Wow !! Am still shocked to learn about ur sudden dismissal.. Chaii; is this how life is?? Though we had our differences when u were alive; But your a man with big heart.. You took me like ur own sister and guided me through. You never got tired of advising and cautioning me at any given time.
Last time i saw you, you were full of life as usual, I still can't believe you are no more with us. Am just short of words..
Today would have been a huge celebration. You would have turned 40 today. We had plans. It would have been a double celebration for you and for our daughter, who is turning one this month . But now it is filled with so much hurt and pain for me.
You are ever present in our hearts. You will NEVER be forgotten. We love you! Your kids misses you everyday. sleep on my love! Till the day we meet again
Ogo, Today, March 24th, 2016 would have been your big 40th Birthday Celebration on this earth. You left us nothing but our imagination asking why. You are still very much alive in our hearts and in each family gathering, each holiday, each birthday, you are very much present!
I woke up this morning with the thought of calling your cell phone and it dawned on me that you're truly gone; then, I decided to write about you, the missing puzzle in the family.
Since you've been gone, it's not been easy. You were the broker in the family and I feel like the one that truly cares for me and everyone else is gone. You were the one that calls me, hugs me, comments my good looks, never criticizes me, respects me, loves my family, and encourages me. In you I found a brother and a friend. Whenever am around you, I never felt different because you are so proud of me!
Since you've been gone, I feel all alone. I will never hear that gentle and subtle voice that calls me, Nne. I will never get that call again from Ogo asking me for directions and opinions. I will never hear that voice that pulls me closer and tells me how much am loved even when I don't feel so. You are the missing puzzle in the family and no ONE is too calm to fill your shoes. My heart has been broken and disbursed abroad because ...........(left unsaid.)
Even though I appear strong, I sometimes feel fragile. But I know that the book of Deuteronomy 31:6 reminded us that the LORD our God is with us and he will never leave us nor forsake us.
When you look down, please let not your heart be troubled because God will fix it! I want you to Rest In Peace!!! Nothing is too small for God to do. I believe that with his grace, we will find strength to move on as we deal with the grief of your passing.
Missing you Greatly,
Chichi, Nne Your Big Sis
I can vividly remember a friend in unizik in the late 90's called Amicable from unubi who always extol ogo's large heart and philantropism. He will tell me how the young lad would reach out to the needy anytime he visits and moreso how he had single handedly sponsored fòotball competition among youths in unubi. Ogo your kindness knew no bounds. Your offsprings will enjoy divine and limitless favour not yet known to mankind. May you continue to rejoice with Angels until the trumpet sounds.Adieu Great Man
Ogoo calls her 'Ada Egbe'. He loves his only daughter fiercely.
I know you are watching over her. She will grow up knowing what a wonderful person you were.
Haha, Remember how quiet you were as a little boy. You were loved, never fights or gets in trouble, hence grandma's nickname for you "Nnanwuruede" meaning quite cat, lol! Hope you've seen her in heaven and I wish big mama is still praying for you. We pray for you on earth as well and cover you with the blood of Jesus Christ. Rest in peace and let no evil principalities, powers, or spiritual wickedness see your spirit in Jesus name, Amen!
