Let the memory of Charles be with us forever
  • 18 years old
  • Born on December 2, 1987 .
  • Passed away on May 1, 2006 .
This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Charles Farmer 18 years old , born on December 2, 1987 and passed away on May 1, 2006. We will remember him forever.
Posted by Cheri Farmer on 3rd December 2018
Tater, It's so hard without you here, I know I would always have you when I dont have no one. I still can't believe you're gone. It's a cold lonely world without you thats for sure. I love you baby brother I wish o could at least have your voice and ear cause without you there's nobody. My'Kilyn talked about how she never met you, damn that cut deep cause she missed out on knowing a great person. I would give my soul you have you back. I love you and miss everything about you. Till I see you again, i will continue to talk to you. I love you Lazy Bones
Posted by Wilma Ruf Miller on 2nd December 2018
Happy 31 st Birthday Tater Cant believe this is going to be the 13th birthday without you here with us There is not a day that goes by that I dont think about you and wonder what you would of become I miss you so much You were the glue in our family and we have fallen apart without you We will be sending you our birthday thought and love as always Until we see you again I love you son
Posted by Cheri Farmer on 18th September 2018
Tater, Not a day goes by that i dont think about you. A lot of times i cry out loud for you. Why oh why i ask god why you. I will live life always wondering and never will i get a answer. I just am happy your not suffering. You live on in strangers we will never know but the kind gentle giant you was has helped give others the rest of their lives. I love you.
Posted by Wilma Ruf Miller on 1st May 2018
Cant believe 12 years have passed since you went away I think about you everyday This day will forever be itched in my mind I am so thankful to of had you and spent 18 years and 5 months with you .I always wonder what your life would of been like if you could of stayed You will always be my baby boy no matter what looking forward to the day of being with you again Fly high Tater Love you Love mom
Posted by Cheri Farmer on 1st May 2018
Tater, Another year gone like that, but not one day passed that I didn't think about you and miss you. I hold so much anger in that your gone, you are my one and only brother at that time we became so close it was always us home. I think bc of that it's so hard for me to say G'Bye even tho your already gone whether I can't change that. I wish i could I know things would not be the way they are. I love you baby brother. Love, Lazy Bones
Posted by Wilma Ruf Miller on 2nd December 2017
Well Tater today is your big dirty thirty How I wish you were here to celebrate it with us But as always I will bake your favorite cake and sing Happy Birthday and send you all my love to the heavens up above I love you and miss you everyday Until we meet up again continue to watch over us all
Posted by Cheri Farmer on 9th May 2017
Another day passing by of wondering where you would be in a life the intelligent young man you become was something your mom should be proud of, you was capable of some many things, I wonder would you have kids by now if so how many and would your son walk around with a baby fro like his daddy, or would they have your sense of humor we will never know someone out there needed you more so god thought he had other plans but not knowing the pain we all feel would tear us apart forever beyond repair, but because of you someone is able to live a life they wasn't able to live before and that's a blessing that you created, the pain and emptiness I carry with me everyday can never be healed but it's a constant reminder of the amazing person I lost. I love you beyond any words Tater
Posted by Carrie Farmer on 1st May 2017
11 years ago you were called away. There was no choice you couldn't stay. The tears we cry the pain deep inside, nothing could bring you back. Everyday I hurt and cry wishing you was still here. The opportunities and the life you still had ahead of you. I miss you so much little brother I would anything to have you back but when its my time I'll see you again but until then continue to watch over us and love us from afar. R.I.P Tater 12/2/87 to 5/1/2006
Posted by Wilma Ruf Miller on 1st May 2017
Cant believe its been 11 years Still feels like yesterday I love you Tater until we see each other again continue to watch over us
Posted by Tonja Devolgado on 30th April 2017
Love you lots.
Posted by Carrie Farmer on 2nd December 2016
Happy Birthday Tater. Love and miss you so much
Posted by Diane Ruf-Means on 2nd December 2016
Happy Birthday Charles I wish I could have known you as and adult...I know you would had done great things because that's who you were.Even though Kyle doesn't speak of you I know he thinks of you often and so do I. Your Mom misses you terribly, I hear it in her voice and see it in her face when she speaks of you. I love you
Posted by Tonja Devolgado on 2nd December 2016
Love you forever
Posted by Wilma Ruf Miller on 2nd December 2016
Happy 29th Heavenly Birthday Tater I love and miss you more then anything Wish you were here to celebrate this day with us Keep watching over us and give me the strength to continue until we see each other again Love forever mom
Posted by Diane Ruf-Means on 2nd December 2015
Charles I wish we would have more time, I know that your mom misses you so much that it hurts. She was so proud of you and honored to have you as her son(I think you knew how she felt about you). When she speaks of you I see the pain in her face and I can feel her heartache. I know she looks forward to the day that she can hold you in her arms again and tell you how much she missed you.
Posted by Melinda Greene on 2nd December 2015
Love and prayers Wilma and family
Posted by Wilma Ruf Miller on 2nd December 2015
Wishing you a Happy 28th Birthday I miss you so much son you were my glue and without you life has fallen apart I think it gets harder every year I wish so much that you were here I love you Tater I cant wait to see you again Love mom
Posted by Wilma Ruf Miller on 1st May 2015
I started this journey 9 years ago and its a journey I wouldn't wish upon any parent Its one of the hardest thing I have ever done in life was to loose a child my son I still don't understand why. When you loose a child you loose a piece of yourself and you never recover from this pain that your heart has endured .You never stop thinking about them and wondering about them and how life would of been if they were still here .But one thing is for sure you never stop loving them and missing them. So on this day Tater (Charles Arthur-Finley Farmer ) we send you extra love from here to the skies above ,you are forever in my heart and thoughts .Until I see you again Love mom
Posted by Wilma Ruf Miller on 1st May 2015
I cant believe its been 9 years since I watched you leave this life. Its been 9 years of sorrow and pain. A piece of my heart went with you the day you went away It will never be the same I think of you every day and wonder how it would of been if you could of stayed I have watch your friends grow up and move on with their lives but you will forever be 18 You never got the chance to grow up and find love and have babies and I so wish you could of left a piece of you behind But you will forever be in my heart and thoughts until we meet again I love you Tater (Charles Arthur-Finley Farmer ) Love always, mom
Posted by Wilma Ruf Miller on 3rd February 2015
Tater I sit and wonder everyday about what you would be doing if you were here with us There are days I need to hear your voice so much or find one of your notes that you would hide for me to find I miss you more then words could ever say I CANT WAIT TO SEE YOU AGAIN
Posted by Diane Ruf-Means on 3rd February 2015
Charles you were such a good kid who had a great big heart.I will cherish the few times that we had together and the conversations in my kitchen when you came to stay with Kyle.Even though I never told you...I love you
Posted by Tasha Austin on 2nd February 2015
Day by day I think of you, How can all of this be true? I can't believe you're really gone, I still can't accept it, Even after so long. Just the thought of you makes me cry, I never even got the chance to say goodbye. Every picture, every letter, I don't know if it will ever get better. I always smell your familiar scent, It makes me think of all of the times we've spent. I know we didn't always get along, And every time we talked, it would always go wrong. So many things I never got to say, I never imagined you'd ever be so far away. You were my brother, And I loved you like no other. In my heart you'll always be, You'll be my guide and help me see. I'll never forget your soothing voice, I would take your place if I had a choice. But now I have to let you rest, Although without you my world's a mess. I miss you with all of my heart, I wish we never had to part. I know you're always by my side, So now I guess this is my goodbye...
Posted by Wilma Ruf Miller on 2nd February 2015
I will always love and miss you until we meet again
Posted by Shelby Vance on 2nd February 2015
I love u Tater an miss so much

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