My fondest memories of Cheryl were thinking she was our ‘big sister.’ All that time she spent living with us, I never knew she was our Auntie until she had moved out and was living her life. How cool was that!!!
Here is one memory of Auntie…
It was Friday, April 5, 1968, the day after Dr. Martin Luther King was assassinated and Chicago and other cities exploded with rage, rioting and destroying everything. I don’t remember the time, but It was Cheryl who picked me up from school on that faithful day. I was scared, hiding in the bathroom where my teacher found me and handed me off to my ‘big sister’ Cheryl and feeling afraid for my teacher as she tried to remain calm. I could see that she was terrified, and I remember hoping that someone would come get her, too.
Cheryl took me home, which was across the street from Manierre Elementary and told me to be good and stay put, while she went to get Shellene and Kenneth. We lived on the 5th floor of Old Town Garden apartments, near Old Town. From the kitchen window I could see the chaos that was happening in the city. Pockets of smoke filling the sky just up the street and across the city and the constant sound of sirens resonating in the distance. I was 6 years old alone, scared, and trying my best to be brave. I stayed in that kitchen window (I didn’t move), watching and waiting to see familiar faces from my safe place. And there she was with Kenneth and Shellene running across the street. I was so glad to see them. I was so happy that our ‘big sister’ saved us. Now the wait for Momma. Cheryl made dinner and kept company with us, until Momma made it home safely from work, comforting and reassuring us that things will be alright, and they were. It was you who calmed my 6-year-old fears on that sad and somber day. Thank you, Auntie!!
I don’t think I ever told her that I thought she was my older sister. I liked having her around. She used to make the best blackberry pie with a delicious, buttery crust. She killed it!!