Charlie was in Germany on a sabbatical when I was first getting to know the Doerings through Evan in 2005. I spent time with Paula and Emily and John and Adri and Tom and Sophie (no Vivi yet!), feeling very special to be in their fold at Woodlawn, before I ever met Charlie. I remember being worried before he returned to Ann Arbor - would my new boyfriend's dad be intimidating?? Ha! He was not. He was the warmest, most wonderful high school boyfriend's dad (a specific but important role!!) I ever could have known or spent time with. Charlie took Emily, John, Evan and I skiing in Colorado - brave man, him against 4 hormonal teens. I did not know how to ski and it is to his credit that I made it off the mountain - he was a kind and patient teacher (and most importantly, he bought me lessons...).
Paula and Charlie hosted me in Woods Hole several summers and some of my most beautiful memories of high school and growing up are from those visits.
When I left to go to college, I was heartbroken, to leave my family, Ann Arbor, my friends, Evan and his family. In my first week of school, desperately homesick, I checked my email and had a message from Charlie - a brief but loving "keep your chin up!" and a link to, what else, a Grateful Dead song. I wish I could remember what track it was. But it was exactly what I needed to get up and go to the caf.
He was so generous and one-of-a-kind and I will miss him so much.
Love to Paula, Evan, Emily, John, Arlo, Adri, Tom, Sophie, Vivi, and everyone else who will miss Charlie (so, everyone who ever met him).
Love,
Frannie