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Our Daddy lives on..

November 4, 2020

A mountain of memories, is what he gave us;
Yet, ne’er a moment of ‘nay’, in our choice of life.
Its course was mapped, from the standards he set up.
Silence was his command, his support in our joys and strife!

His words were few, and far between;
Their worth has traversed, the passage of time.
His quiet pride, his silent love, his wordless dreams.
Gave us our beacons, showed the steps we must climb!

His ‘foot’ had been always longer, than our meter;
Much larger was his heart, which embraced a-many.
His ‘pounds’ were heavy, from tons of untruths for us to deter.
An engineer in life, a soldier at work, a great dad, he needs no litany!

Posted by Lt Col N Chandrasekharan's children
Gita, Sudha, Gopakumar, Sethumadhavan,  and ChandraMohan  
Few   photographs are uploaded under the link given below https://ltcolnchandrasekharan.blogspot.com/2020/11/blog-post.html

A leaf out of the extraordinary life of our Dad

November 4, 2020
Late Lt Col, N Chandrasekharan was born to Ponganam Warriethu N Kochutti Warasyar and Chowalloor Warriethu Rama Warrier on 8th Aug 1923   Being a member of a large family of 7 siblings and being the 4th of the lot, in an era when basic amenities took priority over education, he had to literally struggle to complete his basic education. From what has been shared by Dad with our Mom, we have realized that he had immense value for education because of struggles in those times for even basic education. School involved textbooks, notebooks, and appropriate clothes for all children, which was a difficult proposition for almost all people in those days with large families. We came to hear that he was once asked to leave the class for  not having relevant  text book. As per him, he was only forbidden to enter the class, but not to Learn. He stood outside the class and not  just attended, but also topped the class in all subjects.  This made the teachers take a liking to him, and  few of them even helped him later.

As he was a man of few words, we rarely heard much about his struggles from him, but  we have consistently realized the importance he gave to education. As he was determined to pursue Engineering,  he worked  after his HSC (plus 2), presumably in postal / Armed services for short period, and earn sufficiently to support his education. He also gave tuitions to his classmates to  earn for the fees,  as doing a Mechanical Engineering degree at  Annamalai University in Madras, meant not only Tuition fees, but also books, mess and hostel Fees.

He was hugely considerate to people who approached him  with a sad  story of being unable to educate  their children, and he  would  donate and  help them. In fact, he rarely checked the authenticity of such stories and perhaps a few have taken advantage of this too.   He had  also indicated  to  our Amma  that she could pursue  her education if she so desired and he would  support and finance her, but   being in the family way,   and  with  increased responsibility  of  looking after 5 of us  in his absence due to  the many wars fought by Indian Army,  and many associated  transfers, she  could not  pursue the same.  Instead he was particular about educating his youngest sister, who was non-encumbered till she evolved as an admirable professor of Physics after pursuing her studies in BHU.

 He was particular about conveying  to us  that the one thing he could provide us would be “Education” and urged all of  us to study to our  heart’s  content.  We are happy, that he could see us all complete  our education with flying colours,  and were  well settled before  his demise,  2 decades back. Our only regret is that we could not do much for him.  So  we have decided  to reward a worthy student in Mechanical Engineering  from NITC ( where he was also commanding officer  of NCC while he was posted at Calicut,  and where 3 of his children and 2 children in laws completed their Engineering) ,   in his memory  from this year onwards
Having been born and educated in the Pre independence  Era,   could have  been  the  trigger or deciding factor for him to join the  Indian Army in the EME  (Electrical and Mechanical Engineers core),  despite resistance from his parents. He has participated in all the major wars, fought by India after Independence till  his retirement  from the Services in1977.  Many a times he would be at the battle front,  or in hardship locations, where family could not be kept with him. Even though he has not mentioned much about  the wars, the Service record talks of  the Medals  and Decorations conferred on him which are listed as shown below as well as consolidated and posted in the Photo Gallery. 
As a self-made man,  a soldier par excellence, a self-disciplined,  Selfless, committed and  high principled person  with lofty ideals, one  can only Salute and pay our respects  to  our Dad with this Tribute 
 Few more photographs are uploaded under the link given below    https://ltcolnchandrasekharan.blogspot.com/2020/11/blog-post.html

A life dedicated to the Service of our Nation 1947 to 1977

October 31, 2020
List of Decorations ,Medals and Honors for participation in the Major Wars by  India  during his tenure with Indian Army which we are all proud of  
Paschimi Star   for  Indo-Pakistani War of 1971 - Operation Cactus-Lilly

Sangram Medal   for 1971/72 war with Pakistan  Operation Cactus-Lilly

25th Independent Anniversary Medal for twenty-fifth anniversary of India's independence, ‎‎15 August 1972

General Service Medal for service in Jammu and Kashmir during the Indo-Pakistani War of 1947,  Operation Bison

Sainya Seva Medal    for service under conditions of hardship and severe climate in specified areas

Raksha Medal – 1965  for the Indo-Pakistani War of 1965  Operation  Ablaze  

Samar Seva Star-1965   for the Indo-Pakistani War of 1965    Operation   Riddle

9  Years Long Service Medal,  20 Years Long Service Medal  &  Service Medal

Participation in Sino Indian War 1962 
 Few more photographs are uploaded under the link given below https://ltcolnchandrasekharan.blogspot.com/2020/11/blog-post.html