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March 13
March 13
Hoping you are finding time to play and sing! Very few people I've known deserver the peace you need to do what you want! You deserve to do anything you want!
March 12
March 12
the missing you is endless, but so is the loving you. we visited you at your favorite tree in whistler last week, the snow was perfect and the saddle was smooth. you would've been SO damn proud of mama, she got back on the mountain! i am wearing purple and will drink a glass of whiskey or/with you tonight. i wish you were here, and i so wish you could meet Zack and our super precious fluffy cats. i just know you would love them and they would all love you. happy birthday papa <3
March 12
March 12
Yes - forever missed is true. Your amazing wife and I added a new friend in your midst, which I'm sure you are aware of. Really one of our best, yes, in fact, our best representatives. Tekla was her best friend and confidant and somehow we all managed to stay connected in all of the best ways throughout forty years....Your beautiful daughter and your handsome son are doing their fine work in the world, too, as you know! You must be so proud of each of your family and the life they have created together - always missing their papa - but so grateful to have had your presence and the example of all that you gave to others in your life and career. Sending you love! 
August 24, 2023
August 24, 2023
Nothing but respect for the responsibility you displayed for the choices you made. No better example than the one you gave. Thank you for sharing.
August 23, 2023
August 23, 2023
Hi Carlos. Sorry I’m late. Still have a crazy schedule as you know. Miss you. Catch up with you another time.‍♂️
March 12, 2023
March 12, 2023
Awesome to have shared even one experience with you. Thank you.
March 12, 2023
March 12, 2023
Of course it is shocking that it is 2023 and time has passed so quickly and not so quickly. Carlos is always missed and always loved. Sending much love to kekwafish - his Hawaiian dancing wife and true love, his beautiful and wise daughter, Simone, and his smart, handsome son, Evan. I imagine Carlos has been very proud to watch his family evolve.
August 24, 2022
August 24, 2022
How great an addition to my awesome life to have had the opportunity to hang with one of the nicest, smartest people I have ever met. Thank you for the time shared.
August 22, 2022
August 22, 2022
There are so many stories, so many pictures, so many moments you should have been a part of. Wish I could make you a cup of coffee or a special drink and catch you up. I miss you so much. Love you eternally (that’s putting it lightly.)
August 22, 2022
August 22, 2022
Hi Carlos,
One would think the sadness I feel when today comes along would fade a little over time, but it doesn’t. Just wanted to say hi and hope you’re windsurfing somewhere in the cosmos waiting for your friends to join you. Cuídate y nos vemos en Marzo. Su hermano de un otra madre.
March 13, 2022
March 13, 2022
Hi Carlos and Happy Birthday. I wish I could tell you this crazy story in person. You would be totally unphased, laugh and say “Ed’s world”. I am in Iraq working as a Mass Casualty trauma surgeon for the DOS. Irán fired ballistic missiles at us last nite but apparently aiming north of my location. It’s a crazier world than when you left. You made the world less crazy for all your friends and family. I loved Tecklas tribute and also wish you had been able to stay longer. You would only be 76 and probably still kite surfing. When I get outta here, I’ll raise a toast to you. Party on Carlos.
March 12, 2022
March 12, 2022
My dear sweet man! It seems twelve years, is a life time. I can barely touch you, feel your soft hand in mine, smell your fresh scent when you come to my bedside with a yittle cup of coffee and whisper good morning sleeping beauty. I always wanted you to linger a little while …. But ….a warm hug and a sweet little kiss, my knight in shining armor/amor was off. Off you would go to slay invasive dragons and whatever ailed the weak and needy. Your intent was righteous and with humble integrity, to do for others, to give back.
I’m not certain how heart breaking the past 12 years would affect you. The strife in the world is overwhelming! This would have significantly pained you. ‘He who shall not be mentioned’ would have irritated you. We entered into a pandemic. The great glaciers are crumbling and petroleum and fracking and peoples disregard are hurting our great lands. We humans are crumbling, even the most intelligent are contributing.
The flip side of all of the maimed and torn, are your children. Your legacy! They are outstanding humans!! You would burble, giggle, and smile broadly !knowing their levels of compassion. The pride they have brought to your (our) legacy is impacting the world! One wee human at a time and conquering devastation with a troop of like mindedness, akin to your philosophies. They are happy people. They have their struggles at times. They work hard daily, to be better people and give back in your philosophical style. We Webers remain tightly woven, in your vain.
I love you madly, miss your quip, miss you daily. I honor you immensely for bestowing the life we had and shared through a mere 30 years. I will cling fiercely and lovingly to Simone and Evan, they are here to carry you on eternally. I know they will continue to worship your spirit and will pass on the baton with your great humility.
Your spirit lives on….. forever missed…..



August 22, 2021
August 22, 2021
Hey Carlos, it’s a rainy day on the East Coast. Hanging out with the family. You, Teckla Simone and Evan are the only ones missing, and of course Sam and Julie. We’ll meet again and drink some fine wine and play charades. Take care my brother, Edmund.
August 22, 2021
August 22, 2021
11 years... amazing to have had what time you made available for me. I will always be grateful..I go and ride my bike in peace now. Thankful to have had you in my life..with respect....Unc Sammy
March 13, 2021
March 13, 2021
Carlos your positive silence transmits loudly upon my deafness. Thanks for including me. Fascinating place this orb I still temporarily inhabit. Nothing new under the sun. Though a whole bunch of people are subscribing to the earth is weaker than it's inhabitants theory. They are my greatest source of amusement for the time being. Music Above All Else for this Ego Driven Organ Grinder Monkey. I still hear the music that emanates from your soul. Thank you for that.
March 12, 2021
March 12, 2021
Lighting a candle for the entire family in honor of a lovely, kind man. Carlos - I know you are EXTREMELY PROUD of the mamafish who holds it all together, and of your two amazing children who are busy working hard to make this world a better place. Your example to them was a shining light and it burns more brightly even now! SO much love. We lost you much too soon.
August 22, 2020
August 22, 2020
Hello Carlos,
As usual I start missing you this time of year more so than normal. I hope to have a picture of you to post by tomorrow. I need to find my pictures somewhere in my house. You know I miss you,
Your brother,
Edmund
August 22, 2020
August 22, 2020
Always remembering you Dr. Weber and your kindness and attention to your patients. I was lucky to have had you as my doctor.
Mai poina Dr. Weber.
Aloha,
Lillian (Pua) Tokumoto
HIlo, Hawaii
August 22, 2020
August 22, 2020
So, you married a mermaid and had a couple of kids. My imagination is factory outstanding. Would have never imagined this. I continue watching the groove in amazement. So the other day I got the great 'What's Up' from you... Stumbled upon a couple of Weber Kettle Grills. Sold the one I found 2 houses down from 777, a green one of all things, in about 11 minutes. Found another one near my lavanderia here in Bell, CA. Put my ad in: My first offer from someone who wanted to purchase it, read something like this: [[[-Carlos RE:WEBER Kettle Grill.....Respond to Carlos]]]]] I did. Happy Camper the purchaser was.  Your Mermaid continues to be Mermatizing. Your 2 adults are contributing... Who could ask for more. I trust you are as cool as you've always been. Love Unk Sam
March 12, 2020
March 12, 2020
Well I went out to my office. That's where I go to sing loudly without disturbing low flying aircraft.  I sang you my now three or four year old original Happy Birthday song. Soon to replace the traditional Happy Birthday To You 'royalties due' version. Would you expect less from an Ego Driven Organ Grinder Monkey? I have released mine royalty free to the public. Your presence is always welcome. I thank you for always being somewhere nearby when anyone might need you. Love Unk Sammy
March 12, 2020
March 12, 2020
Carlos, I continue to see you everywhere and think of you often. Happy Birthday. I wish we were all together again in your house in Kailua with Teckla, Evan and Simone celebrating your 74th like we did your 54th. Take Care, brother, I miss you.
March 12, 2020
March 12, 2020
Dear Father,

We call you that because you were silent a lot and silence often denotes someone who is wise, and yes, you are wise. Your dear little wife has been very brave, as you know. She has been very strong and has faced more adversity (which you also know - thanks for keeping her safe during surgeries, Doctor Weber) and she is doing very well! We are all proud of her and your two amazing and beautiful children! Everyone is doing what they feel important in the world (as you know). Simone is a healer of souls and Evan a healer of the planet. And Kekwa is feeding lettuce to a turtle. (Just kidding - she has been an extraordinary single mom, keeps her entire family afloat, supports political figures she believes in, and lots more) I know you are very proud to see them all walk forward with each courageous step. Happy birthday and everyone sends their love.
August 23, 2019
August 23, 2019
Hey Doc your widow Tek is pretty awesome. Little update. She is regaining her finely honed sense of humor...Though much of my levity just flies by her. I'll just have to take responsibility for thinking I'm way, way funnier than I am. Though I am a funny guy. She is prepping herself physically so she may rejoin her college Rugby team for what should prove to be roughest of all rugby reunion games ever played. Go Tek! A little affirmation regarding you: and the fact that you were mostly right about everything: Tekla has proven herself to be a most horrible patient. To her defense though...she is a tough cookie who challenges much crap thrown her way. She is spirited! Sometimes nice, sometimes mean. To her soul if you can get some, she is perfect. As always when thinking of you: I am reminded of your care and concern for humanity. Your sense of humor, responsibility and your ability to deeply think before opening your mouth. Many of us have gotten much better at this due to your constant example and tutelage! I am reminded of the k 2000 bug bmw project where you stated 'I was a genius' in regards to a design I created and actually was able to bring it to life as a part of the Weber parade float. Will never know if you were serious about my genius. When alone though I wear your statement like an academic gold medal... Thank you for bringing peace to this family and this orb we share. Love Unc Sammy
March 27, 2019
March 27, 2019
I think of Carlos often, as I would a lost brother. So talented, so humorous and so humble. I miss you brother, and hope to see you again, and laugh like we used too. Gone but not forgotten.
March 12, 2019
March 12, 2019
As it will always be: When thinking of Doc Carlos I am motivated to be a kinder human. On this celebratory day of his birth, I am reminded of a man who made fearless choices. His depth of responsibility. His deep thought processes. Never ever blaming anyone for anything. His ability to forgive those who transgressed. His complete and total accountability for all things, and never, ever hear him attempt to justify anything. Peace to all The Webers.  Love Sam
August 22, 2018
August 22, 2018
Reminded of the truly kind person Carlos Weber. Genius...being able to keep your mouth shut, even when everyone speaking is wrong. Genius... offering inherent truths that can't be argued and letting those who want to argue, argue without interruption. Genius...allowing everyone to be the smartest person in the room.  Good, funny, honest, and truly genius that Carlos Weber. I smile as I type......
March 12, 2018
March 12, 2018
awwww. he is forever missed. and will be loved forever by those of us who were lucky to know him. Father is somewhere amongst us, keeping Kekwa amused, proud, proud, proud of his 2 amazing children. love to all of the webermanns and the manns....etc. XO
March 12, 2018
March 12, 2018
Great guy. Great dad. Great husband. Great doc. Simply saying.. I was lucky to know him. I always strive to do better and be kinder when I think of Carlos. Pretty cool!
August 22, 2017
August 22, 2017
Great man that Carlos! I'm am off to ride my bicycle in memory and out of respect for all he contributed. Peace to all who were lucky enough to know his love.
March 12, 2017
March 12, 2017
I feel the beautiful smile of Doc Carlos upon me at all times. That I am able to feel the love from his beautiful family everyday is a gift I will always be grateful for. Tekla, Simone, and Evan carry a gift of kindness that continues to benefit the world that they share. I know Carlos was a man of design. I thank him for the strength he continues to share! We are all better people for having Carlos in our lives... Blessed be us all who know him....
August 22, 2016
August 22, 2016
Always prepared with a giving heart and the desire to help one move in a more comfortable stride. With knowledge so vast, his tolerance was unimaginable. Focused, beautiful, and fearless in regards to what he wanted. Able to defend himself in silence with the security he provided for his loved ones. To have known him at all is a clear sign that at one point, no matter who you are: you traveled on a special, most gifted pathway that you should always be thankful for... I leave this note in respect and love for having been fortunate enough to have been in the presence of such a great man, husband, father, son, friend..Dr. Carlos Weber!
March 12, 2016
March 12, 2016
You will always be remembered as a wonderful and caring person by so many of your patients. Aloha and mahalo Dr. Carlos Weber ....
March 12, 2016
March 12, 2016
Good, smart, caring, man. Missed as a husband, father, friend, doctor. I continue to make efforts to be a better human because it's the right thing to do. Examples work for me. Carlos was a beautiful example. Love Sam
August 23, 2015
August 23, 2015
Thinking about Dr. Weber makes me smile because he was such a kind and caring doctor. Kaiser Hospital was so lucky to have this amazing man, but his patients were even luckier! Aloha Dr. Weber ...
August 22, 2015
August 22, 2015
Today and everyday I miss my soul mate. As awkward and oppositional that we were, we were filled with love, humor and two beautiful babies, now beautiful people. I miss you my love because I now carry the burden of loving our children alone. We would have such joy with them now. You were right, although I doubted you, they gave up their pacis(pinky's whatevahs).
Today Evan is celebrating you on the Potomac, that we would view from your parents' Apartment in the Watergate. Simone and I will visit Papas' path to where he laid himself down, doing what he enjoyed. 
Today is a beautiful day and we will remember you always. I hope that people will remember you and share a story. That is how we get to hold you even more dear, with those you touched with your healing hands or your presence. 
We will see you on the water today, 
With eternal love,
Aye Matey ;-)
xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo
August 22, 2015
August 22, 2015
Carlos is remembered always as the sweet, quiet, funny, creative soul that touched so many lives. I think of him often and wish he was still here for Tek, Simone, and Evan - who I know miss him so very much. It makes me sad that he had to leave so early but it reminds me to be grateful, not only for his life, but for all of our lives. Love to Tekla, SImone, and Evan on this fateful day. XO
August 22, 2015
August 22, 2015
Carlos is still very much alive in me.. I've been thinking all day that where ever I am, is where I'm supposed to be. There is no place I'd rather be. To serve and be happy is an immeasurable achievement. The Weber family has made all things possible.. With love and thanks for helping me on the road to peace... Carlos Weber, Tekla Weber, Simone Weber, and Evan Weber. With all the love and thanks I can serve up......
Love and Thank You
Unk Sammy Mann
March 12, 2015
March 12, 2015
Daily, I think of my beautiful sister Tekla and her husband Carlos! It is not possible to give enough thanks to the Weber family. Their invitation to experience love, kindness, honesty and respect has propelled me on a daily journey to be a better, kinder and more honest person. Every day I give thanks to Carlos for inviting me to come visit him in paradise. On this day I will celebrate The Life and Legacy of Carlos Weber: Father, Husband, Friend, Healer, Teacher, Musician, Scholar, Creator, Experimenter, Comforter, Believer, Dreamer, and so much more! Today I'm putting both feet in it. With love and thanks.. Unk Sammy
March 12, 2015
March 12, 2015
My deepest aloha to a wonderful person and doctor. I will never forget you!
March 12, 2015
March 12, 2015
Wow - how did another year go by? I will never forget the sly smile that Carlos had while he watched Tekla, Simone, and Evan as they went about their business! He adored his children so, so much and his life was truly blessed when he married Tekla. She connected him to friends and family - not only hers, but HIS! They made such beautiful children and enjoyed so many important, silly things - like Sponge Bob and other holiday festivities. Tekla and Carlos always brought a special flare to celebrating family and family life - each occasion was made special from Seders to Bar and Bat Mitzvahs, Halloween, beach days, and having fun with friends visiting Hawaii. What a great life he had - but taken much too soon. We needed him to show us how to be an uber athlete in our 60's. XO
August 28, 2014
August 28, 2014
What I find most amazing about Carlos is how he is still teaching us about love, presence, generosity, kindness and humility. Tekla, Simone, and Evan, you are his greatest teachers.
Much love and appreciation for all of you,
Kath..AKA Pony Hair
August 25, 2014
August 25, 2014
You know Carlos I still feel the loss of you deeplyl  Though as time has passed and I have been fortunate enough to be able to share time being with and seeing your most incredible family. This because they have been kind and caring and giving and so inviting of me to all of the ongoing Weber celebrations. Your loss will always be in my heart deeply. Today I must thank you for all that you created, helped create, supported, disagreed with, and having the patience and love to always find something agreeable. That you inspired and in return were rewarded with discovery of things you had never contemplated. Yet you never stopped to think if you were capable, you always put both feet in it. I thank you because watching Evan and Simone contributing to make this world a better place, and your beautiful wife Tekla providing support and insight to Evan and Simone. As I stated, you will always be in my heart, mind and soul. I believe all who had the great fortune to spend any time with you, are all better people for having had that time. Many of these people are contributing to make a more compassionate and compatible world. A great legacy has taken action as you would. I was lost for a very long time. Because of you Tekla, Evan, Simone and a GPS when necessary I am not nearly as lost as I once was. I give eternal thanks to you and your most awesome family. Love Uncle Sammy.......
August 23, 2014
August 23, 2014
Today is the mere 4th year of my darling devoted husbands exit from his dear loving family, missing him terribly.
It seems just yesterday, when we sat and talked with Larry Caster about your Medical Assistant, Jerry Poscablo's wedding. You really enjoyed the evening being with your colleagues and other Kaiser family. We kissed good bye and you and Larry headed off on your bicycles to Makapu'u Point with a return trip through Waimanalo. 
Larry shared that you stopped on top and expressed how lucky you were to call this beautiful place Hawaii, home. You had found your home.
I can't wane eloquent here. I could expound indefinitely, the memories that swoon up on a day to day basis, alas it will not happen. It is wonderful to recall but so difficult not to share them with you, or really anyone. No one really wants to here all this dribble that I lock up inside of me. I have had the blessings of Simone and Evan to create new memories, but it is not the same. 
We don't have your punster humor for us to tease you about, or to have you read to us or to humbly share unknown information, words, formulas, or opinions we would not consider, and have no basis of knowledge to compare. Always a learning moment in your presence, even in your solitude. I always said in your quiet you were much louder than the rest of us. 
I miss you sniffling and crying more than me at a bad B rated movie. I miss your softest of hands to rub my back or to hold. I miss how your knees would jut into the back of mine when we were at rest, I miss you bringing me coffee every morning with the greeting " Good Morning Sleeping Beauty", I miss our terrible riddles we would text to each other on your way to work, I miss how you would always kiss me good bye and your scent would linger and as soon as the car would leave the driveway, I would urge you to come back. 
You were such a devoted soul. You devoted yourself to every person that entered your exam room, your co-workers, your staff, and over extended yourself always. You devoted yourself to seeking knowledge, never stopping to be informed, always thirsting for new computer language, writing programs, helping others with their issues even in this venue. You had so many answers for everyone….but shared with humility. So patient with all of us.
My wish for you was to always devote more time to you, to be more spontaneous, to take pleasure, to revel in our little time together. 
Home living with the double whammy of bright exuberant and active teenagers was with challenges. How much we learned together. You… always the mind of rational and reason to temper the energy. 
Left to our own, we are trying. Trying to keep the memories alive and create them with you in mind. Daunting and difficult and demoralizing. You are missed by your family that you were devoted to as well. I will never have this kind of love again… how fortunate to have so much at all.
When you are sorrowful look again in your heart and you shall see that in truth you are weeping for that which has been your delight. "Kahilil Gibran"
To my tooter from your farf, 34 years later I am the richer person for being loved by you.
August 22, 2014
August 22, 2014
Oh Carlos! How you are missed! Thinking of you today! So many wonderful memories of you. For me I especially like the funny memory of your fabulous red velvet cupcakes that I was holding for you on the little boat~ they were perfect until we hit the reef and then I was wearing them! A valentines day we'll never forget!! xoxox
March 13, 2014
March 13, 2014
our friend and buddy we miss you
PALS FOREVER
March 12, 2014
March 12, 2014
Kind, brilliant, honest. Carlos was a devoted and loving husband. A proud and loving father. You could not help but become a better person after being in his presence. I have an outstanding debt of gratitude owed to Carlos. I'm sure he would want me to pass it on to someone in need. I will pass this gratitude along filled with the love Carlos had for his fellow man and his family. Love Sam
August 22, 2013
August 22, 2013
Forever missed is the truth. Father, as you know, your beautiful family is doing quite well. No one really likes it that you aren't here, but your children are amazing and they are carrying many of your attributes and talents forward! Your yittle wife looks beautiful and she is also putting one foot in front of the other and I am continuously inspired by her positive attitude. Love!
August 22, 2013
August 22, 2013
Kind. Honest. Brilliant. Father. Husband. To this day he inspires me to be a better person. I am eternally thankful and forever in debt to the Weber family for accepting me with love filled open arms.
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