Dear All: This website has been created to celebrate and remember our beloved Charles Negley, who passed away July 11, 2018, just one month before his 86th birthday. A biography is included on the "life" tab and pictures and video are on the "gallery" tab - be sure to check out the video!
The Negley Family
We welcome friends and family to add to this website through tributes, photos, and stories. We interred his ashes on the one-year anniversary of his death, July 11, 2019, at the San Francisco Columbarium (1 Loraine Ct, San Francisco, CA 94118, Hall of Olympians, Athena Room). You are welcome to visit his niche that contains his ashes and memorabilia (most of it from the 1950's).
Thank you for helping us celebrate Charles' life. If you have any problems adding content to this site, please contact us. And again, please have a look at the video, as it's a great run through the life of Charles!
Best wishes,The Negley Family
Tributes
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August 6, 2023
August 6, 2023
Godspeed Beautiful Uncle Charlie
August 6, 2023
August 6, 2023
Happy 92st birthday, Dad. Hope your world is full of great music, margarita pizza, and baseball games. All of the times that I enjoy these things, I think of you.
July 11, 2023
July 11, 2023
It's now been 5 years since Dad passed. It's beginning to feel like a long time, as the passing of time distances me from the immediacy of experiences with him.
Yet I still think of Dad everyday, running through imaginary discourses with him on a plurality of topics. I'm reminded of this passage from Longfellow:
Lives of great men all remind us
We can make our lives sublime,
And, departing, leave behind us
Footprints on the sands of time
Yet I still think of Dad everyday, running through imaginary discourses with him on a plurality of topics. I'm reminded of this passage from Longfellow:
Lives of great men all remind us
We can make our lives sublime,
And, departing, leave behind us
Footprints on the sands of time
August 6, 2022
August 6, 2022
Happy 90th, Dad! Plan to have margarita pizza and a glass of red wine in your honor tonight.
August 6, 2022
August 6, 2022
Thinking of Dad on his birthday today. As my sister Jeanne noted, today marks 90 years since his birth in 1932.
August 6, 2022
August 6, 2022
Happy Heavenly Birthday Uncle Charlie
July 11, 2022
July 11, 2022
Thanks, Brian, for setting up this website! I think of Dad in my everyday behaviors--exrecising in the morning, having breakfast while reading the newspaper. I miss you, Dad, and I know you would not have liked COVID, being cooped up, not going to performances, not seeing your city.
July 11, 2022
July 11, 2022
Godspeed Dear Uncle Charlie. Miss you, Chris
July 11, 2022
July 11, 2022
Though it's been 4 years, I still think of Dad every day. The on-going conversation that I have with him in my mind is a comfort. I miss him greatly.
August 6, 2021
August 6, 2021
Happy Birthday, Dad. You have a new great grandson, and we know you would love him.
August 6, 2021
August 6, 2021
Happy Birthday, Uncle Charlie. Godspeed.
August 6, 2021
August 6, 2021
Remembering Dad again particularly on his birthday.....Happy Birthday Dad!
July 11, 2021
July 11, 2021
Sending love and light to Brian and Jeanne, on this solemn day. Charlie will always missed. We had some wonderful times together that stay in my heart.
July 11, 2021
July 11, 2021
Godspeed Uncle Charlie. Miss you. <3
July 11, 2021
July 11, 2021
Thinking of you today and often, Charlie!
July 11, 2021
July 11, 2021
Today is a sad day, as it marks the anniversary of Dad's passing. Life has steadily marched on, and I as I imagine the rest of Dad's loved ones have all become engrossed in the day to day exigencies of life. Yet I still think of him daily; as I noted last year it's rarely about things we did together, or even what he looked like. Rather it's a continuing dialog I try to have with him, and imaging what he would say or experiences he would share in the long echo of silence that envelopes these conversations.
July 11, 2020
July 11, 2020
Two years goes so fast. I fondly remember the times I had with Charlie. We went to the SF symphony frequently. The photo with the crown on his head was from a New Year's Eve symphony with a party afterwards. You think those days are never going to end, but sadly they do. You'll always be in my heart, Charlie.
July 11, 2020
July 11, 2020
I think of you often Charlie. Sitting in the kitchen on the heater register in the morning while you are reading the newspaper. Or when you came to save "us" after the accident at A & W. You were the calm in that rocky storm.
July 11, 2020
July 11, 2020
Godspeed Uncle Charlie XOXOXOX Chris
July 10, 2020
July 10, 2020
Today marks the 2nd anniversary of Dad's passing. It just doesn't seem that long. I think of him everyday, and when I do it's not so much the things we did together but the things he said I remember. I often ask myself what Dad would say to me about any number of things I am thinking about or going through. When I imagine the answer, I sometimes selfishly wish I could have him back just for a few fleeting moments, so we could talk again.
August 6, 2019
August 6, 2019
Happy Birthday, Dad! Love you. Jeanne
July 11, 2019
July 11, 2019
Love to all who think of Charlie, today and always! Charlie was my second dad, as the family was connected before the kids were around. He had a great sense of humor, calm in chaos, and I don't know if I ever thanked him for the A & W incident.
Peace, love, and light!
Peace, love, and light!
March 28, 2019
March 28, 2019
I am particularly saddened by Charlie's passing as I knew him as one of the nicest people I had gotten to know through our insurance business connections. I still work in London and got to know Charlie through his many business visits. Unfortunately I had lost contact with him but knew from others that he was around and enjoying himself. The wonderful picture gallery brings back many memories of our meetings and his great sense of humour. Please accept my late condolences.
October 30, 2018
October 30, 2018
I worked with Charlie for a number of years. He made work fun. Charlie was a gentleman from another time that encompassed elegance, grace and wit. He is missed.
October 12, 2018
October 12, 2018
It is three months since I lost my dad. Today, I posted today my favorite picture of him that I keep at my desk at work. I miss him and think of him all the time. Thank you to everyone that has helped me and my family.
September 5, 2018
September 5, 2018
Posting for Kathy Wall. She says that she will think fondly of Uncle Charlie. "He was always so kind and gracious. Both Uncle Charlie and Aunt Maryanna always opened their doors to me when I was younger. He was serious, but could crack a joke also!
Uncle Charlie, I will miss you always!!! You are in my heart!"
Uncle Charlie, I will miss you always!!! You are in my heart!"
August 14, 2018
August 14, 2018
I loved takin g Charlie to the Music and seeing him light up and really smile he so enjoyed the Singing Sparrow and rock music I missed taking for cake and icecream Peace Sandy Otto
August 6, 2018
August 6, 2018
I'm so sorry to hear the news. Your dad has been such a loyal client for so many years. I will miss hearing his cheerful voice. Your tribute to him is so touching! You did a great job. I'm thinking of him on his special day, today, and wish him and all his family the very best.
August 6, 2018
August 6, 2018
So sorry to receive this news I spent many hours with Charlie at the Firework conventions that he and I visited throughout the U.S.A.
It was always my pleasure to invite him to lunch, and see the expression on his face, when he found out I had booked the Hard Rock café!! again, knowing his love for classical music. he was a special friend. We always joked about "never destroy a generous impulse" and Friendship cannot flower in an empty glass". Charlie you never left me with an empty glass.
R.I.P my friend
It was always my pleasure to invite him to lunch, and see the expression on his face, when he found out I had booked the Hard Rock café!! again, knowing his love for classical music. he was a special friend. We always joked about "never destroy a generous impulse" and Friendship cannot flower in an empty glass". Charlie you never left me with an empty glass.
R.I.P my friend
August 6, 2018
August 6, 2018
Charlie and I worked together for a number of years on the Lloyds fireworks program. We traveled to Fargo, Mason City and London together. He was a great mentor, a wonderful guy and a true gentleman. He brought joy to the practice of law and enjoyed every minute of it. He also set a great example of how to remain intellectually curious, constantly learning new things and sharing them with others. He will be missed. RIP Charlie.
August 6, 2018
August 6, 2018
Charlie and I saw each other for 5 years in the late 90’s. He was warm, generous and kind. He opened his world to me, attending the symphony, opera and musicals. I last saw him in 2013 I think; we met for lunch in SF and caught up. I really thought we’d be each other’s second spouse, but that was not meant to be. He’ll always have a special place in my heart.
August 5, 2018
August 5, 2018
Bbq's, get-to-gethers, snow trips, plays in the family room- Charlie was cheering the kids on! I will be celebrating him tomorrow!
August 4, 2018
August 4, 2018
I will think of him on Monday too. Blue Candle.
August 4, 2018
August 4, 2018
Dad came so close to making it to what would have been his 86th birthday, which is this coming Monday. I'll be thinking of him and toasting him on that day!
August 3, 2018
August 3, 2018
Uncle Charlie was a GREAT dancer and I remember him as an intellectual and,
at the same time a ton of FUN. RIP Uncle Charlie, Godspeed.
at the same time a ton of FUN. RIP Uncle Charlie, Godspeed.
August 3, 2018
August 3, 2018
August 6 is Dad's birthday, and I plan to take the day off, have some pizza Margheirita and a glass of Sangiovese (a favorite meal) to remember him.
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August 6, 2023
August 6, 2023
Godspeed Beautiful Uncle Charlie
August 6, 2023
August 6, 2023
Happy 92st birthday, Dad. Hope your world is full of great music, margarita pizza, and baseball games. All of the times that I enjoy these things, I think of you.
July 11, 2023
July 11, 2023
It's now been 5 years since Dad passed. It's beginning to feel like a long time, as the passing of time distances me from the immediacy of experiences with him.
Yet I still think of Dad everyday, running through imaginary discourses with him on a plurality of topics. I'm reminded of this passage from Longfellow:
Lives of great men all remind us
We can make our lives sublime,
And, departing, leave behind us
Footprints on the sands of time
Yet I still think of Dad everyday, running through imaginary discourses with him on a plurality of topics. I'm reminded of this passage from Longfellow:
Lives of great men all remind us
We can make our lives sublime,
And, departing, leave behind us
Footprints on the sands of time
Gallery
Dad's Niche, San Francisco Columbarium, 7/11/2019
Side View of Dad's Niche, San Francisco, CA 7/11/2019
Dad's Niche Neighborhood at the Columbarium, San Francisco 7/11/2019
Dad's Post Memorial at the Magic Flute, San Francisco, CA 7/11/2019
Sept. 4, 1954. Last night at home. Charles Negley
Lacey tells stories about Charles from the Charlie 2 team of Veterans' Home
Jeff tells a story about usually taciturn Charles uttering a few choice words
Brian opens Dad's memorial 7/21/2018
Jeanne's favorite picture with Dad. Posted 10/12/2018
Recent stories
October 8, 2019
Godspeed Uncle Charlie
Another Season Ends
October 6, 2019
by Brian Negley
Yet another season of baseball has come to an end. For me - more than his birthday or date of passing - this time of year brings me to think about Dad.
Dad was the quintessential San Franciscan in many ways, leaving his boyhood home of Cincinnati as a young adult. But he remained a lifelong Cincinnati Reds fan, and though he lost interest in sports later in life, baseball and the Reds were always close to his heart. It is fitting that his niche contains both Reds and Kintetsu Buffaloes baseball hats. I think this was because not only did Dad grow up with baseball, but also because the game had qualities he loved; a game played at a leisurely pace on sunshine filled days, with innumerable strategies, signals, and nuances that time didn’t change. He loved to go to a game, keep score, have a few beers, and comment on the ever-familiar movements.
Sad to say the Reds had another mediocre year. But there’s always next year – and as Dad used to say “In Spring Training everyone’s a 300 hitter”. I look forward to it.
Dad was the quintessential San Franciscan in many ways, leaving his boyhood home of Cincinnati as a young adult. But he remained a lifelong Cincinnati Reds fan, and though he lost interest in sports later in life, baseball and the Reds were always close to his heart. It is fitting that his niche contains both Reds and Kintetsu Buffaloes baseball hats. I think this was because not only did Dad grow up with baseball, but also because the game had qualities he loved; a game played at a leisurely pace on sunshine filled days, with innumerable strategies, signals, and nuances that time didn’t change. He loved to go to a game, keep score, have a few beers, and comment on the ever-familiar movements.
Sad to say the Reds had another mediocre year. But there’s always next year – and as Dad used to say “In Spring Training everyone’s a 300 hitter”. I look forward to it.
Dad's Back Home
August 6, 2019
On July 11, 2019, one year after our father’s passing, we held a memorial to assemble his niche at the San Francisco Columbarium.We had five attendees:Brian Negley (son), Jeanne Negley (daughter), John Faustini (Jeanne’s husband), Charmian Cohen (dear family friend), and Dan Kelly (Dad’s business associate and friend).We told stories about Dad, and then we turned to the box of items assembled and shipped by our mother, Maryanna Negley.
The San Francisco Columbarium may be different from what you would expect from most places of internment. In the stately glass-walled boxes holding urns, it is acceptable, if not encouraged to include memorabilia in the niche.The box shipped by our mother held many souvenirs from my father’s time in Air Force in the Korean War, including a Japanese porcelain Buddha, his dog tags, Air Force Coffee Card, and ticket stubs to a baseball game in Japan.We also had his Cincinnati Red’s and Kintetsu Buffalo’s baseball caps.We took turns arranging items in the niche.John started by hanging 3M hooks that would hold a baseball cap, Dan provided direction on hanging the dog tags, Charmian suggested placing the urn on top of the Jim Fixx Running Journal and Bible, Brian fixated on placing a picture of Dad with a beer in his hand next to a coaster from the Merchant’s Exchange Club that stated “Friendship does not flower in an empty glass,”and Jeanne found a place for the Buddha in the center of the niche.We marveled at the Korean War era “folding nickel” and found a place to tape it to the niche wall.Horse racing tickets, a Cincinnati Red’s baseball ticket, a letter from our mother, a 2002 Pyrotechnics International conference badge, a 1950’s Ashiya Officer’s match box, and 1973 lawyer’s cartoon all found their places.
The final touch was the placement of the original picture used in his memorial program and on this web site at the base of the cobalt blue urn.We stopped and looked around at the surrounding niches.Dad’s niche had more stuff than the others, and it seemed appropriate for him.Dad looked at home in his new setting.The San Francisco Twins had a new picture in their niche; it was larger, and their faces were more easily seen.
We next went to the Magic Flute on Van Ness, a short distance from the Columbarium. The Magic Flute is a restaurant Dad took Brian and Jeanne to brunch in October 2015.We initiated brunch with Prosecco and a toast to Dad.We enjoyed each other’s company, learned about each other’s work and interests.Charmian was asked twice if she was from London.“No, Manchester.Manchester United is my team.”After our brunch, Dan needed to go to work, so we said our good byes, and the four remaining drove to Marin to walk along the Tennessee Valley Trail.We talked about friendships, politics, the perfect weather, and the beauty of where the sky meets the Pacific Ocean in the valley.
Charmian drove back home through the City, remembering the time she lived there.Brian retreated to his hotel in the avenues and fog, and John and I returned to our friend’s home in the Oakland Hills. Our route took us through downtown San Francisco, and down Battery Street.Battery Street: where the One California bus ended its route, where I walked with Dad many times to the Embarcadero when he had his office there, to the Hyatt Regency for lunch, or Walgreens for his medications.It will always be his City to me.
The San Francisco Columbarium may be different from what you would expect from most places of internment. In the stately glass-walled boxes holding urns, it is acceptable, if not encouraged to include memorabilia in the niche.The box shipped by our mother held many souvenirs from my father’s time in Air Force in the Korean War, including a Japanese porcelain Buddha, his dog tags, Air Force Coffee Card, and ticket stubs to a baseball game in Japan.We also had his Cincinnati Red’s and Kintetsu Buffalo’s baseball caps.We took turns arranging items in the niche.John started by hanging 3M hooks that would hold a baseball cap, Dan provided direction on hanging the dog tags, Charmian suggested placing the urn on top of the Jim Fixx Running Journal and Bible, Brian fixated on placing a picture of Dad with a beer in his hand next to a coaster from the Merchant’s Exchange Club that stated “Friendship does not flower in an empty glass,”and Jeanne found a place for the Buddha in the center of the niche.We marveled at the Korean War era “folding nickel” and found a place to tape it to the niche wall.Horse racing tickets, a Cincinnati Red’s baseball ticket, a letter from our mother, a 2002 Pyrotechnics International conference badge, a 1950’s Ashiya Officer’s match box, and 1973 lawyer’s cartoon all found their places.
The final touch was the placement of the original picture used in his memorial program and on this web site at the base of the cobalt blue urn.We stopped and looked around at the surrounding niches.Dad’s niche had more stuff than the others, and it seemed appropriate for him.Dad looked at home in his new setting.The San Francisco Twins had a new picture in their niche; it was larger, and their faces were more easily seen.
We next went to the Magic Flute on Van Ness, a short distance from the Columbarium. The Magic Flute is a restaurant Dad took Brian and Jeanne to brunch in October 2015.We initiated brunch with Prosecco and a toast to Dad.We enjoyed each other’s company, learned about each other’s work and interests.Charmian was asked twice if she was from London.“No, Manchester.Manchester United is my team.”After our brunch, Dan needed to go to work, so we said our good byes, and the four remaining drove to Marin to walk along the Tennessee Valley Trail.We talked about friendships, politics, the perfect weather, and the beauty of where the sky meets the Pacific Ocean in the valley.
Charmian drove back home through the City, remembering the time she lived there.Brian retreated to his hotel in the avenues and fog, and John and I returned to our friend’s home in the Oakland Hills. Our route took us through downtown San Francisco, and down Battery Street.Battery Street: where the One California bus ended its route, where I walked with Dad many times to the Embarcadero when he had his office there, to the Hyatt Regency for lunch, or Walgreens for his medications.It will always be his City to me.