairs to shower and go to sleep and the whole time I was asking God and you to help me. And as always you both did. Thank you to God and you for being here and helping me to keep going. I love you and miss you soo much.
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One day late. I know. Yesterday was a hard day. But I made it through. I miss you very much every day. If only I could give you one more hug. Tell you one more time how much I love you. We are doing ok. Moving forward because I know that is what you would want us to do. Even though it has been 9 years it seems like it all just happened. Time doesn't heal. I just carry the heart break with me. I know you are with us . I truly believe no one is truly gone from those who love them. I hope we are making you proud. Always know I love you and miss you Brian. Watch over us and guide us to be better.
Today my brother would have turned 41 & I would have gave him a cane, dentures and some icy hot for his birthday just to make him laugh. I always enjoyed his sense of humor. I miss hearing him laugh. I know hed get a kick out of that prank. I would have smooshed cake all of his face as we all would have held on to him. We would have sang happy birthday and made him shy cause he doesn’t like attention. Today would have been a perfect day for you Brian. Just amazing. I love you, I miss you. I hear you. I feel you. You still mean the world to me.
Happy heavenly 41st Birthday big brother Brian, you old man!
Jan 1st has come again. Another year gone by with out you here. So much has happened since you have left us. New children have come into the world, new jobs and new lives. It saddens me because you should be here to enjoy this with us. People say you are always with us. I believe it and I hope you are proud of all we are doing. I miss you everyday and will always love you my son. Never forgotten until we meet again and I can hold you in my arms. I love you.
6 years ago: My brother Brian Santos was murdered by fellow soldiers Jessica & Jaqueline Wills on New Years Day 2014. They committed a sensless act & crime, claimed self defense, thier stories didnt add up & justice was finally served after years of fighting. They took a plea deal of 3 years & got off easy because they knew had the trial gone any longer theyd serve life in prison. These were "his friends" that killed him. Atleast he thought. They all served in the National Guard together & knew each other well hence going up to ring in the new year with them. New Years Day is always a hard one for us. Brian we miss you everyday, im sorry youre not here with us but we will meet again. With love & prayers, Happy New Year Brian!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AzqE81PUHQ0
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FSDq4kVzJEA
https://www.forevermissed.com/brian-patrick-santos-jr/about
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NoS7ot_frxA
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vkQTKMgGdpA
Guilty of stabbing fellow soldier to death, two women show zero emotion at sentencing
Two former Army National Guard soldiers were sentenced Tuesday to three years in prison for the stabbing death of an fellow soldier on New Year's Day 2014 during a domestic violence altercation in east-central Fresno.
Jessica Wills, 28, and her wife, Jacqueline Benavides Wills, 27, showed no emotion when Fresno Superior Court Judge Don Penner announced their punishment for killing Sgt. Brian Santos, 32.
The couple also showed no emotion and kept their backs turned toward Santos' family as they tearfully recalled a man who loved his family and lived by three principles — stand tall, be brave and take care of family.
"He made a mistake to believe you were his friends and comrades," Santos' mother, Caroline Lamelas, told the judge.
The tribute to Santos, who did two overseas tours, was so touching that Judge Don Penner nearly cried when he recited the fact that Santos was stabbed multiple times and left in the road.
Jessica and Jacqueline, however, appeared unmoved. Instead of addressing the court and victim's family, they had their lawyers read their letters in which they apologized to Santos' family and said they took responsibility for their actions.
The sentence was part of a plea agreement struck on Jan. 11 when the couple said no contest to voluntary manslaughter. In exchange for their pleas, prosecutors dismissed a murder charge, which would have resulted in long prison terms for the pair if convicted.
Defense lawyers Michael Aed and Serita Rios contended Jessica and Jacqueline Wills stabbed a drunken Brian Santos in self-defense. Santos was fighting with his girlfriend, Tessia Laulu, a fellow soldier and close friend of Jessica and Jacqueline Wills, when the two defendants came to her aid, they said.
In pleading for leniency, Aed and Rios said their clients had no prior criminal records before the fatal stabbing.
Court records say Jessica Wills confessed to killing Santos, but Jacqueline Wills initially denied stabbing him. But a pathologist testified at a hearing in August 2015 that Santos was stabbed in the chest and bicep with one knife and three times in the back with another knife.
At Tuesday's hearing, Laulu told the judge that Santos didn't deserve to die. "He was a really great guy, your honor. He was a great man who loved everyone. He didn't have an ounce of evil."
Some of Santos' family members told Penner that they have forgiven the pair, saying that's what Brian Santos would have wanted. Others, like his mother, couldn't. "My heart is broken and my spirit is crushed," Lemeles said. "No matter what they serve in prison, it will never repair it."
Lemeles praised Judge Houry Sanderson, who in August 2015 ordered the pair to stand trial after hearing testimony at the defendants' preliminary hearing, In her ruling, Sanderson said there was probable cause to believe Jacqueline Wills committed a "cold and calculated attack on Santos" and therefore was guilty of first-degree murder. Sanderson said Jessica Wills likely committed second-degree murder because she made a rash decision and her actions were impulsive.
"The judge saw through their lies," Lemeles said of the two defendants.
Because the Santos' family was upset with the light prison sentence, prosecutor Gabriel Brickey explained the risks of going to trial. The defendants could have been found guilty of murder, Brickey said, but they also could have proven their claim of self-defense and be free.
Because of the unusual set of facts, a manslaughter conviction is a fair outcome, Brickey said. "It was an intentional killing in the heat of passion, which is imperfect self-defense" Brickey said.
The killing happened after a night of drinking.
Santos and Laulu drove from Southern California to attend a party at the home of Jacqueline Wills' brother. But sometime after midnight, Santos got extremely drunk.
In a taped interview, Laulu told police that Santos pushed her in the face and hit her at the party.
Because of the fight, Jessica and Jacqueline Wills, as well as Laulu and Santos, went to the defendants' condo on Shields Avenue near Fowler Avenue in east Fresno. At the condo, Santos got into a fight with his girlfriend again and Jessica Wills told him to leave. What happened next is in dispute.
The defendants contend Santos became so enraged that he took off his shirt, pinned his girlfriend to the ground and choked her. When the defendants intervened, Santos attacked them, they told police. After Santos collapsed and died in the street, Jessica Wills confessed to stabbing Santos, saying she feared for her life.
When police arrived at 2:12 a.m., officers discovered Jessica Wills giving Santos CPR on the roadway. He was pronounced dead shortly after an emergency medical crew arrived.
The defendants made two 911 calls. In the first 911 call, a calm Jacqueline Wills reported a drunken man chasing his girlfriend "like a crazy person," court records say. Jessica Wills can be heard in the background of the 911 call, saying she's going to stab Santos, Brickey said.
In the second 911 call to police, Jacqueline Wills, clearly angry, says to police dispatch: "You said you would be here, but you're not." She then tells the 911 operator she has a knife and is going to stab the man. Before the calls ends, Jacqueline Wills tells police dispatch: "Somebody else stabbed him."
But Brickey noted that photographs taken by police showed that neither the defendants nor Laulu suffered injuries or bruises.
In her ruling in August 2015, Sanderson said she didn't believe the defendants' account of the killing. Sanderson also ruled that the defendants didn't stab Santos in self-defense or in defense of another because he had stopped fighting with his girlfriend and he "had no weapon and was shoeless, sockless and shirtless."
Sanderson also said she was leery of Jessica Wills' account because she demonstrated to police that she used her right hand to stab Santos, even though she is left-handed. The judge said Jacqueline Wills first stood back and watched the events unfold. Then she made a conscious decision to get involved.
In her final summation, Sanderson said the evidence showed Jacqueline Wills was "frustrated, angry and outraged" at Santos because he had embarrassed her at her brother's party.
http://www.fresnobee.com/news/local/crime/article204922609.html
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I love you bruno!
Jan 1, 2019
Every day I miss you Brian. Never forgotten. Today makes 5 years since you were taken from us. We finally got those people in prison. It may not be as long as we wanted but they will be away for a while. This year I pray will be better for all of us. And that I know you and God are with us every step of the way. I love you always my son. Continue to fly with angels until we meet again.
Mom
Story time:From Your Brother Seville
Story time:
Guys this is the most wonderful feeling I've ever had in my life.
This lady in this video had five kids of her own raising them by herself, I was adopted at just two weeks old by her, ever since all I've ever known was this lady her boys, they are my brothers and that is my mom. No ifs ands or buts about it. They deserve those titles.
All these years believe it or not we've never taken one photo together & always tried but never could get all of us together, sadly 2014 we'd never get that moment to attempt to, as my brother was murdered on New Year's Day, my other brothers well we all live in deferent states and with the passing of my brother a portrait of us together would never happen...
I had this idea to create a picture of all of us together in one photo, I called up Dennis Parians son Anthony S. Parian to help me and with the grace of God he said yes he could do it!
Few weeks later magic was created and a broken heart was fixed today as I gave my mother the best gift anyone could ever give their mother, she cried tears of joy and I want you all to see this, love your mothers take care of your family and tell everyone you love them, do something positive to make someone smile. Huge thank you to the Parian Family! Look at what you guys did lol
Merry Christmas mom I love you
So much going on
So much time has past. So much has gone on since you have left us. But you are always in our thoughts and prayers. We are all moving forward but you are moving with us. We know in our hearts you are with us in spirit and I hope you are proud of the direction we are all going. We try very hard to make you proud of us and stay as a strong family because you were always about family. We spend as much time as we can together. The grand children are growing fast and keeping me on my toes. But it helps me and gives me a reason to keep going. I am still waiting for justice for you and I know the time will come and justice will be served. We love you and miss you. I pray that God and you continue to watch over us and keep us strong and at peace. xoxoxoxo