My dear friend Timmitira as your Dad would call you, i thank God for giving me a friend like you, we spent many good times in India that i will cherish in my heart always , i would prefer to remember you as you were full of life and happy, even though we would stay for long without talking but when we did 'my ooh my' i will miss you !!! but i know you are in a better place. Fare thee well dear friend till we meet again

Dear Catherine, where do I start? This is so shocking to even imagine.We shared so much in KU,we laughed,joked,ate together,sat in long meetings...and we were the best peer counselling student coordinators in the KU FLE project.What a loss...dearly missed big sis.❤

Dear Mum,
I am still hoping that you will read this message and reply.

I will truly miss you, you loved me like your own, your laughter and the way you used to call me my daughter.

Heaven has truly earned an angel. You will forever be in my heart. Thank you for being there for me when I needed a shoulder.

I love you so much and you will forever be in my heart.

Rest with the angels Ma.

Timmi, what can I say? I am lost for words! I still can't believe you are not here with us. We were next door neighbors in Woodley early sixties, we criss crossed from house to house. I climbed trees and you and my late sister Ruth would get us into trouble by telling on me and your brothers to my Late Dad that we had climbed a tree! And that was a ticket to get beaten. We still played together even after that. Our families were close.
To David, Tabbies, Ian, Emmanuel, Ken, Arthur and Maggie, may God's Grace and peace be upon you.
Timmi Heaven has gained a beautiful Angel and I can imagine the party and laughter that's going on there. Rest well my friend, It is Well, it is well! ♥️

I don't remember alot of things that happened on 30th March 2021 after we received the news of Timmy's passing on. But I remember that empty feeling that settled so deep inside of me, in a place that I didn't even know belonged to me. Through out the day they kept talking about moving the body and my mind refused to accept they were talking about my vibrant friend it just couldn't be true. Sadness wrapped itself in a thick layer over me and refused to leave. My tears threatened to flow but my eyes remained dry from the shock of it all. I don't know if you are able to watch and listen to us mortals down here but if you are I know you know just how much you are loved and missed. My mind keeps going back to when we were younger and our kids were small. I remember the many flasks of tea you brought to hospital when Gichuru was born. The many experiences and birthday parties we shared ...until many of your friends and family eventually became our friends and family and ours became yours. We have been friends for so many years Timmy and although we would stay without talking sometimes even for some months when we would reconnect we would talk for hours and oooh how we laughed sometimes only stopping because we realised we were late for something we were supposed to do....I will forever miss those moments. When you loved you did so completely and taught me so much about love and forgiveness. Thanks for standing with my daughter Mwihaki, during her lowest moments when she needed love and understanding. She is devastated by the loss. You were a mum she says she always knew was there for her. Thanks for treating my relatives who passed through KU with so much kindness and love. There is so much that comes to mind about what was...
...your radiant smile.... your warmth..how can we live without looking forward to all this? And yet we must find a way.
One thing that held us together Over the years was our deep faith in God..... and I know you are in His arms now and so I won't be sad any more. You are where I want to be someday and I do believe I don't have to say bye as we shall remain one in spirit. Only fare there well Timmy my dear lovely friend. Enjoy the company of angels till we meet again. Loving you always.

Mama Tabby, my heart breaks for your family, this loss is unimaginable. You were a mother to many and a great friend too. Knowing you was to know immeasurable love, joy and laughter. Your smile would immediately calm any worries we had and it was always a pleasure to be in your presence. Words may fail us, we know not why, but we know we shall meet again in the arms of our heavenly Father.

Rest well, Rest in eternal power.

Timmie, the first time I heard about you was through my mum, telling of your beautiful wedding to my cousin. I looked forward to meeting you one day and truly when I did, I confirmed my mum's description of you. You were a true sunshine, always had something to talk about even to those you met for the first time. You were so welcoming, warm and kind. There was always something in your house to offer to the guests and there was no option of saying no or escaping without eating or drinking something. You were truly a pure and good hearted being. For now go well my cousin though so sudden and heartbreaking.... You are in a better place. RIP

I should have known that that phonecall I picked this year, was the last time your voice would warm my heart, as it always did with everyone you spoke to. I can't even remember what we spoke about. All I remember was the laughter we shared in that brief moment. You were such a ball of happiness and joy and you lifted our spirits just by merely being here. This news feels like a crushing weight in my heart.

The Heavens must be glad to have you home, for it is precious in the sight of the Lord when His saints join up with Him in glory.

You shall be deeply missed Ma'. Thank you for being the blessing you were to us. Rest in eternal peace, till we meet again.

Mum was an angel in human form. The time we spent with you taught me a lot about the awesomeness of your persona. I still won't believe that you are not here with us cause we just spoke on Tuesday 23rd March and shared a prayer on Wednesday 24th March... You are a special woman who lived her life to the fullest and brought light to others including me. I know you are still here watching us. We shall hold to your memories and wise counsel dear mum... We loved you and God loved you more... A mum is with us always, first in her lifetime, then forever in our hearts and memory...Safiri salama tutaonana baadaye...shine on your way...sing and dance with the angels mum!

Dear lord, its one of the most difficult things to believe. " that CTL-N is no more" ooh God rest her soul with the angels. I worked with her , as my boss in the examinations section, Madam as we referred to her was a good mentor, a mother, a true sister, a depedable colleague and a reliable team leader. Catherine stood with me and us during good and trying moments, she was a good councillor- with lots of wisedom, an excellect comforter and and a performer. I will forever miss you dear sister.

Dear Mrs. Njoka,

It’s difficult news to wake up to today. My dear friend, mentor and alternate mom, I would not have survived difficult days in KU without you. You taught me diplomacy and negotiation skills and assured me it was ok to fight for students’ rights in the big board rooms. After graduation you remained a loving mom, asking to meet all the boyfriends and asking for grandchildren before ‘it’s too late’!

You always saw possibilities and inspired me to see great things in the future and celebrated little and big wins in my life. I can’t believe I’ll never see your smile or hear your hearty laugh again .

You will be sorely missed!

We rest in the comfort that you lived life well and loved hard without borders. What a great legacy you’ve left behind.

May God give you rest momma.

Dear Madam,
It is unfortunate, with lots of sorrow in my heart that I have to call you the Late. You left but in my heart you will live forever. I believe that when my time comes, and God calls me to His glory, I will find you and we shall rejoice together in Heaven.
Tears have freely flown on my cheeks; emotions have risen with many un-answered questions that have come to my mind. I have asked God why it had to be you but I am not sure I will be able to tell God who He should have picked instead. God is the supreme master, full of compassion and wisdom. He chose you because He felt you were the best at a time like this.
Madam you are gone; left my heart with sorrow and lots of pain. I have shed tears for you but I will have to let you go. Go where you have been called to by your master, the one you served with sincerity.
As your son (that’s how you used to refer to me) God connected me to you for a purpose. You have taught me many things in work life and life in general. I met you in January of 2009, worked with you for over a decade. You built me, taught me and loved me (I could feel and see it), believed in my abilities and encouraged me to face challenges of life. Many times I came to your office, having messed up in some things at work, you corrected with love. Many are times you chose to bear the burdens on behalf of us, for things you never did. There are times you raised your voice simply because you wanted things done the right way but a few minutes later you would call us, with no trace of bad feelings, and embrace us as your children. What a beautiful heart you had!!!!
You were my boss but never at any time did I see the boss in you. Instead I saw a caring friend and mother who dared to love and laugh even in the most difficult circumstances that we worked in. Your jokes, laughter and strikingly beautiful character, full of wise counsel will forever live in my heart.
As Mugambi’s family, we have lost a friend who was more of a mother and a caring one for that matter. We fondly remember that you were the first to see our son in hospital when he was born. You taught my dear wife how to wrap a diaper and many other things. You kept checking on us and reminded us to always pray. You kept checking on us and we loved you for your love. Which boss does this????Thank you mama!!
I can say many things about you and I will always remember you madam. You have left but you will forever live in my heart and many others that you inspired. It’s not easy but I have to say good bye. Rest well mama and may the Mighty God, who called you to heaven, rest your soul in eternal peace.

Auntie Timmy, thank you for touching my/our lives in such a special and unique way. Thank you for standing in the gap for those of us who needed a mother and a friend. Thank you for showing us true grace, wisdom, humility, kindness, love and beauty. I am blessed to have known you❤️
Nate and I will treasure the books you highlighted for us to read....Cucu you're missed already.
Words fail me I have typed and retyped what I want to say to you but words fail me. Our strong hold, cheer leader, teacher, advisor, Mom, friend, sister!
Rest well Auntie Timmy, you foght a good fight and you ran a great race.

My dear friend Catherine. I can't believe you are gone. You are one of those friends for all seasons who stayed as my friend even after leaving KU. You were one of my best colleagues. I could not entrust anyone else with Exams when I was Vice Chancellor because you were the best. You worked diligently and passionately. You made it your business to ensure efficiency in administration of exams...what a big loss of a friend, a colleague and a younger sister.
I remember the farewell gift you gave me when I left KU....it will remind me of you everytime I look at it. I remember your smiling face when you attended my childrens' weddings.....I saw you during Prof Andajes service......I easily noticeable you in the crowd when I was talking.
May our heavenly Father rest your beautiful soul in eternal peace till we meet again. May He give your family peace and acceptance of this huge and sad loss.

Rest in peace dear mama. Gone too soon. I know you are resting with Angels.Your smile,your jokes, your counsel will forever remain with me. To the family and friends may God give you comfort as we mourn our dear one. Safiri salana mama. Till we meet again. Shalom.

RIP Mrs. Njoka. I worked closely with u at the exams office and the advice u gave will never fade away."INTEGRITY"
Till we meet again, Rest in eternal peace MUM.

Mrs. Njoka it is hard to believe and words lack me so so devastated but we accept God's will. He loved you more. RIEP mum

Catherine, you were one in a million. A mentor, friend and sister. Bubbly, warm, full of humour and compassionate. So full of life and presence. A woman of substance and deep faith. The kind of prayers and petitions you taught me were deep. I remember your comforting look at me in 2018 as I eugolized my only brother during his funeral service (you came!). That look that said ' I am holding you in my prayers and thoughts gal, it shall be well'. And when I couldn't settle back in the office, I found myself in your office and after a 2 hour talk and a prayer, I walked out so refreshed and encouraged. You touched my life, you left a mark. I will miss you Catherine. See you in eternity Sister.

I didn’t have an opportunity to spend time with you but I thank God for you! For teaching my prayer partner (Shyngah) to be a prayerful woman for giving her the beautiful smile.. truly heavens are celebrating for having you. Rest well mum.. forever you’ll be missed..

Its so sad to think you are no longer with us. In KU another synonym for Exams has always been Njoka.

Fare thee well Sister, Mum and friend. Even though the Music is over your melody will linger on in our lives forever.

Rest in perfect peace my mentor and friend. Till we meet again.

It's me Co wife...
Hi gal, Hiii gal.. that would be your response. Today is Wednesday 31st  I don't know what to tell you or tell myself.
I never used to write to you often, because we prefered calling and talking in person.
I don't know why am writing now, but I guess it's coz you are not picking the calls and you did not even answer my last text on sunday 21st. Was in your house yesterday in ua kitchen I dint see you in person but I saw every part of you there, so I wondered is this real that you left & went to heaven. Today wasn't any better. I need to see you for myself  but how ;I hope when I see you in whichever way, lying, sleeping, or on send off, these hot tears flowing and headache will stop. And then I can start to celebrate your life with me, our memories that we made. Wanted to see u  today where you r resting b4 ua final resting place just so I can have a closure, but it was not possible to see u coz of this evil covid restrictions am so broken. I pray the same God that took you I trust He will help me hve some closure.  I know you are looking at me & asking "ni nini  na wewe Sasa" am not OK atleast not now. I have no one to talk to, not the same level we would share. Am so jealous of you right now. You are not worried and anxious like me right now. Your smile will linger on, your embrace  oh that one will miss the most. The coffee date, lunch dates  are gone with you. I sound like am complaining? It's a yes & no. Let me pray now for help. Oh my mwiiru you leave me all alone, I have none now. It's sooo hard for me but will try be less of a cabbage. Go well dear I loved you so much in person will still love you in spirit.

Mum it is very sad to pen this down I remember whenever we met how you used to hug me and call me daughter, how are my grandsons when are you bring me a granddaughter? Waah I will surely miss the hugs and laughter that could brighten a gloomy day. You were so caring and had a big heart. Dance with the Angels Mummy. My deepest condolences to your family at large.

It is hard to believe that you have gone to be with angels Catherine. I remember your warm smile and beautiful soul from the very first time I met you in high school. I remember the last time we met and how full of joy and love you were. May you rest peacefully. You ran your race well and you will be missed by many. May God grant your entire family strength and comfort.

Auntie,
No words can express my shock and deep pain. I'll never forget your beautiful smile and warmth. Rest with the angels. Till we meet again.

Auntie Timmy, You were such a blessing to so many of us. You've touched and changed peoples lives directly and indirectly.shine on your way, you shall be missed dearly... You lived a fulfilling life.

Fare thee well sister Timmy.
Shine all the way! We shall miss you!

Even though we can no longer be with you in this world anymore, we cannot touch you or laugh with you. Your love and care, your beautiful smile and kindness will forever be in our hearts. Rest with the angels dear Mom Timmy.

To my friend /sister,classmate,Chama girls
I must brave the sea of tears and the pain in my heart as I patiently wait beyond the grave to see you in glory one day. My heart bleeds but I cannot ask God why, for He is the Creator, the Maker of Heaven and earth.

To Him we belong and to Him we must one day return. He gives and He takes away. To Him Alone be all the Praise, the Glory and the Honour, now and always.

Rest in Peace my unforgettable friend. Rest. In peace my co - wife as I called you  the joke only you understand love you gal adios see you later 
Mumbi

Aunty Timmy..you were the best aunty and we were always free with you. You gave us life advice and how to be women of substance. You were always concerned about us. I will miss you so much. You're in a better place of peace in the arms of our maker. I loved you, I love you and I will always love you. Rest in eternal peace till we meet again aunty Timmy 

Cathy, today a light went out. We are left with deep sadness and confusion. Rest in peace. We will miss your kindness, your smile and love.

Loosing a close friend at any time is heartbreaking. But it's even more distressing when a monster like the current scourge is the cause.

Catherine Njoka formerly Catherine Lubembe wasn't just a friend, but perhaps one of the ladies I truly respected.

Our friendship started in India or Bharat as we know it when together with others we formed what we styled as Kenya Theatre Group '83. It was a performing theatre and cultural dance group which made an immediate impact on not only the Kenyan student comminity, but also among other foreign student groups especially from Africa.
It also caught the attention of an outfit know as the Indian Council for Cultural Relations (ICCR) which became the main sponsor of all it's events. The group would traverse several Indian destinations performing. Timmy (as we all knew her) was instrumental in populating the group with our treasured sisters. During our time in India, the girls were very weary of associating with the boys, but Timmy changed all that.

Later in life, we were to continue our friendship here at home. She became a mentor in my life and am not ashamed to say some of the lifelong decisions I have made have basically been due her influence.

My family came to know and respect her due to her humility and warmth. I also came to know her family well and we became friends with them.

Words fail me, but if there's one thing am sure, it's that she truly was an angel. Adios my friend. Till we meet again

Dear Catherine, I was amazed by your deep spirituality, faith and trust in Jesus. You always shared your breakthroughs in your Christian life. I believe you are home at last in eternal bliss. Pray for conversion of souls this Holy Week. Rest in the Peace of the Lord.

Catherine, there are no words to express what I feel right now. No words to describe you and what you were to many people. Your love, infectious laughter, warm hugs, words of wisdom and encouragement are just a few of the beautiful things I remember about you. Thank you my prayer partner for reminding me always that nothing was too trivial or too large to take to God. May the Lord comfort your Husband, Children and Grandchildren. It is well mum. Rest in perfect peace.

Forever grateful to God for having blessed me with the gift of Aunty Timmy and all the years I got to experience her joyous, loving spirit. You were God's child- known to Him even before you were in your mother's womb-and the Lord has now taken His child back home, to a paradise much more peaceful than we could ever imagine. Love now and always

My mwiru, it's so hard for me to tell bye, to me you are more than a sister. You welcomed me in the family and held my hand all through. I know I have an angel in heaven now and I believe that you will continue praying for us. I loved you so much and will love you more forever. Shine on your way darling.

Sad indeed rest easy Timmy till we meet again

Mrs Njoka.I can't believe you are no more. Rip my dear friend and cousin. Forever will miss you mum.

Rest well Auntie Timmy,

A beautiful soul, full of love and faith, ascended to heaven, away from us, but closer to God, leaving loneliness and sadness. Still sounds like a dream to many of us but we have to accept what the Lord has done.

Rest in eternal peace .

Auntie you had the kindest heart. God has picked the best. Rest in peace dear one. We will forever miss you.

Rest well Auntie. I still can't believe you're gone, we just spoke on the phone a few days ago. Little did I know we wouldn't speak again. When we spoke, despite your ailment, you were not afraid or dismayed, your faith was unshaken. That is the strong & Godly woman I shall remember as.

You were like a second Mother to me. You were a great listener. You were patient & understanding & listened without judgment. You consoled & advised me during my troubled moments. Your warm & jovial disposition shall be dearly missed by your grand child Nathan, his mother Mercy & I. You have fought the fight & finished the race. May God grant you rest.

How can I call her'late'? Late for what? But that's the truth, now. Catherine is no more. Catherine was in charge of the secretariat to the panel that interviewed me for a job at Ku, 1994! From her hyphenated name, Lubembe - Njoka, I knew she had roots in Kakamega. She was all but kind, pleasant and as she escorted me out of the room, she told me, 'the job is yours, go and wait for your appointment letter.
The letter came after 2yrs and when I reported for duty on some date in January 1996,she received me well.
We struck a friendship, worked well and switched over in offices like parts of a jig saw puzzle. We enrolled for our masters and graduated together. We have crossed rivers and climbed hills. She has walked me through tough times. I have lost a sister and friend. An anchor. RIP Catherine.

Madam, you mean you were to go ?It is very unbelievable.I remember trying to call you and your phone went unanswered little did i know that was the last time i was calling your phone. We've worked together for many years and you kept reffering me as your "P.A" and whenever anyone came to your office you would tell the visitor this is my " P.A" Alice Muhandick. I remember during your birthday i was not remembering the date then i remembered a day later and i called you and you told me "haisemangwi siku hizi tumekuwa wazee ", and we laughed about it oh no !Madam till we meet again rest well.

Catherine,
You were more than a boss to me . You have mentored me to whom i am today. Often colleagues have nick named me" Njoka Jr.". You have loved me as your own, given me all without reservation. And as you would tell me, you have finished your work. Truly , you have fought a good fight, finished the race and kept the faith. We will always miss you. RIP MUM.

Mum, you are the best human I have known.. Its still a shock to no you are no longer with us and resting well.. I just remember the video call we had few days ago.. I didn't know it was the last one. Your warmth, care and the beautiful smile and kind words lives on. Always greatful for always been there for all of us... Till we meet again, rest well Aunt Timmie..

Cheers Cucu nice as Malaika fondly refers to you. Till we meet again

Regards Zuri, Malaika, Jeremy, Rhoda and Charuthi...