I have so many memories growing up of my granny T as me & my brothers/sisters called her aswell as my granda Joe!!!! My gran had the patience of a saint, she never swore,smoked or drank alcohol & as a kid I stayed most weekends with them & I remember I stole my granda's lighter & set fire to the wallpaper in the back room & I remember my gran running in cause she smelt smoke & told me not to play with matches or lighters. I was expecting an ear bashing or something cause if that day never made her curse & swear then nothing would!!! We loved staying with my gran & granda she made what she called was 'meat & tattie pie' unbelievable think she got fed up making it cause that's all we would bug her for!!! I enjoyed the stories my gran & granda used to tell about their lives, how they met etc & my gran said that "when me & your granda die I want our ashes put together & scattered where we met". I hope I'm not mistaken in saying it was a park in Barnsley 'oakfield' I think as I was only in my early teens when she said that to me & im 30 now. Unfortunately I never got that opportunity to do it as it would've been a great honour or see it be done & I don't know if it has been done to this day!!!! One thing my granny always said to me & it'll stick with me forever " your mum & dad are your best friends don't let anyone say anything about them!!!