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Dear All:  This website has been created to celebrate and remember our beloved Charles Negley, who passed away July 11, 2018, just one month before his 86th birthday.  A biography is included on the "life" tab and pictures and video are on the "gallery"  tab - be sure to check out the video!

We welcome friends and family to add to this website through tributes, photos, and stories. We interred his ashes on the one-year anniversary of his death, July 11, 2019, at the San Francisco Columbarium (1 Loraine Ct, San Francisco, CA 94118, Hall of Olympians, Athena Room). You are welcome to visit his niche that contains his ashes and memorabilia (most of it from the 1950's).  
Thank you for helping us celebrate Charles' life.  If you have any problems adding content to this site, please contact us.  And again, please have a look at the video, as it's a great run through the life of Charles!
Best wishes,

The Negley Family

August 6, 2023
August 6, 2023
Happy 92st birthday, Dad. Hope your world is full of great music, margarita pizza, and baseball games. All of the times that I enjoy these things, I think of you.
July 11, 2023
July 11, 2023
It's now been 5 years since Dad passed. It's beginning to feel like a long time, as the passing of time distances me from the immediacy of experiences with him. 

Yet I still think of Dad everyday, running through imaginary discourses with him on a plurality of topics. I'm reminded of this passage from Longfellow:

Lives of great men all remind us
  We can make our lives sublime,
And, departing, leave behind us
  Footprints on the sands of time
August 6, 2022
August 6, 2022
Happy 90th, Dad! Plan to have margarita pizza and a glass of red wine in your honor tonight.
August 6, 2022
August 6, 2022
Thinking of Dad on his birthday today. As my sister Jeanne noted, today marks 90 years since his birth in 1932.
July 11, 2022
July 11, 2022
Thanks, Brian, for setting up this website! I think of Dad in my everyday behaviors--exrecising in the morning, having breakfast while reading the newspaper. I miss you, Dad, and I know you would not have liked COVID, being cooped up, not going to performances, not seeing your city.
July 11, 2022
July 11, 2022
Though it's been 4 years, I still think of Dad every day. The on-going conversation that I have with him in my mind is a comfort. I miss him greatly.
August 6, 2021
August 6, 2021
Happy Birthday, Dad. You have a new great grandson, and we know you would love him.
August 6, 2021
August 6, 2021
Remembering Dad again particularly on his birthday.....Happy Birthday Dad!
July 11, 2021
July 11, 2021
Sending love and light to Brian and Jeanne, on this solemn day. Charlie will always missed. We had some wonderful times together that stay in my heart.
July 11, 2021
July 11, 2021
Today is a sad day, as it marks the anniversary of Dad's passing. Life has steadily marched on, and I as I imagine the rest of Dad's loved ones have all become engrossed in the day to day exigencies of life. Yet I still think of him daily; as I noted last year it's rarely about things we did together, or even what he looked like. Rather it's a continuing dialog I try to have with him, and imaging what he would say or experiences he would share in the long echo of silence that envelopes these conversations.
July 11, 2020
July 11, 2020
Two years goes so fast. I fondly remember the times I had with Charlie. We went to the SF symphony frequently. The photo with the crown on his head was from a New Year's Eve symphony with a party afterwards. You think those days are never going to end, but sadly they do. You'll always be in my heart, Charlie.
July 11, 2020
July 11, 2020
I think of you often Charlie. Sitting in the kitchen on the heater register in the morning while you are reading the newspaper. Or when you came to save "us" after the accident at A & W. You were the calm in that rocky storm.
July 10, 2020
July 10, 2020
Today marks the 2nd anniversary of Dad's passing. It just doesn't seem that long. I think of him everyday, and when I do it's not so much the things we did together but the things he said I remember. I often ask myself what Dad would say to me about any number of things I am thinking about or going through. When I imagine the answer, I sometimes selfishly wish I could have him back just for a few fleeting moments, so we could talk again.
July 11, 2019
July 11, 2019
Love to all who think of Charlie, today and always! Charlie was my second dad, as the family was connected before the kids were around. He had a great sense of humor, calm in chaos, and I don't know if I ever thanked him for the A & W incident.
Peace, love, and light!
March 28, 2019
March 28, 2019
I am particularly saddened by Charlie's passing as I knew him as one of the nicest people I had gotten to know through our insurance business connections. I still work in London and got to know Charlie through his many business visits. Unfortunately I had lost contact with him but knew from others that he was around and enjoying himself. The wonderful picture gallery brings back many memories of our meetings and his great sense of humour. Please accept my late condolences.
October 30, 2018
October 30, 2018
I worked with Charlie for a number of years. He made work fun. Charlie was a gentleman from another time that encompassed elegance, grace and wit. He is missed.
October 12, 2018
October 12, 2018
It is three months since I lost my dad. Today, I posted today my favorite picture of him that I keep at my desk at work.  I miss him and think of him all the time. Thank you to everyone that has helped me and my family.
September 5, 2018
September 5, 2018
Posting for Kathy Wall. She says that she will think fondly of Uncle Charlie. "He was always so kind and gracious. Both Uncle Charlie and Aunt Maryanna always opened their doors to me when I was younger. He was serious, but could crack a joke also!
Uncle Charlie, I will miss you always!!! You are in my heart!"
August 14, 2018
August 14, 2018
I loved takin g Charlie to the Music and seeing him light up and really smile he so enjoyed the Singing Sparrow and rock music I missed taking for cake and icecream Peace Sandy Otto
August 6, 2018
August 6, 2018
I'm so sorry to hear the news. Your dad has been such a loyal client for so many years. I will miss hearing his cheerful voice. Your tribute to him is so touching! You did a great job. I'm thinking of him on his special day, today, and wish him and all his family the very best.
August 6, 2018
August 6, 2018
So sorry to receive this news I spent many hours with Charlie at the Firework conventions that he and I visited throughout the U.S.A.
It was always my pleasure to invite him to lunch, and see the expression on his face, when he found out I had booked the Hard Rock café!! again, knowing his love for classical music. he was a special friend. We always joked about "never destroy a generous impulse" and Friendship cannot flower in an empty glass". Charlie you never left me with an empty glass.
R.I.P my friend
August 6, 2018
August 6, 2018
Charlie and I worked together for a number of years on the Lloyds fireworks program. We traveled to Fargo, Mason City and London together. He was a great mentor, a wonderful guy and a true gentleman. He brought joy to the practice of law and enjoyed every minute of it. He also set a great example of how to remain intellectually curious, constantly learning new things and sharing them with others. He will be missed. RIP Charlie.
August 6, 2018
August 6, 2018
Charlie and I saw each other for 5 years in the late 90’s. He was warm, generous and kind. He opened his world to me, attending the symphony, opera and musicals. I last saw him in 2013 I think; we met for lunch in SF and caught up. I really thought we’d be each other’s second spouse, but that was not meant to be. He’ll always have a special place in my heart.
August 5, 2018
August 5, 2018
Bbq's, get-to-gethers, snow trips, plays in the family room- Charlie was cheering the kids on! I will be celebrating him tomorrow!
August 4, 2018
August 4, 2018
Dad came so close to making it to what would have been his 86th birthday, which is this coming Monday. I'll be thinking of him and toasting him on that day!
August 3, 2018
August 3, 2018
Uncle Charlie was a GREAT dancer and I remember him as an intellectual and,
at the same time a ton of FUN. RIP Uncle Charlie, Godspeed.
August 3, 2018
August 3, 2018
August 6 is Dad's birthday, and I plan to take the day off, have some pizza Margheirita and a glass of Sangiovese (a favorite meal) to remember him.

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August 6, 2023
August 6, 2023
Happy 92st birthday, Dad. Hope your world is full of great music, margarita pizza, and baseball games. All of the times that I enjoy these things, I think of you.
July 11, 2023
July 11, 2023
It's now been 5 years since Dad passed. It's beginning to feel like a long time, as the passing of time distances me from the immediacy of experiences with him. 

Yet I still think of Dad everyday, running through imaginary discourses with him on a plurality of topics. I'm reminded of this passage from Longfellow:

Lives of great men all remind us
  We can make our lives sublime,
And, departing, leave behind us
  Footprints on the sands of time
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Dad's Book--Adventures in the Land of the Folding Nickel (Japan) including the Suez Faisco

May 1, 2019

In cleaning out Dad's things, I found that he had plans to write a 12-section book.  The title of the book is "Adventures in the Land of the Folding Nickel (Japan) including the Suez Fiasco, which was called by some the Suez Crisis

Premise -- How I managed to blunder through 2 plus years as an aviation maintenance officer without causing death or injury

Outline of book

1.  The Suez Fiasco
2.  How It Started -- R.O.T. C.
3.  To Active Duty- September 1954--loafing at Lackland A.F.B.
4.  Non Mechanical Me an Aircraft Maintenance Officer?  Yes!  Off to school at Rantoul Tech Chanute Airbase, Rantul, Illinois
5.  From Rantoul to Tokyo via Hawaii and Wake Island and on to Ashiya Air Base in Kyushu
6.  Life in the Land of the Folding Nickel.  Here I serve in Ashiya.
7.  Two weeks in Korea--Kee--Kee Kee Keoria--I want to go Pee Pee Pee Peoria!
8.  A serious moment Airplane crashes of planes from Ashiya
9.  Trips Hong Kong, Bangkok (via Vietnam) and Manila
10.  Time is up in Ashiya -- back to the Land of the Big PX
11.  Discharged from Active Duty at Parks AIr Base --- The Bar Sinister
12. Conclusion




Thesis (Intro, Charles' Memoirs)

November 11, 2018

[Note:  this section was handwritten and included with the typewritten chapters.]

When I arrived at Ashiya Air Force Base in Southern Japan in 1955, I wanted to do a good job as an Aircraft Maintenance Officer.  But I was concerned, that despite my training at an Air Force School, I was not suited for the job.

I am an unmechanical person. I had never owned a car and never tinkered with anything.  I was OK at the school until we got to the hands on stuff, where I had a real problem.  I decided to attack the problem from a different direction, rather than being hands on I would be more reserved on the job.

It worked out OK mainly because of the cooperation of a very good humored LINC Chief (the services now concedes officer.). We worked it out so that he took care of the planes with only minimum interference from me, and I took care of the mound of paperwork (which he hated).  This worked out OK.  Nobody got killed or hurt because of my acts or omissions.

The Suez Fiasco (Part 1 of 12)

May 1, 2019

It was about September of 1955 when I arrived in Tokyo, flush from completing a nine month course to be a "qualified as an Aircraft Maintenance Officer."  It was a serious blunder of the Air Force to waste this time and training on me.  My mechanical ability was pretty well restricted to screwing in a light bulb.  But it turned out that I failed the flight physical, borderline color blind, and they had a need for Maintenance officers.  My objections were "noted" and ignored.  So off I went to Aircraft maintenance Officer school at Chanute Field, Rantoul, Illinois.

I hooked up with a couple of guys who also were going to assignments in Kyushu, and we got the train to the station.  We go to the correct train and had about an 11 hour trip before us to get to Oongagawa, the closest town to Ashiya.  This was long before the Japanese high speed trains.

After being underway for a relatively short time we had to get off the train and on to another train.  The new train went the inland route, and the first train was scheduled to go down the coast.  The weather was foul, heavy rain and wind and we were approaching the Typhoon season.  The transfer of trains was wild.  The Japanese apparently thought that there was a shortage of space on the new trains.  Those rumors were false but my companions and I got pretty well run over with our baggage by screaming Japanese.

Once we got settled on the new train we were very happy to see it had a multitude of butch boys to serve food and drink -- INCLUDING BEER.  We settled into our trek with many bottles of Nippon beer.  Being true to our calling to be ugly Americans, each bottle rated a toast of "Sip" on a Nippon to feel your level best."

We finally arrived in Oonagawa, a small railroad junction town, and got a cab to Ashiya Air Base (about 15 miles).

Ashiya had been a Japanese Fighter base in the war.  Americans turned it into a base for C119s Flying Boxcars.  These were cargo paratrooper and airborne infantry planes.

The C119 was a 2 engine plane.  Prop engines no jets yet for transports.  Each engine was mounted on a boom that went to the tail section.  The cockpit and cargo--troop section was in a pod in the middle of the plane.  The cockpit was about 6 feet in front of the engines.  The left door was about two feet in from the left engine, making it very easy to lose your head if you went through that door while the props were turning.

The strip for take offs was marginal (short) for planes the size of a C119, but we made do with it (more later on the short field takeoff).

I was assigned to a squadron as assistant Maintenance Officer.  The maintenance office was  pilot and fine gentlemen and it was a pleasure to work for him.  He gave me certain duties to keep me busy.  Mostly paper work.  There was a log for every plane.  Any work on the plane had to be recorded.  Serious matters were marked with a red X and it took the signature of the maintenance officer or assistant maintenance officer to clear those entries when repairs had been made.

So I fiddle around with my duties.  I eventually become Maintenance Officer and held that job for a long time until I was passed to Wing -- the next level up to be assistant maintenance officer there.  This was not a promotion as we were having trouble keeping enough planes flying.

I don't believe I had yet been transferred to Wing, when the Suez Fiasco occurred.  We were called together for a meeting.  After a few words about the problems in the Mideast.  It is my recollection that we were told that Nasser had seized the Suez canal and the British and French were going into military action to get it back.  I can't recall if we were told that the Israelis also had invaded.  Then the hammer.  We were told we should immediately get yellow fever shots, which were required for the Mideast but not in Japan.

We were restricted to the base until further notice and told to prepare to fly to the Mideast to help the Egyptians flight the British and French!  There was stunned silence, and then a long drawn out "WHAT."  But we were told to shut up and obey orders.

I got my shot and my arm was sore for a few days, about the length of time for the Suez Fiasco to play out.  Of most concern was a the rumor that we were not sending ground troops or enough ground troops to guard the airfields were we would be operating. But not to worry.  We would be protected by the flower of the Egyptian Army.  That gave me a lot of comfort, with the British and French paratroops hurrying to see who would be the first to stick a bayonet in my rear end!

But in a few days, it all went away.

Here is what I later pieced together.  President Eisenhower and British Prime Minister Eden had tentatively agreed to guaranteeing the funds to Egypt to build the Aswan Dam.  Then they pulled out when further studies convinced them that this was too risky.

Nasser promptly went to the Russians who agreed to the funding.  He was still angry with the British.  Nasser and Eden hated each other.  To follow up with British Nasser seized the Suez Canal and nationalized it.  The Canal was operated by a private company whose shareholders were mostly British and French.  Their equity was now worthless, and the British and French employees who ran the canal were fired.  But the Egyptians were able to handle the Canal with no problems.

Eisenhower was proposing settlement talks and possible mediation.  He was not told that Britain, France, and Israel made secret plans to invade Egypt.  Nasser agreed to operate the Canal as an International waterway, but Egypt would get income from its operation.

The British and French proposed that Egypt and Israel withdraw their troops behind lines in the vicinity of the canal with British and French troops to occupy the Canal and its immediate surroundings.  This made no sense.  By this time the Israelis had invaded, but they were a long way from the Canal.  The Egyptians were in control of the Canal and its surrounding land, so they rejected this proposal.  The Egyptians sank some ships in the Canal, preventing passage by other ships.  At about this time, Eden began to realize his problem.  Most British oil imports came by tanker through the Canal.

The British and French bombed Egyptian airfields and other military targets on October 30 and 31, 1955.  British and French troops landed in Port Said on November 5.  But Britain and France accepted a cease fire by midnight on November 6.  The UN was bustling about and finally got the partners to agree to a ceasefire.  Eisenhower helped by putting a run on the British pound by having his treasury people sell English pounds.

Everything sorted out.  The shareholders got payment for their equity in about a year.  The English and French withdrew their military forces in short order.  So did the Israelis, except it took them longer to clear out to Gaza.

The Egyptian military had nothing to brag about.  But that seemed to make little differences.  Nasser had successfully stood up to Britain and France.

The big loser was Eden.  He was in poor health, and was not in power very long after this Fiasco.  The timing was poor.  Just a few years before, England had to hand over to India the right to run their own Country.  Now the English colonial were passing away.  

Guy Mollet was a prime minister of France.  Little was heard from him.  It seemed like France was just along for the ride.  After the Fiasco was over, it appears he did better than the British in salvaging something for his country, in the Mideast.

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Another Season Ends

October 6, 2019
Yet another season of baseball has come to an end.  For me - more than his birthday or date of passing - this time of year brings me to think about Dad.

Dad was the quintessential San Franciscan in many ways, leaving his boyhood home of Cincinnati as a young adult.  But he remained a lifelong Cincinnati Reds fan, and though he lost interest in sports later in life, baseball and the Reds were always close to his heart.  It is fitting that his niche contains both Reds and Kintetsu Buffaloes baseball hats.  I think this was because not only did Dad grow up with baseball, but also because the game had qualities he loved; a game played at a leisurely pace on sunshine filled days, with innumerable strategies, signals, and nuances that time didn’t change.  He loved to go to a game, keep score, have a few beers, and comment on the ever-familiar movements.

Sad to say the Reds had another mediocre year.  But there’s always next year – and as Dad used to say “In Spring Training everyone’s a 300 hitter”. I look forward to it.

Dad's Back Home

August 6, 2019
On July 11, 2019, one year after our father’s passing, we held a memorial to assemble his niche at the San Francisco Columbarium.We had five attendees:Brian Negley (son), Jeanne Negley (daughter), John Faustini (Jeanne’s husband), Charmian Cohen (dear family friend), and Dan Kelly (Dad’s business associate and friend).We told stories about Dad, and then we turned to the box of items assembled and shipped by our mother, Maryanna Negley.

The San Francisco Columbarium may be different from what you would expect from most places of internment. In the stately glass-walled boxes holding urns, it is acceptable, if not encouraged to include memorabilia in the niche.The box shipped by our mother held many souvenirs from my father’s time in Air Force in the Korean War, including a Japanese porcelain Buddha, his dog tags, Air Force Coffee Card, and ticket stubs to a baseball game in Japan.We also had his Cincinnati Red’s and Kintetsu Buffalo’s baseball caps.We took turns arranging items in the niche.John started by hanging 3M hooks that would hold a baseball cap, Dan provided direction on hanging the dog tags, Charmian suggested placing the urn on top of the Jim Fixx Running Journal and Bible, Brian fixated on placing a picture of Dad with a beer in his hand next to a coaster from the Merchant’s Exchange Club that stated “Friendship does not flower in an empty glass,”and Jeanne found a place for the Buddha in the center of the niche.We marveled at the Korean War era “folding nickel” and found a place to tape it to the niche wall.Horse racing tickets, a Cincinnati Red’s baseball ticket, a letter from our mother, a 2002 Pyrotechnics International conference badge, a 1950’s Ashiya Officer’s match box, and 1973 lawyer’s cartoon all found their places.

The final touch was the placement of the original picture used in his memorial program and on this web site at the base of the cobalt blue urn.We stopped and looked around at the surrounding niches.Dad’s niche had more stuff than the others, and it seemed appropriate for him.Dad looked at home in his new setting.The San Francisco Twins had a new picture in their niche; it was larger, and their faces were more easily seen.

We next went to the Magic Flute on Van Ness, a short distance from the Columbarium. The Magic Flute is a restaurant Dad took Brian and Jeanne to brunch in October 2015.We initiated brunch with Prosecco and a toast to Dad.We enjoyed each other’s company, learned about each other’s work and interests.Charmian was asked twice if she was from London.“No, Manchester.Manchester United is my team.”After our brunch, Dan needed to go to work, so we said our good byes, and the four remaining drove to Marin to walk along the Tennessee Valley Trail.We talked about friendships, politics, the perfect weather, and the beauty of where the sky meets the Pacific Ocean in the valley.

Charmian drove back home through the City, remembering the time she lived there.Brian retreated to his hotel in the avenues and fog, and John and I returned to our friend’s home in the Oakland Hills. Our route took us through downtown San Francisco, and down Battery Street.Battery Street: where the One California bus ended its route, where I walked with Dad many times to the Embarcadero when he had his office there, to the Hyatt Regency for lunch, or Walgreens for his medications.It will always be his City to me.

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