Charles William “Bud” Becker, 82, of Goodells, Michigan died Friday, March 18, in his home.
Charles Becker was born September 16, 1933 in Grand Rapids, Michigan to the late Edward Gustav and Helen Grace Becker. While attending Marysville High School he began working at a local bakery, which became the start of a lifelong interest. After graduating, he enlisted in the Armed Services where he served as baker for two years. He then baked for the St. Clair County Medical Center and taught at Marysville High School. In 1960 he married Mary Sue Hodge of Snover, Michigan, who preceded him in death in 1977. In 1962 he earned his Master’s Degree in Education Administration from Michigan State University.
After opening and operating the Memphis Meat Market and Bakery for five years, Mr. Becker began teaching at Memphis High School where he taught Michigan, U.S. and World History. After several years of teaching, he became principal of Memphis Middle School, during which time he also served as Wales Township Supervisor. In 1978 he married Louise Kay (Parker) Eldred. He sold insurance for Farm Bureau after taking a break from education, but returned to teach at Memphis for several more years. He was also a member of the Memphis Lions Club.
While growing up in the country, Bud developed a love for nature, gardening, farming and keeping livestock. After moving to a small farm in Goodells in 1961 he was able to realize his interests and hobbies. At various points during fifty-five wonderful years he enjoyed keeping two-hundred sheep, milking four Brown Swiss cows and raising several Black Angus cattle. In addition to livestock, he also dug and stocked two ponds, tended three large gardens and enjoyed his own bend of Pine River. Later in his life he enjoyed collecting tractors, raising catfish, watching movies and reading. He also volunteered his time at Marwood Nursing and Rehab.
He is survived by his wife, Louise Kay Becker, and the five children they raised together: sons Craig Becker of Goodells; Kevin (Gayle) Becker of Rockton, Illinois; daughter Amy (Dave) Wahls of Goodells; and sons Christopher (Tyra) Becker of Ann Arbor and Jeffery Eldred of Chesterfield; seven grandchildren: Simeon, Cassielle, Olivia, James, Anna, Christina and Astrid; brother Robert (Jackie) of Crosslake, Minnesota, aunt Viola (Ernest) Heim, and many cousins, nieces and nephews.
The family would like to thank the staffs at McLaren Hospital, Marwood Nursing and Rehab, and the Visiting Nurses Association and Blue Water Hospice for their care and dedication.
Cremation has taken place.
Tributes
Leave a tributeMr. Becker you were a great man and principal... I think and tell people all the time about life lessons I learned from you when I was in Memphis Middle School and will continue telling them... Praying for your family and friends during this difficult time... Thanks for making me a better person... RIP Mr. Becker
Dave French - March 19
I am praying for Mr. Becker and your family. I was a student of his and later knew him as a fellow teacher. He was an outstanding person who I thought very highly of. As a student, I was in his class when President Kennedy was shot and like all things, he handled the situation with compassion and caring.
John Knuth - March 27
March 27, 2016
I remember Bud from when I was a pre-teen. My mother and I would go to that first bakery that he worked at while he was at MHS. He always remembered how much my father and I loved his jelly donuts and he would take them in the back and fill them chock full, almost to the point of exploding, with jelly. I've never had a good jelly donut since then! He was a good neighbor and friend who lived next to us on Gratiot Rd. through the 70s. My sincerest sympathies to his family and friends.
Connie Demeter
March 28, 2016
Craig and Kevin.. I will be lifting you and your family members up in prayer as you mourn the loss of your father. May he rest in peace.
Eric Payton
Cheri Messenger-Nicholas
Rest in peace "Mr. Becker."
It was pure chance that I ever met Bud Becker. It only happened because his son Christopher married my daughter Tyra in Ann Arbor. So Joan and I had occasion to visit Bud and Louise in the wilds of northern Michigan.
Here are some impressions from my visits to the bucolic Becker farm:
I sensed Bud's quiet pride in the lovely home that (at least in part) he had designed and built himself.
I admired Bud's story-telling skills as he recounted a striking variety of accomplishments and adventures from much earlier in his life.
During an overnight visit many years ago, Bud was very spiffy in the morning: freshly washed and shaved, sparkling clean clothes, alert and energetic. Impressed by such vitality so early in the day, I asked him how he had slept. "Not very well," he answered, "I barely get to sleep, and then the shoulders start to burning..." His usual chipper persona masked a lot of pain and sleep deprivation, but he clearly didn't find it appropriate to complain.
Bud and I both enjoyed watching birds at our feeders: his in St.Clair County and mine in Sullivan County (NY). In my experience, most people don't particularly like crows at their feeders because they scare away smaller birds and eat a lot. But I recall Bud saying that crows were his favorite bird "because they're so smart."
Finally, one day Bud showed me an enormous length of new corrugated steel drain pipe (several feet in diameter and perhaps 12 to 15 feet long). The pipe was on the ground near the house, to be installed at one of his ponds hundreds of feet away. When I asked him how on earth he would move the giant pipe, he looked at me for a moment before saying simply, "I'm a farmer." His answer was perfect: for him it was a obvious statement of fact, and (to the extent that I was a clueless city-slicker from Manhattan) it was a polite and gentle put-down.
I'm much more tolerant of crows now, Bud.
-Steve Johnston
[Astrid's other Grampa]
We are so very sorry for your loss. May the God of all comfort draw you close to Himself at this difficult time.
Dan and Margaret Thompson
Deckerville
my deepest condolences to the Becker family.
I did not have the honor of personally knowing Mr Becker, however
this tribute speaks beautifully as to the wonderful man he was
and how he is so loved. Blessings and prayers
My entire family shares in your loss.
My deep condolences to the Becker family for your loss. You remain in my thoughts and prayers.
I have a great memory of Mr. Becker ("Chaaaaarles!") and here it is: A few years back, I went to the farm for dinner and Euchre. I hadn't played Euchre in YEARS (in my experience, people in California don't play cards as much as they do in Michigan) but Mr. Becker claimed me for his teammate and we were off and running. (Truth be told, I was a nervous wreck...Mr. Becker was quite serious about his Euchre.)
Anyway, at some point, I looked at my hand and thought I might actually be able to take it alone. I spoke up and said as much, which pretty much brought Mr. Becker's eyeballs out of his head... lol... he had no faith in me. But I had a really great hand, so I stood my ground. Mr. Becker got a little twinkle in his eye and said, "Okaaay... let's see what you've got." (That really made me nervous.)
Long story short, I took it, we got our four points, and Mr. Becker could NOT have been prouder. We hooted and hollered as if we'd just won the lottery. What a great night.
And speaking of the lottery... I'll tell you when I actually did win the lottery... 40 years ago this fall, my first day of high school, homeroom, when Craig sat behind me. Craig became, and has remained, my oldest/truest/dearest friend.
Craig, you made the decision to return to Michigan to help your family, culminating with these last few months in Goodells, helping your dad and Louise. In the story of your life, I truly believe your presence at your dad's side will be one of your (and his) most cherished memories.
I'm so deeply sorry for your family's loss, and I'm here for whatever you need. See you soon, buddy. I love you. XO
-Kimberly Brown
Bud was my daughter Tyra Johnston's father-in-law. We didn't know him well, but the several times we met we enjoyed his company, his enthusiasm for growing and raising things and our tours around his property.
He fought a good fight and we hope he rests in peace.