Christopher Dale Guidry
March 12, 1964 - February 25, 2014
Our family has been going through some difficult times. My youngest, Chris, passed away on February 25, this year. It has been a trying time for all of us but we have some beautiful memories of his time with us.
On March 12, 1964 a nurse put a little brown boy next to his mother on a hospital bed. I still see him nestled up to her and that image will always be in my mind.
Like Dr. Dolittle of the children's books and movie, Chris was what I call an animal whisperer. At some level, he seemed to be able to communicate with them. My first memory of that affinity for animals of any kind was that of him having to spend a week in the hospital because, at age 10, he picked up a ground rattler that bit him on a finger. He came close to losing that finger but, eventually, it healed. As a young teen, he had a turtle pen behind the garage. He would have 4 or 5 turtles in that enclosure, feed and water them for a week or so and then release them back into the wild. He loved any kind of animal, from reptiles to foxes. He seemed to be in his element when he was in the woods with his brother Mark.
On January 9 of this year we first learned that he might have cancer. By January 13, we learned that it had already spread from his lungs to his brain, an adrenal gland, his bones and lymph nodes. It was already too late. He was put on hospice and sent home. Earlier, on January 6, he was still at work and it seems like it traveled so fast that, before we knew it, we were on a death watch.
He passed on February 25th. Many of my family said, before it happened, that it was going to happen on that date, that he was waiting until then to die. February 25 was the date that, 23 years earlier, his mother had died. It's uncanny how that happens but it seems to be a real phenomenon that, somehow, a person, knowingly or not, waits until a certain date that is important to them and then passes.
I was privileged to have him in my life for almost 50 years but no child should have to go before a parent. As any parent would, I would have traded places with him in a heartbeat but it was not to be.
And so we have to endure the unendurable.