Carl was a a very special man ,he was the most loving, caring ,funny ,big hearted, intelligent man, I've ever known ...everyday with him I loved ,he made me laugh more than I've ever laughed he showed me more love than I could ever imagine .I didn't never have to worry about anything no matter what it was he would take care of it !! if I really wanted something he would tell the person I don't care what it takes she wants it make it happen ,,I learned years ago don't look at anything twice because if I did he would go behind me and buy it and surprise me with it later,. Carl loved life, love meeting people, having fun taking trips, and most of all being with me, and the girls ,especially Alyssa. Alyssa was Carl's heart he loves that little girl more than his self or anything... they made each other laugh everyday,, carl got the biggest kick out of teasing erica, and darrinda he would do something or say something.and set back and laugh waiting for them to get it...and shayna he had more expectations for he was stronger with her,, he cried when he found out she was making accomplishments said he was so proud of her and that he would b sittn on the front row when she graduates..and he still will b in spirit.. Carl showed me what real love is and I'm so blessed that God gave him to me for the time he did, I got to experience more love, and happiness in that time than ever in my entire life !!! I Love You Carl Spencer Forever In My Heart And MIND ... Your One in a Million.. I Love You.....