You would be 36 years old but you are forever 18 I miss and love you so much Tater

17 years of living with out you It still feels like yesterday that you left us I love you and miss you so much

Happy Birthday Tater hard to believe you would be 35 today I love and miss you so much Until we meet again Love you mom

Hard to believe you have been gone for 16 years Love and miss you like crazy There is nothing I can tell you that I haven't already said Til we meet again Love mom

Hey baby boy it's May 1st the day our lives was shattered forever i know my life has never been the same. It feels like it happened today it never gets easier I don't know how to come to terms with it and I'm still not ready to say goodbye so I haven't I think that plays a part in it being so tough to heal from this. I miss the late night rides to your gf and our movie time I have to hold on to our memories and relive them that way. It's not fair I sometimes wonder is there really a God cause how could someone cause this much pain but I hold onto your dream you always told us about before you past. You was so bright and had everything to live for why take someone who could make a difference. I love you beyond this life I can't wait till the day I can see you again. We welcomed Tay'Lyn Michelle on the 14th she so beautiful I hate that my kids had to miss out on knowing you they would have thought the world of you. I miss you beyond any words could ever explain. I love you Tater miss you to the fullest. Love always and forever Lazy Bones

Tater you have been heavy on mind I miss you like crazy and wish you were here with us Life has not been the same since you passed away It's hard to believe its been 16 years that you have been gone from us Please continue to watch over us all until we meet again son I love you always Love mom

Hey baby boy Im missing you so much so much has changed since you went away you was definitely the glue. I know your with us everyday it's crazy how much the kids have grown huh? I know it was you watching over Danny Ray and being his protector he's gave me a scare a few times couldn't of gotten a better angel to watch over us. I hate you aren't here in person to help guide them in life. You got another neice on the way as you prolly know hopefully she was hand picked by you, not funny tho giving me another daughter lol not a moment goes by your not thought about and missed. Why people say it gets easier as the years go on, I find it harder everyday to go thru life without you, so many wonders and question cross my mind and go unanswered. I love you till my last breath. Continue to give us all strength as we go on in this crazy world. Love always and forever Lazy Bones

Tater Christmas has not been the same without you I miss you everyday I hope you and the rest of the family are watching over us all I love you and miss you Love mom

Well Tater its your birthday here on earth I made your cake and will send you your balloons so be watching for them I love you so much and miss you always Its hard to believe you are 34 years old down here but forever 18 up there Keep watching over us until I see you again Love mom

Well Tater its been 15 years now without you. I miss and wish you were here so much You are always on my mind and in my heart As long as I live your memories will carry on for your sisters and nieces and nephews I know you will be there wating when my time comes Love you son forever Love mom

Christmas is upon us and it hasnt been the same without you We all love and miss you so much

Wish you were here to celebrate your 33rd birthday with us God I miss you so much Until we meet again

Happy heavenly birthday baby brother. I miss you more than you know. I’d give anything to have to you here or even just to hug you one more time. I love and miss you so much

Well another long yr goes by without you life dont even seem the same. Man what I would give to sit down with you one more time. You are truly amazing. I will you was here with me I miss you beyond words I can't explain the way I feel. Love you tater another day closer to seeing you

It's easy to remember you but it's still hard to accept that you're gone.We all sure do miss you and you are always in our thoughts. We love you

Well Tater it's been another year since you have gone Still seems like yesterday Not a day goes by that I don't wish you were here with us I love you son Can't wait until we can be together again

Man Tater it gets harder and harder everyday your gone. So many things fallen apart, it feels like your the only person who ever had my back the only one I can relate to. The foundation has fallen since your departure is sad but best I guess. But I know if you was here I would still have you. I hate that you want ankle to meet My'Kilyn but so very blessed you was apart of Danny and Tatums life for that little time they are so grown now it's crazy but I know your watching you see us I love you and would give anything to have you back. But you live on in strangers we will never know but you gave life to others. I love and miss you more then the air I need to breathe till I see you again

Happy 32nd Birthday Tater Can't believe it has been 14 birthdays without you Love and miss you always Can't wait to see you again I miss everything about you what I wouldn't give to find one of your notes hidden in a drawer I made your cake today and I will be sending you your balloon Love you son

Well Tater here it is another year without you has gone by It still feels like yesterday I wonder everyday how your life and our lives would of been like if you were still here with us You have so many nephews and nieces that never got to meet you but they know you from all of our memories and stories of you but you will always be loved and missed so much I love you Tater love mom

Tater,
    It's so hard without you here, I know I would always have you when I dont have no one. I still can't believe you're gone. It's a cold lonely world without you thats for sure. I love you baby brother I wish i could at least hear your voice in my ear cause without you there's nobody. My'Kilyn talked about how she never met you, damn that cut deep cause she missed out on knowing a great person. I would give my soul you have you back. I love you and miss everything about you. Till I see you again, i will continue to talk to you. I love you Lazy Bones

Happy 31 st Birthday Tater Cant believe this is going to be the 13th birthday without you here with us There is not a day that goes by that I dont think about you and wonder what you would of become I miss you so much You were the glue in our family and we have fallen apart without you We will be sending you our birthday thought and love as always Until we see you again I love you son

Tater,
     Not a day goes by that i dont think about you. A lot of times i cry out loud for you. Why oh why i ask god why you. I will live life always wondering and never will i get a answer. I just am happy your not suffering. You live on in strangers we will never know but the kind gentle giant you was has helped give others the rest of their lives. I love you.

Cant believe 12 years have passed since you went away I think about you everyday This day will forever be itched in my mind I am so thankful to of had you and spent 18 years and 5 months with you .I always wonder what your life would of been like if you could of stayed You will always be my baby boy no matter what looking forward to the day of being with you again Fly high Tater Love you Love mom

Tater,
     Another year gone like that, but not one day passed that I didn't think about you and miss you. I hold so much anger in that your gone, you are my one and only brother at that time we became so close it was always us home. I think bc of that it's so hard for me to say G'Bye even tho your already gone whether I can't change that. I wish i could I know things would not be the way they are. I love you baby brother.
  
                                      Love, Lazy Bones

Well Tater today is your big dirty thirty How I wish you were here to celebrate it with us But as always I will bake your favorite cake and sing Happy Birthday and send you all my love to the heavens up above I love you and miss you everyday Until we meet up again continue to watch over us all

Another day passing by of wondering where you would be in a life the intelligent young man you become was something your mom should be proud of, you was capable of some many things, I wonder would you have kids by now if so how many and would your son walk around with a baby fro like his daddy, or would they have your sense of humor we will never know someone out there needed you more so god thought he had other plans but not knowing the pain we all feel would tear us apart forever beyond repair, but because of you someone is able to live a life they wasn't able to live before and that's a blessing that you created, the pain and emptiness I carry with me everyday can never be healed but it's a constant reminder of the amazing person I lost. I love you beyond any words Tater

11 years ago you were called away. There was no choice you couldn't stay. The tears we cry the pain deep inside, nothing could bring you back. Everyday I hurt and cry wishing you was still here. The opportunities and the life you still had ahead of you. I miss you so much little brother I would anything to have you back but when its my time I'll see you again but until then continue to watch over us and love us from afar. R.I.P Tater 12/2/87 to 5/1/2006

Cant believe its been 11 years Still feels like yesterday I love you Tater until we see each other again continue to watch over us

Love you lots.

Love you forever

Happy 29th Heavenly Birthday Tater I love and miss you more then anything Wish you were here to celebrate this day with us Keep watching over us and give me the strength to continue until we see each other again Love forever mom

Happy Birthday Charles I wish I could have known you as and adult...I know you would had done great things because that's who you were.Even though Kyle doesn't speak of you I know he thinks of you often and so do I. Your Mom misses you terribly, I hear it in her voice and see it in her face when she speaks of you. I love you

Happy Birthday Tater. Love and miss you so much

Charles I wish we would have more time, I know that your mom misses you so much that it hurts. She was so proud of you and honored to have you as her son(I think you knew how she felt about you). When she speaks of you I see the pain in her face and I can feel her heartache. I know she looks forward to the day that she can hold you in her arms again and tell you how much she missed you.

Love and prayers Wilma and family

Wishing you a Happy 28th Birthday I miss you so much son you were my glue and without you life has fallen apart I think it gets harder every year I wish so much that you were here I love you Tater I cant wait to see you again Love mom

I started this journey 9 years ago and its a journey I wouldn't wish upon any parent Its one of the hardest thing I have ever done in life was to loose a child my son I still don't understand why. When you loose a child you loose a piece of yourself and you never recover from this pain that your heart has endured .You never stop thinking about them and wondering about them and how life would of been if they were still here .But one thing is for sure you never stop loving them and missing them. So on this day Tater (Charles Arthur-Finley Farmer ) we send you extra love from here to the skies above ,you are forever in my heart and thoughts .Until I see you again Love mom

I cant believe its been 9 years since I watched you leave this life. Its been 9 years of sorrow and pain. A piece of my heart went with you the day you went away It will never be the same I think of you every day and wonder how it would of been if you could of stayed I have watch your friends grow up and move on with their lives but you will forever be 18 You never got the chance to grow up and find love and have babies and I so wish you could of left a piece of you behind But you will forever be in my heart and thoughts until we meet again I love you Tater (Charles Arthur-Finley Farmer ) Love always, mom

Tater I sit and wonder everyday about what you would be doing if you were here with us There are days I need to hear your voice so much or find one of your notes that you would hide for me to find I miss you more then words could ever say I CANT WAIT TO SEE YOU AGAIN

Charles you were such a good kid who had a great big heart.I will cherish the few times that we had together and the conversations in my kitchen when you came to stay with Kyle.Even though I never told you...I love you

I love u Tater an miss so much

Day by day I think of you,
How can all of this be true?
I can't believe you're really gone,
I still can't accept it,
Even after so long.
Just the thought of you makes me cry,
I never even got the chance to say goodbye.
Every picture, every letter,
I don't know if it will ever get better.
I always smell your familiar scent,
It makes me think of all of the times we've spent.
I know we didn't always get along,
And every time we talked, it would always go wrong.
So many things I never got to say,
I never imagined you'd ever be so far away.
You were my brother,
And I loved you like no other.
In my heart you'll always be,
You'll be my guide and help me see.
I'll never forget your soothing voice,
I would take your place if I had a choice.
But now I have to let you rest,
Although without you my world's a mess.
I miss you with all of my heart,
I wish we never had to part.
I know you're always by my side,
So now I guess this is my goodbye...

I will always love and miss you until we meet again