Chinh,

How can I start? it has been almost three weeks since you leave us. The pain is still in my heart deeply. It hurts too much when I think of you, Tammy, Ngan, and Adam. I just want to say thank you so much for being such a wonderful person and brother in law. My sister was very happy with your love. We can't see each other anymore, but I will keep all of memories about you in my heart forever. I always remember the nights we played Monopoly until 4 A.M. You were the guy who always "cheated" and made us laugh so much. I remember the night we were drinking at your house then we all were drunk and started to call each other " may"  "tao". I never forget your offer to help when I was going through a hard time in my life. You offered me to move to San Jose with you and Ngan. There are so many things I wanted to tell you and let you know that my family does appreciate to have you in our life, but I never had a chance to tell you. I promise I will help Ngan to raise Tammy and Adam. They will be proud about their father. It is so sad when you are gone now, but we all will see each other there later. Ngan and I promise that we will be strong and move on to take care of Tammy and Adam. You will be in my heart forever. See you there!  

If I remember correctly, this was taken at Chinh's bachelor party.  As written in the obituary, Chinh always "cherish the company of his friends"

Hi Chinh,

 I remembered when you first came to work to meet me in Building 2 for the 1st time in 2004. 

We were in the middle of company’s integration, which was so much of fire fighting everyday and projects was piled up to the roof.  Not only you weren’t shy away from the opportunity I've presented but also asking us what else you could do to further off load the works from the team. This is a true character and it’s something cannot be trained on the job.

We would have not been able to accomplish and met many of those tight deliverables without your supports and dedication. 

 I've had a wonderful opportunity to witness you walking down the aisle with your soul made, cry and laugh together. You have done so wells for you and for your family, which I am very sure you're proud of your accomplishment looking down.

 One thing I could never forget is when you learned about the dead of our oldest child, you had immediately contacting me and sharing your condolence with us. Deep inside, we know we'll be O.K. because we have people like you that care about us as a human being.

It was an honor to have someone like you in our team and in our life. 

May gods blessed your family and to help them cope through this difficult time in life.

Sleep wells my friend and one day we shall meet again to enjoy that one special “Ca Phe Sua Da”. Sometime we just have to remind our self, our body is just a vehicle but our soul will live on eternity.  

~Tu