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His Life

Aiden's Male Figure

October 20, 2015

When I was pregnant, and came home while Aiden's father, my ex husband had deployed. Carson became super protective of me and My Little Embryo. He would help me after Aiden was born, along with the whole family. Aiden and I had moved back to SoCal when his father came back from deployment. Since I separated from Aiden's father, we moved back home. Carson had filled in as a Dad figure for Aiden. They would do practically everything together. He would watch Aiden when I needed a moment for myself. When he started working, Aiden would be looking out the window for Carson to get home. Carson was my sons First & Best Friend. Since his passing, Aiden has been lashing out, he misses his Uncle sooooo much. He understands he's up in the sky, but Aiden's crushed and is hurting. Everyone is. 

WE LOVE YOU CARSON, YOU WILL FOREVER BE REMEMBERED AND MISSED! X INFINITY!

- Shannon

Remembering Carson

October 14, 2015

Carson was born in Los Angeles, California, Dec 27th, 1988. I was there in the delivery room for the event while our neighbors were at our home watching Cody and Shannon. I held Carson in my arms for the first 20 minutes of his life before the nurses came to clean him up and hand him back to his mother.

A few months after his birth, the entire family Myself, Liliana, Sasha (Alex), Cody, Shannon and Carson moved to Arleta, California from Pasadena, California. The air was better for Shannon who was suffering from life threatening asthma attacks and a young child.

Carson as the youngest was our baby. As a baby, I would hold him in my lap and sing “With a Little Help from My Friends” to him, the Ringo version. He always watched me sing to him attentively.

As a baby, Carson was quiet and smart. He learned his alphabet and numbers alongside his almost five year older sister Shannon.

We had no immediate Family in the Los Angeles area and were largely a solitary unit. Besides an occasional visit from my mother, we only saw my mother and brother a few times during our 18 years in Los Angeles. It wasn’t until we moved up to Northern California, that the family was able to make occasional outings with other members of my family, including my brother and his family in Yuba City.

Carson was a good student in elementary school. One teacher said he was a natural leader and all of the others in his class looked up to him.

He was a joy to be around and we often had conversations while driving, watching movies or just walking around.

 

Since Carson and I had been spending so much time together recently the last couple years, Carson had become my best friend.

 

Carson was very spiritual and many of those conversations revolved around religion and quantum physics.

 

Carson always had a deep respect for life including plants and trees. We have living testament to this in the oak trees that are 12 feet tall with one living branch. He would not cut down a tree that was in any way still alive. He and I took a few trips to the Big Basin Park and surrounding parks several years ago to sleep under the giant Sequoia trees.

 

Carson was also an amature star gazer with his own telescope.

Our 4 year old Siberian Husky Nikita was always “My Little Pony". He kept Nikita, our two cats, Petunia and Volta, and the chickens fed and watered. He once found three half drowned baby cats by the creek during a rainstorm and brought them home. Carson, Cody and I cleaned up the kittens, warmed them up with our own body heat and fed them milk. This was not the first time Carson brought some remarkable animals home to live with us. Sadly the rest are not with us any longer as well.

 

Carson made fresh Pizza dough every Wednesday evening so he could make fresh pizza for the family Thursday nights. His pizza spoiled me for all others. And I will not likely eat pizza again.

 

He helped neighbors with their fruit, nut and vegetable harvests. Watched after neighbors animals while they were on vacation and was always interested in reading about new subjects.

 

My mother recently started spending her winters here in Northern California with us, and Carson was starting to spend more time with her this year.

 

When Carson was not working on my days off he would work with me and when available, Cody on the property in Bangor.

 

We planted replacement fruit trees in the orchard, new nut and olive trees and a few more grapevines.