Charles Arthur-Finley Farmer
  • 18 years old
  • Date of birth: Dec 2, 1987
  • Date of passing: May 1, 2006
Let the memory of Charles be with us forever
This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Charles Farmer, 18, born on December 2, 1987 and passed away on May 1, 2006. We will remember him forever.
Memorial Tributes
This tribute was added by Carrie Farmer on 2nd December 2016

"Happy Birthday Tater.  Love and miss you so much"

This tribute was added by Diane Ruf-Means on 2nd December 2016

"Happy Birthday Charles  I wish I could have known you as and adult...I know you would had done great things because that's who you were.Even though Kyle doesn't speak of you I know he thinks of you often and so do I. Your Mom misses you terribly, I hear it in her voice and see it in her face when she speaks of you. I love you"

This tribute was added by Tonja Devolgado on 2nd December 2016

"Love you forever"

This tribute was added by Wilma Ruf Miller on 2nd December 2016

"Happy 29th Heavenly Birthday Tater I love and miss you more then anything Wish you were here to celebrate this day with us Keep watching over us and give me the strength to continue until we see each other again Love forever mom"

This tribute was added by Diane Ruf-Means on 2nd December 2015

"Charles I wish we would have more time, I know that your mom misses you so much that it hurts. She was so proud of you and honored to have you as her son(I think you knew how she felt about you). When she speaks of you I see the pain in her face and I can feel her heartache. I know she looks forward to the day that she can hold you in her arms again and tell you how much she missed you."

This tribute was added by Melinda Greene on 2nd December 2015

"Love and prayers Wilma and family"

This tribute was added by Wilma Ruf Miller on 2nd December 2015

"Wishing you a Happy 28th Birthday I miss you so much son you were my glue and without you life has fallen apart I think it gets harder every year I wish so much that you were here I love you Tater I cant wait to see you again Love mom"

This tribute was added by Wilma Ruf Miller on 1st May 2015

"I started this journey 9 years ago and its a journey I wouldn't wish upon any parent Its one of the hardest thing I have ever done in life was to loose a child my son I still don't understand why. When you loose a child you loose a piece of yourself and you never recover from this pain that your heart has endured .You never stop thinking about them and wondering about them and how life would of been if they were still here .But one thing is for sure you never stop loving them and missing them. So on this day Tater (Charles Arthur-Finley Farmer ) we send you extra love from here to the skies above ,you are forever in my heart and thoughts .Until I see  you again Love mom"

This tribute was added by Wilma Ruf Miller on 1st May 2015

"I cant believe its been 9 years since I watched you leave this life. Its been 9 years of sorrow and pain. A piece of my heart went with you the day you went away It will never be the same I think of you every day and wonder how it would of been if you could of stayed I have watch your friends grow up and move on with their lives but you will forever be 18 You never got the chance to grow up and find love and have babies and I so wish you could of left a piece of you behind But you will forever be in my heart and thoughts until we meet again I love you Tater (Charles Arthur-Finley Farmer )  Love always, mom"

This tribute was added by Wilma Ruf Miller on 3rd February 2015

"Tater I sit and wonder everyday about what you would be doing if you were here with us There are days I need to hear your voice so much or find one of your notes that you would hide for me to find I miss you more then words could ever say I CANT WAIT TO SEE YOU AGAIN"

This tribute was added by Diane Ruf-Means on 3rd February 2015

"Charles you were such a good kid who had a great big heart.I will cherish the few times that we had together and the conversations in my kitchen when you came to stay with Kyle.Even though I never told you...I love you"

This tribute was added by tasha Austin on 2nd February 2015

"Day by day I think of you,
How can all of this be true?
I can't believe you're really gone,
I still can't accept it,
Even after so long.
Just the thought of you makes me cry,
I never even got the chance to say goodbye.
Every picture, every letter,
I don't know if it will ever get better.
I always smell your familiar scent,
It makes me think of all of the times we've spent.
I know we didn't always get along,
And every time we talked, it would always go wrong.
So many things I never got to say,
I never imagined you'd ever be so far away.
You were my brother,
And I loved you like no other.
In my heart you'll always be,
You'll be my guide and help me see.
I'll never forget your soothing voice,
I would take your place if I had a choice.
But now I have to let you rest,
Although without you my world's a mess.
I miss you with all of my heart,
I wish we never had to part.
I know you're always by my side,
So now I guess this is my goodbye..."

This tribute was added by Wilma Ruf Miller on 2nd February 2015

"I will always love and miss you until we meet again"

This tribute was added by shelby vance on 2nd February 2015

"I love u Tater an miss so much"

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