I met my sister for 1st time at 16. I remember so distinctly her and Gary at the screen door asking for our dad. It was the first time I knew I had a sister and brother. She was a force to be reckoned with. I idolized her, followed her around and wished I could be like her. She had an uncanny ability to walk into a room and every head turned to her and noticed nothing else. I remember Gary and Shela's wedding, Germany and the Map Nazi me and ida gave her that name. I remember her taking me to parties of prominent people and she had them treating her like she was royalty. What I remember most is her taking the mother role and forcing me to straighten up. And I did it you really could not tell her no back then. She had a good life, good friends and a great family. That is the sister I choose to remember. She was my guardian Angel on earth and I suspect it will continue......for all of us, the real Catherine. I love you Cat, and though I cannot be there to say goodbye, I know you know I am there. The hole in my heart will never be filled because I lost my sister way to soon. I will see you again