jo was a twinsister to me debbie but also a sister to cheryl metten thomas and joseph john henry metten sr. she would say what ever was on her mind .. so you already knew not to ask her opinion cause believe me she tell ya in a heart beat and it would either piss ya off make you laugh or cry or maybe all 3 lol..jo didnt have a problem stating what was on her mind..as when i had 5 back surgery a 2 neck surgery she didnt mind telling the dr what time it was as she worked for Norton hospital ..Jo was the one who linked  all Norton hospital on line to each other and i remember once when she was laying in the ER at norton downtown thier pc links went down she was doped the nurse brought her a pc in and Jo brought them all back up on line .. I WAS SHOCKED AND SURPRISE LMAOOO  man Jo was the WOMAN!!!!  i was like  nurse do you think that wise letting her have that pc doped up lol.. nurse said if anyone could get thier systems back up it was Jo and by God she did...Jo was very smart went to college for pc knew insurance like the back of her hand as she handle all our mother insurance problem when momma died in april 6 1998 at my home.. Jo knew how to get around insurance and doctors very smart woman..work all her like and paid for her own way never had a handout from no one...but not to hurt no one feeling my son Jimmy was hers .. she loved that boy dearly.. like her own.. dont get me wrong she loved all the kids but he was her son .. it was like i had him for her..and i did ..my kids are half her anyways as she is my twin  now chris is more like his aunt Jo than any of em.. he speaks his mind and has worked all his adult life .. but times are hard now for us all.. i am sure you can relate? ! well guess i will close for now,, for you Jo know that i love you and i am having a really hard time here missing you .. no one understands like you...i am holding on by a thead but i will make it though .. it is just so lonely with out you here and our birthday is coming on feb.2.. 1st one without you.. dont know what i will do.. guess get a bottle strawberry wine come to grave yard and have a drink with you ..strawberrywine that your song  i love you twin more than life it self oxoxoxoxo love forever and always DEBBIE your TWINSISTER