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We are always COLLECTING MEMORIES of Bryce 
Even if your contact with our beloved, quiet, and unobtrusive son was fleeting or small, we appreciate any and all Tributes, Stories, or memories of any kind. And if you've already posted, please consider posting here again (and again).

OR... If your memory of Bryce is a more private one, and you would like to share it with only Trina and Mike, please send an email to: TheCostawongs@gmail.com.

For local people, please consider visiting Bryce's bench at the corner of our property, and leaving a painted rock with 'Bryce' on one side, and your name on the other. Bryce put the bench there for everyone.

Also for local people, there are Bryce's Trees at Lake Mohegan. Details for how to get there are in the Life section of this website.

There is now a 2nd bench to visit: Bryce's Trail Bench on an unmarked trail on Aspetuck Land Trust preserved land. Details for how to get there are in the Life section of this website. 

Thank you for helping mend our broken hearts.
May 20, 2020
May 20, 2020
Bryce was a wonderful friend to have in NUAGE, the board game club at Northeastern. He was a consistent member and he was a part of the community excursions and hangouts. Playing board games he was never upset when he lost nor boasted when he won. During the week, he would come to NUAGE eBoard meetings and quietly sit and program or browse at the table while others discussed logistics. His presence was always a friendly one.

Last summer a group of NUAGE members started a Terraria server. One of his favorite activities was to build minecart rails which I was more than happy to do with him. Together, and eventually with more people, we teamed up to defend the cart and place rails to expand our horizons. Wish we could play more. He will be missed by many. Rest easy Bryce.

May 19, 2020
May 19, 2020
I met Bryce and Trina when he was coming up on a year old. Trina and I figured out how to be moms together through Ian and Bryce learing to talk and walk and play and go to preschool and best of all, how to make a first best friend. The bond Bryce and Trina had was so close and sweet and they were a quiet role model for my impatient self! Bryce was observant, bright, sweet-natured, shy and loved trains and gears and books and cats. And he was my son Ian's first friend and I will always hold dear in my heart an image of the two of their heads side by side, blond hair and shiny black hair, bent over a book or train tracks or digging in sand, their high sweet voices having a conversation that makes sense to 3 year olds.  He will always be in our hearts.
May 19, 2020
May 19, 2020
I had the great pleasure of knowing Bryce. Probably the nicest, smartest, funniest kid I’ve ever met. I played orchestra with him during my sophomore year at warde. He was my stand partner. He taught me many things. Not only did he inspire me to become a better cello player but also a better person. My prayers are out to him and the Costawong family.
May 19, 2020
May 19, 2020
Even though we only got to see Bryce periodically, we always enjoyed him when we did get to visit. Count us among the many, many folks who will miss Bryce dearly.
May 18, 2020
May 18, 2020
Bryce was one of my favorite AP-1 Physics students, and he was so bright. It did not surprise me that he earned a five on the AP exam. I loved his quirky sense of humor. He is greatly missed. My condolences to everyone who knew him, and especially his family. 
May 18, 2020
May 18, 2020
I wish I had known you more than to simply greet each other at choir rehearsals. But the crystalline purity of your boy soprano voice will stay with me, always. Peace be with you.
May 18, 2020
May 18, 2020
During my first year of college, I lived in the same building as Bryce. Coming into college, I was good friends with Bryce's roommates, so that's how I met Bryce. I hung out in their suite every day of the year. Whether we were watching movies or just talking, it was always a great time. Late nights with Bryce were really frequent, and I loved learning about everything that Bryce was interested in. I'm more into makeup and some girly things, so it was really fun learning about coding and games. One night that I specifically loved was when Bryce was showing me different programs he made on his computer. He showed me never ending programs and how they worked, and we even watched videos after seeing what he made. I loved listening to Bryce make music, and he amazed me with everything he could do. He was so good at so many things and always made everyone laugh. There was also one time that I was just hanging out in the common room, and Bryce was with his parents moving boxes. He had to go do something so I stayed with his parents for a bit. I could see what a great family Bryce had, and I was happy to have been able to meet them. Bryce left me with a lot of great memories that I won't forget.
May 18, 2020
May 18, 2020
Bryce was one of my most beloved friends at Northeastern. We were both part of a club called NUAGE, or the Northeastern University Association of Gaming Enthusiasts. This community has acted as s family away from home for many, if not all of its members. We've grown close and supportive, always been there for each other in our times of need. Bryce was no exception.

This years started out rough for me. An online account of mine got hacked and much of my personal information was stolen from me. I had to redo all of my banking information, speak to many government agencies, and put my life on hold for a few very stressful days. And who was there to be my emotional support throughout this whole time? Bryce.

Bryce was the first person out of my NUAGE family members to come over and check up on me. He'd dropped everything he was doing that night to come over to my apartment. It meant the world to me that Bryce did this. This simple act kept me going through this time. There were few people in the world I knew who had the wit, compassion, and intelligence of Bryce.

I will never forget what Bryce has done for me. The many fun memories, his kindness, and the amazing times I've spent with him will forever remain with me. I miss you buddy. Thank you for all the great times.

- Jerry Vogel
May 17, 2020
May 17, 2020
I didn't know Bryce very well, but I always enjoyed playing games with him at NUAGE. He was clever, and a fun person to play with
May 17, 2020
May 17, 2020
The way I will always remember Bryce is in the little things. He was quiet and gentle. As a little boy he had his snacks when he came over to play with Andrew- little containers and little drinks. They picked blackberries in our back yard and ate them one by one. He was also efficient with his words, not many, but oh the wit!! He was so funny and his comedic timing was perfect! There was Camp Sequassen, Cub Scouts, marshmallow catapults, Boy Scout hikes, camping trips, Ultimate games, and all the other games - cards, computers, Lego building. Thought for sure I could get rid of the legos by the time Andrew started high school, but nope! Bryce would come over and out came the Legos. The Halloween costumes- oh so many happy memories. Roasting peeps will always be a favorite Costawong memory. Bryce and Andrew came up with an efficient goodbye when they were young that they always used. Instead of waiting for the back and forth formalities with adults, they shortened it to “bye, thank you, you’re welcome” . He will forever live in our hearts and so many happy memories. With love, The Werners
May 17, 2020
May 17, 2020
Our family looked forward to Bryce's Halloween costumes every year as a child and it is what we will remember the most about him. A light up Christmas Tree was just one of Bryce and Mike's amazing creations. It always brought a smile to our face. Our hearts are broken for the loss of a special human being. All our love, The Hios Family
May 16, 2020
May 16, 2020
Bryce, thank you for making me a better person. And ultimately, thank you for teaching me how to lose with some degree of grace.

I will love you until the end of all things.
- Dad
May 16, 2020
May 16, 2020
Bryce was the light of his parents’ lives. It was always such a joy to be with the three of them. In my experience, Bryce never shied away from hanging out with us grown-ups. He held his own in conversation, even as a little boy.

Bryce and his dad were always building something together, it seemed: a Lego mailbox, an eclectic fountain feature on the back patio, one time (that I know of) a long obstacle course for a ping-pong ball maybe (?) that went down the winding basement stairs. Bryce also shared a great deal with his mom, like her somewhat quiet nature.

Bryce, you will indeed be forever missed by so many. 
May 16, 2020
May 16, 2020
Thank you, Bryce, for teaching me humility and compassion, as only you could. I miss you.
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May 28
May 28
Dear Bryce,
I think about you every day, and today I am remembering your beautiful voice. I feel so grateful to have gotten to sing alongside you, to witness not only your angelic singing, but also your clever way of changing the lyrics in the hymns to make us all laugh. Your laugh is one I will never forget.
May 28
May 28
On this birthday, thoughts about Bryce and Mike and Trina, about post church ultimate frisbee, about the time Mike was going for a long pass from Bryce and ran into our Subaru roof rack, and about how we were all shocked and then laughing, (possibly too hard). And always about how Bryce modern day owned the word myrrh.
May 28
May 28
Bryce, thinking of you today. Remembering your smile and laugh bring joy to us all. Love to you, Trina, and Mike.
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The Electoral College

February 5
Feb. 5, 2024

Dear Bryce,

I remember it was 2006 when I first got really interested in national politics. I had a hard time listening to any political news on the radio on my drive home when I worked in Stamford. The news would tell me things that I felt like I had no control over, so I avoided it.

But in 2007, it was a different story. I printed out brief descriptions of each Democratic primary candidate and started watching the debates. I liked Joe Biden because he was not an actor. He was earnest, and he knew a lot about foreign policy. He seemed to really want to do better for our country. 

And you were more amazing than ever.

Fast forward to election night, and we wanted Barack Obama to win so intensely. So I printed out a map of the US, got one of each – a red crayon and a blue crayon... and a pencil. We learned about the electoral college, and how each state’s results would add up either blue or red. I am no teacher, but I didn’t need to be. You learned so quickly. You would write in the electoral college numbers in each state, and soon were doing the math on the side of the electoral college map you had made like a pro. As the results started to come in, my heart swelled with love and gratitude as I watched you color in the states. It almost didn’t matter who won because there you were… just being you – excited, and cheering together with me when a state went ‘blue.’ You were too sleepy to stay awake for the last state to announce its results. You brushed your teeth with Dad, and we exchanged good nights, the short version of “I love you, good night, sweet dreams” – “Love, night, beans.” 

I take it back. It didn’t matter who won, because there was you. 

Love always, forever, with all of me, everywhere, Mom *heart*
Recent stories

Curiosity and Imagination

June 29
I witnessed firsthand how Michael and Bryce interacted and shared a beautiful intellectual curiosity. We were talking about building a 1980’s style arcade. I watched as they were seemingly building one together in their collective imagination. I’ll never forget it.
May 11
On April 13, 2019, Donna, Trina and I had traveled by car to Northeastern University in Boston to attend a concert by a choral group to which Bryce belonged. Finding ourselves with time for a bite to eat, Bryce, who was scheduled for a pre-performance rehearsal, therefore unable to join us, suggested that we try one of his favorite close by Mediterranean restaurants.

Not surprisingly, the rather small place was packed with students engaging in the kind of energetic and animated conversations so common to institutions of higher learning. One can not help but sense the energy exuding from those future movers and shakers of society.

As the busy proprietor of the place appeared to have things in control, we knowingly asked the rhetorical question as to whether he was familiar with a regular customer named Bryce Costawong, to which he replied with a shrug as if to say, “Are you kidding, do you have any idea as to how many hundreds of students who pass trough here every day?”; and just at that very second, who but Bryce appeared at the door, dressed in a spotless tuxedo and with big smile on his face.

I remember to this day the symbolism of that fleeting moment, when all eyes turned to the entrance of the restaurant and there stood the framed appearance of someone who, in sharp contrast to those of the crowd, was dressed in the ultimate symbol of achievement. However, judging by the quick resumption of the interrupted conversations, was the confident group message that just around the corner, with just a bit more effort, was the status soon to be reached by everyone there. On my part, I was never more proud that my grandson Bryce had already proven by his academic achievements that he was destined to have an august effect on our troubled society. 

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